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Good evening all,
Hope all you lovely mothers had a great day a were treated well and the rest of us had a fantastic weekend.
I was just wondering, I now of custody of my son 24/7 so can only meet weekdays during school time…
So how many others are in my position regards daytime meets and do people struggle to find meets. It seams most think you are cheating because you can’t do nights / weekends. |
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You will not be alone in that situation and many will only have free time during the day (between school runs), much easier to get time off work for those who are in 9 to 5 than to find a sitter for evenings.
Yes that stigma with single guys will always remain but if you can accommodate and have established a rapport, I think most will understand.
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"We struggle to find meets BECAUSE we're NOT available in the daytime. We actually have to work during the time the kids are not with us. Go figure! You should therefore get on well on here!"
Luckily I choose my time I work, so can free myself up during day and work evenings if needed.
I struggle to find daytime meet though.
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By *exfordMan
over a year ago
discombobulated land |
"Good evening all,
Hope all you lovely mothers had a great day a were treated well and the rest of us had a fantastic weekend.
I was just wondering, I now of custody of my son 24/7 so can only meet weekdays during school time…
So how many others are in my position regards daytime meets and do people struggle to find meets. It seams most think you are cheating because you can’t do nights / weekends. "
That's a strange name for your son.. 24/7... Wouldn't Jacob or Oscar have been better names? only kidding.. |
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Im the same. I can only do daytimes really. I haven't found it a problem. I just have a small thing on my profile saying as such. I think because I say "can't meet in school holidays" it's quite obvious that it's because I have a child at home.
A lot of people are in the same position. And seeing as more people work from home now that seems to free a bit more time too. |
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By *exfordMan
over a year ago
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"We struggle to find meets BECAUSE we're NOT available in the daytime. We actually have to work during the time the kids are not with us. Go figure! You should therefore get on well on here!"
Feck me.. Lighten up guys. He only asked a civilised question. No need to hit back with such verocity. |
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"Good evening all,
Hope all you lovely mothers had a great day a were treated well and the rest of us had a fantastic weekend.
I was just wondering, I now of custody of my son 24/7 so can only meet weekdays during school time…
So how many others are in my position regards daytime meets and do people struggle to find meets. It seams most think you are cheating because you can’t do nights / weekends. "
I’m a stay at home mum/housewife so I usually can only do day time meets when kids at school but I don’t like accommodating randoms until I have met them numerous times and guys often don’t accommodate because of cheating, so I don’t often have many meets unfortunately  |
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"Good evening all,
Hope all you lovely mothers had a great day a were treated well and the rest of us had a fantastic weekend.
I was just wondering, I now of custody of my son 24/7 so can only meet weekdays during school time…
So how many others are in my position regards daytime meets and do people struggle to find meets. It seams most think you are cheating because you can’t do nights / weekends.
That's a strange name for your son.. 24/7... Wouldn't Jacob or Oscar have been better names? only kidding.."
Quite witty, I like your sense of humour  |
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"Im the same. I can only do daytimes really. I haven't found it a problem. I just have a small thing on my profile saying as such. I think because I say "can't meet in school holidays" it's quite obvious that it's because I have a child at home.
A lot of people are in the same position. And seeing as more people work from home now that seems to free a bit more time too. "
That’s a good idea I put everything else but going to add the bit about can’t meet during school holidays.
Thanks for the advice |
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By *exfordMan
over a year ago
discombobulated land |
"Good evening all,
Hope all you lovely mothers had a great day a were treated well and the rest of us had a fantastic weekend.
I was just wondering, I now of custody of my son 24/7 so can only meet weekdays during school time…
So how many others are in my position regards daytime meets and do people struggle to find meets. It seams most think you are cheating because you can’t do nights / weekends.
That's a strange name for your son.. 24/7... Wouldn't Jacob or Oscar have been better names? only kidding..
Quite witty, I like your sense of humour "
Thank you
I'd meet you and buy you a drink as a thank you but bloody hell ... IM AT WORK DURING THE DAY!!! |
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"Good evening all,
Hope all you lovely mothers had a great day a were treated well and the rest of us had a fantastic weekend.
I was just wondering, I now of custody of my son 24/7 so can only meet weekdays during school time…
So how many others are in my position regards daytime meets and do people struggle to find meets. It seams most think you are cheating because you can’t do nights / weekends.
