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Defining BBW

By *ev and Trev OP Couple over a year ago

cardiff

So for all intents and purposes, I'd be classed as a BBW. I'm a larger lady who also happens to be quite tall, so big in all ways.

I'm quite content with being large but I'm not really comfortable with the BBW tag and I have no idea why.

Is it just me or do other larger ladies feel the same?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I am happy with being called a Big Beautiful Women.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I am happy with being called a Big Beautiful Women."

And you…

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m not sure how I feel either tbh! But it’s a factual statement I guess.

Better than what I’ve heard in the past “you’d be perfect if you lost a couple of stone” lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm a beautiful woman ,like the rest of you.

I might be a Big Boobed Woman though.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I am happy with being called a Big Beautiful Women.

And you…

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By *ev and Trev OP Couple over a year ago

cardiff

"I’m not sure how I feel either tbh! But it’s a factual statement I guess.

Better than what I’ve heard in the past “you’d be perfect if you lost a couple of stone” lol

I think the thing that makes me uncomfortable is the second B. I mean I'm big yes so that's definitely factual, but beauty is subjective.

And having perved your pics I workshy class you as BBW at all and certainly don't need to lose a couple of stone!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't describe myself as a bbw. I'm a chunk and I make sure potential meets know that early as I know it's an issue for some.

I'm 5ft5 size 18-20

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By *ev and Trev OP Couple over a year ago

cardiff

I think the thing that makes me uncomfortable is the second B. I mean I'm big yes so that's definitely factual, but beauty is subjective.

And just to prove my point about beauty being subjective, I've just received an unsolicited message telling me I should take down all my arse pics as they will put people off meeting me

yet they are probably my most fabbed pics!

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By *merald Eyes XWoman over a year ago

Can you find me….

I did not feel comfortable with the bbw tag when I was larger.

But get that some women do like….. but certainly not for me! X

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By *r and Mrs 81Couple over a year ago

Leicester

I usually just say I'm a big gal who loves her food, if you think you handle that then game on,, I think our pictures show this but I always feel I need to make it clear too.. I guess in a way we feel the need to point out the obvious for some reason but bbw isn't a attractive word.

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

I don't like that tag in the slightest. I'm fat, working on it. Chubby if I'm feeling confident. BBW just doesn't suit me or sit right.

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By *bwstarzWoman over a year ago

south cheshire

In a previous life I had Bbw in my name but I honestly got fed up of being asked if I was big enough (yep personally thought I was) and I found that some people fetishised it and tbh I didn’t like it.

So I came back this time without it but I’ve pictures up that show my size so people can make their own mind up

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I find most females attractive in different ways

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By *ake-Me-FeelWoman over a year ago

Sussex

Im not a fan of the bbw thing either. Fine if people like it, but I feel it has a fetishist attachment with it. I'm not here to fullfill that fantasy for you.

Im fat, curvy, chunky, wobbly etc and I'm beautiful regardless of my size.

I actually tend to just ignore/delete messages that state BBW.

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By *hellebelleWoman over a year ago

ashford

Personally I don’t mind…. Yes I’m big… but far from beautiful so bbw stands for big and bouncy woman in my world lol

I don’t like being called curvy… because I’m really not… I’m more barrelesque then Reubenesque

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By *ase4122Man over a year ago

Lancashire

Apologies, I know the OP was asking the ladies, and viewing the comments from some it seems a mixed bag. Personally, I don't like to see a woman's bones poking out through the skin, and I like to feel all a woman's lumps and bumps, I've plenty of my own lol.

All ladies are beautiful in their own way either big or small

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think it's the fetishism that can be uncomfortable, knowing that some guys into BBW are not into you as a whole but just your big body, so claiming the BBW label could feel less about accepting your body and empowerment, but more about appealing to the fetishists. Rightly or wrongly.

I feel the same with the BBC label, it can be quite fetish based and some black guys will embrace it, others won't. I would and have quite happily fucked black guys I found attractive. But it wasn't just because they were black I found them attractive. Maybe a totally different argument but yeah it's an interesting topic

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By *ase4122Man over a year ago

Lancashire

"I think it's the fetishism that can be uncomfortable, knowing that some guys into BBW are not into you as a whole but just your big body, so claiming the BBW label could feel less about accepting your body and empowerment, but more about appealing to the fetishists. Rightly or wrongly.

It's not a fetish for me, I just love caressing and exploring a woman with curves

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By *ev and Trev OP Couple over a year ago

cardiff

This is something I hadn't really considered but makes perfect sense now I think about it.

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By *ucka39Man over a year ago

Newcastle

I don't like the term BBW a lady is a lady with a figure

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By *intiemintieWoman over a year ago

Scottish Borders

Im a well upholstered gal and proud of my assets, tolerate the wobbly bits and enjoy the enhancements that lovely lingerie offers larger ladies. The term bbw is fine by me so long as people value the fact that it includes brains as well as big boobs and butt. Xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

To be fair, I hate labels of most kinds, whether it’s thin, fat, curvy, chunky, large, BBW or even SSBBW. We are who we are, lumps, bumps, big boobs, wee boobs, big asses or a flat arse like mine lol No one should be made to feel uncomfortable in their own skin, as long as you are happy who gives a fuck what anyone else thinks. Be confident and embrace it I say xx

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple over a year ago

Exeter

A term that we like is "Plush"

but also don't mind BBW.

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By *oungAtHeartCurvyCoupleCouple over a year ago

Edinburgh

When do you make it into the bbw category? Where is the line going from curvy to BBW I.e sizes etc? What's your opinions?

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By *orkshrCplCouple over a year ago

Ripon

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By *orkshrCplCouple over a year ago

Ripon

I think the thing that makes me uncomfortable is the second B. I mean I'm big yes so that's definitely factual, but beauty is subjective.

And just to prove my point about beauty being subjective, I've just received an unsolicited message telling me I should take down all my arse pics as they will put people off meeting me

yet they are probably my most fabbed pics!"

How rude! Sorry you had to even read that x

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