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Have you ever been recognised?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Has anyone ever seen your naked pics on here and messaged you to say they know you? How did you feel? Horrified or turned on?
It makes us nervous putting pics on to be honest because we are really well known where we live and it would spread like wild fire. |
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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago
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"Has anyone ever seen your naked pics on here and messaged you to say they know you? How did you feel? Horrified or turned on?
It makes us nervous putting pics on to be honest because we are really well known where we live and it would spread like wild fire."
Us? Your a single male profile |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Has anyone ever seen your naked pics on here and messaged you to say they know you? How did you feel? Horrified or turned on?
It makes us nervous putting pics on to be honest because we are really well known where we live and it would spread like wild fire.
Us? Your a single male profile"
Yeah, I initially opened the profile to show the Mrs what was on offer on here. I really need to change it but not sure how tbh.
I'll look into it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yep! I’m be had a school friend recognise me, a couple of. Weeks ago. We all went out for dinner unaware just a day befire. Next day she messaged me and said ‘ oh btw we are ******** on fab !!! Shocked at first but ok with it now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have recognised a few and either left subtle hints when out and about to see if they pick up on them or messaged on here asking if it was them. Some love that I recognised them and said next time say hi. Other liked the fact they did not know who I was but knew I had fully seen them. Never out people or approach them in a obvious way unless they say to |
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I was chatting on here and a lady local asked me over for a anon fuck turns out she lives next street I went did the deed turned up fucked and left she was bent over waiting I see her around at the corner shop she hasn’t a clue |
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I’ve bumped into a few people at saunas or events. Most chat to clear the air.
A few have left immediately but were ok at later events.
I told a few friends on the nudist beach a while back that I use Fab & they were totally shocked as I’m so quiet on the beach. 
Everyone has been ok with it & some are closer more open friends now.  |
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By *3xDECouple
over a year ago
nottingham |
Yes Daye has been. Recognised her by a photo she had taken over halloween. The guy that found it was a friend of hers that she had also not long reconnected with.
He invited us to his unit as Daye loves cars to take photos on his cars, which turned her on somewhat although nothing has come of it yet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes while working, I visit peoples houses I had to meet the guys daughter there, she was smiling, just as I was about to leave she whispered “ I’ve seen your cock on fabs “ , |
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"Ok perhaps not real life as such, but someone in a club recognised me by my arse. Was munching away but you get the jist 
Wait, I know that face……. 
It was you, wasn’t it?! "
I knew I left my bike somewhere….. |
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We get recognised all the time. But we are open and have face pics on here. We got chased through the airport in Majorca by a guy that just couldn’t believe he had spotted someone on his hotlist. But we also had a fantastic meet with a Chinese delivery guy that recognised us when he delivered some food. |
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I had a message from a guy who's kid goes to the same school as my son. He said he sees me on the school run and always wondered if my tits were as good naked. He was very pleased once he knew it was me x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would love it, my wife doesn't want any face pictures on here so it wouldn't be easy. But I love the idea of friends or work mates seeing us and telling us. Even just a neighbour or something.  |
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It makes us nervous putting pics on to be honest because we are really well known where we live and it would spread like wild fire."
Famous and from Rotherham. Are you William Hague and Lynne Perry ? |
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Ive seen a few locals out dogging or at meets etc.
One woman would avoid me in the street.
Another female would just grin when she saw me.
One guy panicked at a sauna & left in a hurry. He’s local & I nearly dated his wife when she was single. At the next meet, he carried on fkg a CD.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When the wife and I had joint profile we found a few guys from work on here, I think there were 5 guys and no one recognised us until a night out when mrs wore the same dress as in our gallery
Was a slightly awkward night lol |
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I recognised a girl on here a few months ago. We got messaging and we even arranged a social meet.
Prior to our proposed meet, I asked her if she was the person that I thought she was.
She soon after deleted her account
 . WTF lol |
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Not knowingly been recognised as nobody's said anything. I may well have been though as I have face pic on my profile and the "see who's near" button shows quite a few Fabbers within a few miles. I may have passed a Fabber in the street and not known!
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Yes have been recognised before by someone close to the family …
But also messaged after being out in Public and couples have messaged me and said they recognised me (probs the hair ha ha)…. That I find even weirder as my memory is awful and is never remember a face in real life after seeing just a pic on fab .. |
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We were previously on here under our given names with our full face photos. A rejected guy took all our details and passed round to our families and workmates!!!
