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What do us gals want to see on there and what we don't.
Sometimes the hottest body is followed by a lot of drivel or a message only for for the dumpster.
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I don’t want to see a cock profile pic or action shots with loads of women in the public folder.
I do want to see veris and a well written profile with some effort. Some nice pics public, including a cock pic. |
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"I don’t want to see a cock profile pic or action shots with loads of women in the public folder.
I do want to see veris and a well written profile with some effort. Some nice pics public, including a cock pic. "
Likewise. I think keep it under cover.. Or in the folders. Torso will work for me much more than a dick pic.
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
(She/ her) in Sensualityland |
For me, it does not need to be War & Peace but a short, rant-free and positive summary of what he likes and what he likes to offer (bar for the obvious e.g. "here for NSA")
Profiles that have a slightly self-deprecating humour are attractive as are those which suggest humanity, kindness and a decent person behind the profile.
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"I don’t want to see a cock profile pic or action shots with loads of women in the public folder.
I do want to see veris and a well written profile with some effort. Some nice pics public, including a cock pic.
Likewise. I think keep it under cover.. Or in the folders. Torso will work for me much more than a dick pic.
Veris.. A healthy trail, well written "
I wouldn’t meet anyone who had a cock profile pic. To me it’s like flashing. I’d like to choose whether I see your junk or not, I don’t want it thrust in my face without permission |
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"For me, it does not need to be War & Peace but a short, rant-free and positive summary of what he likes and what he likes to offer (bar for the obvious e.g. "here for NSA")
Profiles that have a slightly self-deprecating humour are attractive as are those which suggest humanity, kindness and a decent person behind the profile.
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Ooh yes. All of this. |
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"For me, it does not need to be War & Peace but a short, rant-free and positive summary of what he likes and what he likes to offer (bar for the obvious e.g. "here for NSA")
Profiles that have a slightly self-deprecating humour are attractive as are those which suggest humanity, kindness and a decent person behind the profile.
Ooh yes. All of this. "
This is getting my vote too |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"I don’t want to see a cock profile pic or action shots with loads of women in the public folder.
I do want to see veris and a well written profile with some effort. Some nice pics public, including a cock pic.
Likewise. I think keep it under cover.. Or in the folders. Torso will work for me much more than a dick pic.
Veris.. A healthy trail, well written
I wouldn’t meet anyone who had a cock profile pic. To me it’s like flashing. I’d like to choose whether I see your junk or not, I don’t want it thrust in my face without permission "
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"I would love to have a verification but that involves actually managing to meet someone, which has proved very difficult"
Best and quickest way is to get to a social event or club.
Great way of making friends too. |
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"Open to honest feedback
Your profile pic would rule you out entirely, I wouldn’t even get as far as ready your profile.
Cheers what would you think would be appropriate?"
Anything other than your naked penis, but I especially don’t like pics where you see almost all of a woman and then just a tiny part of the man. On a single man’s profile I don’t think that’s appropriate, especially not as a profile pic.
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"Open to honest feedback
Your profile pic would rule you out entirely, I wouldn’t even get as far as ready your profile.
Cheers what would you think would be appropriate?"
More of a man less of a cock?
Probably also not have a random woman in the photo as people aren't meeting her. It also puts many people off as no one knows if she gave permission, and worry their photos could end up used like that. |
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"Open to honest feedback
Your profile pic would rule you out entirely, I wouldn’t even get as far as ready your profile.
Cheers what would you think would be appropriate?
More of a man less of a cock?
Probably also not have a random woman in the photo as people aren't meeting her. It also puts many people off as no one knows if she gave permission, and worry their photos could end up used like that. "
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"Verifications! Especially off bigger women, being a size 18 I tend to avoid profiles that are only verified by thinner women.... Unless they clearly state in their bio they like a bigger woman "
I do exactly the same x |
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"Verifications! Especially off bigger women, being a size 18 I tend to avoid profiles that are only verified by thinner women.... Unless they clearly state in their bio they like a bigger woman
I do exactly the same x"
Yes! I've been doing the same, granted I'm relatively new to all this.
But my inbox is full and I've been trying to narrow it down. |
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By *host63Man
over a year ago
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"What do us gals want to see on there and what we don't.
Sometimes the hottest body is followed by a lot of drivel or a message only for for the dumpster.
The Dummys guide for the swinging Male!
Woukdnt mind a bit of constructive criticism myself.
Tips for the boys!
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"What do us gals want to see on there and what we don't.
Sometimes the hottest body is followed by a lot of drivel or a message only for for the dumpster.
The Dummys guide for the swinging Male!
Woukdnt mind a bit of constructive criticism myself.
Tips for the boys!
