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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Bisexual women are a massive turn on for the majority of people, in my opinion. Now, for men to be bisexual there seems to be a totally different outlook.
Do women find men who are bisexual a turn off?
I myself for example don’t find me attractive, I adore women and I’m obsessed with their bodies. They’re incredible. I love to give women oral pleasure a lot more than men as well. However, I do like to play with and suck cock on occasion.
How does that make the majority of women feel? And would that be very off putting? |
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Im pansexual and love seeing guys play together. It's my go to porn and such a turn on.
Still yet to have my bi mmf 
But on the other hand. Girl girl, as much as I love it and love being a part of group play. I wouldn't choose to watch it to turn me on.
I think part of that is the fact I can do girl on girl myself, not guy on guy  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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That’s certainly re assuring. Thanks for the feedback. Yeh I have an ultimate fantasy to live out and that’s being in a bi MMF I’d love to be the bottom of a 69 in that scenario.
Yeh I find women incredibly attractive but lesbian porn doesn’t do too much for me. I mean I still like it. But, I like a cock in there as well. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Brilliant post OG I will be keeping my eye on this closely specially as I feel as a guy it can be frowned upon. Nice to know there are women on here who enjoy a good watch lol  "
Thanks mate. Hope you’re well, and hope you get some answers then. It certainly does seemed frowned upon from society. |
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"Brilliant post OG I will be keeping my eye on this closely specially as I feel as a guy it can be frowned upon. Nice to know there are women on here who enjoy a good watch lol
Thanks mate. Hope you’re well, and hope you get some answers then. It certainly does seemed frowned upon from society. "
Bless ya and thanks. I’m ok just on shift lol. I will be keeping my eye on this post that’s if it doesn’t go quiet though now  |
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Wouldn't put me off at all.
I think it's better to have it in your profile too as we get no end of messages from guys saying they want to suck my husband from a "straight" profile 
In my opinion a bi threesome of any kind is going to be more appealing than a non bi one at least everyone is going to be happy |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Some women find 2 men fucking or sucking very off putting.
Just meet the ones who like it. "
Oh yeh, of course. Each to their own. And everyone’s entitled to an opinion. Just trying to gather a rough general consensus.
Like you say, hopefully I’ll find some that find it a turn on!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Wouldn't put me off at all.
I think it's better to have it in your profile too as we get no end of messages from guys saying they want to suck my husband from a "straight" profile
In my opinion a bi threesome of any kind is going to be more appealing than a non bi one at least everyone is going to be happy "
Yeh absolutely. Great feedback.
I’ve tried to be open and honest with my profile. So I’ll hopefully find what I’m after.
I’m assuming some of those men who message genuinely would suck your husband off, however they’re edging their bets to get meets with just women as well. Bit sneaky. Open and honest is the way. Thanks for your reply! X |
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"Some women find 2 men fucking or sucking very off putting.
Just meet the ones who like it.
Oh yeh, of course. Each to their own. And everyone’s entitled to an opinion. Just trying to gather a rough general consensus.
Like you say, hopefully I’ll find some that find it a turn on! "
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I find it very odd when a woman doesn’t like bi guys.
I thought we were past judging people for their sexual history. I thought it was about whether you liked them or not. Not whether they sometimes experiment with other men, or, for example, if you found out a girl had a gangbang in university.
It’s an odd double standard, but it’s something you’ll never change. |
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I myself for example don’t find men attractive, I adore women and I’m obsessed with their bodies. They’re incredible. I love to give women oral pleasure a lot more than men as well. However, I do like to play with and suck cock on occasion.
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This perfectly describes my outlook on life - while I would definitely consider myself straight, I have sucked cocks before (and had mine sucked by a guy) and would again. If the feeling in the room is right for this, then fine.
I find it makes it rather tricky to be placed on here as "Bi-Sexual" means that some assume you find men attractive, want to kiss etc. which I don't. "Bi-Curious", on the other hand implies that you have not done anything considered bisexual yet but might like to try?