The sh*t hit the fan so we were forced to take a break, re evaluate and come back far more careful
Now we only share photos with others after we are happy with the people we have been chatting to.
Take care! |
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By *ilffadMan
over a year ago
swansea |
That's outrageous!
Not been recognised but have recognised several from here, not approached or contacted them, let them carry on, discretion is key!
"We were previously on here under our given names with our full face photos. A rejected guy took all our details and passed round to our families and workmates!!!
The sh*t hit the fan so we were forced to take a break, re evaluate and come back far more careful
Now we only share photos with others after we are happy with the people we have been chatting to.
Take care!"
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"Has anyone ever seen your naked pics on here and messaged you to say they know you? How did you feel? Horrified or turned on?
It makes us nervous putting pics on to be honest because we are really well known where we live and it would spread like wild fire."
Got recognized at parties or events in the past. Doesn't bother me though!were all humans. We love sex x |
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By *edfleetMan
over a year ago
covent garden |
Once by a member of staff at work. He sent me an email to ask if it was me.
A friend of my eldest messaged me on n here to ask if he knew me
And one of my customers from Germany whilst over here on a buying trip. |
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By *andD300Couple
over a year ago
london |
Somebody recognised C from where they grew up and the wife sent us a message telling us so. I think it was meant in a nice way but I blocked them anyway just in case.
We lived on a small Greek island for a few years and a couple we knew from there popped up here. They blocked us. |
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Yes by a freind of a freind I used to have causal sex with now and then when I was 19. She recognised me on my couples account and messaged me from a couples account. We have no public face pics, can't believe she recognised me after all these years. |
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Had a case of mutual recognisation at a job once... We both looked at each other, penny dropping at the same moment and gave each other a nod. I'd never tell anyone though and I assume they wouldn't either...that's the swingers code after all! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We've recognised people but never said anything to them as they haven't asked if anyone has recognised them, and feel they deserve that discretion.
No one has recognised us as yet, though that might have changed considering the photo of posted last night of my barely pixelated face.  |
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My wife and I were in IKEA when a couple in the a check out a few away from us kept looking over at us with smiles on their faces, I thought I'd recognised them but couldn't put my finger on it until later in the day, we'd seen them at Abfab one night but not to speak to. |
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It makes us nervous putting pics on to be honest because we are really well known where we live and it would spread like wild fire.
Famous and from Rotherham. Are you William Hague and Lynne Perry ?"
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..or the Chuckle Brothers |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd actually be quite turned up by it. the thought of a female friend of mine recognising me on here, means she's also on here and I'd hope she would message me too lol |
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Had a few from work, one there was no sexual interest so we just blocked. The other we messaged for a while and it was only after we swapped face pics she recognised J! We chatted for a while but then they came off fabs x |
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We've had this very early on..
My eldest son trains in mma.. one of the guys was on here and recognised us.. he didn't say at first just send us messages saying he saw us there.. on different occasions saying he saw me in the car park... worked out it was someone from the gym.. did freak us out.. we reported him and his acc was removed |
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"I have yes a few times. At the end of the day they are on here too so can’t really say much "
Exactly, if they recognize you they too MUST be on here so not a prob me thinks.( Unless they do something silly). |
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We got recognised by a local guy, messaged us saying this but didn’t initially identify himself that became a bit scary, finally identified himself and now whenever we see him in our local he constantly stares at the mrs, that makes her feel uneasy, I want to mention something to him but the mrs doesn’t want to in case of repercussions |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I recognised someone I went to school with and debated about whether or not to message them. In the end I did and it was a great choice - I ended up at hers the following afternoon and we soon made up for lost time
I also recognised a couple that came into my work a few weeks back but kept quiet as I didn’t want to catch them off-guard. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've actually had the reverse experience.
Was chatting to a guy in town the other day, total stranger before this, and then stumbled on his profile when looking down the "who's near you list".