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With that Bonnieville that perfection right there. Looking great. |
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The problem is guys want a profile that will appeal to everyone (FOMO)so with that in mind:
Don't post a dick pic
Make sure to post a dick pic
If you are bi lie and say you are straight.
Make sure to say you are bi
Don't post 'action' shots
Make sure you post action shots
If you are married/in a relationship say so.
Don't ever admit to being in a relationship or married.
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"I don’t want to see a cock profile pic or action shots with loads of women in the public folder.
I do want to see veris and a well written profile with some effort. Some nice pics public, including a cock pic. "
I love how you’re happy to set this expectation around not having action shots on their public folder, whilst having your own pic of you sucking a cock in your public profile.  |
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"I don’t want to see a cock profile pic or action shots with loads of women in the public folder.
I do want to see veris and a well written profile with some effort. Some nice pics public, including a cock pic.
I love how you’re happy to set this expectation around not having action shots on their public folder, whilst having your own pic of you sucking a cock in your public profile. "
The post is about what we like to see in a single guys profile, which mine isn’t
I don’t mind it on a woman’s or couples profile. |
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"I don’t want to see a cock profile pic or action shots with loads of women in the public folder.
I do want to see veris and a well written profile with some effort. Some nice pics public, including a cock pic.
I love how you’re happy to set this expectation around not having action shots on their public folder, whilst having your own pic of you sucking a cock in your public profile. "
Oh and it’s not an expectation, the thread is about what we like. That’s what I like. |
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"I don’t want to see a cock profile pic or action shots with loads of women in the public folder.
I do want to see veris and a well written profile with some effort. Some nice pics public, including a cock pic.
I love how you’re happy to set this expectation around not having action shots on their public folder, whilst having your own pic of you sucking a cock in your public profile. "
Could be a fair point if we asked what everyone wanted to see. This post has grown from a woman's group discussion and I thought why not try and give the lads a helping hand if they feel they need it. Not all will I grant ya.
Listen and Learn I'd you need.. If you don't don't be on the defense.
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"I don’t want to see a cock profile pic or action shots with loads of women in the public folder.
I do want to see veris and a well written profile with some effort. Some nice pics public, including a cock pic.
I love how you’re happy to set this expectation around not having action shots on their public folder, whilst having your own pic of you sucking a cock in your public profile.
The post is about what we like to see in a single guys profile, which mine isn’t
I don’t mind it on a woman’s or couples profile. "
So one cock pic on public display is what most women would like to see, is that the common thinking then? Just for clarity....? |
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"I don’t want to see a cock profile pic or action shots with loads of women in the public folder.
I do want to see veris and a well written profile with some effort. Some nice pics public, including a cock pic.
I love how you’re happy to set this expectation around not having action shots on their public folder, whilst having your own pic of you sucking a cock in your public profile.
The post is about what we like to see in a single guys profile, which mine isn’t
I don’t mind it on a woman’s or couples profile.
So one cock pic on public display is what most women would like to see, is that the common thinking then? Just for clarity....?"
Although I’m the male of the couple I’d say just put the dick pics on friends only and send it if requested. If none of your public pics are of your cock most would assume they’re in your friends only. |
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"I don’t want to see a cock profile pic or action shots with loads of women in the public folder.
I do want to see veris and a well written profile with some effort. Some nice pics public, including a cock pic.
I love how you’re happy to set this expectation around not having action shots on their public folder, whilst having your own pic of you sucking a cock in your public profile.
The post is about what we like to see in a single guys profile, which mine isn’t
I don’t mind it on a woman’s or couples profile.
So one cock pic on public display is what most women would like to see, is that the common thinking then? Just for clarity....?
Although I’m the male of the couple I’d say just put the dick pics on friends only and send it if requested. If none of your public pics are of your cock most would assume they’re in your friends only."
That's what I've done previously, but it didn't hurt to ask in this thread, which is geared towards what women/couples would like to see on a single guy's profile  |
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"I don’t want to see a cock profile pic or action shots with loads of women in the public folder.
I do want to see veris and a well written profile with some effort. Some nice pics public, including a cock pic.
I love how you’re happy to set this expectation around not having action shots on their public folder, whilst having your own pic of you sucking a cock in your public profile.
The post is about what we like to see in a single guys profile, which mine isn’t
I don’t mind it on a woman’s or couples profile.
So one cock pic on public display is what most women would like to see, is that the common thinking then? Just for clarity....?
Although I’m the male of the couple I’d say just put the dick pics on friends only and send it if requested. If none of your public pics are of your cock most would assume they’re in your friends only.
That's what I've done previously, but it didn't hurt to ask in this thread, which is geared towards what women/couples would like to see on a single guy's profile "
I’d say that’s the best way. Then you don’t scare off the people that don’t like dick pics and the people that do like them will assume you’ve got them and are willing to send them or accept a friend request. |
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"I don’t want to see a cock profile pic or action shots with loads of women in the public folder.
