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What Should A Single Man Wear To A Meet?
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By *aughtydante OP Man
over a year ago
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Ladies, couples do you expect smart dressed in a shirt?
Or is a smart shirt ok? A tshirt? How about a vest? Or shorts? Be naked upon your arrival?
Men does it matter what a woman is wearing to a meet?
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"Ladies, couples do you expect smart dressed in a shirt?
Or is a smart shirt ok? A tshirt? How about a vest? Or shorts? Be naked upon your arrival?
Men does it matter what a woman is wearing to a meet?
" slim cream chinos, slim Oxford blue shirt and nice casual brown shoe /boot you can't go wrong trust me I work in retail. |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
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"At 35, have you never met women before?cut him a bit of slack, he's looking for a bit of advice on how to empress a lady. "
If people ask, does that mean they don’t know?
Look beyond the surface structure of the question, what’s the real meaning and answer?
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"Ladies, couples do you expect smart dressed in a shirt?
Or is a smart shirt ok? A tshirt? How about a vest? Or shorts? Be naked upon your arrival?
Men does it matter what a woman is wearing to a meet?
slim cream chinos, slim Oxford blue shirt and nice casual brown shoe /boot you can't go wrong trust me I work in retail. "
Kinda knackered if you're not slim tho |
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"At 35, have you never met women before?cut him a bit of slack, he's looking for a bit of advice on how to empress a lady.
If people ask, does that mean they don’t know?
Look beyond the surface structure of the question, what’s the real meaning and answer?
Smiles."
"What clothes are most likely to get me shagged? " |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
"At 35, have you never met women before?cut him a bit of slack, he's looking for a bit of advice on how to empress a lady.
If people ask, does that mean they don’t know?
Look beyond the surface structure of the question, what’s the real meaning and answer?
Smiles.
"What clothes are most likely to get me shagged? ""
Something with money pinned on?
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"At 35, have you never met women before?cut him a bit of slack, he's looking for a bit of advice on how to empress a lady.
If people ask, does that mean they don’t know?
Look beyond the surface structure of the question, what’s the real meaning and answer?
Smiles." I work in menswear and I deal with way more women than men for the simple reason most men ar completely useless at dressing themselves. |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
"At 35, have you never met women before?cut him a bit of slack, he's looking for a bit of advice on how to empress a lady.
If people ask, does that mean they don’t know?
Look beyond the surface structure of the question, what’s the real meaning and answer?
Smiles.I work in menswear and I deal with way more women than men for the simple reason most men ar completely useless at dressing themselves. "
And those that don’t need help, are confident? |
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"Ladies, couples do you expect smart dressed in a shirt?
Or is a smart shirt ok? A tshirt? How about a vest? Or shorts? Be naked upon your arrival?
Men does it matter what a woman is wearing to a meet?
slim cream chinos, slim Oxford blue shirt and nice casual brown shoe /boot you can't go wrong trust me I work in retail.
Kinda knackered if you're not slim tho " go modern or comfort fit then all chinos and shirts come in all fits. Go to propper menswear shops and they will make sure you look good leaving their shop. Their best form of advertising is making sure you look good. |
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"At 35, have you never met women before?cut him a bit of slack, he's looking for a bit of advice on how to empress a lady.
If people ask, does that mean they don’t know?
Look beyond the surface structure of the question, what’s the real meaning and answer?
Smiles.I work in menswear and I deal with way more women than men for the simple reason most men ar completely useless at dressing themselves.
And those that don’t need help, are confident?" no everyone needs a bit of help now and again. There is nothing wrong with asking for help. |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
"At 35, have you never met women before?cut him a bit of slack, he's looking for a bit of advice on how to empress a lady.
If people ask, does that mean they don’t know?
Look beyond the surface structure of the question, what’s the real meaning and answer?
Smiles.I work in menswear and I deal with way more women than men for the simple reason most men ar completely useless at dressing themselves.
And those that don’t need help, are confident?no everyone needs a bit of help now and again. There is nothing wrong with asking for help. "
Agreed with asking for help if you don’t know.
Problem is often you get help from people who don’t realise the last thing to discover water is fish. |
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"At 35, have you never met women before?cut him a bit of slack, he's looking for a bit of advice on how to empress a lady.
If people ask, does that mean they don’t know?
Look beyond the surface structure of the question, what’s the real meaning and answer?
