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over a year ago
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So after a chat we've come to the conclusion that I (Shay) is much more into just FF play as I need to have a really great connection with males to let myself go after a troubling past.
Happy for R to fuck other women but I just can't do it with the guys unless there's a massive connection.
I guess I just want to know if this is okay in the swing community or not |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Course it is.
Your body. You decide what you do with it.
 I guess I assumed it would just put a lot of people off us "
But you're not here to please other people.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So after a chat we've come to the conclusion that I (Shay) is much more into just FF play as I need to have a really great connection with males to let myself go after a troubling past.
Happy for R to fuck other women but I just can't do it with the guys unless there's a massive connection.
I guess I just want to know if this is okay in the swing community or not "
I don't think fucking loads of other men is going to help your mental health  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks for everyone's replies, fairly new to the scene so just wanted to make sure!
Obviously if it wasn't generally accepted we would have discontinued the profile, but great to hear that it is |
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"Play however you wish, as long as everyone is in agreement. Some of the hardened swingers wouldn't be impressed, but they can do their own thing and we can all do our own thing  "
very true seems to be a few more that are good and enjoy this than we thought |
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"Thanks for everyone's replies, fairly new to the scene so just wanted to make sure!
Obviously if it wasn't generally accepted we would have discontinued the profile, but great to hear that it is "
Don't try and be generally accepted, you never will be. There is always someone who'll tell you you're doing it wrong. |
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"Thanks for everyone's replies, fairly new to the scene so just wanted to make sure!
Obviously if it wasn't generally accepted we would have discontinued the profile, but great to hear that it is
Don't try and be generally accepted, you never will be. There is always someone who'll tell you you're doing it wrong."
this is definately something we've realised haha |
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"Every couple we have met does things slightly differently. There are no rules, just whatever you're comfortable with I hope you find what works for you both.
Mrs TMN x"
ah all this positivity is amazing |
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There are no set dynamics. As long as you are clear and upfront about your limits and what you are looking for then it's absoloutly fine! "Your body, your choice" is a good adage for this site. As is " Clear boundaries make for good meets" |
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