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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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what do you think about name and shame timewasters people on cam who think its facebook and just sit there week after week and dont do anything in the directing rooms |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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they can sit there and do nothing if they want to  just cos its a directing room doesnt meen they have to be or want to be directed,maybe they are in that room to chat to friends. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just because someone doesn't do something you want it doesn't make them a timewaster. Some people like to be part of the furniture and 'among it'. If they don't play on cam it's entirely up to them - there are no guarantees in swinging.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"what do you think about name and shame timewasters people on cam who think its facebook and just sit there week after week and dont do anything in the directing rooms "
Don't look at them or talk to them then! What others do is nothing to do with you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I chatted to you for ages months ago, arranged to meet you in a pub and I was sat there drinking my cosmopolitan all by myself for an hour. Then you sent me a text saying I must have been hit with an ugly stick since my last photos were taken. I'll never leave the house again 
See how easily it could go wrong? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I chatted to you for ages months ago, arranged to meet you in a pub and I was sat there drinking my cosmopolitan all by myself for an hour. Then you sent me a text saying I must have been hit with an ugly stick since my last photos were taken. I'll never leave the house again
See how easily it could go wrong? "
The cocktail probably didn't help matters  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I chatted to you for ages months ago, arranged to meet you in a pub and I was sat there drinking my cosmopolitan all by myself for an hour. Then you sent me a text saying I must have been hit with an ugly stick since my last photos were taken. I'll never leave the house again
See how easily it could go wrong?
The cocktail probably didn't help matters "
I drank it sticking my pinky out though, so that's ok isn't it?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I chatted to you for ages months ago, arranged to meet you in a pub and I was sat there drinking my cosmopolitan all by myself for an hour. Then you sent me a text saying I must have been hit with an ugly stick since my last photos were taken. I'll never leave the house again
See how easily it could go wrong?
The cocktail probably didn't help matters
I drank it sticking my pinky out though, so that's ok isn't it? "
Depends what type of ornament came with it, an umbrella or possibly one of those things that look like sparkly feather dusters? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Pmsl! I bet Steven Speilberg never had this problem m8! Imagine the cheek of her, lettin you get your knob out and....nada, nowt not a fuckin twitch!! Pmsl! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lets be reasonable folks - surely everyone who enters a chat room, directing or not - has a divine duty to flash their bits, fuck, suck or wank for the benefit and enjoyment of others?
Am i wrong?
Shit - yes i am!
move along now folks - nothing to read here!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lets be reasonable folks - surely everyone who enters a chat room, directing or not - has a divine duty to flash their bits, fuck, suck or wank for the benefit and enjoyment of others?
Am i wrong?
Shit - yes i am!
move along now folks - nothing to read here! "
Ooh look who pops up! Get back to your fags smokey!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"what do you think about name and shame timewasters people on cam who think its facebook and just sit there week after week and dont do anything in the directing rooms "
I go into all the chatrooms and never do anything on cam. I put my face on there so people know who I am, what I look like and that I'm a genuine female. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How about people who have been on here 3 months but have no veris? Surely they must be timewasters too "
How can the Daily Mail get verified???! Silly billy! |
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"Lets be reasonable folks - surely everyone who enters a chat room, directing or not - has a divine duty to flash their bits, fuck, suck or wank for the benefit and enjoyment of others?
Am i wrong?
Shit - yes i am!
move along now folks - nothing to read here! "
Err... We do just that. If we're on cam then we'll enjoy putting on a show and making it entertaining for people watching. Now a foursome one cam would be VERY entertaining....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How about people who have been on here 3 months but have no veris? Surely they must be timewasters too
How can the Daily Mail get verified???! Silly billy!"
I think they SHOULD be verified actually! They DID turn up for that meet with the policeman! |
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By * starr -Woman
over a year ago
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"I chatted to you for ages months ago, arranged to meet you in a pub and I was sat there drinking my cosmopolitan all by myself for an hour. Then you sent me a text saying I must have been hit with an ugly stick since my last photos were taken. I'll never leave the house again
See how easily it could go wrong?
The cocktail probably didn't help matters
I drank it sticking my pinky out though, so that's ok isn't it?
Depends what type of ornament came with it, an umbrella or possibly one of those things that look like sparkly feather dusters? "
sparkly feather dusters, PMSL.never looked at one in that respect before but will do from now on if i see them.hehe, love it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I chatted to you for ages months ago, arranged to meet you in a pub and I was sat there drinking my cosmopolitan all by myself for an hour. Then you sent me a text saying I must have been hit with an ugly stick since my last photos were taken. I'll never leave the house again
See how easily it could go wrong?
The cocktail probably didn't help matters
I drank it sticking my pinky out though, so that's ok isn't it?
