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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Jus wondering all this into bbw bbc whites only no Asians yes they r ur preferences but ain't we here for NSA sex n don't wat who wit as long as they fulfil ur preferences than putting race before anything cos its not race bt how good u use ur dick or pussy even oral wats ur say I might b wrong here lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"absolutely mate, I think it is racism pure and simple.
I adore black men and women"
What a ridiculous statement! Sexual preference has nothing to do with racism! So if you set your age preferences that means you're ageist? Or if you're only attracted to the opposite sex you're homophobic?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Jus wondering all this into bbw bbc whites only no Asians yes they r ur preferences but ain't we here for NSA sex n don't wat who wit as long as they fulfil ur preferences than putting race before anything cos its not race bt how good u use ur dick or pussy even oral wats ur say I might b wrong here lol "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because it may be NSA but doesnt mean everyone will fuck anything with a hole or a cock..
Cali. Try bt u don't put it out thee that's y u hav pvt MSG to set no I don't ur race simples a dick is a fijkbpussy is pussy it's jus different god it's on different pple  "
Not a scooby what you just said m8! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Because it may be NSA but doesnt mean everyone will fuck anything with a hole or a cock..
Cali. True bt u don't put it out there that's y u hav pvt MSG to say no I don't do ur race simples a dick is a dick pussy is pussy it's jus different cos its on different pple "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Jus wondering all this into bbw bbc whites only no Asians yes they r ur preferences but ain't we here for NSA sex n don't wat who wit as long as they fulfil ur preferences than putting race before anything cos its not race bt how good u use ur dick or pussy even oral wats ur say I might b wrong here lol "
If this was written correctly I may have an idea what it was about! |
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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago
Manchester and that's all you need to know |
People can put whatever they want on their profiles.
You won't appeal to everyone and neither will I....I personally am colour blind but saying that if you don't stimulate me with your face or mind I simply move on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have met black guys.. but have to say that in general its only any good to me in a group session.. and then oral only..
Simply the same reason I may refuse other guys.. and that is I dont fancy them for one on one or full sex.
As my male friends on here that are not white will tell you.. I am certainly fine with them in every other way.. but I have no attraction to them.. and personally I dont like the colour contrast.. I dont find it sexy.. same as some do find it sexy and a turn on.
Personal preference..
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People can put whatever they want on their profiles.
You won't appeal to everyone and neither will I....I personally am colour blind but saying that if you don't stimulate me with your face or mind I simply move on."
Or voice lol |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
yumsville |
"People can put whatever they want on their profiles.
You won't appeal to everyone and neither will I....I personally am colour blind but saying that if you don't stimulate me with your face or mind I simply move on."
has a beautiful face ... but a rancid mind |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Age i can understand bt race nada maybe they shud make sites for different races"
Why... there is someone for everyone on here.. I am a bigger girl.. not everyone will like me.. but shouldnt mean I should just be on a site for bigger girls..
Same with age, hair colour, eye colour.. everything is preference..
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have met black guys.. but have to say that in general its only any good to me in a group session.. and then oral only..
Simply the same reason I may refuse other guys.. and that is I dont fancy them for one on one or full sex.
As my male friends on here that are not white will tell you.. I am certainly fine with them in every other way.. but I have no attraction to them.. and personally I dont like the colour contrast.. I dont find it sexy.. same as some do find it sexy and a turn on.
Personal preference..
Cali "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Age i can understand bt race nada maybe they shud make sites for different races"
Maybe you should just find another site?
The idea of swinging is getting to pick and enjoy who you want as a couple of a single.
Some people like black others like white get over it.
Sex is sex and most people are on here because they want sex which is diffrent from the normal sex which 99% of people can get any where. If your just after numbers or willing to just sleep with any one I feel sorry for them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Age i can understand bt race nada maybe they shud make sites for different races"
Some people just don't find black or Asians attractive, like some black or Asians might not find Whites attractive.
Is it really that difficult to understand  or do you think everyone has a moral obligation to shag anyone who messages them ? |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
Over the rainbow, under the bridge |
"Jus wondering all this into bbw bbc whites only no Asians yes they r ur preferences but ain't we here for NSA sex n don't wat who wit as long as they fulfil ur preferences than putting race before anything cos its not race bt how good u use ur dick or pussy even oral wats ur say I might b wrong here lol "
This is very difficult to understand. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Age i can understand bt race nada maybe they shud make sites for different races
Maybe you should just find another site?
