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over a year ago
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To me it just seems a bit silly the way it is arranged at present. The rules should be that you have a body pic on your profile, that way such classifications are unneccessary. I am very democratic in who I will meet, as I love the conection over some sort of lust, but a message from a cpl describing themselves as 'ample' was truly shocking when the pictures were attached  |
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over a year ago
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I would have thought that ample was on the large side so would'nt have been shocked at pictures showing that
Ample is what it says,you can't dress it up into anything else
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over a year ago
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I have no idea what to put for this. I'm a size 14/16 and have ticked "curvy" because "ample" seems a bit extreme. I don't know. I'd rather someone said if they thought I was fat. I have full body pics in our friends section. I'm not hiding what I am, but not sure how to define myself.
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"for me, curvy is someone got fat, but a curvy figure, sadly seems alot of fat women on here put curvy"
Please PM me if you think I should change it. I won't be offended  |
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"To me it just seems a bit silly the way it is arranged at present. The rules should be that you have a body pic on your profile, that way such classifications are unneccessary. I am very democratic in who I will meet, as I love the conection over some sort of lust, but a message from a cpl describing themselves as 'ample' was truly shocking when the pictures were attached "
Interesting that you talk about rules regarding pictures, some might say the picture just of a woman and the picture primarily of a woman and including her face that you have on your profile break the existing rules...
People label themselves as they see fit, it's always going to be subjective. I fail to see the problem. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have no idea what to put for this. I'm a size 14/16 and have ticked "curvy" because "ample" seems a bit extreme. I don't know. I'd rather someone said if they thought I was fat. I have full body pics in our friends section. I'm not hiding what I am, but not sure how to define myself.
Mrs Storm x"
im a size 14/16 ish and i have large on my profile
i think thats the problem everyone sees size different so what one person see's as large someone else wont
you can only put what you class yourself as some will look and agree some wont same with everything on here whatever you put about anything someone will pick fault and moan about it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"for me, curvy is someone got fat, but a curvy figure, sadly seems alot of fat women on here put curvy"
It's all about self identification, I'm curvy because I've got boobs a smallish waist and big hips. That to me is curvy. |
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By *wencatWoman
over a year ago
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god hate the word fat sounds awful and offensive sorry Its. just me hate peoples feelings hurt. I am no stick insect. and rather be called curvy than fat I feel. and to be honest does it really matter we don't need to message anyone. just pass by |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"for me, curvy is someone got fat, but a curvy figure, sadly seems alot of fat women on here put curvy
It's all about self identification, I'm curvy because I've got boobs a smallish waist and big hips. That to me is curvy. "
yeah, others might think your bigger, its about personal preference |
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over a year ago
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surely theres more ways of knowing what people look like than what they class themselves as on here anyway
i alwaya ask to see people on web cam before i meet, simply because so many do use old pics, other peoples pics etc
i dont want cam sex from them just a true image of what they look like and also so they can see me
its really quite easy to sit down and think about what you need to do to meet the right people for you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have no idea what to put for this. I'm a size 14/16 and have ticked "curvy" because "ample" seems a bit extreme. I don't know. I'd rather someone said if they thought I was fat. I have full body pics in our friends section. I'm not hiding what I am, but not sure how to define myself.
Mrs Storm x"
Mrs storm. Yours is easy it's fabulous. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have no idea what to put for this. I'm a size 14/16 and have ticked "curvy" because "ample" seems a bit extreme. I don't know. I'd rather someone said if they thought I was fat. I have full body pics in our friends section. I'm not hiding what I am, but not sure how to define myself.
Mrs Storm x
im a size 14/16 ish and i have large on my profile
i think thats the problem everyone sees size different so what one person see's as large someone else wont
you can only put what you class yourself as some will look and agree some wont same with everything on here whatever you put about anything someone will pick fault and moan about it "
naughtynymphos and storm would class both of you as curvy.
You both have boobs and hips with your waist curving in hence curvy  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"for me, curvy is someone got fat, but a curvy figure, sadly seems alot of fat women on here put curvy
It's all about self identification, I'm curvy because I've got boobs a smallish waist and big hips. That to me is curvy. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are two problems with the 'descriptions' of body type on here. First, they are words which are usually only applied to women (would someone like to argue that a man can be 'curvy'??) and secondly, one persons curvy is another persons 'you're a size 10, but with a gigantic pair of boobs' at one end of spectrum, to 'Who ate all the pies??' at the other end (leave that one to your imagination).
If, in the T's & C's there was something to clarify to guide people to the best description (if there has to be one) then it would be a help.
Personally, I don't think full body photos are any help either as (as I found out to my cost once...) they can be - shock! horror! How can someone do that?!!!! - Out of Date.... 
The ONLY way to check someones body shape/size IF that is important to you is to....... meet them!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"for me, curvy is someone got fat, but a curvy figure, sadly seems alot of fat women on here put curvy
It's all about self identification, I'm curvy because I've got boobs a smallish waist and big hips. That to me is curvy.
yeah, others might think your bigger, its about personal preference"
It's not about what other people think, its about what I choose to identify myself as & quite frankly others just have to accept that. If they don't like me that's their loss & not mine. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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plus its not just women i may add
ive had many rugby player build men mail me!!
not everyone likes to admit they are fat, personally its never bothered me, but im quite a blunt person i call a spade a spade and a lot of people get quite offended by that, i get told not to put myself down regular when i dont really i just dont dress myself up in fancy words because no matter how you class youself you still look the same so why put a bow on it, but thats just me
but to some to say they are curvy or rugby player build just makes them feel better
its not hurting anyone they're just words |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"god hate the word fat sounds awful and offensive sorry Its. just me hate peoples feelings hurt. I am no stick insect. and rather be called curvy than fat I feel. and to be honest does it really matter we don't need to message anyone. just pass by "
me too. |
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Ladies could specify height and dress size, guys could specify height, chest and waste size.
It wont make any difference though, because some people would still want to know more, like how big are your feet or how many ribs have you got 
A clear body pic would go a long way to solve most of these issues, but even then you have to rely on people dispaying a recent likeness
The human element in any discussion of catergorization will always raise questions, no matter what the subject matter.
This one will run forever |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have no idea what to put for this. I'm a size 14/16 and have ticked "curvy" because "ample" seems a bit extreme. I don't know. I'd rather someone said if they thought I was fat. I have full body pics in our friends section. I'm not hiding what I am, but not sure how to define myself.
