How many women enjoy being a slut?
I don't mean to use slut in a negative or shaming sense, and for lack of a better term, I mean it in the sense of getting so lost in being turned on that they just cant get enough?
Of course there may also be women who openly admit to liking being called a slut, and if that's you then that's good too!
I used to know a woman who just the sight of a hard cock would send her into a frenzy of needing it right then and there.
I've seen women in clubs too so lost in lust that they will take every cock presented to them in any hole available
So I just wondered how common this is, and how many women will admit to feeling this way? |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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I enjoy sex especially with the right person it's amazing.
The sight of hard dicks of people I don't know or want to have sex with does not turn me on if it did I'd be fucking all of fab. The site of my fwbs one well that's a different matter .
I'm not a slut tho I hate the word, as far as I'm concerned it always has negative connotations. |
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"I'm not a slut tho I hate the word, as far as I'm concerned it always has negative connotations. "
Some people like to feel like a slut sometimes, some people want to fuck someone slutty, but I agree it’s generally not a term of endearment. |
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"I'm not a slut tho I hate the word, as far as I'm concerned it always has negative connotations.
Some people like to feel like a slut sometimes, some people want to fuck someone slutty, but I agree it’s generally not a term of endearment."
Hence why I said for lack of a better term. |
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I've always been very sexual and enjoy having plentiful and different sexual experiences, which usually involves having sex with lots of different people. I just love sex. I've been called a slut most of my life, I don't mind, I'm perfectly comfortable being one. Xx |
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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago
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I have been in those places before. It manifests in total focus for one person though and it's part of my submissive mindset.
Wouldn't call it "being a slut" but like you, also don't know exactly what I'd call it.
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
Bristol |
We both love being called sluts, and we’ve met numerous women who feel the same way. It’s an empowering word for us, about feeling free in the bedroom to revel in sexuality, and delight in behaviour that many people would fund shameful.
But like most words that are exciting to play with their power in the bedroom, if it’s being used as an insult, then it’s just an insult.  |
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over a year ago
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"It's exactly about power...but I'm not sure how empowering it really is to reclaim the word "
Have you heard of Slut Walks? I think they're quite empowering for women. |
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Possibly it's an age thing but slut has hugely negative connotations for me. I don't really understand why there has to be a special word for women who enjoy sex a lot with lots of different people, especially a word that lots of people find offensive. |
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For want of a better word, it sums me up, in the right circumstances, hence my username - which I've had almost 15 years, despite many thoughts on changing it. I have no shame in being a bit wild and greedy but am selective.
I'm off to the gym shortly and some of the guys will pick up on my hunger. I'm not a prick-tease, as many of them have ready access to fuck me.  |
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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago
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"Possibly it's an age thing but slut has hugely negative connotations for me. I don't really understand why there has to be a special word for women who enjoy sex a lot with lots of different people, especially a word that lots of people find offensive. "
I was just about to comment similar-it definitely feels like an insult to me- there's a few words to describe women who enjoy a freer sex life that I find derogatory, but none for men.
The sight of an erect penis doesn't necessarily have me desperate for more, but there are other sensory things that might make my pulse quicken a bit- such as scent or eye contact |
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A term used so often on here, yet it used to be reserved for the bedroom
I guess we all have a bit of slut in us, its just how that is brought out
I am bisexual, so get to enjoy a mix of scenarios
J xx  |
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But they a time and a place
Ie during the act and after the act till they leave yes
In a message or the street or something no "
Absolutely agree, not a term I would use generally
But then I've had women ask me to call them a slut while I've been fucking them, so it's a really unusual, context based term. |
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I think Vixen is a better term for a lady who enjoys sex, if a lady’s into being humiliated then Slut may do it for them but as others have said it may be an age thing.
But as always each to their own and as long as no one’s offended then it’s all good |
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"I think Vixen is a better term for a lady who enjoys sex, if a lady’s into being humiliated then Slut may do it for them but as others have said it may be an age thing.