The idea of swinging is getting to pick and enjoy who you want as a couple of a single.
Some people like black others like white get over it.
Sex is sex and most people are on here because they want sex which is diffrent from the normal sex which 99% of people can get any where. If your just after numbers or willing to just sleep with any one I feel sorry for them. "
. U getting over urged here asbu have jus said sex is sex |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So to summarise, am I right in thinking that the OP will basically shag anything but thinks it unfair that others may have slightly stricter preferences?
And he can't understand that preference and prejudice aren't the same thing? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Age i can understand bt race nada maybe they shud make sites for different races
Maybe you should just find another site?
The idea of swinging is getting to pick and enjoy who you want as a couple of a single.
Some people like black others like white get over it.
Sex is sex and most people are on here because they want sex which is diffrent from the normal sex which 99% of people can get any where. If your just after numbers or willing to just sleep with any one I feel sorry for them. . U getting over urged here asbu have jus said sex is sex"
I know you say you are Straight but that don't mean much on here but would you like to be fucked up the bum by a guy ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Age i can understand bt race nada maybe they shud make sites for different races
Maybe you should just find another site?
The idea of swinging is getting to pick and enjoy who you want as a couple of a single.
Some people like black others like white get over it.
Sex is sex and most people are on here because they want sex which is diffrent from the normal sex which 99% of people can get any where. If your just after numbers or willing to just sleep with any one I feel sorry for them. . U getting over urged here asbu have jus said sex is sex"
No. Read it again.
Most people can get normal sex people are on here to try new things which they mite not be able to in normal relationships or as singles.
If your saying sex is sex then sex is like having a Wank in a body so more as well just sort your self out |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"sorry didnt understand the OP's message, ran out of breath trying to read it u look like I need some glasses mate go buy some"
HE looks like YOU need some glasses ?!?!?!
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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago
Manchester and that's all you need to know |
"Age i can understand bt race nada maybe they shud make sites for different races
Maybe you should just find another site?
The idea of swinging is getting to pick and enjoy who you want as a couple of a single.
Some people like black others like white get over it.
Sex is sex and most people are on here because they want sex which is diffrent from the normal sex which 99% of people can get any where. If your just after numbers or willing to just sleep with any one I feel sorry for them. . U getting over urged here asbu have jus said sex is sex"
Sex is not sex as you may not have noticed this is a swinging site hence people having the benefit of free choice,if you have an issue with people having preference's simply go and pay for what you want  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There is a point to the op statement - and of course we are all entitled to preference . However I think his point is that when colour is introduced as a factor it may be not just ?
We are happy playing with all colours but not necessarily all shapes or ages - so perhaps we are just as bad as those who choose colour ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So to summarise, am I right in thinking that the OP will basically shag anything but thinks it unfair that others may have slightly stricter preferences?
And he can't understand that preference and prejudice aren't the same thing?"
Yup you got it. Also he can't use proper English |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Jus wondering all this into bbw bbc whites only no Asians yes they r ur preferences but ain't we here for NSA sex n don't wat who wit as long as they fulfil ur preferences than putting race before anything cos its not race bt how good u use ur dick or pussy even oral wats ur say I might b wrong here lol "
My say is yes, you are wrong. Completely wrong.
Everyone has their preferences and are entitled to them. Whether you like it or not, for some people, the colour of someone skin has a definite bearing on whether they find someone attractive or not, its part of the aesthetic of a person and some people don't want to be with someone of a different colour. Simple. Doesn't mean they have anything against them as a person, they just don't want to fuck them. |
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By *acciWoman
over a year ago
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Its simple really were all adults and can meet who we like when we like. We all have preferences be it age size or colour,i thought this was a free country seems that the poster is saying if you dnt meet him you must be a racist. What a bloody stupid thing to say.
