"Why is it so hard for us men to get meets on fab?
It’s not really, if you know how to the play the game 
That as well- so clubs, socials, being in the right place at the right time. "
Which is what I meant  |
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"Thanks everyone just going to keep trying lol  "
You're lucky, if your location is correct, as you have at least one great club on your doorstep. And I think quite busy organised socials scene, if swingers club is too much. |
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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago
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"Why is it so hard for us men to get meets on fab?"
Have reasonable expectations ,treat everyone with respect and be yourself (if you dont you will get found out lol ) attend socials , clubs etc let people get to know you ... its not hard at all  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are alot I'd genuinely nice guys on here who are actually here for a good time, however there are alot that are here because they think they'll get a quick fuck
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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so op a simple sum ... 100 men 1 woman leaves you with assuming that one of those men is a match (often not) 99% losing out .... and thats why 99% of men find it very hard ...
i can get over 500 messages a week and from that 500 still not get a match.
and with men joining at a fast rate it will only continue to get worse i suspect more couples and woman leave daily than those that join so pretty bleak for men on fab |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because it’s not dial a shag. It’s a swinging site. Too many men thinking the former.
Exactly…
Swinging is about making friendships and connections, not trying to get a shag asap..
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but there are parts of swinging where couples and women are just looking for shags with no connection swinging is a wide and veried scene its not what a few think it is .... when they say its a sex site i say yes but its a swingers sex site |
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"so op a simple sum ... 100 men 1 woman leaves you with assuming that one of those men is a match (often not) 99% losing out .... and thats why 99% of men find it very hard ...
i can get over 500 messages a week and from that 500 still not get a match.
and with men joining at a fast rate it will only continue to get worse i suspect more couples and woman leave daily than those that join so pretty bleak for men on fab"
It’s only bleak for guys who don’t know how to chat to people..
It’s the same in any walk of life, some guys just know how to chat to women..
I’ve many female friends on here and some of the messages they get on here are laughable..
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"so op a simple sum ... 100 men 1 woman leaves you with assuming that one of those men is a match (often not) 99% losing out .... and thats why 99% of men find it very hard ...
i can get over 500 messages a week and from that 500 still not get a match. I know how to talk to people I am good at that lol
and with men joining at a fast rate it will only continue to get worse i suspect more couples and woman leave daily than those that join so pretty bleak for men on fab
It’s only bleak for guys who don’t know how to chat to people..
It’s the same in any walk of life, some guys just know how to chat to women..
I’ve many female friends on here and some of the messages they get on here are laughable..
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By (user no longer on site)
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"so op a simple sum ... 100 men 1 woman leaves you with assuming that one of those men is a match (often not) 99% losing out .... and thats why 99% of men find it very hard ...
i can get over 500 messages a week and from that 500 still not get a match.
and with men joining at a fast rate it will only continue to get worse i suspect more couples and woman leave daily than those that join so pretty bleak for men on fab
It’s only bleak for guys who don’t know how to chat to people..
It’s the same in any walk of life, some guys just know how to chat to women..
I’ve many female friends on here and some of the messages they get on here are laughable..
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this is true too... but there are alot who treat women fine on here who still get nowhere ... there is a bit of luck for some i think the best way for guys today is clubs ... but the last 2 vists to clubs we've made we notice alot of couples are now ignoring men more so than before .
like you say how you comunicate is key totally agree
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why is it so hard for us men to get meets on fab?"
Second post in 2 days saying the same thing.
Just posted on another thread where a guy has done the basics and is doing well. No magic formula, he's just doing the work. |
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"Why is it so hard for us men to get meets on fab?
Second post in 2 days saying the same thing.
Just posted on another thread where a guy has done the basics and is doing well. No magic formula, he's just doing the work."
I am trying to put the work in too |
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It's a numbers game too many men not enough single women & couples
For every guy to get 1 meet a year, women would need to be doing at least 2 meets a week which is very unlikely to happen hence why most guys on here won't have any luck
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's a numbers game too many men not enough single women & couples
For every guy to get 1 meet a year, women would need to be doing at least 2 meets a week which is very unlikely to happen hence why most guys on here won't have any luck
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Seeing the high volume of posts and statuses about flaky guys not turning up, I'd suggest the opposite. The number of couples and single women meeting would actually be higher if the quality of single guys was better.
If all the effort put into 'rate my profile posts' and complaining about hard it is as a single guy got channeled into getting veris and attending clubs or socials the landscape would be very different...... |
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"Why is it so hard for us men to get meets on fab?
Second post in 2 days saying the same thing.
Just posted on another thread where a guy has done the basics and is doing well. No magic formula, he's just doing the work. I am trying to put the work in too"
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It took me a year to find the right couple. That was over three years ago and we are still meeting regularly and I've had other good meets too. You just need to keep trying, be visible and have a sensible and clear profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Men off here just want the sex and nothing else.
Not even a social aspect to it.
Then they ignore until the next time they want to get their dick wet .
I wouldn’t meet another bloke off here  |
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"Men off here just want the sex and nothing else.
Not even a social aspect to it.
Then they ignore until the next time they want to get their dick wet .
I wouldn’t meet another bloke off here "
Oh  x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Men off here just want the sex and nothing else.
Not even a social aspect to it.
Then they ignore until the next time they want to get their dick wet .
I wouldn’t meet another bloke off here
Oh x"
You don’t count cos you aren’t a wanker |
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"Men off here just want the sex and nothing else.
Not even a social aspect to it.
Then they ignore until the next time they want to get their dick wet .
I wouldn’t meet another bloke off here
Oh x
You don’t count cos you aren’t a wanker "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So many reasons. Most men are far too pushy. Far to many single men. Far to many dick pics. Because there is so much choice, women can aim higher than dating life. Certain guys have no issues, eg black guys (loads of women want BBC, fit bodies with big cocks are always popular.
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