"How do you get recognised by couples? Want to join a couple but have trouble organising anything "
Make sure you send a message taylored to them showing you have thoroughly read their profile. Give them as much info about yourself. Make sure your profile has plenty of info and pics.
Just remember there are hundreds of guys to every couple / lady on fab all messaging trying to get noticed so try to stand out from the crowd. |
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Don't send a dick pic and ask for fun ?? and realise that the male might be the one reading the message so although calling Mr4 sexy does give him a ego boost etc etc etc ....but sadly single males are many and we are few so simple maths in the end .. |
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"How do you get recognised by couples? Want to join a couple but have trouble organising anything "
Your OP is longer than your profile... how do you expect to have any success if you can't even be bothered to write a profile?
It's hard for single men on here anyway, especially youngsters. |
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By *uysx2Couple (MM)
over a year ago
Birmingham |
When messaging a couple only ever address the female half, they love this. Always but always send a dick pic in your first message. Text speak is an essential. Asking to meet right away is a massive turn on for the ladies, as is telling them you're passing through for a couple of hours in your truck. Finally, if a couple put that they are not looking for single guys on their profile, send them a message because you never know you could be the one to turn them. Good luck. |
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"As an experienced swinger..
Stay well clear of couples..
Stick to singles .. far more fun..
But the OP really wants to play with couples...."
Obviously..
But I was just giving my opinion, which is what forums are for..
Wasn’t causing any offence, just passing on my experience.
The fantasy is definitely better than the reality.. |
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"Thanks everyone for your replies, will be updating my profile and taking all the comments on board "
Well done on updating your profile, not everyone takes advice and follows it but you have, a step in the right direction. |
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"As an experienced swinger..
Stay well clear of couples..
Stick to singles .. far more fun..
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Not from my experience.. prefer couples, from experience it’s hubby vetting men for his naughty wife, more of a safety for women having hubby keeping an eye out |
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Professional what??? ??
For us talking as if there’s only one person about to read is a quick delete, also not reading our profile is a great way to show the lack of time some invest.
Let’s face it we aren’t into gangbangs as a couple and yet recently we were invited to travel 300 miles for the pleasure of others, oh and if we wanted to leave the fella at home… |
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"Quite a few are put off when people refer to themselves as "professional"
In our view it just comes across as a load of pretentious self proclaimed nonsense.
This is a deal breaker for us too"
I think they expect to get paid for their made up swinging profession. |
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"Quite a few are put off when people refer to themselves as "professional"
In our view it just comes across as a load of pretentious self proclaimed nonsense."
Agree totally.
It seems to us that some people just have no idea.
This is fair enough, but there is loads of advice available on these Forums, all that is needed is a little bit of effort. |
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"When I refer to myself as a professional I am not referring to swinging. I am a young professional in my work outside of this site. Hope this helps "
It's your profile to word how you wish, you can't please everyone so you just carry on being you  |
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We're a couple with a differant approch. We put a meet or status uo if we're looking. Maybe approch couples who are 'activly' looking. And offer what they are after. If they offer, Weds at 1pm. Don't message saying you can do Thursday at 3pm.
First public pic you have is a close up cock pic. I'd put that in freinds, to show on request. We don't need it, shoved in our face. |
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