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By *xXAnon OP Couple
over a year ago
Leeds |
Doesn't really seem to be many people our age and no real interest I get that most people don't like the fact there children are the same age and stuff but at the end of the day we're all adults so don't see the problem people are too quick to judge x |
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By *ndydj87Man
over a year ago
wolverhampton |
"Doesn't really seem to be many people our age and no real interest I get that most people don't like the fact there children are the same age and stuff but at the end of the day we're all adults so don't see the problem people are too quick to judge x"
I agree people seem to want own age it’s just a number tbh I’ve had fun with younger and older
It’s about meeting friends and having fun |
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"Doesn't really seem to be many people our age and no real interest I get that most people don't like the fact there children are the same age and stuff but at the end of the day we're all adults so don't see the problem people are too quick to judge x"
You're young enough to be my grandchildren, I'm not interested in meeting people in that group, how does that make me quick to judge?
Concentrate on the people who do want your age group. When you do a search tick the box that says "I must match their age". That way the people who aren't interested in your age won't show up  |
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It’s frustrating just had a message from a young couple said they had read this feed.. all going sweetly then with out an explanation blocked..
If I do have any advice, just be genuine and not fantasists |
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"Doesn't really seem to be many people our age and no real interest I get that most people don't like the fact there children are the same age and stuff but at the end of the day we're all adults so don't see the problem people are too quick to judge x
You're young enough to be my grandchildren, I'm not interested in meeting people in that group, how does that make me quick to judge?
Concentrate on the people who do want your age group. When you do a search tick the box that says "I must match their age". That way the people who aren't interested in your age won't show up "
Absolutely this...although our children's age... its not for us simply because of the age but plenty of people the same age as you guys or older...certainly never any judgement on our part ever  |
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find a lot of young people have no intention of meeting, they put zero effort into their profile and send one word replies.
they log on late on a Saturday night when pissed up or on "substsances", for titilation. then disappear for a month |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There is a large chunk who are put off due to age, just focus on the ones who aren't. Both meets I have had were under 30, all interest from older members just lead to ghosting in the end. |
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"find a lot of young people have no intention of meeting, they put zero effort into their profile and send one word replies.
they log on late on a Saturday night when pissed up or on "substsances", for titilation. then disappear for a month"
That's pretty broadsweeping but generally true. People on this site want more than just looks and bluster and being able to hold a conversation to me is more important than the size of your (usually very average) dick. Lxx |
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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago
Ashton Under Lyne |
Age is a number. I like much younger and much older so do NOT differentiate.
The problem with youngies is more of a 'mental' issue - that wavelength has to match the often hot bodies they possess. |
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By *ndydj87Man
over a year ago
wolverhampton |
"Age is a number. I like much younger and much older so do NOT differentiate.
The problem with youngies is more of a 'mental' issue - that wavelength has to match the often hot bodies they possess."
I agree completely |
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"Doesn't really seem to be many people our age and no real interest I get that most people don't like the fact there children are the same age and stuff but at the end of the day we're all adults so don't see the problem people are too quick to judge x"
There are all ages in clubs, that may be your best bet. You get to see and talk to people, rather than the fantasists and timewasters on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Age is just a number G and I have an eight year age gap but we clicked instantly when we met.
We judge couples or people by how they are with us and how they conduct themselves.
The OP is younger than us but their pictures are nice and if we spoke, got on etc then age wouldn't be an issue for us 25 or 52 it's the people we are attracted too. |
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By *xXAnon OP Couple
over a year ago
Leeds |
We've been to clubs on holiday and absolutely loved it that's why we came to this site everyone was so kind and welcoming all age groups and made us feel comfortable even though we was the youngest there x |
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By *xXAnon OP Couple
over a year ago
Leeds |
But it just isn't the same online we prefer being able to talk to people in person so probably would be better for us to stick to clubs rather than texting you can't tell what someone is like until you meet them really |
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"But it just isn't the same online we prefer being able to talk to people in person so probably would be better for us to stick to clubs rather than texting you can't tell what someone is like until you meet them really "
You seem very balanced, clubs are definitely a good call, good luck in what ever you decided |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As others have said, use the search facility so people match with your age etc.
We have set our age range and we like to generally stick to it, it's just our preference, if we sat next to you in a club we'd happily chat to you but as play mates we prefer someone closer to our age range.
