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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Absolutely !, we don't rule out play on the same day though  . After eight years here we have learnt the hard way that socials are a must, too many weirdos and utterly misleading photos on here  x"
Literally this. Doesn't have to be drawn out. Quick coffee and a chat is good. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We would prefer a social first, although a FaceTime call is our first approach before any meet, as you can get a good feeling from that. And eliminates fakes too x"
That's a good shout |
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"Absolutely !, we don't rule out play on the same day though . After eight years here we have learnt the hard way that socials are a must, too many weirdos and utterly misleading photos on here x"
Spot on. There has to be some chemistry too for us, a pretty face with no personality is a turn off! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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First meet is always social only. No sex or sex chat.
If they get arsey or try to hint at sex stuff I won't meet them.
If a man can't accept "no" before we've even met there's not a chance in hell I'd trust him with anything. |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
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I always have a social first, although I have been known to continue things straight after. The only exception would be in a club, then I've had chance to sit and chat first and seen them in person. I also feel safer in a private room in a club, as there are people nearby if there was an issue. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Always without fail.
I arrange to meet and walk the dog along the harbour side. That way if someone doesn’t show up they haven’t wasted my time as Toby needs a walk anyway! "
Great idea. |
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"First meet is always social only. No sex or sex chat.
If they get arsey or try to hint at sex stuff I won't meet them.
If a man can't accept "no" before we've even met there's not a chance in hell I'd trust him with anything. "
Well said. Same for me x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes, always a social first to gauge the attraction and chemistry! Plus I like to make sure they look the same in real life as they do on face pics sent. |
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Yes and I make it clear that there will be no play involved. You never entirely know if you are going to like a person until you have met them in the flesh so that way there is zero expectations on either party x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes and I make it clear that there will be no play involved. You never entirely know if you are going to like a person until you have met them in the flesh so that way there is zero expectations on either party x"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not a woman but I only have socials first and would only have socials first. Doesn’t make sense meeting someone you don’t vibe with. "
Besides I don’t put out until the 3rd date. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yep. Doesn’t matter how attractive a guy is via photo I can’t tell if I want to fuck him without meeting. I’ve had guys I find hellishly attractive with no spark, and guys who have surprised me by making me wet within seconds of sitting down to chat. All about the spark, and I can’t get that from messaging x |
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Definitely.. and rarely play on the same day either.
Been on here ( on and off) for a while and learnt that profiles/people aren't always what they seem!
I have met lots of lovely people on here and friends with some for a few yrs.
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I always have a social before play. I've been very glad of that on occasion, if they've been a bit dodgy on the social at least they don't know where I live.
I also like that if I get stood up I've not put as much effort in as I would if I was planning on having sex, so it feels less of a waste. |
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hilariously soooo true 