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Fab is not a sex site it's a swinger site .
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Do you think that fab should only be used by the swinger community.
Do you feel that fab is going down hill because of it being used by people like me who are clearly not into the swinging lifestyle .
And if you could would you kick people like me from the site .
I'm not asking this to cause any trouble I'm genuinely interested in your opinions .
This post came about because I was reading through old forum threads that sounded interesting based off of thier title today. And I kept coming across the lines fab is not a sex site it's a swinger site what ever that means .
surely a site like this can be what ever you want it to be .After all if you use the tools the site provides you with ,you can make it so you only realy show up in the searches of people looking for the same as you . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I suppose you could debate all day on what swinging is nowadays, some purists would say it’s only a couples activity where they swap with other couples etc; but I think that’s long been outdated. Everyone has their own ideas and preferences on it, swinging is for all classifications now in my opinion and could be defined in many ways. Swinging really implies swinging from one sex partner to another and covers all activities which are mutually agreed and most importantly without some sort of financial arrangement. As real swinging should involve some sort of sexual activity to be validated then fab could be described as a sex site too.
There’s all sorts on here and those that are honest and open, who genuinely represent themselves should always be welcome if they are polite and respectful of others. |
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It depends how you define 'swinging'. Ask 100 people on the street and most will mention couple swaps, carkeys in a bowl and anonymous sex. Does this mean we bar any one who doesn't attend car key parties? Or who is single?
I think swinging and the attitudes of swingers needs to move with the times if it doesn't want to get left behind. It should be a broad church that welcomes both "traditional" couple swapping and casual hook ups. The two aren't mutually exclusive. Add in Fet and kink and you are on your way to a pretty inclusive scene
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We only meet single men so by the original definition I don’t think we’re really swingers. Everyone should be free to use this site how they like but I do wonder why singles who only meet singles are here. Surely it’s easier to get meets from other sites and apps. |
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"We only meet single men so by the original definition I don’t think we’re really swingers. Everyone should be free to use this site how they like but I do wonder why singles who only meet singles are here. Surely it’s easier to get meets from other sites and apps."
I personally think the answer here is lots of other sites are labeled as dating sites and plenty of guys/girls are looking for a hook up not a date as such. This site is a mechanism for meeting like minded individuals for above most things sex. I know plety will disagree with this statement but this is what I think. |
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OP, the site has evolved remarkably over the years since its genesis.
I think it caters for everyone and anyone whose intensions are honourable, genuine, pleasurable and in keeping with the spirit for what this site is all about.
As for kicking people like you (or me) off this site: it's a choice between eliminating verified and paid-up site-supporting non-swingers VERSUS the insurmountable fake profiles. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If it was for swinging only then why allow selectable interests if you're not into threesomes, soft and full swap, group sex, etc
Until FabExhibitionst is started then we'll remain on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Plenty of couples enjoy having both men and women for a third and that's part of "traditional swinging". And some of those on here for casual sex also attend the clubs, parties, and gangbangs that also make up the scene. So the casual and swinging scenes are not exclusive of each other.
If those the play alone want to hook up as well then what's the issue? Plenty of us are on here alone. Xx |
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"If it was for swinging only then why allow selectable interests if you're not into threesomes, soft and full swap, group sex, etc
Until FabExhibitionst is started then we'll remain on here."
But all those are part of swinging. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We only meet single men so by the original definition I don’t think we’re really swingers. Everyone should be free to use this site how they like but I do wonder why singles who only meet singles are here. Surely it’s easier to get meets from other sites and apps.
I personally think the answer here is lots of other sites are labeled as dating sites and plenty of guys/girls are looking for a hook up not a date as such. This site is a mechanism for meeting like minded individuals for above most things sex. I know plety will disagree with this statement but this is what I think. "
Fair point and I agree. |
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By *elkieWoman
over a year ago
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"Do you think that fab should only be used by the swinger community.
Do you feel that fab is going down hill because of it being used by people like me who are clearly not into the swinging lifestyle .
And if you could would you kick people like me from the site .
I'm not asking this to cause any trouble I'm genuinely interested in your opinions .
This post came about because I was reading through old forum threads that sounded interesting based off of thier title today. And I kept coming across the lines fab is not a sex site it's a swinger site what ever that means .
surely a site like this can be what ever you want it to be .After all if you use the tools the site provides you with ,you can make it so you only realy show up in the searches of people looking for the same as you ."
Specifically, I think fab is going downhill because of the number of people who don’t read profiles and so waste my time messaging, and the number of people who assume that online = horny and looking to play now. Also the people who put zero effort in. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"***I think swinging is something you either get or you don't.***
As a single guy I know I certainly distinguished between swinging events and just going out to get laid."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think anyone should be kicked off - apart from people who get abusive when their demands aren't met.
Too many people assume Swingers fuck anyone who asks, hence the 'it's a sex site!' cries. 
Swinging involves sex. It's not guaranteed however.
Voyeurs, exhibitionists all inclusive. |
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