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Can you have good sex in a club?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Personally I'd like to meet at a club have a social then back to the hotel . More privacy less distractions . I mean surley it's a quickie at a club if you are fucking at a club ? I'd like to make the most of it so I'd personally go back to the hotel anyone else do this ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As above you can have as much privacy as you like at a club.
But there's also the fact that watching others can be a huge turn on, or being watched, not to mention all the gorgeous people and their outfits or nudity.
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
Stoke area |
"Personally I'd like to meet at a club have a social then back to the hotel . More privacy less distractions . I mean surley it's a quickie at a club if you are fucking at a club ? I'd like to make the most of it so I'd personally go back to the hotel anyone else do this ?"
It's rare that I play in an open area in clubs. I prefer a private room with a locked door , so no distractions. However, sometimes I choose to be in a bigger area where I can hear or see others fucking and it's a turn on, not a distraction.
I wouldn't need to go on to a hotel, after a good session at a club  |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
Personally I don’t like it, all that plastic & bottles of disinfectant, sweaty smelly rooms, it’s just not what I’m about with swinging. I like clubs though for socialising, flirting, meeting other swingers. |
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I’ve had some mind blowing play sessions at clubs! If I’m after a longer relaxed session then I go in a private room. If I’m horny and just want to get down and have fun then open rooms or the dark room offer just as much fun.
You should go along to a club one night without pre arranging to meet someone there. Go along and see how things work, you’ll be surprised how relaxed it is |
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By *elkieWoman
over a year ago
Durham |
"Personally I'd like to meet at a club have a social then back to the hotel . More privacy less distractions . I mean surley it's a quickie at a club if you are fucking at a club ? I'd like to make the most of it so I'd personally go back to the hotel anyone else do this ?"
Well, no, because in a club I feel safe because I have the staff at my back. Otherwise its just a one night stand with a stranger I met in a swingers club. |
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Are you talking about yourself having sex at a club or watching your wife as I know you’ve mentioned a few times that’s ultimately what you want to experience. For me I preferred random meets at clubs at first until I became a bit more confident about myself and tried to overcome the anxiety that if we had a hotel meet that I’d be a disappointment  My hubby was great and allowed me to choose how I wanted to experience this new lifestyle with no pressure or trying to talk me into doing things a certain way. We have had a couple of social/hotel meets now and have enjoyed the experience but we still like a mixture of both  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Are you talking about yourself having sex at a club or watching your wife as I know you’ve mentioned a few times that’s ultimately what you want to experience. For me I preferred random meets at clubs at first until I became a bit more confident about myself and tried to overcome the anxiety that if we had a hotel meet that I’d be a disappointment My hubby was great and allowed me to choose how I wanted to experience this new lifestyle with no pressure or trying to talk me into doing things a certain way. We have had a couple of social/hotel meets now and have enjoyed the experience but we still like a mixture of both "
That's right yeah .I mean my Mrs is quite anxious like yourself so she's definitely not game for hotel meets at all . She has mentioned she thinks a club would be the best way to pop our cherries which I agree I think I'd feel more comfortable knowing there's no pressure to do anything the first time and set boundaries. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Are you talking about yourself having sex at a club or watching your wife as I know you’ve mentioned a few times that’s ultimately what you want to experience. For me I preferred random meets at clubs at first until I became a bit more confident about myself and tried to overcome the anxiety that if we had a hotel meet that I’d be a disappointment My hubby was great and allowed me to choose how I wanted to experience this new lifestyle with no pressure or trying to talk me into doing things a certain way. We have had a couple of social/hotel meets now and have enjoyed the experience but we still like a mixture of both "
Just want to ease into it slowly . I mean we agreed if anything was to happen would rather go back to a hotel room |
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By *JohnMan
over a year ago
Newcastle upon Tyne |
For me, private sex and club sex are quite different things, and there's not much point in comparing them. I'm happy that I can have both.
Private sex is for people I'm already close to. It's intimate, and magnifies the closeness.
Club sex is good filthy fun. I particularly love the presence of others, hearing them enjoying their own play, looking up and seeing what else has been going on while I've been away in my own little world. |
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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago
stockport |
I love being watched.
I’ve had some amazing sex in clubs.
I definitely wouldn’t pay club prices for a social (as in 121 first meeting). A local pub or cafe will do for that.