I’m a stay at home mum/housewife so I usually can only do day time meets when kids at school but I don’t like accommodating randoms until I have met them numerous times and guys often don’t accommodate because of cheating, so I don’t often have many meets unfortunately "
I totally understand where your coming from. Would socials or hotels not work for you ? |
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"Good evening all,
Hope all you lovely mothers had a great day a were treated well and the rest of us had a fantastic weekend.
I was just wondering, I now of custody of my son 24/7 so can only meet weekdays during school time…
So how many others are in my position regards daytime meets and do people struggle to find meets. It seams most think you are cheating because you can’t do nights / weekends.
That's a strange name for your son.. 24/7... Wouldn't Jacob or Oscar have been better names? only kidding..
Quite witty, I like your sense of humour
Thank you
I'd meet you and buy you a drink as a thank you but bloody hell ... IM AT WORK DURING THE DAY!!! "
Hahaha…. Where would you meet, there’s now way I’m coming over to the dark side. God knows what happens across the Pennines. Lol |
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By *exfordMan
over a year ago
discombobulated land |
"Good evening all,
Hope all you lovely mothers had a great day a were treated well and the rest of us had a fantastic weekend.
I was just wondering, I now of custody of my son 24/7 so can only meet weekdays during school time…
So how many others are in my position regards daytime meets and do people struggle to find meets. It seams most think you are cheating because you can’t do nights / weekends.
That's a strange name for your son.. 24/7... Wouldn't Jacob or Oscar have been better names? only kidding..
Quite witty, I like your sense of humour
Thank you
I'd meet you and buy you a drink as a thank you but bloody hell ... IM AT WORK DURING THE DAY!!!
Hahaha…. Where would you meet, there’s now way I’m coming over to the dark side. God knows what happens across the Pennines. Lol "
Cross the Pennines at your peril! We eat goats for dinner and eat yellow snow. We're all crazy over here! |
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"Good evening all,
Hope all you lovely mothers had a great day a were treated well and the rest of us had a fantastic weekend.
I was just wondering, I now of custody of my son 24/7 so can only meet weekdays during school time…
So how many others are in my position regards daytime meets and do people struggle to find meets. It seams most think you are cheating because you can’t do nights / weekends. "
one of the great things about being a single parent theres lots of other single parents with their kids in school at the same time. get on the pta. you ll be surprised at the interest all without having to go on a hit or miss site |
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By *l1pp3ryCouple
over a year ago
Bradford |
[Quote] A lot of people are in the same position. And seeing as more people work from home now that seems to free a bit more time too. [Unquote]
Also, even though working from home most days now this doesn't mean we can have sex during working time. This peed me off so much over last couple years, enough to make me hide profile and even consider leaving this lifestyle for good. We'd tell our existing friends, in innocent conversation we happen to be working from home now and they'd say, oh great, we can meet in the daytime, I'd reply err, no we can't, I'm actually being paid to work and they'd delete and block us. These are friend we've met before in an evening, yet suddenly they don't want to know if we're not willing to f*** on paid time. It's no wonder the country is f***ed if everyone is sh****ng instead of doing the work they're paid to do! |
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By *exfordMan
over a year ago
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"[Quote] A lot of people are in the same position. And seeing as more people work from home now that seems to free a bit more time too. [Unquote]
Also, even though working from home most days now this doesn't mean we can have sex during working time. This peed me off so much over last couple years, enough to make me hide profile and even consider leaving this lifestyle for good. We'd tell our existing friends, in innocent conversation we happen to be working from home now and they'd say, oh great, we can meet in the daytime, I'd reply err, no we can't, I'm actually being paid to work and they'd delete and block us. These are friend we've met before in an evening, yet suddenly they don't want to know if we're not willing to f*** on paid time. It's no wonder the country is f***ed if everyone is sh****ng instead of doing the work they're paid to do!"
Take a chill pill.. |
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By *elkieWoman
over a year ago
Durham |
"Good evening all,
Hope all you lovely mothers had a great day a were treated well and the rest of us had a fantastic weekend.
I was just wondering, I now of custody of my son 24/7 so can only meet weekdays during school time…
So how many others are in my position regards daytime meets and do people struggle to find meets. It seams most think you are cheating because you can’t do nights / weekends.
one of the great things about being a single parent theres lots of other single parents with their kids in school at the same time. get on the pta. you ll be surprised at the interest all without having to go on a hit or miss site"
Can confirm. Single dads on the PTA have the most popular kids in school, for some reason. |
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"[Quote] A lot of people are in the same position. And seeing as more people work from home now that seems to free a bit more time too. [Unquote]
Also, even though working from home most days now this doesn't mean we can have sex during working time. This peed me off so much over last couple years, enough to make me hide profile and even consider leaving this lifestyle for good. We'd tell our existing friends, in innocent conversation we happen to be working from home now and they'd say, oh great, we can meet in the daytime, I'd reply err, no we can't, I'm actually being paid to work and they'd delete and block us. These are friend we've met before in an evening, yet suddenly they don't want to know if we're not willing to f*** on paid time. It's no wonder the country is f***ed if everyone is sh****ng instead of doing the work they're paid to do!"
