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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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More for the ladies. No judgement by others please . When you have sex with another man would you it's not the full satisfaction if there was a Condom ? When me and my wife chat about it she says she don't see the point in doing it with a condom as she wouldn't feel the full satisfaction and also a cream pie ending is what it's about . She said if you going to do it you may aswell go the whole way or don't do it .. I know people say it's risky but it's a risk I'd take and I know there's alot on here who agree with me |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think your post sums it up perfectly. Sex with no creampie isn't satisfying at all. So yes, bare only meets for me too xx"
Yes it seems pointless to me not going the full way. If I'm gonna let another man have my wife and his got his dick in her anyway then he may aswell go the whole way and it makes it more pleasurable for the Mrs to ..  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think people should do what they want. Personally I don't think sex with a condom is pointless though."
Everyone has their own opinions and I totally respect that |
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People are free to do what they want of course, but I’ve fucked more that a hundred women in my life and some of those women will have fucked a hundred men.
If you are promiscuous then the chances of catching something are pretty high.
So of the things you can catch are little more than irritants and can be easily treated, whilst some other things are bloody horrific and difficult or possibly impossible to treat.
Just be kind to yourselves |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"People are free to do what they want of course, but I’ve fucked more that a hundred women in my life and some of those women will have fucked a hundred men.
If you are promiscuous then the chances of catching something are pretty high.
So of the things you can catch are little more than irritants and can be easily treated, whilst some other things are bloody horrific and difficult or possibly impossible to treat.
Just be kind to yourselves "
This one basically - Doncaster 1998 and only one guy was responsible for 26 cases. Old parachute regiment mate of mine would always say "never jump without a chute".
It is of course personal choice and like any it's about risk assessment.
We aren't that bothered about seeing cum dripping out of her enough to keep testing repetitively every time we bareback with someone outside our bubble. |
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I think we might be in the minority here, but bareback is just for Jeni and I. Our preference is 100% condom on for any other cock. Just not worth the risk, for us the risk would ruin any fun. But again everyone is different!!  |
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A guy cuming inside me is what makes me cum
I have no interest in sex with condoms, I've only done it rarely but each time I've felt disappointed and let down after, I can't get into sex with a condom as I know I won't get rewarded at the finish, its not an experience I wish to repeat
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"Did your wife actually use the word creampie?
"Cum in me" lol I just said creampie it was easier
Yeah, it's not a term women in general would use "
its very common with young women online/amongst their groups 18-25 ...just to add ..
generational gaps mean different things hugely with words/terms i find over the years .... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Did your wife actually use the word creampie?
"Cum in me" lol I just said creampie it was easier
Yeah, it's not a term women in general would use
its very common with young women online/amongst their groups 18-25 ...just to add ..
generational gaps mean different things hugely with words/terms i find over the years ...."
Learn something new everyday |
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Posts like this come up regularly.
All you can do is look at the risks and decide for yourself is the risk worth it ?
I think most men would admit to themselves but not publicly that they would go bare given the choice.
Other people decide to drink and drive, you may be alright you may not.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"More for the ladies. No judgement by others please . When you have sex with another man would you it's not the full satisfaction if there was a Condom ? When me and my wife chat about it she says she don't see the point in doing it with a condom as she wouldn't feel the full satisfaction and also a cream pie ending is what it's about . She said if you going to do it you may aswell go the whole way or don't do it .. I know people say it's risky but it's a risk I'd take and I know there's alot on here who agree with me "
Only with someone regular and only when we'd both been tested. One offs, not a chance. |
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It is about personal risk and appetite for risk. As was pointed out earlier on, for a lot of the, shall we say, infections there is a simple and straightforward remedy / cure. There are some, however, for which it is now a life sentence with no current cure. There are some that drink and drive but we have a law for that and they are, potentially, intentionally breaking the law. There are several potential consequences for that ranging from a criminal record (plus hugely inflated insurance costs for many years), to the death of one or more others, to all of the above to getting clean away with as nothing happened. Are you happy to take that risk? Need to be mindful and respectful of how others are approaching the risk and not force our preference on them. |
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By *handsMan
over a year ago
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Hell no for me, I’d rather have safe sex, mine will only be bareback in a LTR, I value mine and those I have sex with sexual health, if I came to no sex or bareback, then I will go no sex. Everyone is different and what they chose is up to them and that is to be respected but it would show that we aren’t compatible. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m really starting to wonder if your wife actually exists, yesterday she was too shy to be on fab and now she’s talking about cream pies?"
Hahaha... Probably sums it up... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’m really starting to wonder if your wife actually exists, yesterday she was too shy to be on fab and now she’s talking about cream pies?"
Talking with your partner during sex to going online is completely different level what are you on about lol ..it's a fantasy in the bedroom at the moment we haven't done it and might not ever do it who knows. Coming on here is a whole jump from the bedroom talk .. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m really starting to wonder if your wife actually exists, yesterday she was too shy to be on fab and now she’s talking about cream pies?
Talking with your partner during sex to going online is completely different level what are you on about lol ..it's a fantasy in the bedroom at the moment we haven't done it and might not ever do it who knows. Coming on here is a whole jump from the bedroom talk .. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't find the pleasure and different. I bought skyns to use and can't really tell the guy is wearing one. I don't like the mess, so condoms are preferable.
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Strange you should mention that brand. When we recently role played with bad bitch tied to the bed and blindfolded I left the room for a while, came back with a skyn condom on and behaved differently but she said it didn't feel any different inside her at all 
I was a bit disappointed if I'm honest  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I’m really starting to wonder if your wife actually exists, yesterday she was too shy to be on fab and now she’s talking about cream pies?
Talking with your partner during sex to going online is completely different level what are you on about lol ..it's a fantasy in the bedroom at the moment we haven't done it and might not ever do it who knows. Coming on here is a whole jump from the bedroom talk ..
Mmmhmmmm "
Exactly.. lol fantasy can be as dirty as you like it doesn't mean it's going to be that or happen . In my case I hope it does. FYI my wife didn't say creampie that was my term I used. Not a fan of the term either to be fair |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"A guy cuming inside me is what makes me cum
I have no interest in sex with condoms, I've only done it rarely but each time I've felt disappointed and let down after, I can't get into sex with a condom as I know I won't get rewarded at the finish, its not an experience I wish to repeat
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Generally I prefer the naughtiness of bareback and the thrill of taking a mess home to hubby, but it tends to be with those few guys I’ve met on multiple occasions rather than first time with someone, and I always carry protection and offer it x |
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