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"Why did you bring it up? Does it bother you? It shouldn't as disabled people have a sex life too."
Maybe he's in a wheelchair and wanting to try a club? Or asking for a friend? There was nothing to suggest he has a problem with it.
OP - it wouldn't put us off, personality is more important |
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"Why did you bring it up? Does it bother you? It shouldn't as disabled people have a sex life too."
Presumably he's asking because he uses a wheelchair? And we wheelies are DEFINITELY off-putting to some, unfortunately. We've had lots of people cease contact the second they realise. |
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"Why did you bring it up? Does it bother you? It shouldn't as disabled people have a sex life too.
Presumably he's asking because he uses a wheelchair? And we wheelies are DEFINITELY off-putting to some, unfortunately. We've had lots of people cease contact the second they realise."
I was going to say that’s unbelievable but sadly I’ve been around too long so instead I’ll just say I’m really sorry that happens.
I wouldn’t be put off in the slightest although I may be a little extra wary about making sure the person was within whatever physical limits they may or may not have. |
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"If you saw a guy on a wheelchair at a swing event would it put u off"
No, I don't think so, unless he had a horrible personality. THAT would put me off, but that would put me off about anyone! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thank you for the replies I use an electric wheelchair so a lot of clubs are inaccessible. I once took a friend who lifted me in but he wasn’t keen so it’s hard |
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"Thank you for the replies I use an electric wheelchair so a lot of clubs are inaccessible. I once took a friend who lifted me in but he wasn’t keen so it’s hard "
Well you can come with us anytime you like as long as I get to sit on your lap and you give me a ride hunni xxx |
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I would be blown out of the water to see someone in a wheelchair at a club. It wouldn't be the wheelchair but the fact that I can see them that would blow my mind. Once I got over that it wouldn't effect me either way. Some people have wheelchairs and some people don't. |
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"Thank you for the replies I use an electric wheelchair so a lot of clubs are inaccessible. I once took a friend who lifted me in but he wasn’t keen so it’s hard
Well you can come with us anytime you like as long as I get to sit on your lap and you give me a ride hunni xxx"
Where do you go and anything for a lady as beautiful as you xx |
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"I would be blown out of the water to see someone in a wheelchair at a club. It wouldn't be the wheelchair but the fact that I can see them that would blow my mind. Once I got over that it wouldn't effect me either way. Some people have wheelchairs and some people don't."
Why’s that xx |
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"Definitely wouldn't put me off. I'm trying to think about how accessible clubs I have been to are. I would say JayDees is a no, but I think VAs is a yes."
Where is that |
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"If you saw a guy on a wheelchair at a swing event would it put u off"
On a wheelchair as apposed to using one? Well I'd be a wee bit concerned with what he was doing in it and if the owner of the wheelchair gave him permission to be in there.
Unless of course you are meaning a picture of a guy stuck on a wheelchair like some sort of sponsorship or endorsement like "you'll be fucked so hard you will need a wheelchair. For best prices on wheelchairs, come down to Deals on Wheels and use discount code FAB2"
First I think we maybe need to establish what you mean by "on a wheelchair" so I'll defer my answer. |
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"Thank you for the replies I use an electric wheelchair so a lot of clubs are inaccessible. I once took a friend who lifted me in but he wasn’t keen so it’s hard "
Oh shit!!! I bet all you judgemental pricks that assumed he was saying wheelchair users are off-putting wish they deleted their comments now. 
In your attempts to look inclusive and "woke" you exposed yourself as being judgemental and ignorant cunts.
OP get in the private messages of everyone that said they wouldn't be put off and charm them with your personality that they said was more important and see how that goes. |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
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I used to really fancy a guy I worked beside who was a wheelchair user.
Clubs are not very accessible. I don’t use a wheelchair but I do have issues walking at times.
If I fancied someone it wouldn’t bother me if they were in a wheelchair. I’m not sure if your question is aimed at clubs or the people that go to clubs.
