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This sounds like a lot of fun - something I think I would really enjoy (as the dd, of course!)
Sadly, every “lg” I chat to just wants money, or elaborate gifts without (ever) actually meeting.
Exploitation of gullible older males? I can watch this porn for free, so don’t need their pics, etc.
Pity, I think this would be a great way to play (in the flesh, so to speak!)
Does anyone actually play (meet) in these roles? |
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over a year ago
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"This sounds like a lot of fun - something I think I would really enjoy (as the dd, of course!)
Sadly, every “lg” I chat to just wants money, or elaborate gifts without (ever) actually meeting.
Exploitation of gullible older males? I can watch this porn for free, so don’t need their pics, etc.
Pity, I think this would be a great way to play (in the flesh, so to speak!)
Does anyone actually play (meet) in these roles?"
Other groups cater to this. Dm me |
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"This sounds like a lot of fun - something I think I would really enjoy (as the dd, of course!)
Sadly, every “lg” I chat to just wants money, or elaborate gifts without (ever) actually meeting.
Exploitation of gullible older males? I can watch this porn for free, so don’t need their pics, etc.
Pity, I think this would be a great way to play (in the flesh, so to speak!)
Does anyone actually play (meet) in these roles?
Other groups cater to this. Dm me "
I look forward to hearing from you…. |
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"This sounds like a lot of fun - something I think I would really enjoy (as the dd, of course!)
Sadly, every “lg” I chat to just wants money, or elaborate gifts without (ever) actually meeting.
Exploitation of gullible older males? I can watch this porn for free, so don’t need their pics, etc.
Pity, I think this would be a great way to play (in the flesh, so to speak!)
Does anyone actually play (meet) in these roles?"
I love this kind of play. However, for me it’s something that develops in time with someone and I couldn’t do it off the bat with a stranger. It’s more than roleplay to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It isn’t roleplay, and it shouldn’t be about money/gifts.
It’s a beautiful, supportive and nurturing dynamic, and can be very beneficial on both sides.
My experience of IG is that there’s a many scammers on there, and that there are lots more genuine people on here. |
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over a year ago
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This is one kink we love to engage in, not as often as we used to but we still love it.
At times its part of our homelife dynamics. We'd love to find someone else to join us, female, male or even a couple.
Certain kinks get a bad reaction on this site which is a shame. As were very kinky and love to try new things. |
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All of the above. This dynamic is something special and can definitely only be engaged in, and enjoyed, when the two parties have built up trust and understanding imo. And no dynamic will be the same. If someone tries to give you a one size fits all they’ve missed the best part of this which is its uniqueness to those people.
Trust. Understanding. Gifting of power if that’s part of it.
So many facets. Main rule is consideration and don’t think the DD really has the power. From there the unique dynamic can be built over time.
Not for a few quid. |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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When two people have that dynamic it’s about so much more than sex, it’s consuming. I’ve never gone looking for lg’s because it’s like a big commitment mentally but also like drug to me. I guess it’s like what falling in love is to vanilla people |
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Getting increasingly interested in this dynamic.....for me, DDlg makes me think of safety. A place where the “little” can completely regress and return to a place where she had no concerns or worries....with my role to care and nurture on a more of an intimate basis. |
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It's an element from BDSM not a game, for some a way of life.
DD is Dom who enjoys a Lg and assumes a role of lover, teacher, and Dominant, it has a softer side than a Ds relationships, but retains the filthy submissive side.
I have been fortunate in enjoying several Lg.
They don't suffer fools or wannabes.
Most on here seem to be fake sadly, but if a lg on here knows different mail me. |
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"Getting increasingly interested in this dynamic.....for me, DDlg makes me think of safety. A place where the “little” can completely regress and return to a place where she had no concerns or worries....with my role to care and nurture on a more of an intimate basis. "
You're referring to age play I think - it doesn't need to involve age play. I have no desire to regress. I just want a more nurturing dynamic with a dominant. |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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"Getting increasingly interested in this dynamic.....for me, DDlg makes me think of safety. A place where the “little” can completely regress and return to a place where she had no concerns or worries....with my role to care and nurture on a more of an intimate basis.