I do want to see veris and a well written profile with some effort. Some nice pics public, including a cock pic.
I love how you’re happy to set this expectation around not having action shots on their public folder, whilst having your own pic of you sucking a cock in your public profile.
The post is about what we like to see in a single guys profile, which mine isn’t
I don’t mind it on a woman’s or couples profile.
So one cock pic on public display is what most women would like to see, is that the common thinking then? Just for clarity....?
Although I’m the male of the couple I’d say just put the dick pics on friends only and send it if requested. If none of your public pics are of your cock most would assume they’re in your friends only.
That's what I've done previously, but it didn't hurt to ask in this thread, which is geared towards what women/couples would like to see on a single guy's profile
I’d say that’s the best way. Then you don’t scare off the people that don’t like dick pics and the people that do like them will assume you’ve got them and are willing to send them or accept a friend request."
I do have cock/cum vids on public display, but only site supporters can view those, which I think is fair enough |
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"I don’t want to see a cock profile pic or action shots with loads of women in the public folder.
I do want to see veris and a well written profile with some effort. Some nice pics public, including a cock pic.
I love how you’re happy to set this expectation around not having action shots on their public folder, whilst having your own pic of you sucking a cock in your public profile.
The post is about what we like to see in a single guys profile, which mine isn’t
I don’t mind it on a woman’s or couples profile.
So one cock pic on public display is what most women would like to see, is that the common thinking then? Just for clarity....?
Although I’m the male of the couple I’d say just put the dick pics on friends only and send it if requested. If none of your public pics are of your cock most would assume they’re in your friends only.
That's what I've done previously, but it didn't hurt to ask in this thread, which is geared towards what women/couples would like to see on a single guy's profile
I’d say that’s the best way. Then you don’t scare off the people that don’t like dick pics and the people that do like them will assume you’ve got them and are willing to send them or accept a friend request.
I do have cock/cum vids on public display, but only site supporters can view those, which I think is fair enough "
I rarely check videos on profiles so I can’t really comment on that but I think it’s safe to assume videos will be more sexual than pictures. |
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"I don’t want to see a cock profile pic or action shots with loads of women in the public folder.
I do want to see veris and a well written profile with some effort. Some nice pics public, including a cock pic.
I love how you’re happy to set this expectation around not having action shots on their public folder, whilst having your own pic of you sucking a cock in your public profile.
The post is about what we like to see in a single guys profile, which mine isn’t
I don’t mind it on a woman’s or couples profile.
So one cock pic on public display is what most women would like to see, is that the common thinking then? Just for clarity....?"
I can’t speak for anyone else, you could ask 100 women and get 100 different answers.
For me, public pics are the perfect place for cock shots. I can look without you knowing and see if you take my fancy. If you put them in private then you have to show them to me. What if I don’t like it? Then it’s awkward
In terms of number, it doesn’t really matter, but if just the same kind of shot over and over again then what’s the point?
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"I don’t want to see a cock profile pic or action shots with loads of women in the public folder.
I do want to see veris and a well written profile with some effort. Some nice pics public, including a cock pic.
Likewise. I think keep it under cover.. Or in the folders. Torso will work for me much more than a dick pic.
Veris.. A healthy trail, well written
I wouldn’t meet anyone who had a cock profile pic. To me it’s like flashing. I’d like to choose whether I see your junk or not, I don’t want it thrust in my face without permission "
I guess looking at your profile this isn’t a case of practising what you preach wrt cock pics?  |
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"I don’t want to see a cock profile pic or action shots with loads of women in the public folder.
I do want to see veris and a well written profile with some effort. Some nice pics public, including a cock pic.
Likewise. I think keep it under cover.. Or in the folders. Torso will work for me much more than a dick pic.
Veris.. A healthy trail, well written
I wouldn’t meet anyone who had a cock profile pic. To me it’s like flashing. I’d like to choose whether I see your junk or not, I don’t want it thrust in my face without permission
I guess looking at your profile this isn’t a case of practising what you preach wrt cock pics? "
Well this thread is about what I like to see on a single Man’s profile isn’t it? And mine isn’t
I’m contrary, what can I say 
But seriously, I see loads of guys profiles that have 10/20/30+ different women in them. The pics are invariably showing much more of the woman and not the man. I just don’t find it attractive, but I’m sure lots do.
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"I don’t want to see a cock profile pic or action shots with loads of women in the public folder.
I do want to see veris and a well written profile with some effort. Some nice pics public, including a cock pic.
I love how you’re happy to set this expectation around not having action shots on their public folder, whilst having your own pic of you sucking a cock in your public profile.