Best to be open in your communications and explain, I guess. |
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There is fab bi where a guy will suck cock in hope to fuck the fem of a cpl and then you have the genuine bi guys who suck and fuck with guys of cpls. For us if we are going to play bi it would have to be the genuine bi guys as lets be honest my john can find a guy to just suck his cock easy enough. For me it's going to be the turn on of watching him fully playing with another guy before they both play with me as a tag team. Bi fab are only after the female in my book so do limited stuff in hope of fucking the woman is their ulitmate aim. Not for us sorry! Joanne. |
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"There is fab bi where a guy will suck cock in hope to fuck the fem of a cpl and then you have the genuine bi guys who suck and fuck with guys of cpls. For us if we are going to play bi it would have to be the genuine bi guys as lets be honest my john can find a guy to just suck his cock easy enough. For me it's going to be the turn on of watching him fully playing with another guy before they both play with me as a tag team. Bi fab are only after the female in my book so do limited stuff in hope of fucking the woman is their ulitmate aim. Not for us sorry! Joanne. "
Well said |
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"Im pansexual and love seeing guys play together. It's my go to porn and such a turn on.
Still yet to have my bi mmf
But on the other hand. Girl girl, as much as I love it and love being a part of group play. I wouldn't choose to watch it to turn me on.
I think part of that is the fact I can do girl on girl myself, not guy on guy "
Step this way... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Although I have no interest in any bi male/mmf activities being with a bi man doesn't bother me in the slightest
I've met bi men on here before and thankfully they have always been very open about it so never had any reason to be 'put off' about it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've worded this incorrectly
I didn't mean that women get 'put off' because men aren't honest
Sorry I just read back my comment about it
But for me personally I like when a man is honest about it because I do understand that some women are very biphobic towards bi men |
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"There is fab bi where a guy will suck cock in hope to fuck the fem of a cpl and then you have the genuine bi guys who suck and fuck with guys of cpls. For me it's going to be the turn on of watching him fully playing with another guy before they both play with me as a tag team. Bi fab are only after the female in my book so do limited stuff in hope of fucking the woman is their ultimate aim. Not for us sorry! Joanne. "
I think you are correct that there is a sub-strata of "Fab-Bi" - absolutely correct.
However, there will be some, such as myself, who have been intrigued, gone as far as oral in both directions and am now wanting to try full sex, top & bottom. I have been experimenting with plugs and dildos but until it is the real thing, then I won't know.
Which means you want to try it for real - I suppose one has to find the right couple who will be happy to lead you through but my point is, there are so many "sub-strata" of where people are at in their sexual desires and needs that it is too restricting to call people bi, bi-curious or even a Fab-bi? |
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If they have a single guy has straight on their profile they hardly ever get a response unless the message was exceptional!
Not a problem with straight couples as we all get to enjoy the fun.
Our preference would be for bi bttm’s as that gets straight to the point in what we are looking for. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For us it’s all about the attraction to someone regardless of gender. Sexually we are fluid so our preference is for bi people.
It’s not for everyone, we respect that, we also respect those who are honest and open about their sexuality.
Viv |
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By *igfun911Man
over a year ago
East Lancashire |
Seems to be a lot of couples that say they like it but it's not often us bi guys manage to find the couple's to play with.
It's great fun when you do find and get to play in a bi mmf situation
Just need more of it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I found having bi on my profile put a lot of people off and got deleted straight away so put it as straight and got more response and joined fab guys for the male.side of things |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As a bi guy, I'd rather play with people that will accept me and my choices, had plenty of knock backs because I have bi on my profile, the reality is that people know what they want and like and that should be respected , I'd rather get a no not for me that a horrible meet. There are plenty that will meet a bi guy. For me I'd rather a bi mmf meet than a straight mmf |
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"Im pansexual and love seeing guys play together. It's my go to porn and such a turn on.
Still yet to have my bi mmf
But on the other hand. Girl girl, as much as I love it and love being a part of group play. I wouldn't choose to watch it to turn me on.