Depends what type of ornament came with it, an umbrella or possibly one of those things that look like sparkly feather dusters?
sparkly feather dusters, PMSL.never looked at one in that respect before but will do from now on if i see them.hehe, love it. "
Lol I couldn't think of how else to describe them! Other than that they look like fireworks lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How about people who have been on here 3 months but have no veris? Surely they must be timewasters too "
fuck me I just trying to get a meet , I'm not wasting anyones time but my own lol  |
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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago
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"How about people who have been on here 3 months but have no veris? Surely they must be timewasters too
fuck me I just trying to get a meet , I'm not wasting anyones time but my own lol "
Im not wasting anyones time, as it says I will only meet socially. Does that make me a timewaster?
Do I arrange a set time and date I will meet someone?
I class timewasters as those who have arranged a meet wth someone and do not show up, even wth a text or message on here.
My pro says social meets/chatting only for now, but still get 'wanna fuck' messages. Who is the time waster there then??? |
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"Also, you are a couple, but only have a pic of the ladies boobs on show. If you are a couple, and meeting as one, make a male pic publc too!
Just my opinion."
we meet only as a couple and only have pics if me (mrs) well 1 pic at mo as removed the rest. but although we meet as a couple only its only single guys we meet and mr only plays with me.. so for that reason his pic doesnt need to be on there. We get enough bi and gay men messaging him without it.. hes straight... however as he is not playing with anyone but myself at meet we dont feel it needed. however if and when we are arranging a meet we go on cam to show his face to potential meets.
Okay and the cam we dont play on cam dont go on cam much. have messed about on it a bit before but not for a while only sat with my face on cam more recently.
Playing on cam does nothing for us but simetimes good to let people see your face, for obvious reasons we dont have public face pics on profile they are private to send if we wish.
It is a swinging site not a babe station etc.. lol so if you want people on cam to do what you want to get you off only look at the ones that get off on that as well.
There are plenty who only show face or cleavage. mind you we dont go into directing rooms on cam only welsh room. but getting funny because you probably seen one you like that wont do what you want is a bit childish.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Long live choice for people doing what they want to and not being pressurised into doing things they don't. I really dont see what they have done wrong to shame about. |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"what do you think about name and shame timewasters people on cam who think its facebook and just sit there week after week and dont do anything in the directing rooms "
1) really??
2) if you take directing that seriously... may I suggest Film school!
3) seriously, really????
4) who are you to call out how others may well use the site!
5) again, seriously, really???? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"what do you think about name and shame timewasters people on cam who think its facebook and just sit there week after week and dont do anything in the directing rooms "
I agree. Just so long as we can report the unverified people that just want to wank over pictures and cams. |
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Just because we have "chat rooms" and "directing rooms" does not mean that people on cam wish to be directed. I have witnessed abuse off members who think those on cam are performing seals. Anyone can put a cam on , i put mine on every blue moon lol but i dont wish to be directed..
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"Electrodes....
there should be a facility that if people are on cam in the directing and not performing, shock them via a keyboard function
only way forward"
*wires cock into keyboard*
I'm ready! |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"Electrodes....
there should be a facility that if people are on cam in the directing and not performing, shock them via a keyboard function
only way forward
*wires cock into keyboard*
I'm ready! "
this won't take long
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yup that's him fired his load |
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"How about people who have been on here 3 months but have no veris? Surely they must be timewasters too
Don't worry, that only applies to men. "
and to be honest lets be serious 3 months aint that long anyway.. we cant get rid of peeps because they have no veris after 3 months , some have been on here over 12 months and no veri,s |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How about people who have been on here 3 months but have no veris? Surely they must be timewasters too
fuck me I just trying to get a meet , I'm not wasting anyones time but my own lol
Im not wasting anyones time, as it says I will only meet socially. Does that make me a timewaster?
Do I arrange a set time and date I will meet someone?
I class timewasters as those who have arranged a meet wth someone and do not show up, even wth a text or message on here.
My pro says social meets/chatting only for now, but still get 'wanna fuck' messages. Who is the time waster there then???"
i dont understand why you come on here then, unless you was playing at the start but now cant, but if you have no interest in sex or swinging, this site is not the site id think you would want to be on |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How about people who have been on here 3 months but have no veris? Surely they must be timewasters too
fuck me I just trying to get a meet , I'm not wasting anyones time but my own lol
Im not wasting anyones time, as it says I will only meet socially. Does that make me a timewaster?
Do I arrange a set time and date I will meet someone?
I class timewasters as those who have arranged a meet wth someone and do not show up, even wth a text or message on here.
My pro says social meets/chatting only for now, but still get 'wanna fuck' messages. Who is the time waster there then???"
i dont understand why you come on here then, unless you was playing at the start but now cant, but if you have no interest in sex or swinging, this site is not the site id think you would want to be on |
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"How about people who have been on here 3 months but have no veris? Surely they must be timewasters too
How can the Daily Mail get verified???! Silly billy!