Mrs Storm x
Mrs storm. Yours is easy it's fabulous. "
Is Fabulous not the biggest size on that list? |
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"I have no idea what to put for this. I'm a size 14/16 and have ticked "curvy" because "ample" seems a bit extreme. I don't know. I'd rather someone said if they thought I was fat. I have full body pics in our friends section. I'm not hiding what I am, but not sure how to define myself.
Mrs Storm x
im a size 14/16 ish and i have large on my profile
i think thats the problem everyone sees size different so what one person see's as large someone else wont
you can only put what you class yourself as some will look and agree some wont same with everything on here whatever you put about anything someone will pick fault and moan about it "
See now I agree there as personally I wouldn't see 14-16 as large at all, after all you are one 1-2 sizes bigger than me. Perhaps height makes a difference? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"plus its not just women i may add
ive had many rugby player build men mail me!!
not everyone likes to admit they are fat, personally its never bothered me, but im quite a blunt person i call a spade a spade and a lot of people get quite offended by that, i get told not to put myself down regular when i dont really i just dont dress myself up in fancy words because no matter how you class youself you still look the same so why put a bow on it, but thats just me
but to some to say they are curvy or rugby player build just makes them feel better
its not hurting anyone they're just words"
I am muscular and ripped ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"To me it just seems a bit silly the way it is arranged at present. The rules should be that you have a body pic on your profile, that way such classifications are unneccessary. I am very democratic in who I will meet, as I love the conection over some sort of lust, but a message from a cpl describing themselves as 'ample' was truly shocking when the pictures were attached "
And suppose that someone puts up an old picture from before they gained "a little" weight?
The size option I never understood is "fabulous". It could apply to anyone, a lean toned guy would be fabolous to me! I might have a fabulous body for one guy or he may prefer someone with more curves. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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See fabulous is a description that should be removed or replaced, it is used by those that are extremely toned as well as those that are extremely obese, which if there are no body pics on a profile can be very misleading, I always take it to be the larger as it is last on the list |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have no idea what to put for this. I'm a size 14/16 and have ticked "curvy" because "ample" seems a bit extreme. I don't know. I'd rather someone said if they thought I was fat. I have full body pics in our friends section. I'm not hiding what I am, but not sure how to define myself.
Mrs Storm x
im a size 14/16 ish and i have large on my profile
i think thats the problem everyone sees size different so what one person see's as large someone else wont
you can only put what you class yourself as some will look and agree some wont same with everything on here whatever you put about anything someone will pick fault and moan about it
See now I agree there as personally I wouldn't see 14-16 as large at all, after all you are one 1-2 sizes bigger than me. Perhaps height makes a difference? "
its all down to what you like tho
someone who likes BBWs (sorry shot me for saying the dreaded BBW phrase lol) wont see a size 16 as big, someone who dont like big women wll see a size 16 as big
a size 16 is the same to look at for everyone but people will see it differently and thats why people will nevcer agree on whats curvy, big ete not not everyone sees it the same
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have no idea what to put for this. I'm a size 14/16 and have ticked "curvy" because "ample" seems a bit extreme. I don't know. I'd rather someone said if they thought I was fat. I have full body pics in our friends section. I'm not hiding what I am, but not sure how to define myself.
Mrs Storm x
im a size 14/16 ish and i have large on my profile
i think thats the problem everyone sees size different so what one person see's as large someone else wont
you can only put what you class yourself as some will look and agree some wont same with everything on here whatever you put about anything someone will pick fault and moan about it
See now I agree there as personally I wouldn't see 14-16 as large at all, after all you are one 1-2 sizes bigger than me. Perhaps height makes a difference?
its all down to what you like tho
someone who likes BBWs (sorry shot me for saying the dreaded BBW phrase lol) wont see a size 16 as big, someone who dont like big women wll see a size 16 as big
a size 16 is the same to look at for everyone but people will see it differently and thats why people will nevcer agree on whats curvy, big ete not not everyone sees it the same
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And isn't size 16 statistically 'average' now anyway?
If I ever get down to that size I'm going to be curvy or average!
I put fabulous plus I have my dress size on my profile. Even that however is a little misleading as my size on my 5' 9" frame looks different to that size on someone who is only 5' 2".
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By (user no longer on site)
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I didn't know what to put for this. I'm a big girl but not what i'd class as huge but maybe others would disagree.
I am a dress size 20 and have plenty of pictures so future meets know what they are getting :S
I firmly believe that sexy is a state of mind and if a woman or man is confident and self assured then most people will appreciate that. I do always insist on swapping face pics before a meet and won't meet anyone without pics on their profile.
As far as attraction goes twinkly eyes and a genuine smile are more important to me than a 6 pack or a 12 inch cock
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I didn't know what to put for this. I'm a big girl but not what i'd class as huge but maybe others would disagree.
I am a dress size 20 and have plenty of pictures so future meets know what they are getting :S
I firmly believe that sexy is a state of mind and if a woman or man is confident and self assured then most people will appreciate that. I do always insist on swapping face pics before a meet and won't meet anyone without pics on their profile.
As far as attraction goes twinkly eyes and a genuine smile are more important to me than a 6 pack or a 12 inch cock
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i agree sexy and attraction is not the same thing
attraction is a visual thing, sexy is a state of mind
i know many attractive women i dont find sexy at all |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"when curves turn into rolls your fat
I definitely have rolls."
lol me too
you know the pencil test to see if you have pert boobs?
i can get the whole bloody case under my belly lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"when curves turn into rolls your fat "
i met for a social recently, the lady in question described herself as curvy but was a size 24/26 which is a bit more than curvy |
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"To me it just seems a bit silly the way it is arranged at present. The rules should be that you have a body pic on your profile, that way such classifications are unneccessary. I am very democratic in who I will meet, as I love the conection over some sort of lust, but a message from a cpl describing themselves as 'ample' was truly shocking when the pictures were attached
Interesting that you talk about rules regarding pictures, some might say the picture just of a woman and the picture primarily of a woman and including her face that you have on your profile break the existing rules...
People label themselves as they see fit, it's always going to be subjective. I fail to see the problem."
Thing is the OP often makes these comments. What's sad is the desperation and neediness of some to seek approval from total strangers in how they describe themselves.
I always meet socially first because photos don't guarantee either party will want to take it further.
If someone doesn't take my fancy, or I think their delusional, it's not for me to dictate how others wish to portray themselves.