The post is about what we like to see in a single guys profile, which mine isn’t
I don’t mind it on a woman’s or couples profile.
So one cock pic on public display is what most women would like to see, is that the common thinking then? Just for clarity....?
I can’t speak for anyone else, you could ask 100 women and get 100 different answers.
For me, public pics are the perfect place for cock shots. I can look without you knowing and see if you take my fancy. If you put them in private then you have to show them to me. What if I don’t like it? Then it’s awkward
In terms of number, it doesn’t really matter, but if just the same kind of shot over and over again then what’s the point?
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I don't have my face or cock on public.
If someone likes the rest of what they see, they can ask to see the rest and I'll show them.
Surely the awkwardness is the same if you don't like my face to as if you don't like my cock? |
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"I don’t want to see a cock profile pic or action shots with loads of women in the public folder.
I do want to see veris and a well written profile with some effort. Some nice pics public, including a cock pic.
Likewise. I think keep it under cover.. Or in the folders. Torso will work for me much more than a dick pic.
Veris.. A healthy trail, well written
I wouldn’t meet anyone who had a cock profile pic. To me it’s like flashing. I’d like to choose whether I see your junk or not, I don’t want it thrust in my face without permission
I guess looking at your profile this isn’t a case of practising what you preach wrt cock pics?
Well this thread is about what I like to see on a single Man’s profile isn’t it? And mine isn’t
I’m contrary, what can I say
But seriously, I see loads of guys profiles that have 10/20/30+ different women in them. The pics are invariably showing much more of the woman and not the man. I just don’t find it attractive, but I’m sure lots do.
*other opinions are available*"
I get that. We are all contrarians and that is what makes this place so much fun |
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"I don’t want to see a cock profile pic or action shots with loads of women in the public folder.
I do want to see veris and a well written profile with some effort. Some nice pics public, including a cock pic.
Likewise. I think keep it under cover.. Or in the folders. Torso will work for me much more than a dick pic.
Veris.. A healthy trail, well written
I wouldn’t meet anyone who had a cock profile pic. To me it’s like flashing. I’d like to choose whether I see your junk or not, I don’t want it thrust in my face without permission
I guess looking at your profile this isn’t a case of practising what you preach wrt cock pics?
Well this thread is about what I like to see on a single Man’s profile isn’t it? And mine isn’t
I’m contrary, what can I say
But seriously, I see loads of guys profiles that have 10/20/30+ different women in them. The pics are invariably showing much more of the woman and not the man. I just don’t find it attractive, but I’m sure lots do.
*other opinions are available*"
Yeah, suprisingly what women are attract to often differs to what guys are attracted to, so hearing what you like is useful.
I wonder what the concensus would be if this were asking men what their perfect womens or couples profile was. |
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"I don’t want to see a cock profile pic or action shots with loads of women in the public folder.
I do want to see veris and a well written profile with some effort. Some nice pics public, including a cock pic.
I love how you’re happy to set this expectation around not having action shots on their public folder, whilst having your own pic of you sucking a cock in your public profile.
The post is about what we like to see in a single guys profile, which mine isn’t
I don’t mind it on a woman’s or couples profile.
So one cock pic on public display is what most women would like to see, is that the common thinking then? Just for clarity....?
I can’t speak for anyone else, you could ask 100 women and get 100 different answers.
For me, public pics are the perfect place for cock shots. I can look without you knowing and see if you take my fancy. If you put them in private then you have to show them to me. What if I don’t like it? Then it’s awkward
In terms of number, it doesn’t really matter, but if just the same kind of shot over and over again then what’s the point?
I don't have my face or cock on public.
If someone likes the rest of what they see, they can ask to see the rest and I'll show them.
Surely the awkwardness is the same if you don't like my face to as if you don't like my cock?"
It’s exactly the same, but it doubles your risk of direct rejection if you hide both
I just think if I had a willy, that’s what I’d do. And as a single woman I wouldn’t get chatting to someone on here without seeing the good upfront |
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"I don’t want to see a cock profile pic or action shots with loads of women in the public folder.
I do want to see veris and a well written profile with some effort. Some nice pics public, including a cock pic.
Likewise. I think keep it under cover.. Or in the folders. Torso will work for me much more than a dick pic.
Veris.. A healthy trail, well written
I wouldn’t meet anyone who had a cock profile pic. To me it’s like flashing. I’d like to choose whether I see your junk or not, I don’t want it thrust in my face without permission
I guess looking at your profile this isn’t a case of practising what you preach wrt cock pics?
Well this thread is about what I like to see on a single Man’s profile isn’t it? And mine isn’t
I’m contrary, what can I say
But seriously, I see loads of guys profiles that have 10/20/30+ different women in them. The pics are invariably showing much more of the woman and not the man. I just don’t find it attractive, but I’m sure lots do.
