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Mr and I was talking and want to know where do all the single men go on a Saturday night? We want to go out in a few weeks time but don’t just want to go to a club with no single men!! Why is club nights On a Saturday couple and females? |
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"I'm not having a go at married men here but a likely explanation is that it's far more difficult to explain a night out to a partner at the weekend than in the week."
A night out with the Lads? (As long as they don't smell of perfume when they get in!) |
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"I'm not having a go at married men here but a likely explanation is that it's far more difficult to explain a night out to a partner at the weekend than in the week.
A night out with the Lads? (As long as they don't smell of perfume when they get in!)"
That usually involves getting at least one "lad" to back up your story if it's a Saturday night.  |
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"Mr and I was talking and want to know where do all the single men go on a Saturday night? We want to go out in a few weeks time but don’t just want to go to a club with no single men!! Why is club nights On a Saturday couple and females? "
We stay in and sob into our curries, waiting for MOTD as a brief distraction from our humdrum existence.
Plus we are hungover from Friday nights! |
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"I'm not having a go at married men here but a likely explanation is that it's far more difficult to explain a night out to a partner at the weekend than in the week."
Would that really be the case?
I'm much more likely to go out for a drink with mates, go to a gig, etc, at the weekend than mid-week.
Mid-week would have seemed really odd to my ex. |
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I know a lot of couples say they want couples only nights as that is what swinging was originally about... but then it's odd that they also want single women, so that can't 'really' be the case. It's really that they just don't want extra men. Which is fine.
What would be nice is if they altered the dates around a bit, because not everyone is free on Fridays / Saturdays to get to the nights that best cater for them.
I think Xtasia has been trying to tackle that by allowing everyone into the venue, but having either the main club or bar couples only. |
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"I know a lot of couples say they want couples only nights as that is what swinging was originally about... but then it's odd that they also want single women, so that can't 'really' be the case. It's really that they just don't want extra men. Which is fine.
What would be nice is if they altered the dates around a bit, because not everyone is free on Fridays / Saturdays to get to the nights that best cater for them.
I think Xtasia has been trying to tackle that by allowing everyone into the venue, but having either the main club or bar couples only."
The trouble I see with the volume of club having couples and single ladies nights on a Saturday is it makes it difficult for single parents as Saturday is often a prime opportunity for kids to be away. Now some would say only for single dads, but I disagree. A lot of single ladies on the scene are only after single guys, not to be a spare wheel to another couple or be expected to play with the female half or group fun with established couples. So I agree it is a shame the volume of clubs having couples night on a Saturday. |
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"I'm not having a go at married men here but a likely explanation is that it's far more difficult to explain a night out to a partner at the weekend than in the week.
Would that really be the case?
I'm much more likely to go out for a drink with mates, go to a gig, etc, at the weekend than mid-week.
Mid-week would have seemed really odd to my ex. "
I don't know. Just from my personal perspective Saturday nights out would set me wondering far more than a Thursday say. I've always thought bank holidays, valentine's Day, weekends, feast days are times a man in a relationship would probably find it more difficult to get away whether his partner was aware or not. |
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"Mr and I was talking and want to know where do all the single men go on a Saturday night? We want to go out in a few weeks time but don’t just want to go to a club with no single men!! Why is club nights On a Saturday couple and females? "
Can't speak for other men but some of us are just not into clubs  bit of a rip off if your a single guy (some clubs in my opinion). Would rather meet mates, go work earn some ££, meet fuckbuddy, do our hobbies or just chill at home with netflix & takeaway 
Hope you meet some good 1s on your nightout  |
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"Mr and I was talking and want to know where do all the single men go on a Saturday night? We want to go out in a few weeks time but don’t just want to go to a club with no single men!! Why is club nights On a Saturday couple and females?
Can't speak for other men but some of us are just not into clubs bit of a rip off if your a single guy (some clubs in my opinion). Would rather meet mates, go work earn some ££, meet fuckbuddy, do our hobbies or just chill at home with netflix & takeaway
Hope you meet some good 1s on your nightout "
arh, the less than bare minimum aim low strategy. cant fail, cant succeed....mediocre, surely should be a filter option |
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Yes I sometimes look for a meet on a Saturday night if not out with the girls people say yes when it cones to at always Cancel think all the time I been on and off fabs only ever had 4 meets in 6 years lol |
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