As for taken notice from someone who couldn't decide if he were straight or bi even with a cock up his arse...please!  |
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"when curves turn into rolls your fat
i met for a social recently, the lady in question described herself as curvy but was a size 24/26 which is a bit more than curvy "
surely you must have seen her before meeting, you didnt meet someone just based on the fact they said they was curvy did you? lol
if you did, im curvy |
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"To me it just seems a bit silly the way it is arranged at present. The rules should be that you have a body pic on your profile, that way such classifications are unneccessary. I am very democratic in who I will meet, as I love the conection over some sort of lust, but a message from a cpl describing themselves as 'ample' was truly shocking when the pictures were attached "
One definition of 'Ample' is 'More than enough' .... I guess for you this was true
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"Thing is the OP often makes these comments. What's sad is the desperation and neediness of some to seek approval from total strangers in how they describe themselves."
i have to admit i too have noticed that the vast majority of the OPs post are one in the nature that hes questioning or putting down other peoples looks, even on some threads that arnt looks related hes managed to make some comment
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"when curves turn into rolls your fat
i met for a social recently, the lady in question described herself as curvy but was a size 24/26 which is a bit more than curvy
surely you must have seen her before meeting, you didnt meet someone just based on the fact they said they was curvy did you? lol
if you did, im curvy "
lol i saw pics but obviously all taken from creative camera angles and no i didn't meet just cause she said she was curvy lol i do prefer ladies with curves and more |
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"To me it just seems a bit silly the way it is arranged at present. The rules should be that you have a body pic on your profile, that way such classifications are unneccessary. I am very democratic in who I will meet, as I love the conection over some sort of lust, but a message from a cpl describing themselves as 'ample' was truly shocking when the pictures were attached
Interesting that you talk about rules regarding pictures, some might say the picture just of a woman and the picture primarily of a woman and including her face that you have on your profile break the existing rules...
People label themselves as they see fit, it's always going to be subjective. I fail to see the problem.
Thing is the OP often makes these comments. What's sad is the desperation and neediness of some to seek approval from total strangers in how they describe themselves.
I always meet socially first because photos don't guarantee either party will want to take it further.
If someone doesn't take my fancy, or I think their delusional, it's not for me to dictate how others wish to portray themselves.
As for taken notice from someone who couldn't decide if he were straight or bi even with a cock up his arse...please! "
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"when curves turn into rolls your fat
i met for a social recently, the lady in question described herself as curvy but was a size 24/26 which is a bit more than curvy
surely you must have seen her before meeting, you didnt meet someone just based on the fact they said they was curvy did you? lol
if you did, im curvy
lol i saw pics but obviously all taken from creative camera angles and no i didn't meet just cause she said she was curvy lol i do prefer ladies with curves and more "
so did you shag her then?
nahhhh im only kidding
i always perfer to see people in cam, ive met so many guys whos pics are old etc that i like to know what im getting now days |
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"i met a curvy -she said ! but size 20s fookin massive lol 
You're quite the charmer aren't you? "
Was going to say the same. I used to be "fookin massive". Pretty sure I was still a person with feelings though  |
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I think all people that are fat know they are fat at the end of he day...You could make up different words for it all day long,but it all boils down to the same thing...body sizes should be small ,medium large,X large and XX large the same as clothing...
That covers prity much most |
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"for me, curvy is someone got fat, but a curvy figure, sadly seems alot of fat women on here put curvy
Please PM me if you think I should change it. I won't be offended "
Just looked at yer pics - definitely no fat.
You could easily put 'fabulous'... and in one of yer pics - nice pussy |
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"for me, curvy is someone got fat, but a curvy figure, sadly seems alot of fat women on here put curvy
Please PM me if you think I should change it. I won't be offended
Just looked at yer pics - definitely no fat.
You could easily put 'fabulous'... and in one of yer pics - nice pussy "
He's gorgeous ey An asset to any profile having a pussy like that I think. |
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"Thing is the OP often makes these comments. What's sad is the desperation and neediness of some to seek approval from total strangers in how they describe themselves.
i have to admit i too have noticed that the vast majority of the OPs post are one in the nature that hes questioning or putting down other peoples looks, even on some threads that arnt looks related hes managed to make some comment
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I'd picked up on that too. In fairness to the OP from his pictures he has a body that he has clearly worked hard for and has a right to be proud of. What is sad is the way he draws attention to it by sniping at others which to me is indicative of deep insecurity. |
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I'd picked up on that too. In fairness to the OP from his pictures he has a body that he has clearly worked hard for and has a right to be proud of. What is sad is the way he draws attention to it by sniping at others which to me is indicative of deep insecurity. "
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"Thing is the OP often makes these comments. What's sad is the desperation and neediness of some to seek approval from total strangers in how they describe themselves.
i have to admit i too have noticed that the vast majority of the OPs post are one in the nature that hes questioning or putting down other peoples looks, even on some threads that arnt looks related hes managed to make some comment
I'd picked up on that too. In fairness to the OP from his pictures he has a body that he has clearly worked hard for and has a right to be proud of. What is sad is the way he draws attention to it by sniping at others which to me is indicative of deep insecurity. "
I had a nice chat with the OP yesterday and he seems genuinely nice. He told me he liked my figure. I don't think he's maybe meant this in a way to put others down. But then I haven't been on the forums long  |
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"Thing is the OP often makes these comments. What's sad is the desperation and neediness of some to seek approval from total strangers in how they describe themselves.
i have to admit i too have noticed that the vast majority of the OPs post are one in the nature that hes questioning or putting down other peoples looks, even on some threads that arnt looks related hes managed to make some comment
I'd picked up on that too. In fairness to the OP from his pictures he has a body that he has clearly worked hard for and has a right to be proud of. What is sad is the way he draws attention to it by sniping at others which to me is indicative of deep insecurity. "
see now i almost added a insecurity commen but didnt know if it was a step to far so took it off before posting but i agree
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"for me, curvy is someone got fat, but a curvy figure, sadly seems alot of fat women on here put curvy
Please PM me if you think I should change it. I won't be offended
Just looked at yer pics - definitely no fat.
You could easily put 'fabulous'... and in one of yer pics - nice pussy
He's gorgeous ey An asset to any profile having a pussy like that I think."
Indeed.
I must confess to enjoying a warm purring pussy in my lap from time to time |
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"Thing is the OP often makes these comments. What's sad is the desperation and neediness of some to seek approval from total strangers in how they describe themselves.
i have to admit i too have noticed that the vast majority of the OPs post are one in the nature that hes questioning or putting down other peoples looks, even on some threads that arnt looks related hes managed to make some comment
I'd picked up on that too. In fairness to the OP from his pictures he has a body that he has clearly worked hard for and has a right to be proud of. What is sad is the way he draws attention to it by sniping at others which to me is indicative of deep insecurity.
see now i almost added a insecurity commen but didnt know if it was a step to far so took it off before posting but i agree
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OP could be fishing for compliments methinks |
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"for me, curvy is someone got fat, but a curvy figure, sadly seems alot of fat women on here put curvy
Please PM me if you think I should change it. I won't be offended
Just looked at yer pics - definitely no fat.
