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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Question.
Do people in your "normal" life know that you're a swinger?
Some guys at the place I "work" just found out and now the entire pub knows.
I mean, it was exactly a secret because my family all know too but I kinda wanted to keep it separate. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Some of our friends know but thats because we have told them. We like to keep it private. X"
That's fair enough if it was your choice to tell them. I would t have minded but one guy told everyone else |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That's a really shit thing of that man to do.
I would hate to be found out. Our best friends know but that's it, I think. I am beginning to think that they have told some of their family members though which I'm annoyed about. |
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No people in our normal life don't know. If they did I hope they'd be mature enough to not blab down the pub like teenagers who've just discovered sex.
I genuinely don't understand people who find other people's sex lives something to gossip about, prurient I think is the word for them |
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"Question.
Do people in your "normal" life know that you're a swinger?
Some guys at the place I "work" just found out and now the entire pub knows.
I mean, it was exactly a secret because my family all know too but I kinda wanted to keep it separate."
you can still keep it separate if any of them dare to mention it to you shut them down by telling them to grow up and get a sex life of their own |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I hope not. If anyone does they’ve never mentioned it.
I’d like to think it would come as a complete shock to the people that know us. Neither of us talk about sex openly and I used to be quite jealous in my younger days so most will assume I still am. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"That's a really shit thing of that man to do.
I would hate to be found out. Our best friends know but that's it, I think. I am beginning to think that they have told some of their family members though which I'm annoyed about. "
That's not great! It's not theirs to tell |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Question.
Do people in your "normal" life know that you're a swinger?
Some guys at the place I "work" just found out and now the entire pub knows.
I mean, it was exactly a secret because my family all know too but I kinda wanted to keep it separate.
you can still keep it separate if any of them dare to mention it to you shut them down by telling them to grow up and get a sex life of their own"
True! One of them keeps messaging me now |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I hope not. If anyone does they’ve never mentioned it.
I’d like to think it would come as a complete shock to the people that know us. Neither of us talk about sex openly and I used to be quite jealous in my younger days so most will assume I still am."
That's not so bad then. Hopefully you manage to keep it under wraps |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"All of our friends know but we hide it from the family not sure they need to know. "
What about work friends? My family all know. My ex husband told them all about it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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How did the guys in work find out about you being a swinger x in anyway it's bad news that they didn't have the decency to keep your secret to themselves x bad thing that they couldn't wait to tell people x i feel sorry for you especially if you're family know too xx  |
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