Well I’m quite lucky as I’m freelance so I can undertake the work at the times I want. Which works well for me as I can work 10-2 allowing for school run and then in the evening. Going to client meetings can be a bit more tricky.
If I worked a 9-5 job from home then that is what it would be. Work and family allways come first. |
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"Good evening all,
Hope all you lovely mothers had a great day a were treated well and the rest of us had a fantastic weekend.
I was just wondering, I now of custody of my son 24/7 so can only meet weekdays during school time…
So how many others are in my position regards daytime meets and do people struggle to find meets. It seams most think you are cheating because you can’t do nights / weekends.
one of the great things about being a single parent theres lots of other single parents with their kids in school at the same time. get on the pta. you ll be surprised at the interest all without having to go on a hit or miss site
Can confirm. Single dads on the PTA have the most popular kids in school, for some reason. "
Unfortunately I could not be a member of my sons schools PTA. He goes to a faith school and I am baptised into a different faith and do not worship anymore. He is and does and I respect that and he respects I don’t. School on the other could not have me even though they have asked once lol |
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"Good evening all,
Hope all you lovely mothers had a great day a were treated well and the rest of us had a fantastic weekend.
I was just wondering, I now of custody of my son 24/7 so can only meet weekdays during school time…
So how many others are in my position regards daytime meets and do people struggle to find meets. It seams most think you are cheating because you can’t do nights / weekends.
I’m a stay at home mum/housewife so I usually can only do day time meets when kids at school but I don’t like accommodating randoms until I have met them numerous times and guys often don’t accommodate because of cheating, so I don’t often have many meets unfortunately
I totally understand where your coming from. Would socials or hotels not work for you ? "
I like a regular arrangement, like weekly meets with same person so hotels aren’t a great choice and soon add up. |
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"Good evening all,
Hope all you lovely mothers had a great day a were treated well and the rest of us had a fantastic weekend.
I was just wondering, I now of custody of my son 24/7 so can only meet weekdays during school time…
So how many others are in my position regards daytime meets and do people struggle to find meets. It seams most think you are cheating because you can’t do nights / weekends.
I’m a stay at home mum/housewife so I usually can only do day time meets when kids at school but I don’t like accommodating randoms until I have met them numerous times and guys often don’t accommodate because of cheating, so I don’t often have many meets unfortunately "
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"Good evening all,
Hope all you lovely mothers had a great day a were treated well and the rest of us had a fantastic weekend.
I was just wondering, I now of custody of my son 24/7 so can only meet weekdays during school time…
So how many others are in my position regards daytime meets and do people struggle to find meets. It seams most think you are cheating because you can’t do nights / weekends. "
I am a lone parent (probably a more accurate way of describing me as I'm also engaged than saying single parent) to young children. But for some time I was also a single parent and a single guy on here. To be fair it didn't seem much of a disadvantage and in some ways an advantage. Never openly been accused of being a cheater or a fake single dad. Maybe some where put off thinking its a fib because single parent men are rare. But on the whole the women I chatted too took me as genuine. And when your in your early 30s (at ther time) a lot of the women out there in the late 20s-45 age group tend to be in the same boat, I.e. divorced/seperated/split and left looking after the kids. So naturally I was able to organise things around the school run on my days off from work. Although ironically experience teaches me its actually harder to get a slot for two single parents to meet than if one didn't have kids and thus more flexibility. As to how to be more successful in the first place with women believing you to be genuine I don't know. I would just be open and honest about my situation and seemed to work. I think if you can get into a situation over a phone call for example this helps because people can judge a lot better if your genuine when they actually talk to you. However I would say unless a lot of people are actually stating they don't believe your situation the reason for lack of luck/response may be for other reasons. As in my experience lots of women are very open to single dads. Attraction is a very subjective thing on fab and a misplace word in a message, an off putting photo or just the wrong item ticked in the here for box can instantly put a woman off. Its a very fickle world and notoriously difficult for guys.