You're referring to age play I think - it doesn't need to involve age play. I have no desire to regress. I just want a more nurturing dynamic with a dominant. "
I’m not one for labels or fake vs real discussions, every dynamic is different but I’ve known Lg’s have dummy’s, teddy’s , colouring books. Mentoring / Nurturing in itself isn’t characteristic of a little girl , it’s just care and protection, I can care and protect big girls too. |
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"Getting increasingly interested in this dynamic.....for me, DDlg makes me think of safety. A place where the “little” can completely regress and return to a place where she had no concerns or worries....with my role to care and nurture on a more of an intimate basis.
You're referring to age play I think - it doesn't need to involve age play. I have no desire to regress. I just want a more nurturing dynamic with a dominant. "
Is Yorkshire nice for a visit at the moment? |
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"Getting increasingly interested in this dynamic.....for me, DDlg makes me think of safety. A place where the “little” can completely regress and return to a place where she had no concerns or worries....with my role to care and nurture on a more of an intimate basis.
You're referring to age play I think - it doesn't need to involve age play. I have no desire to regress. I just want a more nurturing dynamic with a dominant.
I’m not one for labels or fake vs real discussions, every dynamic is different but I’ve known Lg’s have dummy’s, teddy’s , colouring books. Mentoring / Nurturing in itself isn’t characteristic of a little girl , it’s just care and protection, I can care and protect big girls too."
It seems a real discussion to me? I didn't say that nurturing is a characteristic of an LG only. I was saying that age play (or littles) doesn't need to be part of the DDlg dynamic. I say that because it's often the part that puts people off who are otherwise attracted to the concept of safe, caring Daddy Dom looking after his sub. People like me originally. |
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"Getting increasingly interested in this dynamic.....for me, DDlg makes me think of safety. A place where the “little” can completely regress and return to a place where she had no concerns or worries....with my role to care and nurture on a more of an intimate basis.
You're referring to age play I think - it doesn't need to involve age play. I have no desire to regress. I just want a more nurturing dynamic with a dominant.
I’m not one for labels or fake vs real discussions, every dynamic is different but I’ve known Lg’s have dummy’s, teddy’s , colouring books. Mentoring / Nurturing in itself isn’t characteristic of a little girl , it’s just care and protection, I can care and protect big girls too.
It seems a real discussion to me? I didn't say that nurturing is a characteristic of an LG only. I was saying that age play (or littles) doesn't need to be part of the DDlg dynamic. I say that because it's often the part that puts people off who are otherwise attracted to the concept of safe, caring Daddy Dom looking after his sub. People like me originally. "
Spot on, props are not de rigueur for Ddlg I have met some very hot women, who just need to let go of today , and be in another place and feeling safe in the arms of a Dominant lover . |
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Ddlg is a lifestyle to many, not just role play in the bedroom. Theres just as many fake Daddys as there are "gold digger" littles. Which is nit whqt DDlg is about. It's something that takes, reserch and then twice as long to find the DD & LG match.
This applies to care givers, mommies, lb, middles and all others in the spectrum. |
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By *ensualMan
over a year ago
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Although DDlg is not my thing, I know people into that lifestyle. There is, in my view, a difference between DDlg and age play. In age play the lg may also be a little, and do little activities, it is a specific kind of safe space. However DDlg and little play both require the dynamic of the Dom as protector, nurturer and supporter and the submissive giving up certain kinds of adult responsibility.
This is different from the normal protector, nurturer and supporter dynamic (as normal as normal gets) in regular D/S. |
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I really enjoy this dynamic and way of playing is amazing.
Like other who previously posted it’s difficult on here to find a lg who is willing to meet and go from there.
Nothing about money just what pleases both parties |
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"Although DDlg is not my thing, I know people into that lifestyle. There is, in my view, a difference between DDlg and age play. In age play the lg may also be a little, and do little activities, it is a specific kind of safe space. However DDlg and little play both require the dynamic of the Dom as protector, nurturer and supporter and the submissive giving up certain kinds of adult responsibility.
