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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Would you change your profile to attract that one profile you’re pining for.
Then message the person in the hopes you have everything stated on your profile they are looking for.
Then, when the next person comes up that you find attractive.
You’re going to change your profile again before messaging them in hopes of “success” |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No I wouldn’t and I personally don’t think that’s a good way to go about meeting. I don’t think that’s being true to yourself.
Just be the best you can be. You won’t be everyone’s cup of tea and that’s perfectly normal. I just don’t think you should change yourself to fit what someone else is looking for… |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would you change your profile to attract that one profile you’re pining for.
Then message the person in the hopes you have everything stated on your profile they are looking for.
Then, when the next person comes up that you find attractive.
You’re going to change your profile again before messaging them in hopes of “success”"
I’m short, no. I feel like that wouldn’t be a move that would be reflective of my true self. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I agree with all the replies. Just haven’t been curious to see if people are that “desperate” that they need to post status updates or change their profile just to “attract” that one other profile. |
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"I agree with all the replies. Just haven’t been curious to see if people are that “desperate” that they need to post status updates or change their profile just to “attract” that one other profile."
I'm sure it happens!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hell to the no no no 
Me & the lads call that 'Simping'  "
Ahhhhhh, so that’s what “simping” means!!!
I’m so going to use that in calling people out in conversation: |
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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago
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"Hell to the no no no
Me & the lads call that 'Simping'
Ahhhhhh, so that’s what “simping” means!!!
I’m so going to use that in calling people out in conversation:"
Haha wasn't trying to be a smart ass by the way . It's deffo a strategy I'm sure many use, but it's a time wasting slippery slope I find. Could do all that & it still doesn't guarantee desired results  what I meant |
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"All the time. Got to lie to get a shag and men don't care.  "
I don't know about that. Some of us guys have got a pretty good radar for all you desperate, deceitful women who'd shag any man that moves. |
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"Would you change your profile to attract that one profile you’re pining for.
Then message the person in the hopes you have everything stated on your profile they are looking for.
Then, when the next person comes up that you find attractive.
You’re going to change your profile again before messaging them in hopes of “success”"
Absolutely not…
Firstly, I don’t have a single particular profile I obsess over… and I’ve deliberately used the word obsess because that’s what it comes across as
Secondly, it’s completely dishonest and fake to portray yourself as something you’re not.. when it comes to meeting (if it gets that far) you’ll get caught out pretty quickly.
This site would be far better if people were a lot more honest on their profiles |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"All the time. Got to lie to get a shag and men don't care.
I don't know about that. Some of us guys have got a pretty good radar for all you desperate, deceitful women who'd shag any man that moves."
Hardly any say no.  |
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By *dalisqueWoman
over a year ago
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Sometimes men change their profile picture to seem more appealing which is acceptable, changing your profile is disingenuous,although on dating sites this happens frequently or used to when I frequented them.
You can usually tell quite soon on if a person and their profile don't match up.
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It depends. I might alter the distance I was prepared to travel or the age I was prepared to meet. I wouldn't change my preferences because there are some things I wouldn't do however much I fancied a person |
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