You could easily put 'fabulous'... and in one of yer pics - nice pussy
He's gorgeous ey An asset to any profile having a pussy like that I think.
Indeed.
I must confess to enjoying a warm purring pussy in my lap from time to time "
This pussy has a loud purr |
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"I think all people that are fat know they are fat at the end of he day...You could make up different words for it all day long,but it all boils down to the same thing...body sizes should be small ,medium large,X large and XX large the same as clothing...
That covers prity much most "
Not really - women's clothes don't tend to come in the 'S,M,L' category. And it's still open to subjectivity.
For example, I'm a size 22 and may categorise myself as XX-Large ... but woman who is a size 26 'may' categorise herself as X-Large so a guy seeing both of those would assume I was bigger than her.
When we were meeting privately I stated my dress size and had a body pic on my profile to avoid confusion. But nothing really substituted meeting in person first in a social setting to see if there was mutual attraction.
Now we only play in clubs and it's not a problem - you can see people in the flesh and decide who's for you - or not (and vice versa). |
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"I think all people that are fat know they are fat at the end of he day...You could make up different words for it all day long,but it all boils down to the same thing...body sizes should be small ,medium large,X large and XX large the same as clothing...
That covers prity much most
Not really - women's clothes don't tend to come in the 'S,M,L' category. And it's still open to subjectivity.
For example, I'm a size 22 and may categorise myself as XX-Large ... but woman who is a size 26 'may' categorise herself as X-Large so a guy seeing both of those would assume I was bigger than her.
When we were meeting privately I stated my dress size and had a body pic on my profile to avoid confusion. But nothing really substituted meeting in person first in a social setting to see if there was mutual attraction.
Now we only play in clubs and it's not a problem - you can see people in the flesh and decide who's for you - or not (and vice versa)."
Thats exactly what we do and have always done.
We have played with people that we proberbly wouldn't have by messing with private meets...
We have never done a private meet and don't think we ever will,can't be arsed with all the pissing about,that could be spent meeting real people and having fun |
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"for me, curvy is someone got fat, but a curvy figure, sadly seems alot of fat women on here put curvy
It's all about self identification, I'm curvy because I've got boobs a smallish waist and big hips. That to me is curvy.
yeah, others might think your bigger, its about personal preference
It's not about what other people think, its about what I choose to identify myself as & quite frankly others just have to accept that. If they don't like me that's their loss & not mine. "
yeah but other people will think otherwise, i think your more large than curvy
for me,
under 8 is skinny
8-10 is slim
10-12 average
12-14 curvy
16-18 large
i imagine most women size 20+ are classed as obesit |
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1 word isnt descriptive enough to describe someone physically. same as im not a stick insect or im not a BBW
just wanna see peeps in their true light and whether they are or arent ur cup of tea. would make this place so much easier to use  |
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"1 word isnt descriptive enough to describe someone physically. same as im not a stick insect or im not a BBW
just wanna see peeps in their true light and whether they are or arent ur cup of tea. would make this place so much easier to use "
i hate the word BBW |
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"for me, curvy is someone got fat, but a curvy figure, sadly seems alot of fat women on here put curvy
It's all about self identification, I'm curvy because I've got boobs a smallish waist and big hips. That to me is curvy.
yeah, others might think your bigger, its about personal preference
It's not about what other people think, its about what I choose to identify myself as & quite frankly others just have to accept that. If they don't like me that's their loss & not mine.
yeah but other people will think otherwise, i think your more large than curvy
for me,
under 8 is skinny
8-10 is slim
10-12 average
12-14 curvy
16-18 large
i imagine most women size 20+ are classed as obesit"
I didn't ask you for your opinion and if you consider me to be large that is your opinion. I am well aware of my bmi, I class myself as curvy, people who know me would say the same. |
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I think I've got ample in my profile, but I've also got a body pic so anyone can see exactly what my build is and whether or not it's their cup of tea. Personally I think I look a bit dumpy, but that's not an option and it's what others think that's important, really, not me. |
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"should state weight along with height and a full body pic would be a good indicator aswell"
No way im talking about my weight tho I know I should lose 20kg to be happy. .my height is on here.. I do ask a guys weight I can judge with the height ratio what I like . 6' no more than 14st max.
pics are only any good if they recent ,LOL as we all know. camera is best |
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"I have no idea what to put for this. I'm a size 14/16 and have ticked "curvy" because "ample" seems a bit extreme. I don't know. I'd rather someone said if they thought I was fat. I have full body pics in our friends section. I'm not hiding what I am, but not sure how to define myself.
Mrs Storm x"
you are curvy though, someone 23 stone or more is not curvy lol |
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for me,
under 8 is skinny
8-10 is slim
10-12 average
12-14 curvy
16-18 large
i imagine most women size 20+ are classed as obesit
10-12 average...  "
you look great, nice bum wouldnt let me wink you  |
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"for me, curvy is someone got fat, but a curvy figure, sadly seems alot of fat women on here put curvy
It's all about self identification, I'm curvy because I've got boobs a smallish waist and big hips. That to me is curvy.
yeah, others might think your bigger, its about personal preference
It's not about what other people think, its about what I choose to identify myself as & quite frankly others just have to accept that. If they don't like me that's their loss & not mine.
yeah but other people will think otherwise, i think your more large than curvy
for me,
under 8 is skinny
8-10 is slim
10-12 average
12-14 curvy
16-18 large
i imagine most women size 20+ are classed as obesit
I didn't ask you for your opinion and if you consider me to be large that is your opinion. I am well aware of my bmi, I class myself as curvy, people who know me would say the same. "
was just giving an opinion to the topic, sorry if i offended you. What is your bmi? |
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for me,
under 8 is skinny
8-10 is slim
10-12 average
12-14 curvy
16-18 large
i imagine most women size 20+ are classed as obesit
10-12 average...
you look great, nice bum wouldnt let me wink you "
Actually it is 2wheels and not crystal posting...