*other opinions are available*
Yeah, suprisingly what women are attract to often differs to what guys are attracted to, so hearing what you like is useful.
I wonder what the concensus would be if this were asking men what their perfect womens or couples profile was. "
Maybe you ought to start a thread |
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"I don’t want to see a cock profile pic or action shots with loads of women in the public folder.
I do want to see veris and a well written profile with some effort. Some nice pics public, including a cock pic.
Likewise. I think keep it under cover.. Or in the folders. Torso will work for me much more than a dick pic.
Veris.. A healthy trail, well written
I wouldn’t meet anyone who had a cock profile pic. To me it’s like flashing. I’d like to choose whether I see your junk or not, I don’t want it thrust in my face without permission
I guess looking at your profile this isn’t a case of practising what you preach wrt cock pics?
Well this thread is about what I like to see on a single Man’s profile isn’t it? And mine isn’t
I’m contrary, what can I say
But seriously, I see loads of guys profiles that have 10/20/30+ different women in them. The pics are invariably showing much more of the woman and not the man. I just don’t find it attractive, but I’m sure lots do.
*other opinions are available*
Yeah, suprisingly what women are attract to often differs to what guys are attracted to, so hearing what you like is useful.
I wonder what the concensus would be if this were asking men what their perfect womens or couples profile was.
Maybe you ought to start a thread "
That’s easy - one that responds to messages with a let’s chat some more |
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"I don’t want to see a cock profile pic or action shots with loads of women in the public folder.
I do want to see veris and a well written profile with some effort. Some nice pics public, including a cock pic.
I love how you’re happy to set this expectation around not having action shots on their public folder, whilst having your own pic of you sucking a cock in your public profile.
The post is about what we like to see in a single guys profile, which mine isn’t
I don’t mind it on a woman’s or couples profile.
So one cock pic on public display is what most women would like to see, is that the common thinking then? Just for clarity....?
I can’t speak for anyone else, you could ask 100 women and get 100 different answers.
For me, public pics are the perfect place for cock shots. I can look without you knowing and see if you take my fancy. If you put them in private then you have to show them to me. What if I don’t like it? Then it’s awkward
In terms of number, it doesn’t really matter, but if just the same kind of shot over and over again then what’s the point?
I don't have my face or cock on public.
If someone likes the rest of what they see, they can ask to see the rest and I'll show them.
Surely the awkwardness is the same if you don't like my face to as if you don't like my cock?
It’s exactly the same, but it doubles your risk of direct rejection if you hide both
I just think if I had a willy, that’s what I’d do. And as a single woman I wouldn’t get chatting to someone on here without seeing the good upfront "
Guess we aren't chatting then
If someone won't even talk to me without seeing my cock, I doubt they'll be someone I'd want to meet anyway as I am so much more than a cock.
I'm not bothered about rejection, I'm not getting my cock out in public due to my own principles and if I'm rejected for that, then it makes things easier for me. |
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Sorry for going a bit off topic there.
Back to it... it's good to hear what people want to see, but you also need to be yourself and run your profile how you want as that helps show your personality rather than have it become a generic people pleasing mess. |
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"I don’t want to see a cock profile pic or action shots with loads of women in the public folder.
I do want to see veris and a well written profile with some effort. Some nice pics public, including a cock pic.
I love how you’re happy to set this expectation around not having action shots on their public folder, whilst having your own pic of you sucking a cock in your public profile.
The post is about what we like to see in a single guys profile, which mine isn’t
I don’t mind it on a woman’s or couples profile.
So one cock pic on public display is what most women would like to see, is that the common thinking then? Just for clarity....?
I can’t speak for anyone else, you could ask 100 women and get 100 different answers.
For me, public pics are the perfect place for cock shots. I can look without you knowing and see if you take my fancy. If you put them in private then you have to show them to me. What if I don’t like it? Then it’s awkward
In terms of number, it doesn’t really matter, but if just the same kind of shot over and over again then what’s the point?
I don't have my face or cock on public.
If someone likes the rest of what they see, they can ask to see the rest and I'll show them.
Surely the awkwardness is the same if you don't like my face to as if you don't like my cock?
It’s exactly the same, but it doubles your risk of direct rejection if you hide both
I just think if I had a willy, that’s what I’d do. And as a single woman I wouldn’t get chatting to someone on here without seeing the good upfront
Guess we aren't chatting then
If someone won't even talk to me without seeing my cock, I doubt they'll be someone I'd want to meet anyway as I am so much more than a cock.
I'm not bothered about rejection, I'm not getting my cock out in public due to my own principles and if I'm rejected for that, then it makes things easier for me. "
Good for you. That’s much better than waggling in peoples faces without asking. Each to their own. |
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"Sorry for going a bit off topic there.