I think part of that is the fact I can do girl on girl myself, not guy on guy "
Oh my, I couldn't of written this better myself! I'm Pan too, and I love mm porn, vary rarely look at ff porn. In the real world I'm straight in there if theres a pussy that needs playing with. - fem. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I found having bi on my profile put a lot of people off and got deleted straight away so put it as straight and got more response and joined fab guys for the male.side of things "
Then you are being dishonest. |
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By *ikscMan
over a year ago
ABERDEEN |
I used to have great times with my mate and his wife this is where I had my first bi experience and I loved it but they moved to the states with work for the next few years can't wait till they return.if anybody ever want to chat to me about it I'm on kik feel free to give me a shout |
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By *uzzlepageMan
over a year ago
Stratford-upon-Avon |
"As with everything done will be fine with it, some won't like it
I personally prefer to meet bi guys, I find bi guys a turn on, the next person who replies may find them a turn off"
And just like that, your attitude as well as your awesome photos made me add you to my Hotlist.
Good to know there are women who like us Bi men |
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"Brilliant post OG I will be keeping my eye on this closely specially as I feel as a guy it can be frowned upon. Nice to know there are women on here who enjoy a good watch lol "
You could do a forum search and get the results much more quickly |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bisexual women are a massive turn on for the majority of people, in my opinion. Now, for men to be bisexual there seems to be a totally different outlook.
Do women find men who are bisexual a turn off?
I myself for example don’t find me attractive, I adore women and I’m obsessed with their bodies. They’re incredible. I love to give women oral pleasure a lot more than men as well. However, I do like to play with and suck cock on occasion.
How does that make the majority of women feel? And would that be very off putting? "
Completely agree that there is a totally different outlook to bi men opposed to bi women.
People are not so "open minded" to bi men as they are to bi woman.
So so sad that this is still happening in this day and age, particularly on a swinging site x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There is fab bi where a guy will suck cock in hope to fuck the fem of a cpl and then you have the genuine bi guys who suck and fuck with guys of cpls. For us if we are going to play bi it would have to be the genuine bi guys as lets be honest my john can find a guy to just suck his cock easy enough. For me it's going to be the turn on of watching him fully playing with another guy before they both play with me as a tag team. Bi fab are only after the female in my book so do limited stuff in hope of fucking the woman is their ulitmate aim. Not for us sorry! Joanne. "
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Well said. This is so true, Also gay guys saying they are bi just to get to the man. Also men who won’t meet gay guys just bi men. All becomes very confusing. I am gay that’s it. I wouldn’t abuse the woman’s power just to get at the man. |
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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago
village life, closest main town inverness |
"Bisexual women are a massive turn on for the majority of people, in my opinion. Now, for men to be bisexual there seems to be a totally different outlook.
Do women find men who are bisexual a turn off?
I myself for example don’t find me attractive, I adore women and I’m obsessed with their bodies. They’re incredible. I love to give women oral pleasure a lot more than men as well. However, I do like to play with and suck cock on occasion.
How does that make the majority of women feel? And would that be very off putting?
Completely agree that there is a totally different outlook to bi men opposed to bi women.
People are not so "open minded" to bi men as they are to bi woman.
So so sad that this is still happening in this day and age, particularly on a swinging site x"
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Yes although I do think things have been changing for the better
It's easier for people to be true to themselves on here than in everyday life
and it's nice to have a place like fab where folks have the opportunity to do so |
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"Since updating our profile we’ve noticed a change in the type of message we receive now, and more noticeably, messages we don’t receive any more  "
I had a similar experience when I went from straight to bi curious. |
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By *ick71Man
over a year ago
Chelmsford |
Bi guy here, who cares what label you place yourself under, we only have one life so just enjoy it, if some people are not turned on with bi guys or bi women who cares, move on there are plenty that do |
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I totally appreciate this is pot calling kettle given the lack of detail on my profile but could it be that if you are actively seeking pan play that potential playmates might want to see mr as well as all those incredible photos of the lovely mrs? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I myself for example don’t find men attractive, I adore women and I’m obsessed with their bodies. They’re incredible. I love to give women oral pleasure a lot more than men as well. However, I do like to play with and suck cock on occasion.