But even if you were local we wouldn't be interested based on your previous post, it is judgemental and in all honesty any woman over a size 12 is probably going to think that she is in some way a compromise for your standards. |
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I have no idea what my bmi is but I do take exception to someone on a sex site calling me obese
If you have a preference then stick to that no need to slag off others just because you don't find then attractive xx
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for me,
under 8 is skinny
8-10 is slim
10-12 average
12-14 curvy
16-18 large
i imagine most women size 20+ are classed as obesit
10-12 average...
you look great, nice bum wouldnt let me wink you
Actually it is 2wheels and not crystal posting...
But even if you were local we wouldn't be interested based on your previous post, it is judgemental and in all honesty any woman over a size 12 is probably going to think that she is in some way a compromise for your standards."
fair point fella, but who said they are my standards?
its clear your not into big women tho, so similar boat in that situation.
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"My BMI is 33 way above what they say is healthy, but muscle weighs more than fat, so BMI isn't really reliable"
true, england rugby winning team were all classed as overweight |
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"My BMI is 33 way above what they say is healthy, but muscle weighs more than fat, so BMI isn't really reliable"
So what is your body fat percentage ? Mine taken on four points this morning was 9.3% and I am 17 stone 4 , 5ft 11 inches |
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All these complications don't half take the fun out it on here
Takes my curvy arse and unknown BMI to somewhere with a bit of humour involved
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We've got face and full body pics on our profile.
We describe ourselves as average but at the end of the day, others will decide if we're telling porkies.
Opinions are like arse'oles, we've all got one |
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"All these complications don't half take the fun out it on here
Takes my curvy arse and unknown BMI to somewhere with a bit of humour involved
I want fun not a bloody full body check up "
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I'm five six and 14-16 top but 10-12 below that. That makes me a bit of a mishmash size wise.
But you know I'm happy just to be me, living breathing happy and healthy.
If there is anything attractive about me I'd hope it is my personality not my body shape, bodies can change but personalities stay the same.
I can honestly say I've never judged whether to play with a person or not on their body size and have had multiple meets with males, females, couples, tall, short, fat, thin, black, white, bald, hairy etc. etc.
All have in common one thing though ..... and that is a pleasing personality which appealed to mine. |
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"I'm five six and 14-16 top but 10-12 below that. That makes me a bit of a mishmash size wise.
But you know I'm happy just to be me, living breathing happy and healthy.
If there is anything attractive about me I'd hope it is my personality not my body shape, bodies can change but personalities stay the same.
I can honestly say I've never judged whether to play with a person or not on their body size and have had multiple meets with males, females, couples, tall, short, fat, thin, black, white, bald, hairy etc. etc.
All have in common one thing though ..... and that is a pleasing personality which appealed to mine. "
you judge on age tho (joke!)
your right about different sizes on top and bottom.
Your pictures looks wonderful |
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"I'm five six and 14-16 top but 10-12 below that. That makes me a bit of a mishmash size wise.
But you know I'm happy just to be me, living breathing happy and healthy.
If there is anything attractive about me I'd hope it is my personality not my body shape, bodies can change but personalities stay the same.
I can honestly say I've never judged whether to play with a person or not on their body size and have had multiple meets with males, females, couples, tall, short, fat, thin, black, white, bald, hairy etc. etc.
All have in common one thing though ..... and that is a pleasing personality which appealed to mine. "
So ..... I'm in with a chance then? ....
gets me bike out |
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for me,
under 8 is skinny
8-10 is slim
10-12 average
12-14 curvy
16-18 large
i imagine most women size 20+ are classed as obesit
10-12 average...
you look great, nice bum wouldnt let me wink you
Actually it is 2wheels and not crystal posting...
But even if you were local we wouldn't be interested based on your previous post, it is judgemental and in all honesty any woman over a size 12 is probably going to think that she is in some way a compromise for your standards.
fair point fella, but who said they are my standards?
its clear your not into big women tho, so similar boat in that situation.
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To have used the word obese in the way you did and where you define average it is obvious what your preference is.
Why is it clear I'm not in to big women? By your stated definitions crystal is somewhere between curvy and large... |
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"I'm five six and 14-16 top but 10-12 below that. That makes me a bit of a mishmash size wise.
But you know I'm happy just to be me, living breathing happy and healthy.
If there is anything attractive about me I'd hope it is my personality not my body shape, bodies can change but personalities stay the same.
I can honestly say I've never judged whether to play with a person or not on their body size and have had multiple meets with males, females, couples, tall, short, fat, thin, black, white, bald, hairy etc. etc.
All have in common one thing though ..... and that is a pleasing personality which appealed to mine.
you judge on age tho (joke!)
your right about different sizes on top and bottom.
Your pictures looks wonderful "
I do judge on age, I get on really well with all ages, but anyone around my kids age brings out the mothering side of me not the sexy side I'm afraid. |
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"I'm five six and 14-16 top but 10-12 below that. That makes me a bit of a mishmash size wise.
But you know I'm happy just to be me, living breathing happy and healthy.
If there is anything attractive about me I'd hope it is my personality not my body shape, bodies can change but personalities stay the same.
I can honestly say I've never judged whether to play with a person or not on their body size and have had multiple meets with males, females, couples, tall, short, fat, thin, black, white, bald, hairy etc. etc.
All have in common one thing though ..... and that is a pleasing personality which appealed to mine.
So ..... I'm in with a chance then? ....
gets me bike out "
Bring the Mrs with you we can turn into a crowd and have a party! |
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"I'm five six and 14-16 top but 10-12 below that. That makes me a bit of a mishmash size wise.
But you know I'm happy just to be me, living breathing happy and healthy.
If there is anything attractive about me I'd hope it is my personality not my body shape, bodies can change but personalities stay the same.
I can honestly say I've never judged whether to play with a person or not on their body size and have had multiple meets with males, females, couples, tall, short, fat, thin, black, white, bald, hairy etc. etc.
All have in common one thing though ..... and that is a pleasing personality which appealed to mine.
So ..... I'm in with a chance then? ....
gets me bike out
Bring the Mrs with you we can turn into a crowd and have a party! "
I don't go anywhere without Kate |
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When I spent a lot more time in the gym and had a different workout regime than I do now I was down as Athletic as my body reflected that.
Now though, my workouts are less intense, age and gravity have started taking their toll, so I'm now down as Curvy as I feel it more fitting.
People change, sadly that's just a fact of life.  T
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"When I spent a lot more time in the gym and had a different workout regime than I do now I was down as Athletic as my body reflected that.
Now though, my workouts are less intense, age and gravity have started taking their toll, so I'm now down as Curvy as I feel it more fitting.