I've blocked him so he wont know, but it's still quite odd when I bump into him next! |
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we got recognised to many times a guy i played football with and two different cpls in supermarkets and a few times in Newcastle pubs ,my hairstyle gave me away so we took our face pic off, none since not that it bothered us as no one was pushy even got noticed in Gran Canaria at a 'normal' pub |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We and in particularly Mrs Magic gets recognised a lot in the shops or town. Usually resulting in a message to say they say seen us/her.
It's never been a problem and no one has ever approached us in public. |
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I was recognised in a roundabout way. I appeared on local TV news talking about a work thing. Next thing I know, I have a couple of messages from fab friends saying: ‘hi Simon, saw you on TV’. It made me wonder who else I had played with over the years that was casually watching TV and saw me.
One of the people who got in touch afterwards was someone I hadn’t played with in years. It kick-started a nice period of playing with them again. |
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Had a lovely guy send me a message saying a video of me was on a Internet porn site.
The site took it down straight away and to be fair, the guy who filmed it was very apologetic and said he deleted his copy and told us of another site he had uploaded it.
It took us ages to find it and it was just a quick glance of my face so not too much drama. |
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Different issue: there are a number of swingers at my gym. I know I have seen them at clubs. They may or may not remember me. I expect we will all get used to the cross-over in most places, though perhaps not work or family. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yep at a private garden party I was greeted with it’s so ‘fab’ulous to see you. They were known swingers too.
Everyone stared at me and I just went red and laughed and drank gin lol |
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I'm a delivery driver and worked out who a couple on fab are who I deliver to - only a photo of her pussy and a pic of his cock on profile but know it's them from names and who's near - too scared to say anything in case I'm wrong lol. |
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"Has anyone ever seen your naked pics on here and messaged you to say they know you? How did you feel? Horrified or turned on?
It makes us nervous putting pics on to be honest because we are really well known where we live and it would spread like wild fire."
Never although over the years we have received messages from three guys that he knows, inc a cousin, who were interested in a meet.
None of them have ever met the wife. |
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"Someone messaged on Fab saying they saw us in the shops earlier that day. We appreciate they didn't approach us, lots of respect.
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Think this is the way I’d approach this. Incredibly shy in person so wouldn’t have guts to say it. Also not too sure how it would go down.
Would love for someone to recognise me and mention it after that fact. |
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Yeah. A few have messaged me on here with my real name, my school (there’s a few I went to school with on here ) and other details.
My friends and family all know about fab, so nobody can out me. So I’m not really that bothered. |
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"Has anyone ever seen your naked pics on here and messaged you to say they know you? How did you feel? Horrified or turned on?
It makes us nervous putting pics on to be honest because we are really well known where we live and it would spread like wild fire."
Make sure any photos don't show inside your house or garden that can easily be recognised, it's a real give away.
We had a couple send us a pic with her standing naked next to a fireplace with a photo of her kids easily seen behind her.
Watch out for jewellery, tattoos, and personal stuff.
Give each photo a good check before posting, put face ones as private and we only do friends with people we have actually met as you tend to get loads of random friends requests.
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Yup.. had a message on here from a blank profile naming us. Really put the wife off for a while
And had a Single guy approach the Hubby while at work asking why we never replied to his message on here.
Not good experiences for us. |
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We don't show our face pics openly so yeah it's a surprise when people message and say they've seen us at somewhere we've been.
I wouldn't want to be approached in an every day kind of situation.
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Been recognised at clubs but mainly because we say we are going somewhere and our profile is quite clear to know where you’ll find us
By same process people have found us on here without us giving our names at clubs but recognising pictures from a club review.
As for real life recognition, not yet. We try and limit pics that may give away our real identities. |
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I often get messages on here to say “I’ve seen you at X place today” ~ though it’s usually not glamorous places (Aldi is a regular haha)
Sometimes in pubs and shops I’ll be approached and men will say they’ve seen me on fab. A waiter in a restaurant approached me to say he’d watched me playing at a club. Everyone has always been polite. |
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Yes. We saw an old friend and his wife pop up on a new profile, we kept an eye on it. They looked at our profile a few times, then after 18 months they messaged us. We said we knew one of them and they replied though it was you NH. Had some great chats and night. It’s all about discretion on both sides |
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Been stopped by a random guy in Sainsbury’s to tell us he liked our stuff on Fab and one guy messaged us to say he had seen us at a Jimmy Carr gig and even told us what seats we were in lol.
Doesn’t bother us. |
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