A friend (fem.) and I have found that genuine admirers are obvious amongst generic messages. The nub of it is - the reaction that causes someone to write message(s) which come across in some unique way also drives the engagement in a "preliminary social meet" and drives a good performance if we decide to try them out.
So if you are interested in someone I'd suggest - say what you feel which is welling up in your mind. |
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"I always find it a challenge knowing what to put in an introduction message to a couple or female. Is short and sweet best or is a full on novel preferred ? "
What would you say to a woman in a bar? You wouldn’t say hey and then stop and wait would you you’d say something about them or open with a bit of banter or something. Basically something she can actually respond to. Same in a message. Doesn’t need to get complicated. |
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Saying hello is a good start.
DO:
Say why you’ve messaged, was it our pics, something we said in the forum or a status?
Include a little bit about what you enjoy (not just copied from your profile) and something that acknowledges you’ve read our profile is good.
We’re happy with Dick pics, in fact Lily quite enjoys them. But on a first message accompany them with some regular pics too so we know you’re not just a Penis!
DON’T
Forget to remove the name of the last person you messaged from the opening line. Copy and paste messages don’t work for us.
Send overly graphic messages as that’s a turn off for some (us included)
Tell us you’ve just seen us in Sainsburys (you haven’t), no one likes a stalker!
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To a couple address them both - I personally wouldn’t write a really long message there’s no need make it short and sweet. Perhaps say why you are messaging attach a photo of yourself and forget about it.
If they reply great take it from there  |
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