People change, sadly that's just a fact of life. T
XXX"
Send us a pic then Trace
Well, if you don't ask, you don't get |
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"for me, curvy is someone got fat, but a curvy figure, sadly seems alot of fat women on here put curvy
It's all about self identification, I'm curvy because I've got boobs a smallish waist and big hips. That to me is curvy.
yeah, others might think your bigger, its about personal preference
It's not about what other people think, its about what I choose to identify myself as & quite frankly others just have to accept that. If they don't like me that's their loss & not mine.
yeah but other people will think otherwise, i think your more large than curvy
for me,
under 8 is skinny
8-10 is slim
10-12 average
12-14 curvy
16-18 large
i imagine most women size 20+ are classed as obesit
I didn't ask you for your opinion and if you consider me to be large that is your opinion. I am well aware of my bmi, I class myself as curvy, people who know me would say the same.
was just giving an opinion to the topic, sorry if i offended you. What is your bmi?"
It's none of your business what my bmi is. The only reason I know is because I had a discussion with my doctor last week. You have basically in the same thread inadvertently called me fat, large and obese. Offended, not really I'm made of tougher stuff, but I do think you're slightly sharp. |
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So ..... I'm in with a chance then? ....
gets me bike out
Bring the Mrs with you we can turn into a crowd and have a party!
I don't go anywhere without Kate.
Bless ....... Kate knows not to let you wander about on your own. |
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"So ..... I'm in with a chance then? ....
gets me bike out
Bring the Mrs with you we can turn into a crowd and have a party!
I don't go anywhere without Kate.
Bless ....... Kate knows not to let you wander about on your own. "
Unfortunately my forum persona has more bravado than my real life one. I'm quite a shy person really and Kate's the one that "clears the way" so to speak |
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"Send us a pic then Trace
Well, if you don't ask, you don't get
Cheeky! The avatar, phone box and archway pics best depict the Curvy me. T
XXX"
And they're totally gorgeous xx |
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The BMI stuff is a load of rubbish anyway. My work place had a check done on everyone and the lady (who was quite large herself) basically told everyone that they were overweight. It was surprising as some of the girls i work with have lovely figures. It's already been stated that opinions vary....so if you see yourself as large, curvy or slim, that's all that matters. The majority would agree with your perception |
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"When I spent a lot more time in the gym and had a different workout regime than I do now I was down as Athletic as my body reflected that.
Now though, my workouts are less intense, age and gravity have started taking their toll, so I'm now down as Curvy as I feel it more fitting.
People change, sadly that's just a fact of life. T
XXX"
If this is the lady ,? I would class your body as very athletic , tone looks great , and symmetry is perfect ! I the male half take part in strength events internationally so get to see lots of toned bodies ! You're s is up there with the best !!
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"The BMI stuff is a load of rubbish anyway. My work place had a check done on everyone and the lady (who was quite large herself) basically told everyone that they were overweight. It was surprising as some of the girls i work with have lovely figures. It's already been stated that opinions vary....so if you see yourself as large, curvy or slim, that's all that matters. The majority would agree with your perception "
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"The BMI stuff is a load of rubbish anyway. My work place had a check done on everyone and the lady (who was quite large herself) basically told everyone that they were overweight. It was surprising as some of the girls i work with have lovely figures. It's already been stated that opinions vary....so if you see yourself as large, curvy or slim, that's all that matters. The majority would agree with your perception "
BMI is crap
My eldest daughter is a gym freak, because of this she is very toned there for heavier than she looks. she is 5ft 10 and a size 10/12, which isnt big by anyone standards and because of her high she looks even slimmer, but her BMI shows her as border line obese, infact if i remember correctly her BMI was only about 2 under mine
BMI does not take things like that into account, if you weight is to high for your high it just assums its fat |
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10-12 is average? Hahaha!
It would also be perfectly possible to be a size 12-14 and not have curves.
All sorts of body shapes exist in all sizes.
I'm an inverted triangle (or a Martini glass ). My hips are a size 18, my waist a size 20 and my bust is a size 28. I describe myself as a size 20 because nobody seems to care, oddly, that my bust is so much bigger.
From hearing "size 20" you may expect me to have big legs, tree trunk thighs and a big bum. I don't have any of those. My excess weight is on my torso.
I'm large but I'm not massive. People can accept that or not. And anyone who thinks I'll "do", or that I should be easy or grateful can fuck right off!
I agree with the poster above who says this sort of crap takes all the fun out of meets. |
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"The BMI stuff is a load of rubbish anyway. My work place had a check done on everyone and the lady (who was quite large herself) basically told everyone that they were overweight. It was surprising as some of the girls i work with have lovely figures. It's already been stated that opinions vary....so if you see yourself as large, curvy or slim, that's all that matters. The majority would agree with your perception
BMI is crap
My eldest daughter is a gym freak, because of this she is very toned there for heavier than she looks. she is 5ft 10 and a size 10/12, which isnt big by anyone standards and because of her high she looks even slimmer, but her BMI shows her as border line obese, infact if i remember correctly her BMI was only about 2 under mine
BMI does not take things like that into account, if you weight is to high for your high it just assums its fat"
I think it's more important how we see ourselves rather than how others see us that being said I think you look fantastic miss naughty having met you many times and even seen my wife take you're strapon once in Chams a few years ago !
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I agree. I put average on mine as tho im size ten i hav a baby belly so slim hardly seems appropriate. But then an "average" uk woman is size 16 so by that i wudnt be average. I just mean i hav an average body... Not tight and toned but not overweight lol |
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"I agree. I put average on mine as tho im size ten i hav a baby belly so slim hardly seems appropriate. But then an "average" uk woman is size 16 so by that i wudnt be average. I just mean i hav an average body... Not tight and toned but not overweight lol"
I am not skinny, but nor am I fat. The claims made for men being 'athletic' and women being 'fabuluous' are absurd in many cases |
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i dont see a problem with what people lable them self as on here we dont meet without a picture been exchanged anyway
no point in getting anoyed by what people put on there profile if there not for you move on and dont let it get to you
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"I agree. I put average on mine as tho im size ten i hav a baby belly so slim hardly seems appropriate. But then an "average" uk woman is size 16 so by that i wudnt be average. I just mean i hav an average body... Not tight and toned but not overweight lol
I am not skinny, but nor am I fat. The claims made for men being 'athletic' and women being 'fabuluous' are absurd in many cases"
In what way can a claim for a woman being 'fabulous' be absurd, as it's the largest category available? |
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"I agree. I put average on mine as tho im size ten i hav a baby belly so slim hardly seems appropriate. But then an "average" uk woman is size 16 so by that i wudnt be average. I just mean i hav an average body... Not tight and toned but not overweight lol
I am not skinny, but nor am I fat. The claims made for men being 'athletic' and women being 'fabuluous' are absurd in many cases
In what way can a claim for a woman being 'fabulous' be absurd, as it's the largest category available? "
Somebody who is morbidly obese is surely very far from 'fabulous' |
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"I agree. I put average on mine as tho im size ten i hav a baby belly so slim hardly seems appropriate. But then an "average" uk woman is size 16 so by that i wudnt be average. I just mean i hav an average body... Not tight and toned but not overweight lol
I am not skinny, but nor am I fat. The claims made for men being 'athletic' and women being 'fabuluous' are absurd in many cases"
Sorry fella but if your pics are recent then I wouldn't class you as athletic , just my opinion , you obviously have some muscle on your frame that's clear to see but you would need to trim 20 kg min to look athletic for me ! |
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I am not skinny, but nor am I fat. The claims made for men being 'athletic' and women being 'fabuluous' are absurd in many cases
In what way can a claim for a woman being 'fabulous' be absurd, as it's the largest category available?