Good luck with whatever it is you're looking for. |
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I'd suggest you keep visiting some of the excellent UK clubs and go from there.
Most of the club patrons I've met at the likes of Quest or Chameleons have a profile on here.
The club can be the perfect place to expand your network.... And if you wish, a little fun |
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"Yeah I understand that but just think people our age have a bad reputation and it's not the case for all of us we can have fun and laughs with any age just depends on the person x"
People of every age have a bad reputation. You should look at the contempt in the way people write and talk about boomers as if we're responsible for every evil in the world.
I can have fun and laughs with any age, I frequently do with my extended family and previously in my job. I just don't want to have sex with them . Sorry and all that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But it just isn't the same online we prefer being able to talk to people in person so probably would be better for us to stick to clubs rather than texting you can't tell what someone is like until you meet them really "
I can only agree.. in real life I have a totally different experience than online, BUT I guess online you can curate more to what you want wheras in real life spontaneouism can take effect |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The big issue I have with this site is how the older bunch can anyone claim that us "youngsters" are lacking maturity or life experience when a lot of us probably have more of both than people twice our age? One response I received from a woman a while ago, which is a perfect example, was that she wasn't interested because my "lack of life experience being a young boy" would leave much to desire, without realising I've managed and ran events in Ibiza, London and Berlin's largest clubs/venues, worked with some of Europe's biggest DJ's and promoters and already lived in 5 countries. What life experience am I lacking exactly lol? Just irritates me how the older bunch on this site can make these sweeping assumptions that everyone who's still in the prime of their youth "lacks experience"
Same for the "same age as my children" excuse. Age preference is perfectly fine, but last time I recalled, 24 is not a child's age and it just comes across as an attempt at belittlement every time that line is used. What happens when their children are 35? 40? Will they still be using that same excuse then lmfao? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But it just isn't the same online we prefer being able to talk to people in person so probably would be better for us to stick to clubs rather than texting you can't tell what someone is like until you meet them really "
If you want some genuinely brilliant kink/fetish/play friendly club recommendations where the production value of these kink raves is incredible and the vast majority of people who attend are within our age ranges (20's/early 30's) feel free to drop me a message!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah I understand that but just think people our age have a bad reputation and it's not the case for all of us we can have fun and laughs with any age just depends on the person x"
Nothing to do with having a bad rep
It's purely preference same as everything else |
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"The big issue I have with this site is how the older bunch can anyone claim that us "youngsters" are lacking maturity or life experience when a lot of us probably have more of both than people twice our age? One response I received from a woman a while ago, which is a perfect example, was that she wasn't interested because my "lack of life experience being a young boy" would leave much to desire, without realising I've managed and ran events in Ibiza, London and Berlin's largest clubs/venues, worked with some of Europe's biggest DJ's and promoters and already lived in 5 countries. What life experience am I lacking exactly lol? Just irritates me how the older bunch on this site can make these sweeping assumptions that everyone who's still in the prime of their youth "lacks experience"
Same for the "same age as my children" excuse. Age preference is perfectly fine, but last time I recalled, 24 is not a child's age and it just comes across as an attempt at belittlement every time that line is used. What happens when their children are 35? 40? Will they still be using that same excuse then lmfao? "
So you're accusing us "older bunch" of making sweeping generalisations while making sweeping generalisations about us.
It isn't an attempt to belittle anybody by saying they're the same age as my children or non existent grandchildren, it's fact. I prefer not to have sex with people of that age but I'm more than happy to socialise with people of any age.