I think they SHOULD be verified actually! They DID turn up for that meet with the policeman! "
Guys, what can I say about the Daily Mail, where do I start? Met her after weeks of swapping messages, mainly about house prices, radical muslims and single mums....we arranged to meet at a pub, she was there on time holding a newspaper as we'd agreed....Wow! what I'd like to say I couldn't put in print but believe me she was hot......off the press.....went back to her place, just off Fleet St and what followed I couldn't possibly put in a family newspaper, suffice to say she is one amazing broad....or is she tabloid? Anyway guys, treat this girl with respect and you will be repaid in spadefuls.....see you soon Daily Mail, or should that be Daily Male |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How about people who have been on here 3 months but have no veris? Surely they must be timewasters too
fuck me I just trying to get a meet , I'm not wasting anyones time but my own lol
Im not wasting anyones time, as it says I will only meet socially. Does that make me a timewaster?
Do I arrange a set time and date I will meet someone?
I class timewasters as those who have arranged a meet wth someone and do not show up, even wth a text or message on here.
My pro says social meets/chatting only for now, but still get 'wanna fuck' messages. Who is the time waster there then???
i dont understand why you come on here then, unless you was playing at the start but now cant, but if you have no interest in sex or swinging, this site is not the site id think you would want to be on"
It's not any of your business why anyone else is here. |
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"How about people who have been on here 3 months but have no veris? Surely they must be timewasters too
fuck me I just trying to get a meet , I'm not wasting anyones time but my own lol
Im not wasting anyones time, as it says I will only meet socially. Does that make me a timewaster?
Do I arrange a set time and date I will meet someone?
I class timewasters as those who have arranged a meet wth someone and do not show up, even wth a text or message on here.
My pro says social meets/chatting only for now, but still get 'wanna fuck' messages. Who is the time waster there then???
i dont understand why you come on here then, unless you was playing at the start but now cant, but if you have no interest in sex or swinging, this site is not the site id think you would want to be on
It's not any of your business why anyone else is here."
 to many people intrested in others reasons |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"what do you think about name and shame timewasters people on cam who think its facebook and just sit there week after week and dont do anything in the directing rooms "
Absolutely, and then we should go after those accounts that look mega fake, where a 'couple' have been on for months and yet have no meets and no veris. |
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all said and done this is a swingers site and us real swingers use our cam to prove who we are. why should we sit there with our tits n bits out if we not into that, we use the directing room as we can chat about what we want and not get introuble by a mod for sort of directing someone. and while we on that subject its mostly people with no pics no veries not even a profile that complain about us. i sujest you get out there n try swinging. and all we do is a simple no ty we not here for directing. MOVE ON there is plenty who like to play on cam. |
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Never agree with name and shame, unless it's to site admin, hence the report button.
Other people may have different interests to our own, and likely will not find us attractive, just because they want to.
If it's not working with someone, move on to the next. Life's way too short. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its a swingers site, we swing! We pay to use this site and have done for near on 5 years so if i wanna sit in a directing room, and have a chat fully clothed, then I will! You dont have to look at the cams that wont get their tits out if u dont wanna, there is a block button there for a reason! Now quit whinging, and enjoy it for gods sake! Too many bloody moaners on here! |
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Guys, what can I say about the Daily Mail, where do I start? Met her after weeks of swapping messages, mainly about house prices, radical muslims and single mums....we arranged to meet at a pub, she was there on time holding a newspaper as we'd agreed....Wow! what I'd like to say I couldn't put in print but believe me she was hot......off the press.....went back to her place, just off Fleet St and what followed I couldn't possibly put in a family newspaper, suffice to say she is one amazing broad....or is she tabloid? Anyway guys, treat this girl with respect and you will be repaid in spadefuls.....see you soon Daily Mail, or should that be Daily Male "
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Guys, what can I say about the Daily Mail, where do I start? Met her after weeks of swapping messages, mainly about house prices, radical muslims and single mums....we arranged to meet at a pub, she was there on time holding a newspaper as we'd agreed....Wow! what I'd like to say I couldn't put in print but believe me she was hot......off the press.....went back to her place, just off Fleet St and what followed I couldn't possibly put in a family newspaper, suffice to say she is one amazing broad....or is she tabloid? Anyway guys, treat this girl with respect and you will be repaid in spadefuls.....see you soon Daily Mail, or should that be Daily Male
Love it "
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By (user no longer on site)
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People go on cam for a variety of reasons. When i'm on cam I'm fully clothed and so are the female friends I like to chat to cos I like to see them laugh and smile. |
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"Naming and shaming is too good for the likes of them!!  Timewasting Twats! ruining it for evertone else... and so on"
well if that was the case how come we have met you, think you may have not understood what the OP was talking about.