This is different from the normal protector, nurturer and supporter dynamic (as normal as normal gets) in regular D/S."
What kinds of adult responsibility do you mean? I'd associate that with age play. |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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It can be difficult to put in to words and if worded wrong can enforce the age play stereotype that those who don't understand apply to it.
In its most basic form it is (as others have said) a more nurturing and caring side to D/s. They are front and centre traits, less about the dominant side (though that is there) and more about about a protection and innocence in a way.
It will always overlap with other D/s dynamics. Some will implement age play aspects, some will involve intense masochism. It's not wrong to include but it can muddy the waters about what DD/lg is to others. |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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"Getting increasingly interested in this dynamic.....for me, DDlg makes me think of safety. A place where the “little” can completely regress and return to a place where she had no concerns or worries....with my role to care and nurture on a more of an intimate basis.
You're referring to age play I think - it doesn't need to involve age play. I have no desire to regress. I just want a more nurturing dynamic with a dominant.
I’m not one for labels or fake vs real discussions, every dynamic is different but I’ve known Lg’s have dummy’s, teddy’s , colouring books. Mentoring / Nurturing in itself isn’t characteristic of a little girl , it’s just care and protection, I can care and protect big girls too.
It seems a real discussion to me? I didn't say that nurturing is a characteristic of an LG only. I was saying that age play (or littles) doesn't need to be part of the DDlg dynamic. I say that because it's often the part that puts people off who are otherwise attracted to the concept of safe, caring Daddy Dom looking after his sub. People like me originally. "
I meant I just find it tedious , discussing what is real this, true that , fake this etc , and then invariably along come the bdsm police to tell everyone they aren’t doing proper sex as defined by some nerd on a blog. How utterly ridiculous, patronising and judgemental.
But I take your point , age play , the use of the word Daddy and little girl do concern some if they don’t understand.
Maybe a better term is Daddy Dom Looked After Sub (DDLAS) then you don’t have to use offensive words like Little or Girl ?
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"Getting increasingly interested in this dynamic.....for me, DDlg makes me think of safety. A place where the “little” can completely regress and return to a place where she had no concerns or worries....with my role to care and nurture on a more of an intimate basis.
You're referring to age play I think - it doesn't need to involve age play. I have no desire to regress. I just want a more nurturing dynamic with a dominant.
I’m not one for labels or fake vs real discussions, every dynamic is different but I’ve known Lg’s have dummy’s, teddy’s , colouring books. Mentoring / Nurturing in itself isn’t characteristic of a little girl , it’s just care and protection, I can care and protect big girls too.
It seems a real discussion to me? I didn't say that nurturing is a characteristic of an LG only. I was saying that age play (or littles) doesn't need to be part of the DDlg dynamic. I say that because it's often the part that puts people off who are otherwise attracted to the concept of safe, caring Daddy Dom looking after his sub. People like me originally.
I meant I just find it tedious , discussing what is real this, true that , fake this etc , and then invariably along come the bdsm police to tell everyone they aren’t doing proper sex as defined by some nerd on a blog. How utterly ridiculous, patronising and judgemental.
But I take your point , age play , the use of the word Daddy and little girl do concern some if they don’t understand.
Maybe a better term is Daddy Dom Looked After Sub (DDLAS) then you don’t have to use offensive words like Little or Girl ?
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I hadn't found anyone on this thread acting as BDSM police. Some labels can be useful at times, so people can search out more info or so they've got an idea of what to ask for. I don't find any words associated with DDlg offensive, and thank god no-one has come on to lecture about them. |
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"This sounds like a lot of fun - something I think I would really enjoy (as the dd, of course!)
Sadly, every “lg” I chat to just wants money, or elaborate gifts without (ever) actually meeting.
Exploitation of gullible older males? I can watch this porn for free, so don’t need their pics, etc.
Pity, I think this would be a great way to play (in the flesh, so to speak!)
Does anyone actually play (
meet) in these roles?"