I think accepting that you won't appeal to everyone sexually whatever your age is something that makes fab life a lot easier to deal with
I'm sorry that one person told you you lack life experience though. However please don't assume we all think that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The big issue I have with this site is how the older bunch can anyone claim that us "youngsters" are lacking maturity or life experience when a lot of us probably have more of both than people twice our age? One response I received from a woman a while ago, which is a perfect example, was that she wasn't interested because my "lack of life experience being a young boy" would leave much to desire, without realising I've managed and ran events in Ibiza, London and Berlin's largest clubs/venues, worked with some of Europe's biggest DJ's and promoters and already lived in 5 countries. What life experience am I lacking exactly lol? Just irritates me how the older bunch on this site can make these sweeping assumptions that everyone who's still in the prime of their youth "lacks experience"
Same for the "same age as my children" excuse. Age preference is perfectly fine, but last time I recalled, 24 is not a child's age and it just comes across as an attempt at belittlement every time that line is used. What happens when their children are 35? 40? Will they still be using that same excuse then lmfao? "
Was this comment supposed to show that you don't lack maturity?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Was this comment supposed to show that you don't lack maturity? "
No, it was supposed to be a comment talking about two things that irritate me, as well as a lot of other much more youthful people. |
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We aren’t too concerned about younger peoples ages, I do the same checks I do with any profile we look at, do We like the photos, have they got safe sex ticked, read profile, are we looking for similar things, and do they sound like people we could converse with and have a laugh together.
However I completely understand that some people are put off by having children the same age, I guess our children always feel young to us whatever age they are and so in turn people their age would feel young.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sorry your having troubles OP. I first joined years ago and can't say I had the same experience xx"
How am I supposed to focus on my work with that booty in my face  |
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Most attention I get is off younger ladies, they seem to like older guys ..
My preference is probably people my own age because I like conversations with like minded people too and not just sex..
But the younger ladies I’ve met have been amazing and absolutely brilliant people..
Never pre judge people I reckon, age really doesn’t matter |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sorry your having troubles OP. I first joined years ago and can't say I had the same experience xx
How am I supposed to focus on my work with that booty in my face "
Just imagine being in it lol xx |
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"The big issue I have with this site is how the older bunch can anyone claim that us "youngsters" are lacking maturity or life experience when a lot of us probably have more of both than people twice our age? One response I received from a woman a while ago, which is a perfect example, was that she wasn't interested because my "lack of life experience being a young boy" would leave much to desire, without realising I've managed and ran events in Ibiza, London and Berlin's largest clubs/venues, worked with some of Europe's biggest DJ's and promoters and already lived in 5 countries. What life experience am I lacking exactly lol? Just irritates me how the older bunch on this site can make these sweeping assumptions that everyone who's still in the prime of their youth "lacks experience"
Same for the "same age as my children" excuse. Age preference is perfectly fine, but last time I recalled, 24 is not a child's age and it just comes across as an attempt at belittlement every time that line is used. What happens when their children are 35? 40? Will they still be using that same excuse then lmfao? "
Whatever age someone’s children are they will always be their children.
So if we choose not to have sexual experiences with people of our children's age that’s our choice. Just like some couples don’t like to meet couples with a bi male….
Whatever your life experiences have been it wouldn’t make a difference. |
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"The big issue I have with this site is how the older bunch can anyone claim that us "youngsters" are lacking maturity or life experience when a lot of us probably have more of both than people twice our age? One response I received from a woman a while ago, which is a perfect example, was that she wasn't interested because my "lack of life experience being a young boy" would leave much to desire, without realising I've managed and ran events in Ibiza, London and Berlin's largest clubs/venues, worked with some of Europe's biggest DJ's and promoters and already lived in 5 countries. What life experience am I lacking exactly lol? Just irritates me how the older bunch on this site can make these sweeping assumptions that everyone who's still in the prime of their youth "lacks experience"
Same for the "same age as my children" excuse. Age preference is perfectly fine, but last time I recalled, 24 is not a child's age and it just comes across as an attempt at belittlement every time that line is used. What happens when their children are 35? 40? Will they still be using that same excuse then lmfao? "
It's not an excuse as far as I'm concerned and I don't care how much life experience people have or don't have at any age.
I don't meet or engage with anyone on here within 10 years of my kids ages and that lower age filter is adjusted every year in line with their ages.
My eldest is 30 and I have no desire whatsoever to have sex with anyone that age.
Age is the first thing I look for in a profile and if they are outside my filters I don't even read the profile or look at the pics.
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"Doesn't really seem to be many people our age and no real interest I get that most people don't like the fact there children are the same age and stuff but at the end of the day we're all adults so don't see the problem people are too quick to judge x"
We feel your pain. Not many our ages around us either. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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age will mean everything to some and nothing to others and guess what both are right ..... young swingers will have it harder we know we started of as young swingers it seems the bulk of women / couples swingers are 35 - 55 with either side of those numbers thining out |
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