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Do people actually have successful meets on here or is it just all a show ?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Do couples and women and single males have meets from here ? I see alot of people saying here just for the forums. I guess couples seeking a male isn't hard to find . More couples meeting couples ? |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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I use fab to keep in touch with people that I've met at events and see what clubs I want to go to. I just meet purely by chance in clubs and venues.
I don't arrange any meets on Fab, people use the site in many different ways. |
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I cant voice an opinion on couples seeking couples, but in the case of couples seeking men then 90% are fakes or timewasters.
A large proportion are males on here alone and the female having no knowledge of 'their' profile. In other cases, the couple in question gave it a try years ago, gave up but the male is still living the dream and happy to waste the time of guys who contact them, just look at the age of the last verification.
Females, well they can just pick and choose, so few of them on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I haven't met many on this profile as I've had some personal issues. On my last profile I met A LOT of men and some women and couples, the vast majority were great meets xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We’ve meet some great people! But there’s absolutely a lot of time wasters just collecting pics to wank to unfortunately! You have to be careful and aware of red flags for sure! Good luck! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I mostly met through clubs though I have had a few through here. Only really just branching out again after covid though. "
Beautiful pictures by the way  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sounds like we aren't doing terribly then. Two fantastic couples over a few months. Our limiting factor is family life means we don't have many mutually open dates available.
Patience and a realistic level of expectation combined with a strong tolerance when you are clearly left in the lurch is our best approach. |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
I've had some amazing meets on here still do .Some have been well not so amazing.
People use fab for whatever reason they want. Right now im not interested in doing new meets as I'm too busy. If people think I'm a timewaster because I won't meet them for a fuck well that's issue and it's only their time they waste as I tell anyone I do chat to that I'm not doing new meets at present. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do couples and women and single males have meets from here ? I see alot of people saying here just for the forums. I guess couples seeking a male isn't hard to find . More couples meeting couples ?"
Have you noticed that a lot of the people saying 'just here for the forums' are saying it, in the forums. 
Most of those who are here to meet, do pretty well. |
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I've had enjoyable meets with both females and couples on fab. However, there are a lot of fakes and time wasters here. It takes patience but after a while you can tell the genuine ones. And often the ones who are here to meet focus on that rather than spending a lot of time on the forums. |
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I’ve had a few meets. Time and patience are key. We all have sex in the brain, many different ways to engage the brain. Some people like straight up meets, some prefer the forums. The forums are great, I’ve spoken to so many nice people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I mostly met through clubs though I have had a few through here. Only really just branching out again after covid though. "
Do your branches reach Manchester?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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swinging is and always will be a rejection process just like looking for relationships or even looking for a job its a very selective process therefor alot will get rejected add in to the mix that depending on where you are in the country men are anything from 100 to 1 or 1,000 to 1 thats a hell of a lot of rejection that to add gets worse by the day dues to more and more men joining ..
then guys add in those that dont meet ie use the site to keep in touch or club meets or just socials id say thats at least 50% of all women and couples maybe alot more if honest .... then what chances do men really have ??? if 90% of men left fab tomorrow there would still be to many ... but as others have said swinging is much bigger than fab its a big ole scene even clubs are a very small part of the scene .... |
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"I cant voice an opinion on couples seeking couples, but in the case of couples seeking men then 90% are fakes or timewasters.
A large proportion are males on here alone and the female having no knowledge of 'their' profile. In other cases, the couple in question gave it a try years ago, gave up but the male is still living the dream and happy to waste the time of guys who contact them, just look at the age of the last verification.
Females, well they can just pick and choose, so few of them on here."
It's good to see a single guy savvy regarding profiles. We only got stung by a fake once, we're far more savvy now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do couples and women and single males have meets from here ? I see alot of people saying here just for the forums. I guess couples seeking a male isn't hard to find . More couples meeting couples ?"
It's not all just show, I and many others have had successful meets from the site, and a lot of fun they are too |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Always the blokes hey lol"
No I'm not saying it because I'm having trouble I'm not even in this lifestyle yet its as I seen a few couples say it's a waste of time on here |
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On my previous profile I had a lot of successful meets but I lived in West London, I came off the site for a while and rejoined when I moved to Scotland where its definitely trickier but overall yes, meets are possible and can be successful  |
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We have had loads of meets but generally best ones are with folks that already attend parties, clubs and holidays.
Found 121 meets can be a bit more difficult to set up and have a greater percentage of timewasters.
Before covid wouldn't meet with anyone without verifications.
Good luck with future meets.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Seems to be all fakes and men just trying to get themselves off
Every single female and couple is a man having a wank. I should know… I’m one of them  "
I’m backtracking now because I don’t want to get banned. My wife is very real and she is well aware of our fab account and has met some lovely people through this site. |
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It can be hard to meet other couples,there's 4way attraction and 4way availability to get through then.