But as always each to their own and as long as no one’s offended then it’s all good"
When I hear the vixens getting pounded by the dog foxes in the middle of the night they certainly don’t sound like they are enjoying it  |
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"I think Vixen is a better term for a lady who enjoys sex, if a lady’s into being humiliated then Slut may do it for them but as others have said it may be an age thing.
But as always each to their own and as long as no one’s offended then it’s all good
When I hear the vixens getting pounded by the dog foxes in the middle of the night they certainly don’t sound like they are enjoying it "
That made me laugh ?? |
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"It's exactly about power...but I'm not sure how empowering it really is to reclaim the word
Have you heard of Slut Walks? I think they're quite empowering for women. "
Is this something you would find empowering? |
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"It's exactly about power...but I'm not sure how empowering it really is to reclaim the word
Have you heard of Slut Walks? I think they're quite empowering for women.
Is this something you would find empowering?"
Yes, I think so. The book "The Ethical Slut" talks about why the authors chose that word for anyone who enjoys sex - again, trying to reclaim it. |
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By *elkieWoman
over a year ago
Durham |
"It's exactly about power...but I'm not sure how empowering it really is to reclaim the word "
For me, hugely. It’s a word that was used to bully me both in childhood and by husbands. I’m not a slut for other people though. I’m reclaiming my own sexuality, not exploring someone else’s. |
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"It's exactly about power...but I'm not sure how empowering it really is to reclaim the word
For me, hugely. It’s a word that was used to bully me both in childhood and by husbands. I’m not a slut for other people though. I’m reclaiming my own sexuality, not exploring someone else’s."
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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The problem I found with men thinking a woman who enjoys sex is a slut, is the way they treat me.
No respect, and they think they can do anything they want and I'll be gagging for it whenever they want me.
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"How many women enjoy being a slut?
I don't mean to use slut in a negative or shaming sense, and for lack of a better term, I mean it in the sense of getting so lost in being turned on that they just cant get enough?
Of course there may also be women who openly admit to liking being called a slut, and if that's you then that's good too!
I used to know a woman who just the sight of a hard cock would send her into a frenzy of needing it right then and there.
I've seen women in clubs too so lost in lust that they will take every cock presented to them in any hole available
So I just wondered how common this is, and how many women will admit to feeling this way?"
maybe lustfully wanton is a better phrase to use |
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"It's exactly about power...but I'm not sure how empowering it really is to reclaim the word
Have you heard of Slut Walks? I think they're quite empowering for women.
Is this something you would find empowering?
Yes, I think so. The book "The Ethical Slut" talks about why the authors chose that word for anyone who enjoys sex - again, trying to reclaim it. "
I guess I don't understand it as I don't feel I've lost anything that needs to be reclaimed |
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"It's exactly about power...but I'm not sure how empowering it really is to reclaim the word
Have you heard of Slut Walks? I think they're quite empowering for women.
Is this something you would find empowering?
Yes, I think so. The book "The Ethical Slut" talks about why the authors chose that word for anyone who enjoys sex - again, trying to reclaim it.
I guess I don't understand it as I don't feel I've lost anything that needs to be reclaimed "
It's not reclaiming in that sense - it's taking a word that historically men have used to degrade women and turning it around to be positive. |
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"It's exactly about power...but I'm not sure how empowering it really is to reclaim the word
Have you heard of Slut Walks? I think they're quite empowering for women. "
Tell me more about the intent behind slut walks ..and is there a snail trail |
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"It's exactly about power...but I'm not sure how empowering it really is to reclaim the word
Have you heard of Slut Walks? I think they're quite empowering for women.
Tell me more about the intent behind slut walks ..and is there a snail trail "
Or you could Google it for yourself... |
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"It's exactly about power...but I'm not sure how empowering it really is to reclaim the word
Have you heard of Slut Walks? I think they're quite empowering for women.
Tell me more about the intent behind slut walks ..and is there a snail trail
Or you could Google it for yourself... "
Will you take every cock presented to you in any hole available?  |
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"It's exactly about power...but I'm not sure how empowering it really is to reclaim the word
Have you heard of Slut Walks? I think they're quite empowering for women.
