1) Get a couples account (even at a club you will possibly need it).
2) Discuss with your wife exactly what you both want out of it.
3) Don't try to run before you can walk. We where not new to the lifestyle when we went to a club and we still found it overwhelming on our first visit.
You guys have to do you but go at a pace you both agree on. |
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"1) Get a couples account (even at a club you will possibly need it).
2) Discuss with your wife exactly what you both want out of it.
3) Don't try to run before you can walk. We where not new to the lifestyle when we went to a club and we still found it overwhelming on our first visit.
You guys have to do you but go at a pace you both agree on. "
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As the above poster says set up a couples profile, some clubs like to know your genuine (although cannot think of any). I'd also say check with what wifey wants and is happy to do or not do. Never go with the anticipation of playing as there's no guarantee you'll a) meet someone you both like or b) will be interested in you guys.
Lastly if you do have fun with others, take time afterwards to reconnect with each other.
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