Back to it... it's good to hear what people want to see, but you also need to be yourself and run your profile how you want as that helps show your personality rather than have it become a generic people pleasing mess. "
Totally agree. I know what I’m looking for, but I’d never expect anyone to tailor their profile to suit me. I wouldn’t change mine for anyone. If you don’t like it, don’t look, that’s my approach. |
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"I don’t want to see a cock profile pic or action shots with loads of women in the public folder.
I do want to see veris and a well written profile with some effort. Some nice pics public, including a cock pic.
I love how you’re happy to set this expectation around not having action shots on their public folder, whilst having your own pic of you sucking a cock in your public profile.
The post is about what we like to see in a single guys profile, which mine isn’t
I don’t mind it on a woman’s or couples profile.
So one cock pic on public display is what most women would like to see, is that the common thinking then? Just for clarity....?
I can’t speak for anyone else, you could ask 100 women and get 100 different answers.
For me, public pics are the perfect place for cock shots. I can look without you knowing and see if you take my fancy. If you put them in private then you have to show them to me. What if I don’t like it? Then it’s awkward
In terms of number, it doesn’t really matter, but if just the same kind of shot over and over again then what’s the point?
I don't have my face or cock on public.
If someone likes the rest of what they see, they can ask to see the rest and I'll show them.
Surely the awkwardness is the same if you don't like my face to as if you don't like my cock?
It’s exactly the same, but it doubles your risk of direct rejection if you hide both
I just think if I had a willy, that’s what I’d do. And as a single woman I wouldn’t get chatting to someone on here without seeing the good upfront
Guess we aren't chatting then
If someone won't even talk to me without seeing my cock, I doubt they'll be someone I'd want to meet anyway as I am so much more than a cock.
I'm not bothered about rejection, I'm not getting my cock out in public due to my own principles and if I'm rejected for that, then it makes things easier for me.
Good for you. That’s much better than waggling in peoples faces without asking. Each to their own. "
I like waggling in peoples faces, but TBH they do ask, would be rude if they didn't |
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"What do us gals want to see on there and what we don't.
Sometimes the hottest body is followed by a lot of drivel or a message only for for the dumpster.
The Dummys guide for the swinging Male!
Tips for the boys!
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There is no such thing
We all have different tastes, wants and times days to meet.
I personally am happy go lucky with a few extra pounds, there are some that look for models, bbc, bwc, dom, sub. Its just what i think obv |
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"Sorry for going a bit off topic there.
Back to it... it's good to hear what people want to see, but you also need to be yourself and run your profile how you want as that helps show your personality rather than have it become a generic people pleasing mess.
Totally agree. I know what I’m looking for, but I’d never expect anyone to tailor their profile to suit me. I wouldn’t change mine for anyone. If you don’t like it, don’t look, that’s my approach. "
I created a thread about women's profiles btw  |
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"Sorry for going a bit off topic there.
Back to it... it's good to hear what people want to see, but you also need to be yourself and run your profile how you want as that helps show your personality rather than have it become a generic people pleasing mess.
Totally agree. I know what I’m looking for, but I’d never expect anyone to tailor their profile to suit me. I wouldn’t change mine for anyone. If you don’t like it, don’t look, that’s my approach.
I created a thread about women's profiles btw "
Ooh that’ll be interesting to read |
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So one cock pic on public display is what most women would like to see, is that the common thinking then? Just for clarity....?
Although I’m the male of the couple I’d say just put the dick pics on friends only and send it if requested. If none of your public pics are of your cock most would assume they’re in your friends only."
We wouldn't bother asking. |
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A well written, witty bio, that shows me what the person is looking for/into.
Non graphic photos. Maybe some teasing ones. Some arty ones. If I can see a bit of a beard Then my interest is definitely piqued  |
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By *ammo89Man
over a year ago
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Dick pics seem to be the only real contentious issue when it comes to guys profiles. Some find it vulgar, others like to see what's on offer.
I only have one on my profile, which is after a face and body pic. I would never send one, though |
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Likes.
* A well written profile. Detailing what they can offer as well as what they're looking for.
* Arty, well thought out photos.
* Being up front about their marital status.
* Someone who has a clear idea of what they would like.
Dislikes (I'll try keep it shorts  )
* Lazy willy snaps.
* 'Will fill in later' bios or bios where every sentence starts 'I want'.
* Scuffy/dirty looking backgrounds in their home.
* Use of the word 'professional'. Most people are professional in what they do for a living. I also feel use of this line makes it seem like you're above other people you'd deem to have a lesser job.