Smiles.I work in menswear and I deal with way more women than men for the simple reason most men ar completely useless at dressing themselves.
And those that don’t need help, are confident?no everyone needs a bit of help now and again. There is nothing wrong with asking for help.
Agreed with asking for help if you don’t know.
Problem is often you get help from people who don’t realise the last thing to discover water is fish." what, sorry but I have never heard that saying in my life. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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slim cream chinos, slim Oxford blue shirt and nice casual brown shoe /boot you can't go wrong trust me I work in retail. "
You say you work in retail, but it could be on the fish counter at Morrison's for all we know! |
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slim cream chinos, slim Oxford blue shirt and nice casual brown shoe /boot you can't go wrong trust me I work in retail.
You say you work in retail, but it could be on the fish counter at Morrison's for all we know!" 23 years in menswear in Ireland |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
"At 35, have you never met women before?cut him a bit of slack, he's looking for a bit of advice on how to empress a lady.
If people ask, does that mean they don’t know?
Look beyond the surface structure of the question, what’s the real meaning and answer?
Smiles.I work in menswear and I deal with way more women than men for the simple reason most men ar completely useless at dressing themselves.
And those that don’t need help, are confident?no everyone needs a bit of help now and again. There is nothing wrong with asking for help.
Agreed with asking for help if you don’t know.
Problem is often you get help from people who don’t realise the last thing to discover water is fish.what, sorry but I have never heard that saying in my life. "
Yup.
Hey just fun. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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slim cream chinos, slim Oxford blue shirt and nice casual brown shoe /boot you can't go wrong trust me I work in retail.
You say you work in retail, but it could be on the fish counter at Morrison's for all we know!23 years in menswear in Ireland "
The OP is from Birmingham, having shoes in the correct feet is a bonus there. |
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slim cream chinos, slim Oxford blue shirt and nice casual brown shoe /boot you can't go wrong trust me I work in retail.
You say you work in retail, but it could be on the fish counter at Morrison's for all we know!23 years in menswear in Ireland
The OP is from Birmingham, having shoes in the correct feet is a bonus there. " so go into a proper menswear shop and he'll be dressed properly |
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"Much prefer a man that can think for himself. Now, that does impress me. "
Ah, we do think for ourselves except that what we think often fails to meet women’s expectations. So we play the game of trying to figure out your expectations by asking. If thinking doesn’t work and telepathy fails, what are we men to do?! |
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By *aughtydante OP Man
over a year ago
Midlands Based But Travel |
I find it funny how it turned into a questioning my confidence and my dress sense ??
Thanks for those who tried to protect my honour
Really wasnt asking for it as advice for me personally lol.
Was more of a i wonder what people prefer kinda post. But thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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so go into a proper menswear shop and he'll be dressed properly "
To most it'll sound very old fashioned and "menswear" will make many think of John Inman answering the phone in a deep voice! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Much prefer a man that can think for himself. Now, that does impress me. "
Maybe he just thought it an interesting enough subject to begin a forum post. |
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"At 35, have you never met women before?
Never have i ever.. haha of course i have. Im askin for your preferences"
Ask the woman you're meeting.
Us women are all completely different individuals. Shocking I know |
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Clean and smart works for me. I don't mind shirt or t-shirt if its ironed and fits well. I do dislike ripped jeans (i'm sorry i'm over 50 & always think i've thrown better away)....
For me its the confidence, not arrogance that a man brings to a meet.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im all for "wear what you feel most comfortable in" i dont feel comfortable in trousers or suits, it isnt me and isnt my style. So i wouod wear what i feel comfortable but smart in which would be a nice pair of dark smart jeans, a nice smart polo top and a smart "going out" jumper top. And a pair of brown boot shoes. If someone doesnt like your style and wants something different, then they arent for you..
Its like saying i want a female to wear 4" heels as i find them "sexy and smart" yet she may not feel comfortable wearing them... |
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Guys, don’t dress to impress. Doing so usually means wearing something that you feel uncomfortable in. Plus, you’ll be constantly thinking; “are they impressed?” and that just brings on unneeded anxiety.
Instead, dress to feel confident. Who cares if they’re impressed? Don’t let another person dictate how worthy you are. If what you’re wearing makes you feel like a handsome bad ass, that confidence will shine out of you.
Feel empowered, don’t feel judged. |
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