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In response to my comments about being blown away by seeing you is because I am blind. Completely and totally. To those who jump on the "you can't use a computer" stand... I am blind, use NVDA from nonvisualdevelopment.org to access my computer and Voice Over to access my iPhone. I also work as a software developer.
To be utterly blatant, my disability is invisible :D x |
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"In response to my comments about being blown away by seeing you is because I am blind. Completely and totally. To those who jump on the "you can't use a computer" stand... I am blind, use NVDA from nonvisualdevelopment.org to access my computer and Voice Over to access my iPhone. I also work as a software developer.
To be utterly blatant, my disability is invisible :D x"
This comment wins the Internet. Fucking amazing. Talk about a plot twist.
You totally played the Uno reverse card.
"What do you think about disabled guys in clubs?"
"I'd be surprised to see one there"
"I'm disabled, why would you be surprised to see me?"
"Because I'm 100% blind and I'd be surprised to see anyone"
Fucking perfect interaction. See, just because you have a disability doesn't mean you don't have the horn or a sense of humour
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"In response to my comments about being blown away by seeing you is because I am blind. Completely and totally. To those who jump on the "you can't use a computer" stand... I am blind, use NVDA from nonvisualdevelopment.org to access my computer and Voice Over to access my iPhone. I also work as a software developer.
To be utterly blatant, my disability is invisible :D x
This comment wins the Internet. Fucking amazing. Talk about a plot twist.
You totally played the Uno reverse card.
"What do you think about disabled guys in clubs?"
"I'd be surprised to see one there"
"I'm disabled, why would you be surprised to see me?"
"Because I'm 100% blind and I'd be surprised to see anyone"
Fucking perfect interaction. See, just because you have a disability doesn't mean you don't have the horn or a sense of humour
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To be fair you gotta take a joke, as a wheelchair user if I didn’t I wouldn’t be able to stand up for myself |
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"In response to my comments about being blown away by seeing you is because I am blind. Completely and totally. To those who jump on the "you can't use a computer" stand... I am blind, use NVDA from nonvisualdevelopment.org to access my computer and Voice Over to access my iPhone. I also work as a software developer.
To be utterly blatant, my disability is invisible :D x
This comment wins the Internet. Fucking amazing. Talk about a plot twist.
You totally played the Uno reverse card.
"What do you think about disabled guys in clubs?"
"I'd be surprised to see one there"
"I'm disabled, why would you be surprised to see me?"
"Because I'm 100% blind and I'd be surprised to see anyone"
Fucking perfect interaction. See, just because you have a disability doesn't mean you don't have the horn or a sense of humour
To be fair you gotta take a joke, as a wheelchair user if I didn’t I wouldn’t be able to stand up for myself"
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"Thank you for the replies I use an electric wheelchair so a lot of clubs are inaccessible. I once took a friend who lifted me in but he wasn’t keen so it’s hard
Well you can come with us anytime you like as long as I get to sit on your lap and you give me a ride hunni xxx"
thats a lovely comment/reply............fair play x |
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No.
But....we travelled to a seaside town to meet a couple in a hotel, luckily we said it was just for a social.
They seemed an average sized couple, according to their profile but when they walked in she was very overweight and disabled.
Not really sure what they expected, it was confusing, what did they expect to happen.
Able bodied or disabled, don't like liars. |
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"If you saw a guy on a wheelchair at a swing event would it put u off"
no not at all why should it anyone and everyone has a rights to be in a club if they want ...as for playing then if the attraction is there then yep not a problem |
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"No.
But....we travelled to a seaside town to meet a couple in a hotel, luckily we said it was just for a social.
They seemed an average sized couple, according to their profile but when they walked in she was very overweight and disabled.
Not really sure what they expected, it was confusing, what did they expect to happen.
Able bodied or disabled, don't like liars."
I'm fat and disabled. He's tall, slim and disabled (but not in a way you'd observe outwardly). |
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"No.
But....we travelled to a seaside town to meet a couple in a hotel, luckily we said it was just for a social.
They seemed an average sized couple, according to their profile but when they walked in she was very overweight and disabled.
Not really sure what they expected, it was confusing, what did they expect to happen.
Able bodied or disabled, don't like liars.