This perfectly describes my outlook on life - while I would definitely consider myself straight, I have sucked cocks before (and had mine sucked by a guy) and would again. If the feeling in the room is right for this, then fine.
I find it makes it rather tricky to be placed on here as "Bi-Sexual" means that some assume you find men attractive, want to kiss etc. which I don't. "Bi-Curious", on the other hand implies that you have not done anything considered bisexual yet but might like to try?
Best to be open in your communications and explain, I guess."
Absolutely spot on |
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"Bisexual women are a massive turn on for the majority of people, in my opinion. Now, for men to be bisexual there seems to be a totally different outlook.
Do women find men who are bisexual a turn off?
I myself for example don’t find me attractive, I adore women and I’m obsessed with their bodies. They’re incredible. I love to give women oral pleasure a lot more than men as well. However, I do like to play with and suck cock on occasion.
How does that make the majority of women feel? And would that be very off putting? "
I am the same so following |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bi guy here, who cares what label you place yourself under, we only have one life so just enjoy it, if some people are not turned on with bi guys or bi women who cares, move on there are plenty that do"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have dabbled, enjoyed a couple of MFM fun times, I have been with a married couple where she indulged in full oral with her husband and after she swallowed she gave me some real heavy snogging, I could still taste his sperm in her mouth as we snogged.
we were not strangers and cleanliness was no issue as we all knew and trusted each other,
We took turns of being under where you could lick both pussy and cock and I did clean up after both of us had fun.
I dont really see any problem with snogging a female after she has sucked cock and swallowed nor do I see any problem taking turns with her sucking cock and then kissing her
All was caught up in the heat of the moment and a few drinks did help that situation as well.
I wouldnt say I go out looking directly to suck cock as I do prefer females, but if a male/female couple and that is what they like, then why not. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Some great feedback here. And I’ve been happy to see that a lot don’t really care about the label out on someone. And I agree, it shouldn’t matter at all.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My most enjoyable experiences on here have been bi-threesome. Great fun especially when you see the girlfriend/wife get all excited as you suck her male partner |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am Bisexual and over the years I have come across many prejudices both here on FAB's and in other forums - do I care - Nope , I couldn't care less , I am just me a guy how like both men and women naked skin on skin next to me in bed
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm bi but it's not obligatory
I don't find guys attractive but sex is sex and being in a threesome where everything is on the table is mind blowing and very liberating. |
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"Im pansexual and love seeing guys play together. It's my go to porn and such a turn on.
Still yet to have my bi mmf
But on the other hand. Girl girl, as much as I love it and love being a part of group play. I wouldn't choose to watch it to turn me on.
I think part of that is the fact I can do girl on girl myself, not guy on guy "
I pretty much could have written this myself!
C x |
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By *amb_ManMan
over a year ago
Peterborough |
"Never been particularly into men though lately I have watched mmf where the guys are bi and it's an interesting dynamic"
Same here. I’ve always enjoyed watching low jobs in porn and at clubs. In the past I enjoyed them from the recipient’s perspective but lately found myself enjoying it from the giver’s perspective. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Huge turn on for me.
Nothing more pleasurable than watching guys playing seeing his reactions been sucked off
Then all of us playing as a tag team. Just thinking about it getting me twitchy "
The best |
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By *lueFireCouple
over a year ago
just somewhere around here |
"Wouldn't put me off at all.
I think it's better to have it in your profile too as we get no end of messages from guys saying they want to suck my husband from a "straight" profile
In my opinion a bi threesome of any kind is going to be more appealing than a non bi one at least everyone is going to be happy "
Very much this
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By *lueFireCouple
over a year ago
just somewhere around here |
"There is fab bi where a guy will suck cock in hope to fuck the fem of a cpl and then you have the genuine bi guys who suck and fuck with guys of cpls. For us if we are going to play bi it would have to be the genuine bi guys as lets be honest my john can find a guy to just suck his cock easy enough. For me it's going to be the turn on of watching him fully playing with another guy before they both play with me as a tag team. Bi fab are only after the female in my book so do limited stuff in hope of fucking the woman is their ulitmate aim. Not for us sorry! Joanne. "
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