Also have you considered clubs in the daytime. I always thought the MILF club at VA is a great idea. A club event specifically arranged around the school run. We visit once and it is busy. But there's also some other clubs open in the daytime and frequented by parents and couples who are only kid free in school times. I don't know the club scene in your area if you have anything like that?
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We're in the same boat, we only meet in the daytime during schooltime when we have days off work, funnily enough nobody wants to babysit our 3 kids  . Daytime socials are fun but daytime hotels can get abit pricey so we only usually go to daytime clubs now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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When my boys were at school could only do daytime meets but once the mums knew that I was never short of daytime company, was benefit being a single parent for once. |
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Being 61 and not currently working, daytime meets are definitely best for me. Although wifey wouldn't have a problem with me going out in the evening my teenage kids could ask lots of awkward questions! |
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"Good evening all,
Hope all you lovely mothers had a great day a were treated well and the rest of us had a fantastic weekend.
I was just wondering, I now of custody of my son 24/7 so can only meet weekdays during school time…
So how many others are in my position regards daytime meets and do people struggle to find meets. It seams most think you are cheating because you can’t do nights / weekends.
I am a lone parent (probably a more accurate way of describing me as I'm also engaged than saying single parent) to young children. But for some time I was also a single parent and a single guy on here. To be fair it didn't seem much of a disadvantage and in some ways an advantage. Never openly been accused of being a cheater or a fake single dad. Maybe some where put off thinking its a fib because single parent men are rare. But on the whole the women I chatted too took me as genuine. And when your in your early 30s (at ther time) a lot of the women out there in the late 20s-45 age group tend to be in the same boat, I.e. divorced/seperated/split and left looking after the kids. So naturally I was able to organise things around the school run on my days off from work. Although ironically experience teaches me its actually harder to get a slot for two single parents to meet than if one didn't have kids and thus more flexibility. As to how to be more successful in the first place with women believing you to be genuine I don't know. I would just be open and honest about my situation and seemed to work. I think if you can get into a situation over a phone call for example this helps because people can judge a lot better if your genuine when they actually talk to you. However I would say unless a lot of people are actually stating they don't believe your situation the reason for lack of luck/response may be for other reasons. As in my experience lots of women are very open to single dads. Attraction is a very subjective thing on fab and a misplace word in a message, an off putting photo or just the wrong item ticked in the here for box can instantly put a woman off. Its a very fickle world and notoriously difficult for guys.
Also have you considered clubs in the daytime. I always thought the MILF club at VA is a great idea. A club event specifically arranged around the school run. We visit once and it is busy. But there's also some other clubs open in the daytime and frequented by parents and couples who are only kid free in school times. I don't know the club scene in your area if you have anything like that?
Mr"
Thanks for the response, always good advice from people who have been in the same situation.
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"We're in the same boat, we only meet in the daytime during schooltime when we have days off work, funnily enough nobody wants to babysit our 3 kids . Daytime socials are fun but daytime hotels can get abit pricey so we only usually go to daytime clubs now."
Thanks for your reply… have done club visits before perhaps I should start again |
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"Good evening all,
Hope all you lovely mothers had a great day a were treated well and the rest of us had a fantastic weekend.
I was just wondering, I now of custody of my son 24/7 so can only meet weekdays during school time…
So how many others are in my position regards daytime meets and do people struggle to find meets. It seams most think you are cheating because you can’t do nights / weekends. "
I’m raising my 2 boys so it’s the same for me and I get the “must be cheating” question all the time.
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By *offee27Man
over a year ago
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"I enjoy a daytime meet, when I had a school age child I used to meet people in the day.
Doesn't bother me in the slightest, I think any one who's a parent would understand the time constraints."
Totally get this. Most my meets over the years have been with single mums during school hours. No kids myself but fits conveniently with my work patterns |
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"Love daytime meets so horny anyone wirral
We are Wirral but we don't meet men who just post cock pictures."
Just had a quick perv at your profile 
So glad you don’t just post cock pics. Really enjoying the hi key black & whites. My favourite genre of photography. Definitely a Phwoarrrrrr and a half. |
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"Good evening all,
Hope all you lovely mothers had a great day a were treated well and the rest of us had a fantastic weekend.
I was just wondering, I now of custody of my son 24/7 so can only meet weekdays during school time…
So how many others are in my position regards daytime meets and do people struggle to find meets. It seams most think you are cheating because you can’t do nights / weekends.
I’m raising my 2 boys so it’s the same for me and I get the “must be cheating” question all the time.
Sending good vibes your way "
Cheers bud. Right back at you. |
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