Somebody who is morbidly obese is surely very far from 'fabulous'"
Again, the largest category is 'fabulous'. What category should a morbidly obese (definition BMI greater than 40) put themselves in? There is no other option. |
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"Are they all wrong on this site? Ample', fabulous' etc, do they in fact hide reality?"
you seem to have a bit of a bee in ur bonnet about this OP.
didn't you start a similar thread a couple of weeks ago ?
people will classify themselves with what they feel they are or what will work for them.
some are more honest than others, some are more deluded than others, some just misread / misinterpret what the conurtations are of each description.
either way, i am sure you wouldn't meet without seeing a pic of someone and on receipt of that pic you have the opportunity to decide whether you would consider meeting them or not.
once you have seen the pics, you make the decision on whether to pursue or leave it where it is.
you really shouldn't let it worry you how other people define themselves - especially people you aren't likely to meet. |
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"I agree. I put average on mine as tho im size ten i hav a baby belly so slim hardly seems appropriate. But then an "average" uk woman is size 16 so by that i wudnt be average. I just mean i hav an average body... Not tight and toned but not overweight lol
I am not skinny, but nor am I fat. The claims made for men being 'athletic' and women being 'fabuluous' are absurd in many cases
Sorry fella but if your pics are recent then I wouldn't class you as athletic , just my opinion , you obviously have some muscle on your frame that's clear to see but you would need to trim 20 kg min to look athletic for me ! "
Oh lol, the couple so good looking only the woman has a pic, and from the side haha. must be great to be perfect. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Are they all wrong on this site? Ample', fabulous' etc, do they in fact hide reality?
you seem to have a bit of a bee in ur bonnet about this OP.
didn't you start a similar thread a couple of weeks ago ?
people will classify themselves with what they feel they are or what will work for them.
some are more honest than others, some are more deluded than others, some just misread / misinterpret what the conurtations are of each description.
either way, i am sure you wouldn't meet without seeing a pic of someone and on receipt of that pic you have the opportunity to decide whether you would consider meeting them or not.
once you have seen the pics, you make the decision on whether to pursue or leave it where it is.
you really shouldn't let it worry you how other people define themselves - especially people you aren't likely to meet. "
No, I have not been on for very long. |
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"Are they all wrong on this site? Ample', fabulous' etc, do they in fact hide reality?
you seem to have a bit of a bee in ur bonnet about this OP.
didn't you start a similar thread a couple of weeks ago ?
people will classify themselves with what they feel they are or what will work for them.
some are more honest than others, some are more deluded than others, some just misread / misinterpret what the conurtations are of each description.
either way, i am sure you wouldn't meet without seeing a pic of someone and on receipt of that pic you have the opportunity to decide whether you would consider meeting them or not.
once you have seen the pics, you make the decision on whether to pursue or leave it where it is.
you really shouldn't let it worry you how other people define themselves - especially people you aren't likely to meet.
No, I have not been on for very long."
but long enough to make more than one thread on a similar subject.
irregardless, i do feel that commenting on how others view themselves is really not that necessary.
concentrate on those with those you wish to meet, not those that you don't
positivity works wonders |
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"Are they all wrong on this site? Ample', fabulous' etc, do they in fact hide reality?
you seem to have a bit of a bee in ur bonnet about this OP.
didn't you start a similar thread a couple of weeks ago ?
people will classify themselves with what they feel they are or what will work for them.
some are more honest than others, some are more deluded than others, some just misread / misinterpret what the conurtations are of each description.
either way, i am sure you wouldn't meet without seeing a pic of someone and on receipt of that pic you have the opportunity to decide whether you would consider meeting them or not.
once you have seen the pics, you make the decision on whether to pursue or leave it where it is.
you really shouldn't let it worry you how other people define themselves - especially people you aren't likely to meet.
No, I have not been on for very long.
but long enough to make more than one thread on a similar subject.
irregardless, i do feel that commenting on how others view themselves is really not that necessary.
concentrate on those with those you wish to meet, not those that you don't
positivity works wonders "
No, check ffs, I have not started a thread on this subject before. I find being less of a tool regarding other peoples forum posts is a great way to stay positive |
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"Are they all wrong on this site? Ample', fabulous' etc, do they in fact hide reality?
you seem to have a bit of a bee in ur bonnet about this OP.
didn't you start a similar thread a couple of weeks ago ?
people will classify themselves with what they feel they are or what will work for them.
some are more honest than others, some are more deluded than others, some just misread / misinterpret what the conurtations are of each description.
either way, i am sure you wouldn't meet without seeing a pic of someone and on receipt of that pic you have the opportunity to decide whether you would consider meeting them or not.
once you have seen the pics, you make the decision on whether to pursue or leave it where it is.
you really shouldn't let it worry you how other people define themselves - especially people you aren't likely to meet.
No, I have not been on for very long.
but long enough to make more than one thread on a similar subject.
irregardless, i do feel that commenting on how others view themselves is really not that necessary.
concentrate on those with those you wish to meet, not those that you don't
positivity works wonders
No, check ffs, I have not started a thread on this subject before. I find being less of a tool regarding other peoples forum posts is a great way to stay positive"
but then again that's my problem, not yours
don't let ir worry ya |
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By *anSusieCouple
over a year ago
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what makes me(fem) LOL is the amount of guys who class themselfes as athletic,when the pics or meeting them in person shows:ARMCHAIR athletics or "lifting 8 pints in a pub" athletics...
some ppl think I'm athletic but as I'm not in the gym as often as hubby is I'm just slim.
