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By *ammo89 OP Man
over a year ago
Aberdeen |
Looking for any input into my profile and pics, and any suggestions on what I could change to improve it
Had a new record of 25 straight message deletions this afternoon, 15 of which had viewed my profile.
Been going nowhere on this site for a while, and starting to wonder whether to call it a day |
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By *ammo89 OP Man
over a year ago
Aberdeen |
"Not being able to accommodate puts people off I'm afraid - makes people wonder why you can't, they'll.often assume you're married. "
Thanks for the input  . I'd been wondering if it was a red flag of sorts - the real reason is that I'm currently living with family until I've bought my own place, which is a couple of months away.
Maybe I should include this on the profile or no? |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"Looking for any input into my profile and pics, and any suggestions on what I could change to improve it
Had a new record of 25 straight message deletions this afternoon, 15 of which had viewed my profile.
Been going nowhere on this site for a while, and starting to wonder whether to call it a day"
Ok.
The profile itself is a bit bland and doesn't read as being particularly exciting. There's nothing to draw anyone in or tempt them to message.
Normally the issue is multiple cock shots from different angles but you've done the same thing with face photos. Looks weird and is unnecessary.
As for 15/25 viewing your profile and deleting? It may have been the full 25 as many will browse in stealth mode so you won't know if they looked.
And saying you've been here a while and are 'going nowhere' when you've clearly had meets and plenty of verifications just makes you look like you have an unrealistic expectation of the site and what it can offer.
You make your own luck and determine your own success. If what you're doing isn't working then change it to something else. There's no magic formula and what works for one won't for another.
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By *ammo89 OP Man
over a year ago
Aberdeen |
"Looking for any input into my profile and pics, and any suggestions on what I could change to improve it
Had a new record of 25 straight message deletions this afternoon, 15 of which had viewed my profile.
Been going nowhere on this site for a while, and starting to wonder whether to call it a day
Ok.
The profile itself is a bit bland and doesn't read as being particularly exciting. There's nothing to draw anyone in or tempt them to message.
Normally the issue is multiple cock shots from different angles but you've done the same thing with face photos. Looks weird and is unnecessary.
As for 15/25 viewing your profile and deleting? It may have been the full 25 as many will browse in stealth mode so you won't know if they looked.
And saying you've been here a while and are 'going nowhere' when you've clearly had meets and plenty of verifications just makes you look like you have an unrealistic expectation of the site and what it can offer.
You make your own luck and determine your own success. If what you're doing isn't working then change it to something else. There's no magic formula and what works for one won't for another.
A
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Thanks for the input. I'll remove all but a few face pics. Been forgetting to remove them anyway as I've added new ones.
Regarding the profile, is there anything particularly bland about it? I don't really know what else I can say? I've always been better at chatting with people in person rather than putting a few paragraphs about myself |
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Your profile bio doesn’t really say anything.
You’ve touched on not being able to accommodate but not commented why.
You have 5 face pics straight after each other which are just the same so effectively you only have 3 pics…face, chest and clothed pic - none are stand out.
You’ve got verifications and they all pretty much say the same - you’re a good person to talk to - I know it’s harder to talk online but unfortunately this is where you are…you need to draw people in to get your personality across. You can only do that with a more interesting profile and pics.
Sell yourself as no one else can do it better.
Good luck 
K |
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I think it's fine. I especially like that the you have face pics, as I would never engage without first seeing what someone looks like.
Also, as others have said, add in a wee note about why you can't accommodate & make sure you update when you're able to.
If you're still concerned, maybe start to interact on the forum more. It's a great way to get yourself known.
But remember, men far outweigh women on here & plenty of chaps have been on even longer than you & not had any meets. Don't give up! Just try a bit harder 
Good luck xx |
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By *ammo89 OP Man
over a year ago
Aberdeen |
"Your profile bio doesn’t really say anything.
You’ve touched on not being able to accommodate but not commented why.
You have 5 face pics straight after each other which are just the same so effectively you only have 3 pics…face, chest and clothed pic - none are stand out.
You’ve got verifications and they all pretty much say the same - you’re a good person to talk to - I know it’s harder to talk online but unfortunately this is where you are…you need to draw people in to get your personality across. You can only do that with a more interesting profile and pics.
Sell yourself as no one else can do it better.
Good luck
K"
Thanks for the input. I've added why I can't accommodate at the moment. Sounds like I was naive as to how many married guys are using this in secret  .
And regarding the pics, I've removed most of the face ones except for a couple. Didn't realise I had that many  haha |
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Nothing wrong with your profile, Keep with it and be yourself, women are a minority here so get to pick of the crop. Maybe change your profile to accommodates, surely your allowed people round for a cuppa? |
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over a year ago
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"Not being able to accommodate puts people off I'm afraid - makes people wonder why you can't, they'll.often assume you're married.