Tell me more about the intent behind slut walks ..and is there a snail trail
Or you could Google it for yourself...
Will you take every cock presented to you in any hole available? "
Go away, Dan |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Love being a slut. In person I’m often shy and embarrass easily, but when I’m being naughty, especially with a playmate instead of hubby, I become lost and insatiable, and absolutely craving more and more x |
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My late wife was more than happy with the term slut in the right situation, we had regular meets with a couple of male friends as a cuckold scenario and she was happy to to play the role and also with the term slut being used, it was also a thing of trust that we built up in this relationship.
If we went to a club for a “normal” night together, then it was a different situation again as we played together. |
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"I've always been very sexual and enjoy having plentiful and different sexual experiences, which usually involves having sex with lots of different people. I just love sex. I've been called a slut most of my life, I don't mind, I'm perfectly comfortable being one. Xx"
Same here and I've got broad shoulders so shout it my way if needed .... |
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
Bristol |
"I love being called a slut in the bedroom because that's actually how I behave & I love it. Being called one randomly not so much
Mrs x"
Yes…context is important with so many words that find their correct place in the bedroom. |
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"Possibly it's an age thing but slut has hugely negative connotations for me. I don't really understand why there has to be a special word for women who enjoy sex a lot with lots of different people, especially a word that lots of people find offensive. "
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Totally agree and like other anachronistic terms it leeches into real life where some men aren't able to differentiate between confident, empowered women and "sluts". |
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
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"Possibly it's an age thing but slut has hugely negative connotations for me. I don't really understand why there has to be a special word for women who enjoy sex a lot with lots of different people, especially a word that lots of people find offensive.
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Totally agree and like other anachronistic terms it leeches into real life where some men aren't able to differentiate between confident, empowered women and "sluts"."
That’s a problem with men, not language. |
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"Possibly it's an age thing but slut has hugely negative connotations for me. I don't really understand why there has to be a special word for women who enjoy sex a lot with lots of different people, especially a word that lots of people find offensive.
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Totally agree and like other anachronistic terms it leeches into real life where some men aren't able to differentiate between confident, empowered women and "sluts".
That’s a problem with men, not language."
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It may well be, but most women dont endorse such language or promote the associations made by such terms in a wider context. |
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"Possibly it's an age thing but slut has hugely negative connotations for me. I don't really understand why there has to be a special word for women who enjoy sex a lot with lots of different people, especially a word that lots of people find offensive.
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Totally agree and like other anachronistic terms it leeches into real life where some men aren't able to differentiate between confident, empowered women and "sluts".
That’s a problem with men, not language."
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I've cammed with quite a number of women on Flingster who have wanted me to call them slut, whore, or other degrading names. Having been brought up to be nice to people it's not the easiest thing in the world! However I'm surprised by the member of women who get turned on by this. |
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By *halMan
over a year ago
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"It's exactly about power...but I'm not sure how empowering it really is to reclaim the word
Have you heard of Slut Walks? I think they're quite empowering for women. "
What are they????? x |
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"Possibly it's an age thing but slut has hugely negative connotations for me. I don't really understand why there has to be a special word for women who enjoy sex a lot with lots of different people, especially a word that lots of people find offensive.
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Totally agree and like other anachronistic terms it leeches into real life where some men aren't able to differentiate between confident, empowered women and "sluts"."
I'm not sure it's that they dont understand the difference..its that the fantasy aligns more to the latter than the former. Intentional or otherwise, the language of OP suggests this is the case |
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"Possibly it's an age thing but slut has hugely negative connotations for me. I don't really understand why there has to be a special word for women who enjoy sex a lot with lots of different people, especially a word that lots of people find offensive.
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Totally agree and like other anachronistic terms it leeches into real life where some men aren't able to differentiate between confident, empowered women and "sluts".