We do wonder about the amount of ppl who are very large(in our eyes) + contact us when we state we looking for similar ppl who look after themselfes
everybody is attracted to different ppl + Fab has enough swingers for all to find ppl to play with |
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"what makes me(fem) LOL is the amount of guys who class themselfes as athletic,when the pics or meeting them in person shows:ARMCHAIR athletics or "lifting 8 pints in a pub" athletics...
some ppl think I'm athletic but as I'm not in the gym as often as hubby is I'm just slim.
We do wonder about the amount of ppl who are very large(in our eyes) + contact us when we state we looking for similar ppl who look after themselfes
everybody is attracted to different ppl + Fab has enough swingers for all to find ppl to play with "
Athletic is as mis-used as VWE on this site |
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I tell you something, the op is certainly proving that beauty is only skin deep.
OP, why does it bother you so much how other people look and describe themselves? And why so much vitriol in so many of your replies?
Is it because the thread hasn't gone how you wanted? Thing is, however hard you train, beauty remains skin deep and whatever securities drive you to criticise others will always remain however great you think your physique is. |
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"I tell you something, the op is certainly proving that beauty is only skin deep.
OP, why does it bother you so much how other people look and describe themselves? And why so much vitriol in so many of your replies?
Is it because the thread hasn't gone how you wanted? Thing is, however hard you train, beauty remains skin deep and whatever securities drive you to criticise others will always remain however great you think your physique is."
oh lol, such a wonderfully erudite response, littered with PC nonsense |
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over a year ago
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Well I had ample on here when I first joined and had several mails from men and couples telling me I was curvy. Most women will state dress size on their profiles. But use of the word fat is offensive to anyone's self esteem. And this thread doesn't exactly help with body image. If you want to know about someone go on a social meet first then make a decision or request a body shot. Rant over! |
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"Well I had ample on here when I first joined and had several mails from men and couples telling me I was curvy. Most women will state dress size on their profiles. But use of the word fat is offensive to anyone's self esteem. And this thread doesn't exactly help with body image. If you want to know about someone go on a social meet first then make a decision or request a body shot. Rant over!"
Honesty trumps people lying to themselves or being lied to though, surely. I meet all sorts, big and small, but draw line at people who are hideously obese as it just shows a completely fcked up attitude to life. |
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Let's look at this another way then OP.
What do you believe the classifications should be on Fab ?
So say 1 list that would best suit men and 1 that would best suit women.
As an example, I believe that 'stocky' should be listed as that is a body type (that whilst is again open to abuse) is one that does fit a good deal of men. |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
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"Let's look at this another way then OP.
What do you believe the classifications should be on Fab ?
So say 1 list that would best suit men and 1 that would best suit women.
As an example, I believe that 'stocky' should be listed as that is a body type (that whilst is again open to abuse) is one that does fit a good deal of men."
I think he would be happy with;
Stunning
Fit
Svelte
Flabby
Lardarse
Couch potato
That way he can make an informed choice.
Personally I would like to see personality classifications.
Easy going
Boring
Arrogant, etc.
Now. What others could go on that list? |
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"Let's look at this another way then OP.
What do you believe the classifications should be on Fab ?
So say 1 list that would best suit men and 1 that would best suit women.
As an example, I believe that 'stocky' should be listed as that is a body type (that whilst is again open to abuse) is one that does fit a good deal of men.
I think he would be happy with;
Stunning
Fit
Svelte
Flabby
Lardarse
Couch potato
That way he can make an informed choice.
Personally I would like to see personality classifications.
Easy going
Boring
Arrogant, etc.
Now. What others could go on that list?"
I can exhibit signs of most of them - with the exceptions of svelte, fit and stunning that is |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
Over the rainbow, under the bridge |
"Let's look at this another way then OP.
What do you believe the classifications should be on Fab ?
So say 1 list that would best suit men and 1 that would best suit women.
As an example, I believe that 'stocky' should be listed as that is a body type (that whilst is again open to abuse) is one that does fit a good deal of men.
I think he would be happy with;
Stunning
Fit
Svelte
Flabby
Lardarse
Couch potato
That way he can make an informed choice.
Personally I would like to see personality classifications.
Easy going
Boring
Arrogant, etc.
Now. What others could go on that list?
I can exhibit signs of most of them - with the exceptions of svelte, fit and stunning that is "
How about we all post 'we are all too nasty for you'?
That might do it!  |
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"Well I had ample on here when I first joined and had several mails from men and couples telling me I was curvy. Most women will state dress size on their profiles. But use of the word fat is offensive to anyone's self esteem. And this thread doesn't exactly help with body image. If you want to know about someone go on a social meet first then make a decision or request a body shot. Rant over!
Honesty trumps people lying to themselves or being lied to though, surely. I meet all sorts, big and small, but draw line at people who are hideously obese as it just shows a completely fcked up attitude to life."
I used to be 17st at 5ft4". Did I have a fucked up attitude to life? I don't think that is fair of you to say. People put weight on for many different reasons |
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"I tell you something, the op is certainly proving that beauty is only skin deep.
OP, why does it bother you so much how other people look and describe themselves? And why so much vitriol in so many of your replies?
Is it because the thread hasn't gone how you wanted? Thing is, however hard you train, beauty remains skin deep and whatever securities drive you to criticise others will always remain however great you think your physique is.
oh lol, such a wonderfully erudite response, littered with PC nonsense"
Go on, tell me what is pc about that?
And yet again you ignore the question just why does it bother you so much. |
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Ive just read the OP's profile where he states "I like all women physically so do not worry about being too tall/short, big/small".
Contradiction comes to mind lol |
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"I agree. I put average on mine as tho im size ten i hav a baby belly so slim hardly seems appropriate. But then an "average" uk woman is size 16 so by that i wudnt be average. I just mean i hav an average body... Not tight and toned but not overweight lol
I am not skinny, but nor am I fat. The claims made for men being 'athletic' and women being 'fabuluous' are absurd in many cases
Sorry fella but if your pics are recent then I wouldn't class you as athletic , just my opinion , you obviously have some muscle on your frame that's clear to see but you would need to trim 20 kg min to look athletic for me !
Oh lol, the couple so good looking only the woman has a pic, and from the side haha. must be great to be perfect."
No one has mentioned good looking , and nobody has been rude to you ! You however appear to take great delight in being rude , if you are in able to take opinions without being rude you should keep off forum as you are starting to behave like a troll ! |
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