Thanks for the input . I'd been wondering if it was a red flag of sorts - the real reason is that I'm currently living with family until I've bought my own place, which is a couple of months away.
Maybe I should include this on the profile or no?"
Definitely worth adding as openness has always helped me. |
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By *ammo89 OP Man
over a year ago
Aberdeen |
"I think it's fine. I especially like that the you have face pics, as I would never engage without first seeing what someone looks like.
Also, as others have said, add in a wee note about why you can't accommodate & make sure you update when you're able to.
If you're still concerned, maybe start to interact on the forum more. It's a great way to get yourself known.
But remember, men far outweigh women on here & plenty of chaps have been on even longer than you & not had any meets. Don't give up! Just try a bit harder
Good luck xx"
Yeah ive only been using the forum for a few days now, and it's nice.
And thanks for the feedback, I've added why I can't accommodate. I only didn't include it before as I thought it would look a bit lame. Haha |
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By *ammo89 OP Man
over a year ago
Aberdeen |
"Nothing wrong with your profile, Keep with it and be yourself, women are a minority here so get to pick of the crop. Maybe change your profile to accommodates, surely your allowed people round for a cuppa? "
I would love to do that, but I worry it would look suspicious after a while. Haha |
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"Your profile bio doesn’t really say anything.
You’ve touched on not being able to accommodate but not commented why.
You have 5 face pics straight after each other which are just the same so effectively you only have 3 pics…face, chest and clothed pic - none are stand out.
You’ve got verifications and they all pretty much say the same - you’re a good person to talk to - I know it’s harder to talk online but unfortunately this is where you are…you need to draw people in to get your personality across. You can only do that with a more interesting profile and pics.
Sell yourself as no one else can do it better.
Good luck
K
Thanks for the input. I've added why I can't accommodate at the moment. Sounds like I was naive as to how many married guys are using this in secret .
And regarding the pics, I've removed most of the face ones except for a couple. Didn't realise I had that many haha"
Face pics are all still there… |
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"Nothing wrong with your profile, Keep with it and be yourself, women are a minority here so get to pick of the crop. Maybe change your profile to accommodates, surely your allowed people round for a cuppa?
I would love to do that, but I worry it would look suspicious after a while. Haha "
Your living proof of the outcome of sexual intercourse, don’t take this the wrong way but you need to take a deep breath and stop over thinking it too much, focus on the social not the sex. |
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Having looked at your profiles few times over the last week due to your recent forum posts I'd say your profile is better than most but it doesn't stand out or scream choose me
You've changed your photos, removed the dickpics etc but personally I like one or two dick pics providing they are scattered amongst other photos at the moment the ones you have are all very similar a little safe, there's nothing fun or kinky to give me an idea of your personality
The bio again feels safe, there's nothing wrong with it but it doesn't stand out, the explanation as to why you can't accommodate that you've added should help a bit
The onething I'd change is the age range. Would you really meet a 99yr old?
& the thing that makes a profile stand out for me is shared kinks (you haven't shared any) or something that makes me laugh - I once had a meet with a guy because he had a photo of his dick in a hotdog bun covered in ketchup & mustard
Im not saying copy that but you need something that makes your profile stand out, I feel your profile reflects your current feelings towards fab a bit jaded and tired
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"Having looked at your profiles few times over the last week due to your recent forum posts I'd say your profile is better than most but it doesn't stand out or scream choose me
You've changed your photos, removed the dickpics etc but personally I like one or two dick pics providing they are scattered amongst other photos at the moment the ones you have are all very similar a little safe, there's nothing fun or kinky to give me an idea of your personality
The bio again feels safe, there's nothing wrong with it but it doesn't stand out, the explanation as to why you can't accommodate that you've added should help a bit
The onething I'd change is the age range. Would you really meet a 99yr old?
& the thing that makes a profile stand out for me is shared kinks (you haven't shared any) or something that makes me laugh - I once had a meet with a guy because he had a photo of his dick in a hotdog bun covered in ketchup & mustard
Im not saying copy that but you need something that makes your profile stand out, I feel your profile reflects your current feelings towards fab a bit jaded and tired
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Nah id leave the 99year olds in me like, experience…. And more to the point stop cockblocking pensioners….. they live daily in a world where they are imminently closer to death and can only choose from clothing in a variety of sand/stone colours…. Need they suffer further?
Also advice on the profile
“Likes long midnight walks in the woods”
“Is passionate about digging” ???
Howay, “thoughts?” |
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