I'm not sure it's that they dont understand the difference..its that the fantasy aligns more to the latter than the former. Intentional or otherwise, the language of OP suggests this is the case "
Again, I'll point out that I used that word for lack of a better, regularly used and accepted, alternative |
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"Possibly it's an age thing but slut has hugely negative connotations for me. I don't really understand why there has to be a special word for women who enjoy sex a lot with lots of different people, especially a word that lots of people find offensive.
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Totally agree and like other anachronistic terms it leeches into real life where some men aren't able to differentiate between confident, empowered women and "sluts".
I'm not sure it's that they dont understand the difference..its that the fantasy aligns more to the latter than the former. Intentional or otherwise, the language of OP suggests this is the case
Again, I'll point out that I used that word for lack of a better, regularly used and accepted, alternative"
I find the word "woman" suits me just fine.
I know and understand that for many women the word slut is acceptable even celebrated but personally I'm not sure why my womanhood needs to be further classified by how much I enjoy sex and who with.
That being said the people who enjoy using the word should continue to and ignore the likes of me  |
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By *alypsoWoman
over a year ago
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"How many women enjoy being a slut?
I don't mean to use slut in a negative or shaming sense, and for lack of a better term, I mean it in the sense of getting so lost in being turned on that they just cant get enough?
Of course there may also be women who openly admit to liking being called a slut, and if that's you then that's good too!
I used to know a woman who just the sight of a hard cock would send her into a frenzy of needing it right then and there.
I've seen women in clubs too so lost in lust that they will take every cock presented to them in any hole available
So I just wondered how common this is, and how many women will admit to feeling this way?"
I am JTS but in reality it’s a label for just having fun. Open & liberated doesn’t sound alluring. |
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It is only acceptable in my world to say “my slut” and various other words, when you are firmly in my head and taking control 
Other than that, my friends are allowed to call me a total slag in the tone of Kat Slater |
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"It is only acceptable in my world to say “my slut” and various other words, when you are firmly in my head and taking control
Other than that, my friends are allowed to call me a total slag in the tone of Kat Slater
You are far sexier than her though "
You haven’t seen me in a leopard print dress! I’m more Nessa! |
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"It is only acceptable in my world to say “my slut” and various other words, when you are firmly in my head and taking control
Other than that, my friends are allowed to call me a total slag in the tone of Kat Slater
You are far sexier than her though
You haven’t seen me in a leopard print dress! I’m more Nessa! "
Right that's it we are going on a date then |
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"How many women enjoy being a slut?
I don't mean to use slut in a negative or shaming sense, and for lack of a better term, I mean it in the sense of getting so lost in being turned on that they just cant get enough?
Of course there may also be women who openly admit to liking being called a slut, and if that's you then that's good too!
I used to know a woman who just the sight of a hard cock would send her into a frenzy of needing it right then and there.
I've seen women in clubs too so lost in lust that they will take every cock presented to them in any hole available
So I just wondered how common this is, and how many women will admit to feeling this way?
I am JTS but in reality it’s a label for just having fun. Open & liberated doesn’t sound alluring. "
Isn't that the crux of it...being alluring to men?
And I don't get what's empowering about that |
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"It is only acceptable in my world to say “my slut” and various other words, when you are firmly in my head and taking control
Other than that, my friends are allowed to call me a total slag in the tone of Kat Slater
You are far sexier than her though
You haven’t seen me in a leopard print dress! I’m more Nessa!
Right that's it we are going on a date then "
Alright I feels tidy. I’ll get my coat then. |
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"It is only acceptable in my world to say “my slut” and various other words, when you are firmly in my head and taking control
Other than that, my friends are allowed to call me a total slag in the tone of Kat Slater
You are far sexier than her though
You haven’t seen me in a leopard print dress! I’m more Nessa!
Right that's it we are going on a date then
Alright I feels tidy. I’ll get my coat then. "
Can I come too  x |
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Have met women who would love to be free of the shackles that life has put on them, be good, girls don't behave like that etc.
It's ingrained and they find it hard to let go.
I do my best it's hard but I get pleasure from helping them out.