I'm fat and disabled. He's tall, slim and disabled (but not in a way you'd observe outwardly). "
Would you describe yourself as average size and not mention you were disabled if we arranged to meet.
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"No.
But....we travelled to a seaside town to meet a couple in a hotel, luckily we said it was just for a social.
They seemed an average sized couple, according to their profile but when they walked in she was very overweight and disabled.
Not really sure what they expected, it was confusing, what did they expect to happen.
Able bodied or disabled, don't like liars.
I'm fat and disabled. He's tall, slim and disabled (but not in a way you'd observe outwardly).
Would you describe yourself as average size and not mention you were disabled if we arranged to meet.
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Nope. But our pics are up to date and representative so should be obvious how much chub I have |
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"No.
But....we travelled to a seaside town to meet a couple in a hotel, luckily we said it was just for a social.
They seemed an average sized couple, according to their profile but when they walked in she was very overweight and disabled.
Not really sure what they expected, it was confusing, what did they expect to happen.
Able bodied or disabled, don't like liars.
I'm fat and disabled. He's tall, slim and disabled (but not in a way you'd observe outwardly).
Would you describe yourself as average size and not mention you were disabled if we arranged to meet.
Nope. But our pics are up to date and representative so should be obvious how much chub I have "
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"No.
But....we travelled to a seaside town to meet a couple in a hotel, luckily we said it was just for a social.
They seemed an average sized couple, according to their profile but when they walked in she was very overweight and disabled.
Not really sure what they expected, it was confusing, what did they expect to happen.
Able bodied or disabled, don't like liars.
I'm fat and disabled. He's tall, slim and disabled (but not in a way you'd observe outwardly).
Would you describe yourself as average size and not mention you were disabled if we arranged to meet.
Nope. But our pics are up to date and representative so should be obvious how much chub I have
There you go. "
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"If you saw a guy on a wheelchair at a swing event would it put u off
I am registered disabled and don't even mention my disabilities before meets. "
I do but am only as I’m on a chair |
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"I must admit that I've been told a number of times on here that women are repulsed by my having a false eye. Not a great ego boost!"
Anyone repulsed by that isn't worth your time of day, I'm sure you agree. I'm personally likely to think it's pretty cool (but maybe because I'm used to being around people who have bits missing a lot of the time ) |
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"I must admit that I've been told a number of times on here that women are repulsed by my having a false eye. Not a great ego boost!
Anyone repulsed by that isn't worth your time of day, I'm sure you agree. I'm personally likely to think it's pretty cool (but maybe because I'm used to being around people who have bits missing a lot of the time )"
Thank you, I appreciate your words |
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"Why did you bring it up? Does it bother you? It shouldn't as disabled people have a sex life too.
Presumably he's asking because he uses a wheelchair? And we wheelies are DEFINITELY off-putting to some, unfortunately. We've had lots of people cease contact the second they realise."
Guess they wheeled themselves out and away.
Far worse situations go on here and in society daily towards people or other humans.
Then terms like preference are used to Dumb it all down..
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"Why did you bring it up? Does it bother you? It shouldn't as disabled people have a sex life too.
Presumably he's asking because he uses a wheelchair? And we wheelies are DEFINITELY off-putting to some, unfortunately. We've had lots of people cease contact the second they realise.
Guess they wheeled themselves out and away.
Far worse situations go on here and in society daily towards people or other humans.
Then terms like preference are used to Dumb it all down..
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It's incredibly unpleasant to know that having a disability is the reason people cease contact. It's irrelevant what other things are going on in the world or on here, the question at hand is about disability. |
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"If you saw a guy on a wheelchair at a swing event would it put u off
I'm a wheelchair user and if I went to an event I'd treat people like I would hope they would treat me. "
Out in public or work place is where the real deal is towards people with Disabilitys.
Look up what every council has done or is doing .
Don't know about fab on this subject but are people from all walks of life and on this platform . |
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"Why did you bring it up? Does it bother you? It shouldn't as disabled people have a sex life too.