* Men ranting about how rubbish fab is, how they can't get a meet, how all the women are obviously 'up their selves' for not reply etc. |
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By *ove2Couple
over a year ago
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"Likes.
* A well written profile. Detailing what they can offer as well as what they're looking for.
* Arty, well thought out photos.
* Being up front about their marital status.
* Someone who has a clear idea of what they would like.
Dislikes (I'll try keep it shorts )
* Lazy willy snaps.
* 'Will fill in later' bios or bios where every sentence starts 'I want'.
* Scuffy/dirty looking backgrounds in their home.
* Use of the word 'professional'. Most people are professional in what they do for a living. I also feel use of this line makes it seem like you're above other people you'd deem to have a lesser job.
* Men ranting about how rubbish fab is, how they can't get a meet, how all the women are obviously 'up their selves' for not reply etc. "
Well said. And spot on. Xx |
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There isn't a universal standard; it's to everyone's individual taste. As mentioned, there's more conflicting advice than Men's Health magazine..."go running to live longer...but not too much or you'll dieeee".
Be yourself. If that doesn't attract anyone then get a cat and learn to embrace the loneliness.  |
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"Likes.
* A well written profile. Detailing what they can offer as well as what they're looking for.
* Arty, well thought out photos.
* Being up front about their marital status.
* Someone who has a clear idea of what they would like.
Dislikes (I'll try keep it shorts )
* Lazy willy snaps.
* 'Will fill in later' bios or bios where every sentence starts 'I want'.
* Scuffy/dirty looking backgrounds in their home.
* Use of the word 'professional'. Most people are professional in what they do for a living. I also feel use of this line makes it seem like you're above other people you'd deem to have a lesser job.
* Men ranting about how rubbish fab is, how they can't get a meet, how all the women are obviously 'up their selves' for not reply etc. "
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"What do you gals feel about my profile?
I'm interested to see what you think about it. "
Your advertising as a young single male. What is the purpose of the lone female in the pic. Shows no connection to you other than you've possibley had one |
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"What do you gals feel about my profile?
I'm interested to see what you think about it.
Your advertising as a young single male. What is the purpose of the lone female in the pic. Shows no connection to you other than you've possibley had one "
I've just realised that's you.
Me person my does nout but think that's for a wider audience
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"Me.. I like to see a healthy looking bank statement in the public folder.
You say this.. I actually have seen someone upload their bank balance before  "
I've had three this week offering hols in Dubai  |
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By *atenaWoman
over a year ago
Hyde |
"Likes.
* A well written profile. Detailing what they can offer as well as what they're looking for.
* Arty, well thought out photos.
* Being up front about their marital status.
* Someone who has a clear idea of what they would like.
Dislikes (I'll try keep it shorts )
* Lazy willy snaps.
* 'Will fill in later' bios or bios where every sentence starts 'I want'.
* Scuffy/dirty looking backgrounds in their home.
* Use of the word 'professional'. Most people are professional in what they do for a living. I also feel use of this line makes it seem like you're above other people you'd deem to have a lesser job.
* Men ranting about how rubbish fab is, how they can't get a meet, how all the women are obviously 'up their selves' for not reply etc. "
ALL OF THIS!!!!!!!!!!
It's hard for men on here .... clearly.... so why not try and have the best profile you can? I don't get it!!
When talking to men about their profiles I often say... your profile needs to be like your own personal selling page and the product is you. Show it off to its best |
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"What do you gals feel about my profile?
I'm interested to see what you think about it.
Your advertising as a young single male. What is the purpose of the lone female in the pic. Shows no connection to you other than you've possibley had one
I've just realised that's you.
Me person my does nout but think that's for a wider audience
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Lol, It's cool. Was the balls not a give away under my arse? Hahaha. |
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"What do you gals feel about my profile?
I'm interested to see what you think about it.
Your advertising as a young single male. What is the purpose of the lone female in the pic. Shows no connection to you other than you've possibley had one
I've just realised that's you.
Me person my does nout but think that's for a wider audience
Lol, It's cool. Was the balls not a give away under my arse? Hahaha."
Me.. Personally I didn't look that hard, but the other 35 girls in the group are howling at my error. They spotted them. I'm not known for my good eye sight though.
If I looked like that in all fours I'd be dead proud. |
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I've written mine in a manner that will serve as a natural filter to those who are will find me either marginally intriguing or downright repulsive.
I make no apologies for my irreverence or my quirky humour. |
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By *atenaWoman
over a year ago
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"I've written mine in a manner that will serve as a natural filter to those who are will find me either marginally intriguing or downright repulsive.
I make no apologies for my irreverence or my quirky humour."
I like your profile .... besides your random taste in trainers |
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"I've written mine in a manner that will serve as a natural filter to those who are will find me either marginally intriguing or downright repulsive.