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"Possibly it's an age thing but slut has hugely negative connotations for me. I don't really understand why there has to be a special word for women who enjoy sex a lot with lots of different people, especially a word that lots of people find offensive. "
I think it is very much a generational thing. My granny used to call people who did bot keep their used clean ‘sluts’. Later I gather the term moved on from being one of tardiness and laziness to one of promiscuity and indiscretion.
These days I think it is interchangeable with hotwife since housekeepers, household appliances and cleaning services make being a traditional ‘slut’ more challenging |
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"How many women enjoy being a slut?
I don't mean to use slut in a negative or shaming sense, and for lack of a better term, I mean it in the sense of getting so lost in being turned on that they just cant get enough?
Of course there may also be women who openly admit to liking being called a slut, and if that's you then that's good too!
I used to know a woman who just the sight of a hard cock would send her into a frenzy of needing it right then and there.
I've seen women in clubs too so lost in lust that they will take every cock presented to them in any hole available
So I just wondered how common this is, and how many women will admit to feeling this way?
I am JTS but in reality it’s a label for just having fun. Open & liberated doesn’t sound alluring.
Isn't that the crux of it...being alluring to men?
And I don't get what's empowering about that "
Many people on here have many different ways of feeling empowerment. We don’t have to understand it. Just celebrate the fact they can have somewhere like this to get what they need. As long as it’s not morally reprehensible - and you all know what I mean. That’s what I love about fab! |
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over a year ago
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"How many women enjoy being a slut?
I don't mean to use slut in a negative or shaming sense, and for lack of a better term, I mean it in the sense of getting so lost in being turned on that they just cant get enough?
Of course there may also be women who openly admit to liking being called a slut, and if that's you then that's good too!
I used to know a woman who just the sight of a hard cock would send her into a frenzy of needing it right then and there.
I've seen women in clubs too so lost in lust that they will take every cock presented to them in any hole available
So I just wondered how common this is, and how many women will admit to feeling this way?
I am JTS but in reality it’s a label for just having fun. Open & liberated doesn’t sound alluring.
Isn't that the crux of it...being alluring to men?
And I don't get what's empowering about that
Many people on here have many different ways of feeling empowerment. We don’t have to understand it. Just celebrate the fact they can have somewhere like this to get what they need. As long as it’s not morally reprehensible - and you all know what I mean. That’s what I love about fab!"
Exactly. If it doesn’t flick your switch, it’s not for you, and that’s all there is to it. All you need to know and understand is it flicks the switches of others. |
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It’s such a Subjective question to be honest though!
As most peoples on the meaning will vary quite a bit.
The word itself still seems for some to be routed in the past as some sort derogatory word for admitting that you simply enjoy anything other than Vanilla sex
For some guys it’s still only used as a self defence mechanism when they think they’re too good to be turned down by the opposite sex
And for females i think it’s seen as away to bring others down when secretly they are maybe jealous that you don’t have the same “commitments” as them
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And for females i think it’s seen as away to bring others down when secretly they are maybe jealous that you don’t have the same “commitments” as them
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Oh for goodness sake...so secretly, every woman just wants to be a slut? |
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"It’s such a Subjective question to be honest though!
As most peoples on the meaning will vary quite a bit.
The word itself still seems for some to be routed in the past as some sort derogatory word for admitting that you simply enjoy anything other than Vanilla sex
For some guys it’s still only used as a self defence mechanism when they think they’re too good to be turned down by the opposite sex
And for females i think it’s seen as away to bring others down when secretly they are maybe jealous that you don’t have the same “commitments” as them
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I enjoy being called a slut in the right situation eg if my husband is watching me with another guy he will often call me a slut which is super hot. I wouldn’t be as impressed with him coming in from work and hitting it with “ hi slut I’m home” I also wouldn’t mind my partners referring to me as a slut during sex but wouldn’t be keen on it being used in an opening message x |
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No not at all,
but I do think that there are occasions where people who are stuck in ruts and loveless marriages or still stick to more traditional values will judge other being a bit more free spirited by their own morals.
Even though a small part of them would love to have that freed without being judged |
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