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Keep your swinging life private or don't mind telling people ?
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over a year ago
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Well I don't announce it in the office, no.
Aside from that my daughter knows, and I'm pretty open about it in general. No reason not to be? I'm a single woman who enjoys sex. Nothing to be embarrassed about there  |
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A couple on Fab who I met at a vanilla social are open about their fun and games. They are friends on here now. Generally i keep it discreet but have opened up to people in the pub when it seemed appropriate |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My closest friend knows but that's because he told me about this site.
No one else needs to know, especially not my judgemental family or work colleagues |
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"I think my sister might have an inkling
That said she might be on here her self  "
My sister is on here I’ve blocked her, just hoping she never sees me comment in the forum 
I have two friends that know what we get upto, but the rest are a bit judgy and I quite like having a secret! Mr’s not told anyone x |
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My family don't know as they are quite prudish and think sex should only be with someone you love etc etc! My close friends know, some know more than others. All of my colleagues know, I'm not the only swinger at work so they were already aware of swinging and most didn't judge. Because I'm open and honest about it a lot have asked questions so I've cleared up a lot of misconceptions |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think my sister might have an inkling
That said she might be on here her self
My sister is on here I’ve blocked her, just hoping she never sees me comment in the forum
I have two friends that know what we get upto, but the rest are a bit judgy and I quite like having a secret! Mr’s not told anyone x"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be totally fair as a swinger I tend to find it's mainly 95% admin, versus 5% actual 'swinging' most of the time...
I'd frankly bore the tits off most folk if they actually expressed an interest in all the 'naughty' shit I get up to |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Our close friends know about us, but we tend not to bring it up in public, mostly because muggles don't really understand"
Could you explain why you use the term "muggles".....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Our close friends know about us, but we tend not to bring it up in public, mostly because muggles don't really understand
Could you explain why you use the term "muggles"..... "
Because Swingers invented sex. Any non swingers are shit at sex and not part of the Elite. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Obviously a secret for most but are some open and don't give a shit ?"
If I was open, I’d still give a shit.
I’m single so it’s hard to say I am a ‘swinger’ but I’m open to friends that an open relationship sits best with me now. Some get my point of view. Others don’t. 
But if I was a couple, I’d probably keep it between other swingers. Maybe. |
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Wifey knows, she took a couple of pics of me for my profile but no one else, I wouldn't want people judging her or the state of our marriage. I've no idea whether she's told any of her close friends that I'm on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Private for me. Although a few know.
I was speaking to someone who boasted about telling her children and even said she asks them to leave so she can have men round |
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, expect to a couple of lady friends,
Xx 
better that way 