I make no apologies for my irreverence or my quirky humour."
Great profile... Prob one of the best I've come across.
I'd guess mine can read like an essay and most won't see the humour in it, until they meet me. |
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"I've written mine in a manner that will serve as a natural filter to those who are will find me either marginally intriguing or downright repulsive.
I make no apologies for my irreverence or my quirky humour."
Your profile is brilliant. It’s a pleasure to read. I’m sure, as you say, it attracts the people you want to meet, which is perfect. |
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"I've written mine in a manner that will serve as a natural filter to those who are will find me either marginally intriguing or downright repulsive.
I make no apologies for my irreverence or my quirky humour.
Your profile is brilliant. It’s a pleasure to read. I’m sure, as you say, it attracts the people you want to meet, which is perfect. "
You nailed it on the perfect female |
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By *LiamMan
over a year ago
Midlands |
I really don't care about my profile or it's text. you can see my pictures that says enough. Too many guys try to come across as the gentlemen type in their text but are far from it. Atleast i'm not selling you ladies dreams |
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I Mr S has a healthy bank statement (and cash) but it’s not about that is it? Mutual attraction for no strings fun enjoying pleasures and conversation on a sexual level whether one off or regular - both experiences are amazing with the right people but money doesn’t prevail, surely? |
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"I Mr S has a healthy bank statement (and cash) but it’s not about that is it? Mutual attraction for no strings fun enjoying pleasures and conversation on a sexual level whether one off or regular - both experiences are amazing with the right people but money doesn’t prevail, surely? "
A sense of humour is so attractive. |
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"I've written mine in a manner that will serve as a natural filter to those who are will find me either marginally intriguing or downright repulsive.
I make no apologies for my irreverence or my quirky humour.
Great profile... Prob one of the best I've come across.
I'd guess mine can read like an essay and most won't see the humour in it, until they meet me. "
Thank you. |
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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago
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There's no such thing as the perfect male Profile...and women are too different from eachother for one male profile to cater to a large number of them ( unless he is the mega Chad most women will find attractive- and even that is purely physical). Women will look at your pictures, if they don't like what they see, they will not reply or message you. |
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"There's no such thing as the perfect male Profile...and women are too different from eachother for one male profile to cater to a large number of them ( unless he is the mega Chad most women will find attractive- and even that is purely physical). Women will look at your pictures, if they don't like what they see, they will not reply or message you. "
Not true. It’s not solely based on pictures, yea they play a part but I go on how they come across on forums, what they’ve written on bio too |
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"There's no such thing as the perfect male Profile...and women are too different from eachother for one male profile to cater to a large number of them ( unless he is the mega Chad most women will find attractive- and even that is purely physical). Women will look at your pictures, if they don't like what they see, they will not reply or message you. "
It's not all about the pictures. Ofcourse there has to be some level of attraction but if the profile is bland and as dull as dish water then things wouldn't progress. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Meh! I'm a dick! But also not seeking someone whose also a dick. And no I don't want to see their dick as their profile pic, but yes of course I do want to also see their dick. But no I don't want to ask to see their dick 
Also a bit of banter goes down vey well! But then again their version of funny is maybe not mine? So apparently they're screwed at every turn? But highly unlikely to be by me... So, I tend to seek out the profiles that I actually like, as we all like different things |
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"There's no such thing as the perfect male Profile...and women are too different from eachother for one male profile to cater to a large number of them ( unless he is the mega Chad most women will find attractive- and even that is purely physical). Women will look at your pictures, if they don't like what they see, they will not reply or message you. "
The replies in this thread make it clear that that’s just not the case. Bio and profile as a whole are really important. |
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"There's no such thing as the perfect male Profile...and women are too different from eachother for one male profile to cater to a large number of them ( unless he is the mega Chad most women will find attractive- and even that is purely physical). Women will look at your pictures, if they don't like what they see, they will not reply or message you.
The replies in this thread make it clear that that’s just not the case. Bio and profile as a whole are really important. "
Yep! Crazy but true! Folk dig different things? Novel concept |
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over a year ago
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Absolutely this. Stop trying to appeal to the masses. Say what you want in an articulate fashion and don't yourself too seriously.
Have pictures. I personally prefer not to have cock pics because it feels a bit vulgar, but it is about attraction to the brain and body so if the lady requests one, no problem
My profile doesn"t work for everyone but I don't want everyone.
"The problem is guys want a profile that will appeal to everyone (FOMO)so with that in mind:
Don't post a dick pic
Make sure to post a dick pic
If you are bi lie and say you are straight.
Make sure to say you are bi
Don't post 'action' shots
Make sure you post action shots
If you are married/in a relationship say so.
Don't ever admit to being in a relationship or married.
I'm sure you get the idea."
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