Plus I'm straight and many couples are looking for bi fem couples,if we want to meet together ,we'd go to a club. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I mostly met through clubs though I have had a few through here. Only really just branching out again after covid though. "
“I’m just getting back into the swing of it”
*stumbles off the chair…
“Did you mean to do that”  |
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OP, if you want to find out how succeful folk are just click on their username and look at their veris I they show them...
SexDadBod seems to be doing fine, and no complaints here.
Maybe try chatting to fems and couples (in chat or forum) and see if there is a spark or you click, then you can take it from there...
Alternatively just keep messaging everyone who is online with FAF and see how you get on! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"OP, if you want to find out how succeful folk are just click on their username and look at their veris I they show them...
SexDadBod seems to be doing fine, and no complaints here.
Maybe try chatting to fems and couples (in chat or forum) and see if there is a spark or you click, then you can take it from there...
Alternatively just keep messaging everyone who is online with FAF and see how you get on!"
Hi mate it was more of just a general question as I saw alot saying on here nothing happens in one of the other threads .yeah I have seen lots of veris but people even saying their fake now |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
Stoke area |
There are a lot of fakes, timewasters and picture collectors. There's also a lot of amazing genuine sexy people on here. The aim of the game is to find the real ones. Going to organised socials, clubs and reading verifications can help you find people who actually exist. |
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By *assy MissWoman
over a year ago
Sent to Coventry |
"There are a lot of fakes, timewasters and picture collectors. There's also a lot of amazing genuine sexy people on here. "
This!
It takes a while to find a good meet, but wow I’ve had some amazing experiences |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
"There are a lot of fakes, timewasters and picture collectors. There's also a lot of amazing genuine sexy people on here. The aim of the game is to find the real ones. Going to organised socials, clubs and reading verifications can help you find people who actually exist. "
I definitely concur with this.  |
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"I mostly met through clubs though I have had a few through here. Only really just branching out again after covid though.
“I’m just getting back into the swing of it”
*stumbles off the chair…
“Did you mean to do that” "
It was so funny though |
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By *omer47Man
over a year ago
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"Have met plenty from here, some stayed friends, others have vanished quicker than an mp claims expenses"
The size of that pole I'm suprised you've not had many more meets.....most guys who's seen your picture would be, (as I am),jealous of your size.the others haven't had the pleasure yet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I mostly met through clubs though I have had a few through here. Only really just branching out again after covid though.
“I’m just getting back into the swing of it”
*stumbles off the chair…
“Did you mean to do that”
It was so funny though "
It makes me laugh thinking about it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do couples and women and single males have meets from here ? I see alot of people saying here just for the forums. I guess couples seeking a male isn't hard to find . More couples meeting couples ?"
I've met people
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do couples and women and single males have meets from here ? I see alot of people saying here just for the forums. I guess couples seeking a male isn't hard to find . More couples meeting couples ?
I've met people
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So have I |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's like the Truman Show, we are all actors "
Well you know sometimes when people say there just here for this and that and people say people timewaste and some say not bad much luck that's women and couples speaking not even men |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes... But even as a single woman, meeting single men, it can be hard work! "
Really..!! I always thought you lot had it easy, except for having to pick the right one/ones |
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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago
Peterborough / Stamford |
We've met plenty of single guys from here, though over two and a half years we reckon that the no-show rate is 50%.
We've not managed to meet any single women or couples though. Think half don't want to know because we don't full swap, and most of the other half are just so bad at communicating that it's impossible to build any kind of rapport. The few couples we've met have been from events like Swingathon and from clubs.
But we do like single guys, so we'll carry on here.
(Bry) |
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By *6travellerMan
over a year ago
Tayside, Midlands and Chester |
"Do couples and women and single males have meets from here ? I see alot of people saying here just for the forums. I guess couples seeking a male isn't hard to find . More couples meeting couples ?"
Very successful meets and lots of nice people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes. We have both had a fair few by ourselves and together though we only play together now.
Please don't take this the wrong way but if your technique isn't working then don't go about it that way. Give it a few weeks and commit to different behaviour and you'll realise what works best for you.
Clue_ moaning about other site members by name or not will not help.
Good luck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's plenty of Jackanory types but there are also many, many genuine people.
You can usually tell the former by their status'.
"That was great...you know who you are.."
"Oh wow....just had so much sex..." and they'll have no verifications or just not verified for 6 years (I'm exaggerating) |
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By *lan157Man
over a year ago
a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex |
I have met people resulting from messages as a single man and as a couple.Often the messages are follow up having first met at a social or in a club hot tub and exchanged user names. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes. Had plenty of successful meets. The hit rate is very very low though.
By the time I’ve filtered messages I’m actually interested, wank chatters, distance issues, time wasters, diary incompatibility, sexual preferences etc, I’ll bet easily less than 1 in 100 messages turn into a social meet, which even then doesn’t guarantee I’ll play. It has improved somewhat as my sexual horizons have opened.
Like anything, it usually takes a lot of effort to make things work for you, and if it seems too good to be true, it probably is xx
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