There are ladies who genuinely enjoy being in a DDlg relationship though I doubt you will find many on this site. As other posters have said it more akin to the fetish scene. I am in a DDlg relationship with Messy Fairy who used to be active on FS but is now only on fetish sites. DM me for details. |
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"This sounds like a lot of fun - something I think I would really enjoy (as the dd, of course!)
Sadly, every “lg” I chat to just wants money, or elaborate gifts without (ever) actually meeting.
Exploitation of gullible older males? I can watch this porn for free, so don’t need their pics, etc.
Pity, I think this would be a great way to play (in the flesh, so to speak!)
Does anyone actually play (
meet) in these roles?
There are ladies who genuinely enjoy being in a DDlg relationship though I doubt you will find many on this site. As other posters have said it more akin to the fetish scene. I am in a DDlg relationship with Messy Fairy who used to be active on FS but is now only on fetish sites. DM me for details."
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"Whats offensive about little, many bandy words around like Top, Bottom, it's slang description for a section of society that are into the lifestyle.
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Some people find age play hard to get their heads round. |
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"This sounds like a lot of fun - something I think I would really enjoy (as the dd, of course!)
Sadly, every “lg” I chat to just wants money, or elaborate gifts without (ever) actually meeting.
Exploitation of gullible older males? I can watch this porn for free, so don’t need their pics, etc.
Pity, I think this would be a great way to play (in the flesh, so to speak!)
Does anyone actually play (
meet) in these roles?
There are ladies who genuinely enjoy being in a DDlg relationship though I doubt you will find many on this site. As other posters have said it more akin to the fetish scene. I am in a DDlg relationship with Messy Fairy who used to be active on FS but is now only on fetish sites. DM me for details."
There’s quite a few lg’s on here |
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"This sounds like a lot of fun - something I think I would really enjoy (as the dd, of course!)
Sadly, every “lg” I chat to just wants money, or elaborate gifts without (ever) actually meeting.
Exploitation of gullible older males? I can watch this porn for free, so don’t need their pics, etc.
Pity, I think this would be a great way to play (in the flesh, so to speak!)
Does anyone actually play (meet) in these roles?"
I think a lot of people who get excited by DDLG don't fully understand it. Firstly, there is a difference between 'young' and 'little'. Young is a physical attribute, while 'little' is a state of mind, wanting to be safe but also being a little petulant. Of course you can play both at the same time but you don't have to, it's more a case of voice, phraseology and attitude that makes you 'little'.
Secondly, it doesn't have to be sexual. It can of course, but a lot of the fun is not sexual. Flirty, fun, interesting, but any sex comes a long way down the line, if at all.
The DDLG dynamic can be tricky, as DD you have to get it just right to keep it going and you have to be very sensitive to the Little's needs - until you know them well you won't know how to make it work for them. They will also change the rules as you go along (depending on how they feel) and you have to react accordingly. It's not something you can do for just one session, it's a long-term thing and more mind game than anything else.
When you get it right it can be very rewarding, but it is hard work!
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Scots likes calling me daddy and DDLG is certainly something that we would like to explore more.
After being a bit clueless as to the background at the start the more I've read of it the more I like it. |
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"This sounds like a lot of fun - something I think I would really enjoy (as the dd, of course!)
Sadly, every “lg” I chat to just wants money, or elaborate gifts without (ever) actually meeting.
Exploitation of gullible older males? I can watch this porn for free, so don’t need their pics, etc.
Pity, I think this would be a great way to play (in the flesh, so to speak!)
Does anyone actually play (meet) in these roles?
Other groups cater to this. Dm me "
Can you add me to the group |
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It's a relationship that has a very intense and caring bond, isn't age play for all, for some it's not sexual but it is all about the connection.
It takes time to build it but sometimes you just know the right one as soon as you meet them. |
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"It's a relationship that has a very intense and caring bond, isn't age play for all, for some it's not sexual but it is all about the connection.
It takes time to build it but sometimes you just know the right one as soon as you meet them."
What a lovely description  |
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"It's a relationship that has a very intense and caring bond, isn't age play for all, for some it's not sexual but it is all about the connection.
It takes time to build it but sometimes you just know the right one as soon as you meet them.
What a lovely description "
It is a lovely description isn’t it! |
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