Presumably he's asking because he uses a wheelchair? And we wheelies are DEFINITELY off-putting to some, unfortunately. We've had lots of people cease contact the second they realise.
Guess they wheeled themselves out and away.
Far worse situations go on here and in society daily towards people or other humans.
Then terms like preference are used to Dumb it all down..
It's incredibly unpleasant to know that having a disability is the reason people cease contact. It's irrelevant what other things are going on in the world or on here, the question at hand is about disability. "
Sure I agree.
What my shareing was . First we need to be acknowledged as humans. Male/female. What ever skin colour,religion status etc etc etc.
Across the Board then we can start to implement forms and help in many area,s ..
As for what. I mentioned it shows people/people's are being killed and persecuted all over the world every min. Because they are viewed as sub human.
Even breaking news from the USA in buffalo state this Sunday morning. Mass shooting and killing
A mad man has killed many for racial hatred.
When killing is becoming the norm daily around us. First we need to stop and stamp the killings,save lives . We all have a voice.
Then we can spread services and other help many.
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"If you saw a guy on a wheelchair at a swing event would it put u off
Not at all. As long as there's an attraction, good convo, laughs and all comfortable its not an issue. "
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"If you saw a guy on a wheelchair at a swing event would it put u off
I'm a wheelchair user and if I went to an event I'd treat people like I would hope they would treat me.
Out in public or work place is where the real deal is towards people with Disabilitys.
Look up what every council has done or is doing .
Don't know about fab on this subject but are people from all walks of life and on this platform ."
Out in public, things aren't so rosy for people with disabilities. I can't use the train because all our local stations have steps and no lifts. Most of the shops on our high street have steps and no ramps. We can't go out anywhere without doing extensive research about accessibility and I am frequently excluded from participating in aspects of my young daughter's life due to lack of disability access. |
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"If you saw a guy on a wheelchair at a swing event would it put u off
I'm a wheelchair user and if I went to an event I'd treat people like I would hope they would treat me.
Out in public or work place is where the real deal is towards people with Disabilitys.
Look up what every council has done or is doing .
Don't know about fab on this subject but are people from all walks of life and on this platform .
Out in public, things aren't so rosy for people with disabilities. I can't use the train because all our local stations have steps and no lifts. Most of the shops on our high street have steps and no ramps. We can't go out anywhere without doing extensive research about accessibility and I am frequently excluded from participating in aspects of my young daughter's life due to lack of disability access. "
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"Why did you bring it up? Does it bother you? It shouldn't as disabled people have a sex life too.
Presumably he's asking because he uses a wheelchair? And we wheelies are DEFINITELY off-putting to some, unfortunately. We've had lots of people cease contact the second they realise.
Guess they wheeled themselves out and away.
Far worse situations go on here and in society daily towards people or other humans.
Then terms like preference are used to Dumb it all down..
It's incredibly unpleasant to know that having a disability is the reason people cease contact. It's irrelevant what other things are going on in the world or on here, the question at hand is about disability. "
Why is it incredibly unpleasant if they aren't looking for X?
I won't be shamed into meeting someone I'm not compatible with.
It doesn't make either of us a lesser person.  |
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"Why did you bring it up? Does it bother you? It shouldn't as disabled people have a sex life too.
Presumably he's asking because he uses a wheelchair? And we wheelies are DEFINITELY off-putting to some, unfortunately. We've had lots of people cease contact the second they realise.
Guess they wheeled themselves out and away.
Far worse situations go on here and in society daily towards people or other humans.
Then terms like preference are used to Dumb it all down..
It's incredibly unpleasant to know that having a disability is the reason people cease contact. It's irrelevant what other things are going on in the world or on here, the question at hand is about disability.
Why is it incredibly unpleasant if they aren't looking for X?
I won't be shamed into meeting someone I'm not compatible with.
It doesn't make either of us a lesser person. "
It's incredibly unpleasant after they've sent every platitude in the books, then the second they realise you use a wheelchair, they just ghost or block without further comment. One minute, you're God's gift (allegedly) and the next, so unpalatable that they can't even abide saying "thanks but no thanks". |
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