Clubs for me are great. The atmosphere, dressing down…… all part of the fun for me  |
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"Personally I don’t like it, all that plastic & bottles of disinfectant, sweaty smelly rooms, it’s just not what I’m about with swinging. I like clubs though for socialising, flirting, meeting other swingers."
Have to say I agree. I tend to socialise in clubs rather than play.
That being said - they do provide a ‘safe’ and convenient space for group play and it’s safer for a woman to play with a single guy she hasn’t met before in a club setting. X |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
leeds |
I've had really great sex in a club. I don't want privacy or intimacy - I can have that with my partner whenever I want. I like to watch and be watched, the opportunity to play with as many guys as I like, and to know it's safe. |
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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago
Camberley occasionally doncaster |
"Personally I'd like to meet at a club have a social then back to the hotel . More privacy less distractions . I mean surley it's a quickie at a club if you are fucking at a club ? I'd like to make the most of it so I'd personally go back to the hotel anyone else do this ?"
Depends what you want. In clubs there are generally more options (pools, Jacuzzis, sex swings..)
Sex doesn't have to be a quickie. That depends on you. As long as you are comfortable near others there is often the choice of having others join in too.
You may find that many women are more comfortable with a first meet in a club rather than a hotel as there is more protection with it being more public. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've never been to a club... When people say watched, is there never a worry about random guys you don't want to entertain joining in?"
Not really. Anyone that approaches you just give a stern “no” and they SHOULD leave you alone. We haven’t had any problems so far.
Some clubs have rooms with windows so you can be watched without anyone interrupting. |
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"Personally I'd like to meet at a club have a social then back to the hotel . More privacy less distractions . I mean surley it's a quickie at a club if you are fucking at a club ? I'd like to make the most of it so I'd personally go back to the hotel anyone else do this ?"
Hotels and folks homes are generally better, more comfortable (last club we visited the rooms were cold and only had cold, shiny mats to lie on  ). We've met couples in clubs before and been taken back to their place for the night (and more  ) |
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"Personally I'd like to meet at a club have a social then back to the hotel . More privacy less distractions . I mean surley it's a quickie at a club if you are fucking at a club ? I'd like to make the most of it so I'd personally go back to the hotel anyone else do this ?"
Last time we were at Chams, one session Hotwife had lasted an hour & a half so not a quickie |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Personally I'd like to meet at a club have a social then back to the hotel . More privacy less distractions . I mean surley it's a quickie at a club if you are fucking at a club ? I'd like to make the most of it so I'd personally go back to the hotel anyone else do this ?
Last time we were at Chams, one session Hotwife had lasted an hour & a half so not a quickie "
I would say that constitutes good sex |
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Club sex is a different thing to partner sex and clubs can provide the opportunity to work out certain things you like and don’t like in a safe controlled and understanding environment
As a single fem I felt much safer and therefore able to explore more at the club I sometimes go to than I ever would in a normal nightclub indeed in a normal nightclub the men can be right pains! |
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By *isty286Couple
over a year ago
Dorset |
For us it has a lot to do with being watched, so clubs do it for us, plus it's fun to watch the single guys try to talk thier way into Tara's knickers, but they do sometimes get invited to join us in one of the smaller but still open rooms. |
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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago
village life, closest main town inverness |
"Personally I'd like to meet at a club have a social then back to the hotel . More privacy less distractions . I mean surley it's a quickie at a club if you are fucking at a club ? I'd like to make the most of it so I'd personally go back to the hotel anyone else do this ?"
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It would be fair to say,
yes we've been known to have a quickie at the end of the night in clubs 
We've also had pretty leisurely sex as well though lol
We're quite happy to be watched and that's why our preference would be clubs  |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
Stoke area |
"In a club we can make some noise! At home we have to be quiet, in a hotel we wouldn't be to noisy out of respect for other guests. In clubs we have great fun "
Oh yes. That's a good point. The ability to be more vocal at clubs is far easier than a hotel room. |
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We love having sex in clubs, as we can be as loud and wet as we like (all the beds are wipe clean and we don't have to sleep on the wet patch) we can have multiple partners at once, many of the beds are big enough for 6 or 8 people (or more), there are plenty of staff around to prevent problems, we can pop to the bar without having to get dressed and we have other people join in at any time if we wish. |
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