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Don't meet over 55
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Amazing how many people over 50 will not meet over 55. I can't remember exactly but I do not remember having my dick cut off on my 55th birthday and last time I checked it still worked.
Answers on a postcard please?
Also where are all the hot 60+ ladies? |
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My postcards are in a drawer and I can't be bothered to get them so I'll answer here
Having a working dick isn't the only criteria people use to choose who they meet. For a lot of people this is fantasy fulfilment so they choose based on that.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are so many guys on FAB, women and couples are spoilt for choice. Most men and women like younger people because of all the benefits of being younger. If it’s on offer then they are likely to pick that over older.
It’s not just about having a cock that works, it’s about fitness and physique. Generally, the younger you are the better your body. Not always the case, my other half has a great body for a 52 year old man, better than most 20 years younger and no wrinkles. It’s just preference and you can’t change that. |
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By *ammo89Man
over a year ago
Aberdeen |
I understand why it's frustrating - you're being discounted from meets because of age, without the chance to put yourself across as a person.
But as others are saying, preferences should be respected |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
Instead of concentrating on those where you outside their preferences you would be better off concentrating on those who are looking for people your age etc.
It's quite often used as a filter to help cut down on messages that's why I have mine set they way they are. If I like someone outside them I'll message them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My partner is 11 years older than me. The oldest is sleep with is 20 older than me.
My partner said that he would sleep with 20 older than him. He’s currently 37. |
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By *erces LetiferMan
over a year ago
Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters |
I guess this is why things like the club scene and socials are big / important aspects of the lifestyle, right? There’s only so much you can do with an online profile / raw numbers (which can often be inaccurate, to boot).
All you can do, OP, is try and be the best version of yourself that you can be and to put yourself out there. Women have a very wide range of preferences, a lot of them won’t want to meet with the older gentleman, whereas plenty of other women will ONLY meet with an older gentleman (sometime quite a bit older!)…
Stop worrying about the ones who you don’t meet the criteria for, and focus your time and energy instead on the ones that do. Good luck!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's preference
People allowed to not meet any groups of people they don't want to and they don't have to explain why
This."
Seems to be a weekly occurance of men on here asking why women won't shag them just because they've asked nicely.
The work doesn't work like that so why would fab? |
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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago
Up North |
"Amazing how many people over 50 will not meet over 55. I can't remember exactly but I do not remember having my dick cut off on my 55th birthday and last time I checked it still worked.
Answers on a postcard please?
Also where are all the hot 60+ ladies?"
Your age wouldn’t be the reason I wouldn’t meet you |
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I have preferences on this site that I don’t have when I’m in a club.
The difference is you meet that person get to know them, they could have a warm personality or a sexy voice, maybe it’s the way the carry themselves or whisper something you’d like to try. This isn’t real life, all of the criteria we have for meeting online can be totally different in the flesh.
My preferences on this site won’t change because of one person. It stays the same as that one person stood out, the rest may not.  |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
"I understand why it's frustrating - you're being discounted from meets because of age, without the chance to put yourself across as a person.
But as others are saying, preferences should be respected "
But I refuse to believe that you would sleep with a 99 yr old either 
People might not like age limits, but at least by Putting one in they are being somewhat honest….  |
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Recently my wife and i have been pestered by a guy aged 58 who keeps having a go at me saying i should reduce the age limit of people we are looking for, just because many of our meets we are asking for younger guys, we are 53 and 52. Our limit is 60.
He has looked at my verifications and worked out the average age of people we have met and has messaged me more than once telling me to change it.
We have been with a couple both aged 59 but he basically says that doesn't count because it's a couple.
I have reported him to FAB so hopefully he will go away. What is wrong with some people? |
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By *ammo89Man
over a year ago
Aberdeen |
"I understand why it's frustrating - you're being discounted from meets because of age, without the chance to put yourself across as a person.
But as others are saying, preferences should be respected
But I refuse to believe that you would sleep with a 99 yr old either
People might not like age limits, but at least by Putting one in they are being somewhat honest…. "
Didn't even notice that. Haha. Thanks for the spot |
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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago
Milton keynes |
"There are so many guys on FAB, women and couples are spoilt for choice. Most men and women like younger people because of all the benefits of being younger. If it’s on offer then they are likely to pick that over older.
It’s not just about having a cock that works, it’s about fitness and physique. Generally, the younger you are the better your body. Not always the case, my other half has a great body for a 52 year old man, better than most 20 years younger and no wrinkles. It’s just preference and you can’t change that."
That is only partially true though.. I've seen some guys on here that are older and seem to be in better shape than most young guys. They do say never quite a judge a book by its cover as you will be suprise what you may tumble across lol |
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By *LiamMan
over a year ago
Midlands |
"It's preference
People allowed to not meet any groups of people they don't want to and they don't have to explain why
This.
Seems to be a weekly occurance of men on here asking why women won't shag them just because they've asked nicely.
The work doesn't work like that so why would fab?"
but they are very kind gentlemen and the nice guys always come last  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Soon to b 65 and still going strong here x
You look amazing and I bet you still receive plenty of messages everyday as well "
That could have something to do with being possession of a vagina and mammary glands.
As well a a lovely face and amazing personality. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sometimes it's not the age, it's the attitude.
That theory can be flipped for the fairer sex also"
"Fairer sex"
Lmao
It's relevant to everyone, the original comment wasn't aimed at any gender |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's preference
People allowed to not meet any groups of people they don't want to and they don't have to explain why
This.
Seems to be a weekly occurance of men on here asking why women won't shag them just because they've asked nicely.
The work doesn't work like that so why would fab? but they are very kind gentlemen and the nice guys always come last "
Not on Fab
Nice guys don't need to make threads crying that no one will meet them lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I guess this is why things like the club scene and socials are big / important aspects of the lifestyle, right? There’s only so much you can do with an online profile / raw numbers (which can often be inaccurate, to boot).
All you can do, OP, is try and be the best version of yourself that you can be and to put yourself out there. Women have a very wide range of preferences, a lot of them won’t want to meet with the older gentleman, whereas plenty of other women will ONLY meet with an older gentleman (sometime quite a bit older!)…
Stop worrying about the ones who you don’t meet the criteria for, and focus your time and energy instead on the ones that do. Good luck! "
and yet the social and club scene is such a small scene within the swinging scene so many swinger dont care for clubs or socials ... pretty much the sameas being on the forums on fab its a very very small part.... most swinger just do there thing without clubs socials and forums ....20 years ago there were very few clubs in the southwest the nearest was in the midlands .... if every swinger decied to go clubbing at a swingers club at the same time then all the clubs would be rammed with 99% not being able to get in.... so club and socials are not the pinical of swinging ....nowhere near just like the forums .... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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the main problem op is the same with all guys its a numbers game that is thee number one problem for men depending on where you are in the coutry its anything form a 100 men to 200/300 men per woman thats the problem thats before it gets to preference .... i could get 300 messages and not have a ounce of interest in any ..
women know what and whom they like when they see and spend a little time chatting ... preference is everything |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We filter at the age of 55 and it is nothing or at least very little to do with penises. We don't object to men over 55 - it's just that we've found that far too many are as bad as the men aged 25 and down - it is all about what they want and their dicks.
HTH |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We filter at the age of 55 and it is nothing or at least very little to do with penises. We don't object to men over 55 - it's just that we've found that far too many are as bad as the men aged 25 and down - it is all about what they want and their dicks.
HTH"
My experience is the same. The more cruel and crude messages have been sent by 15 plus years older than me. |
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