they are calling the such likes of us who go out swinging EVERY saturday nite time waisters because we choose not to get our tits out for them to wank over, this is a chat room not wankbook.
and the OP to call people time waisters when you have been here for just 3 months and not one verification think its time to swollow your words and go find out what swinging is really about before judging others. |
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"what do you think about name and shame timewasters people on cam who think its facebook and just sit there week after week and dont do anything in the directing rooms
Don't look at them or talk to them then! What others do is nothing to do with you "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Naming and shaming is too good for the likes of them!! Timewasting Twats! ruining it for evertone else... and so on
well if that was the case how come we have met you, think you may have not understood what the OP was talking about.
they are calling the such likes of us who go out swinging EVERY saturday nite time waisters because we choose not to get our tits out for them to wank over, this is a chat room not wankbook.
and the OP to call people time waisters when you have been here for just 3 months and not one verification think its time to swollow your words and go find out what swinging is really about before judging others."
Calm down. Fia was being sarcastic. |
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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago
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"How about people who have been on here 3 months but have no veris? Surely they must be timewasters too
fuck me I just trying to get a meet , I'm not wasting anyones time but my own lol
Im not wasting anyones time, as it says I will only meet socially. Does that make me a timewaster?
Do I arrange a set time and date I will meet someone?
I class timewasters as those who have arranged a meet wth someone and do not show up, even wth a text or message on here.
My pro says social meets/chatting only for now, but still get 'wanna fuck' messages. Who is the time waster there then???
i dont understand why you come on here then, unless you was playing at the start but now cant, but if you have no interest in sex or swinging, this site is not the site id think you would want to be on
It's not any of your business why anyone else is here."
Thanks Kinky x
For your information, yes I have met a few people from here, but 1) im not looking to meet at present, which is very clear on my profile, unless it is a social! And 2) wtf has it got to do with you???? Are you the site police or something?
If admin don't want me here, then let THEM boot me off! How do we know YOU have actually met someone as you have your veri's hidden????
(Btw not having a go at ppeople having their veri's hidden. I hide a lot of mine). If you want me to leave cos I am currently not meeting, speak to admin, and if they want me to leave, then fair enough! |
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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago
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"Also, you are a couple, but only have a pic of the ladies boobs on show. If you are a couple, and meeting as one, make a male pic publc too!
Just my opinion.
we meet only as a couple and only have pics if me (mrs) well 1 pic at mo as removed the rest. but although we meet as a couple only its only single guys we meet and mr only plays with me.. so for that reason his pic doesnt need to be on there. We get enough bi and gay men messaging him without it.. hes straight... however as he is not playing with anyone but myself at meet we dont feel it needed. however if and when we are arranging a meet we go on cam to show his face to potential meets.
Okay and the cam we dont play on cam dont go on cam much. have messed about on it a bit before but not for a while only sat with my face on cam more recently.
Playing on cam does nothing for us but simetimes good to let people see your face, for obvious reasons we dont have public face pics on profile they are private to send if we wish.
It is a swinging site not a babe station etc.. lol so if you want people on cam to do what you want to get you off only look at the ones that get off on that as well.
There are plenty who only show face or cleavage. mind you we dont go into directing rooms on cam only welsh room. but getting funny because you probably seen one you like that wont do what you want is a bit childish.
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. I was talking about the OP who only had a pic of boobs and a bit of cock on it. They want to play wiith couples and females (if I read it right) which was why I said about just the boob pic (which I think, rightly or wrongly) has been changed.
If I was playing with couples, I'd like to see both. Just my opinion. |
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"How about people who have been on here 3 months but have no veris? Surely they must be timewasters too
How can the Daily Mail get verified???! Silly billy!
I think they SHOULD be verified actually! They DID turn up for that meet with the policeman!
Guys, what can I say about the Daily Mail, where do I start? Met her after weeks of swapping messages, mainly about house prices, radical muslims and single mums....we arranged to meet at a pub, she was there on time holding a newspaper as we'd agreed....Wow! what I'd like to say I couldn't put in print but believe me she was hot......off the press.....went back to her place, just off Fleet St and what followed I couldn't possibly put in a family newspaper, suffice to say she is one amazing broad....or is she tabloid? Anyway guys, treat this girl with respect and you will be repaid in spadefuls.....see you soon Daily Mail, or should that be Daily Male "
Hahaha that made me chuckle |
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"I chatted to you for ages months ago, arranged to meet you in a pub and I was sat there drinking my cosmopolitan all by myself for an hour. Then you sent me a text saying I must have been hit with an ugly stick since my last photos were taken. I'll never leave the house again
See how easily it could go wrong? "
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