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Why do so many single lads feel the need to spit their dummy out when they get knocked back on here? We’ve had plenty of no’s and unread messages and never felt the urge to send over offensive messages, just don’t get it. |
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I don’t have experience of the men but I can tell you that there are plenty of women who can be road and just not very nice on here too. Such a shame to be like that as we are all here to be social and have a good time. |
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"Why do so many single lads feel the need to spit their dummy out when they get knocked back on here? We’ve had plenty of no’s and unread messages and never felt the urge to send over offensive messages, just don’t get it."
Most of my rejected nut jobs come from guys who proposition me on here with a profile saying they're straight. When I say I don't meet straight guys, unless it's part of a couple, 9/10 dummies are well and truly spat!
I think it's part of an incel mentality. Like they're owed sex. Weird. |
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"Why do so many single lads feel the need to spit their dummy out when they get knocked back on here? We’ve had plenty of no’s and unread messages and never felt the urge to send over offensive messages, just don’t get it.
Most of my rejected nut jobs come from guys who proposition me on here with a profile saying they're straight. When I say I don't meet straight guys, unless it's part of a couple, 9/10 dummies are well and truly spat!
I think it's part of an incel mentality. Like they're owed sex. Weird."
Nailed it. |
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We really don't get abusive messages from guys. Generally they're all either too shit for a reply or taken nicely when we reject.
We've blocked guys for a bit now as the standard was fucking dire, but yeah I think you've been unlucky. |
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"Why do so many single lads feel the need to spit their dummy out when they get knocked back on here? We’ve had plenty of no’s and unread messages and never felt the urge to send over offensive messages, just don’t get it.
Most of my rejected nut jobs come from guys who proposition me on here with a profile saying they're straight. When I say I don't meet straight guys, unless it's part of a couple, 9/10 dummies are well and truly spat!
I think it's part of an incel mentality. Like they're owed sex. Weird."
We only asked them not to send dick pics and that was it, as if their dick was something we needed  |
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"Why do so many single lads feel the need to spit their dummy out when they get knocked back on here? We’ve had plenty of no’s and unread messages and never felt the urge to send over offensive messages, just don’t get it."
Its just the sad ones that can't handle a knock back that do that kinda thing they need to grow up as they are the people that give all the single guys on here a bad name |
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"We really don't get abusive messages from guys. Generally they're all either too shit for a reply or taken nicely when we reject.
We've blocked guys for a bit now as the standard was fucking dire, but yeah I think you've been unlucky. "
Nar, second one in the last week or so. Last one said Mrs C was past it anyway
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"Why do so many single lads feel the need to spit their dummy out when they get knocked back on here? We’ve had plenty of no’s and unread messages and never felt the urge to send over offensive messages, just don’t get it."
We deleted a message from a guy because A) it had the usual zero effort and was likely a copy and paste job, and B) we just weren't interested in his profile anyway.
Jeez he got so shitty because we deleted his message without replying. Blocked.
If guys make an effort in a message to be genuine and talk to us as a couple, not an opportunity, if we aren't interested they'll have at least earned a polite response from us. |
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"Why do so many single lads feel the need to spit their dummy out when they get knocked back on here? We’ve had plenty of no’s and unread messages and never felt the urge to send over offensive messages, just don’t get it."
Don’t let it get to you, I know it’s frustrating. Block anyone who is abusive, the fact they can’t message you will annoy them even more haha.
And Mrs C is definitely not past it! Hope you guys are well xx |
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"I don’t have experience of the men but I can tell you that there are plenty of women who can be road and just not very nice on here too. Such a shame to be like that as we are all here to be social and have a good time. "
Agree with this, had my fair share of rude women rejections as well...  |
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Don't understand it either! My profile clearly states that "I dont meet men 1 on 1, ever!" But because Im Bi in MMF 3sums some guys seem to feel that Im obligated to be attracted to them. Got this in response to a polite no thank you....
"I have looked at your pic’s. No wander she won’t go near you and you can only get it with ugly guys and doesn’t It bother you that you can give her an STI only through dirty sex, with an ugly bloke. You will go to the Devils camp"
Reported and blocked! But really WTF guys, we're better than this! |
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I honestly never get abusive messages. I also never pull anyone up on their message. I would just delete it.
Not sure why certain profiles get abuse and others get none it does make me wonder….  |
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"Insecurity I guess? Anyhow whatever it is it isn’t flattering and is instantly blocked lol "
I had a cheeky peek at your profile. The exact words that went through my head were, "holy shit, what a gorgeous couple!"
Your bio is straightforward, well written, quirky and sexy.... It's completely beyond me why anyone would send abuse to a lovely couple like you guys???? |
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"Why do so many single lads feel the need to spit their dummy out when they get knocked back on here? We’ve had plenty of no’s and unread messages and never felt the urge to send over offensive messages, just don’t get it.
Most of my rejected nut jobs come from guys who proposition me on here with a profile saying they're straight. When I say I don't meet straight guys, unless it's part of a couple, 9/10 dummies are well and truly spat!
I think it's part of an incel mentality. Like they're owed sex. Weird."
Absolutely agree! |
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"Why do so many single lads feel the need to spit their dummy out when they get knocked back on here? We’ve had plenty of no’s and unread messages and never felt the urge to send over offensive messages, just don’t get it."
Wounded Ego |
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"Why do so many single lads feel the need to spit their dummy out when they get knocked back on here? We’ve had plenty of no’s and unread messages and never felt the urge to send over offensive messages, just don’t get it.
Don’t let it get to you, I know it’s frustrating. Block anyone who is abusive, the fact they can’t message you will annoy them even more haha.
And Mrs C is definitely not past it! Hope you guys are well xx"
Haha ah shit fancy bumping into you two in the forums and aye I know she’s banging  |
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We have very few issues, I'm wondering if it's how we initially respond.
There are of course a few with an undesirable attitude.
The worst we had was a well verified Woman. |
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"We have very few issues, I'm wondering if it's how we initially respond.
There are of course a few with an undesirable attitude.
The worst we had was a well verified Woman. "
I’ve noticed that the nastiness is far worse when I decline someone on my single profile than on my couple profile with my other half.
Once rather amusingly by the same guy within a couple of days.
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"We have very few issues, I'm wondering if it's how we initially respond.
There are of course a few with an undesirable attitude.
The worst we had was a well verified Woman.
I’ve noticed that the nastiness is far worse when I decline someone on my single profile than on my couple profile with my other half.
Once rather amusingly by the same guy within a couple of days.
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That just shows them for what they are.
Feeling it's kind of behind closed doors messaging one on one with a Woman, as opposed to the possibility of a Man also seeing the messages.
Weak. |
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"We really don't get abusive messages from guys. Generally they're all either too shit for a reply or taken nicely when we reject.
We've blocked guys for a bit now as the standard was fucking dire, but yeah I think you've been unlucky. "
Same for us. We’ve blocked single guys again, saves on the cock pics galore too  A xx |
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