Hi guys, for ages during sex with my wife, I mentioned that she should get a fuckbuddy, I work away a lot during the week, she played alone at a party over the weekend, and asked a guy who she's been with before to be her fuckbuddy. She came home and told me about it, telling me she had his number and not giving him hers, and saying she probably wouldn't contact him for a while, she has done today, telling me it was to thank him, but on further explanation it was because she was thinking about him and getting horny.
Any ideas on what to do? Let it go and enjoy the stories of their love making or put a the stoppers on it, before it gets a bit deep..... Help pls |
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over a year ago
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well you told her to get the fuckbuddy and she obviously has found one she likes , there has to be lots of trust though and i suppose if she doesnt keep anythin from you and doesnt meet in secret you should let her go for it x  |
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"well you told her to get the fuckbuddy and she obviously has found one she likes , there has to be lots of trust though and i suppose if she doesnt keep anythin from you and doesnt meet in secret you should let her go for it x "
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Well to me it sounds like there isnt enough trust in your relationship to be getting involved in fuckbuddies and seperate fun, this could just be another case of jumping in too soon!! NEVER suggest anything until you are 100% sure you are comfortable with it (both of you)
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"Well to me it sounds like there isnt enough trust in your relationship to be getting involved in fuckbuddies and seperate fun, this could just be another case of jumping in too soon!! NEVER suggest anything until you are 100% sure you are comfortable with it (both of you)
Good luck"
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"Yes I told her to get the buddy, and she did/ has just didn't realize she'd be in contact so soon, and because we've never done anything like this or gone do far I might just be overreacting"
it sounds to me like it was something you said in the heat of the moment and you havnt really thought it thro
Maybe you thought after a few days she would forget and the whole idea would die off
the fact shes actually taken you up on your offer and gone thro with it has made you realise what you said and now your realising its not what you really want
i would suggest you tell her this as soon as possible |
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"Yes I told her to get the buddy, and she did/ has just didn't realize she'd be in contact so soon, and because we've never done anything like this or gone do far I might just be overreacting"
Like others have said you suggested and maybe in the heat of the moment. If you are in doubt then you need to speak to her about it. Before it gets out of hand and you end up regretting it |
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