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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Care what others think of you?..
I got told last night I was talked about by a lot of people..
Probably due to the fact they see me with different guys & are Probably thinking I am going to have sex with them....which isn't always the case...
I am actually not bothered what people think but are we all guilty of making judgements before knowing the facts of things?..I try not to but have done it..  |
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By *ammo89Man
over a year ago
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I keep my Fab life secret and discreet from non-Fab friends, though if they happened to find out, I wouldn't be too bothered what they or other people thought.
My theory is that the kind of people who talk about and judge your Fab life are the ones who secretly want to do it, but can't for whatever reason  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I keep my Fab life secret and discreet from non-Fab friends, though if they happened to find out, I wouldn't be too bothered what they or other people thought.
My theory is that the kind of people who talk about and judge your Fab life are the ones who secretly want to do it, but can't for whatever reason "
Maybe....but been a woman it seems to be frowned upon..  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I was younger I was always paranoid about what people thought of me. As the years have past. I’ve learned to stop the self doubt and self criticism but it still comes to mind a lot but in general, I don’t care anymore. I try to be myself and I see myself as a good person. Treat others as I’d like to be treated. What others opinion of you is none of your business  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I try to not let what people say about me get to me, to be honest it depends on what’s being said and In what context. I recently found out that my partners ex girlfriend tried to sway how him and his sister saw me, basically tried to put them off me and told them to be wary of me which hurt and I’m still thinking about it days later. But I think it says more about the ex than it does me. So I think if people are talking about you in not a very nice way it says more about them as a person, it just makes them look silly in my opinion. |
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"I try to not let what people say about me get to me, to be honest it depends on what’s being said and In what context. I recently found out that my partners ex girlfriend tried to sway how him and his sister saw me, basically tried to put them off me and told them to be wary of me which hurt and I’m still thinking about it days later. But I think it says more about the ex than it does me. So I think if people are talking about you in not a very nice way it says more about them as a person, it just makes them look silly in my opinion."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I try to not let what people say about me get to me, to be honest it depends on what’s being said and In what context. I recently found out that my partners ex girlfriend tried to sway how him and his sister saw me, basically tried to put them off me and told them to be wary of me which hurt and I’m still thinking about it days later. But I think it says more about the ex than it does me. So I think if people are talking about you in not a very nice way it says more about them as a person, it just makes them look silly in my opinion.
Great profile BTW "
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"I try to not let what people say about me get to me, to be honest it depends on what’s being said and In what context. I recently found out that my partners ex girlfriend tried to sway how him and his sister saw me, basically tried to put them off me and told them to be wary of me which hurt and I’m still thinking about it days later. But I think it says more about the ex than it does me. So I think if people are talking about you in not a very nice way it says more about them as a person, it just makes them look silly in my opinion.
Great profile BTW
Right back at ya "
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I only care what the people I love think about me.
We rarely have any control over what others think of us, their previous experiences and personal prejudices influence how they see us so it's really not worth giving consideration |
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There are a handful of people whose opinion of me really matters to me.
I don't go out of my way to be a dick because I like to be liked, but ultimately if someone just takes a dislike to me it's their dislike and not mine. Their opinion of me isn't really my business. |
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"Care what others think of you?..
I got told last night I was talked about by a lot of people..
Probably due to the fact they see me with different guys & are Probably thinking I am going to have sex with them....which isn't always the case...
I am actually not bothered what people think but are we all guilty of making judgements before knowing the facts of things?..I try not to but have done it.. "
Told by who ?, probably a load of rubbish or simply folk who don't matter ??. Don't worry about it.... |
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Nah, I’ve had men come to me here to tell me that a certain local woman has been bad mouthing me and warning them off me. I’ve gone on to have lots of fun with said men, and we are now good friends.
I find it quite flattering that someone takes time out of their own fab meets to talk about me! 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Care what others think of you?..
I got told last night I was talked about by a lot of people..
Probably due to the fact they see me with different guys & are Probably thinking I am going to have sex with them....which isn't always the case...
I am actually not bothered what people think but are we all guilty of making judgements before knowing the facts of things?..I try not to but have done it.. "
So what your saying is swingers are looking down on you for swinging |
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By (user no longer on site)
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People opinions don't really bother me as I project a different version of myself dependant on who I'm with. I know who I am and what I'm about so if people make a snap judgement, that's on them. The people who truely know me inside and out, those are the only ones that count. |
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By *di086Man
over a year ago
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"Care what others think of you?..
I got told last night I was talked about by a lot of people..
Probably due to the fact they see me with different guys & are Probably thinking I am going to have sex with them....which isn't always the case...
I am actually not bothered what people think but are we all guilty of making judgements before knowing the facts of things?..I try not to but have done it.. "
That is the human nature, you are lucky that nonvody from your workplace spotted you other wise it would be huge gossip parade... Sadly your own buisness is top priority of others |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Care what others think of you?..
I got told last night I was talked about by a lot of people..
Probably due to the fact they see me with different guys & are Probably thinking I am going to have sex with them....which isn't always the case...
I am actually not bothered what people think but are we all guilty of making judgements before knowing the facts of things?..I try not to but have done it..
Told by who ?, probably a load of rubbish or simply folk who don't matter ??. Don't worry about it...."
People they know...
The problem is Fab is one of my most used words & not necessarily as in Fabswingers..
And they see it as the latter, so going to be more discreet & try not to use it.. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Care what others think of you?..
I got told last night I was talked about by a lot of people..
Probably due to the fact they see me with different guys & are Probably thinking I am going to have sex with them....which isn't always the case...
I am actually not bothered what people think but are we all guilty of making judgements before knowing the facts of things?..I try not to but have done it..
So what your saying is swingers are looking down on you for swinging "
No, not at all... |
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