Think this thread should be closed before it gets out of hand,after all wars are started this way |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Jus wondering all this into bbw bbc whites only no Asians yes they r ur preferences but ain't we here for NSA sex n don't wat who wit as long as they fulfil ur preferences than putting race before anything cos its not race bt how good u use ur dick or pussy even oral wats ur say I might b wrong here lol "
Basically you are saying no one should have any preferences?
You are saying, because we are on a swinging site, we should all drop our tastes and shag anything that moves.
Sorry to say this OP... I ain't gonna shag someone I don't fancy and I'm sure there are others that feel the same way. |
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"Because it may be NSA but doesnt mean everyone will fuck anything with a hole or a cock..
Cali"
And once again, Cali hits the nail on the head!
What you need to understand OP is that because it's a swinging site, sexual attraction is initially all we have to go off. I say no blacks or Asians in my profile simply because I do not find them sexually attractive, and it's nothing to do with the skin-colour, it's more to do with facial features and build.
If anything, I think it would be more relevant if I was actually seeking a relationship. I have friends of all different colours that I would happily go out with as I have got to know them and have fallen in love with their personalities, but as NSA sex goes, nobody can force an attraction to happen that isn't there.
If we all started fucking everyone who came along just to appear "politically correct", I'm sure even YOU would come up against quite a fair few that made it impossible to get a boner. Am I wrong? x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Outstanding! Since he started this thread 25 mins ago, hes left the site! Lol!"
was it something I said.. I have lost three off my account today too
cali |
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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago
Manchester and that's all you need to know |
"Outstanding! Since he started this thread 25 mins ago, hes left the site! Lol!
Fuck me, that was quick! x"
It sure was and I for one am glad he has vacated the forum his attitude sucked big time. |
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"I guess the op didn't get the answer he was looking for! "
You mean the "Oh you're right, I'm so sorry I offended you with my preferences.
Here, come over right now and I'll be ready and waiting with my legs open.
And as I have caused an inconvenience, please feel free to fuck me bareback" answer? x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I guess the op didn't get the answer he was looking for!
You mean the "Oh you're right, I'm so sorry I offended you with my preferences.
Here, come over right now and I'll be ready and waiting with my legs open.
And as I have caused an inconvenience, please feel free to fuck me bareback" answer? x"
Lol, exactly! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Outstanding! Since he started this thread 25 mins ago, hes left the site! Lol!
Fuck me, that was quick! x
Maybe thats what he's used to hearing! "
PMSL!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I personally am simply not sexually attracted to anyone who is not white I really don't know why :S whereas my oh does find different races attractive its just how it is |
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"I personally am simply not sexually attracted to anyone who is not white I really don't know why :S whereas my oh does find different races attractive its just how it is "
I know black guys who don't find black WOMEN attractive... *Shrugs*.
People are fine with personal preference until it excludes them and then all Hell breaks loose.
You don't see me throwing a fit when a profile says "no fat chicks", lol. x |
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"I have met black guys.. but have to say that in general its only any good to me in a group session.. and then oral only..
Simply the same reason I may refuse other guys.. and that is I dont fancy them for one on one or full sex.
As my male friends on here that are not white will tell you.. I am certainly fine with them in every other way.. but I have no attraction to them.. and personally I dont like the colour contrast.. I dont find it sexy.. same as some do find it sexy and a turn on.
Personal preference..
Cali "
You've changed your tune...again.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have met black guys.. but have to say that in general its only any good to me in a group session.. and then oral only..
Simply the same reason I may refuse other guys.. and that is I dont fancy them for one on one or full sex.
As my male friends on here that are not white will tell you.. I am certainly fine with them in every other way.. but I have no attraction to them.. and personally I dont like the colour contrast.. I dont find it sexy.. same as some do find it sexy and a turn on.
Personal preference..
Cali
You've changed your tune...again.
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Not really. I admitted before that my prejudice was based on thoughts not even my own. So I explored my own thoughts and came up with how I now feel. I don't fancy most black guys. Maybe I may meet one I do. But as it stands along with many white guys they are okay for group meets but mostly oral but I'd not meet one to one.
But that's because I need sexual attraction for one on one and don't for intimate play. I also as I said find the colour contrast not for me. Same as some love it.
Cali |
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"Age i can understand bt race nada maybe they shud make sites for different races
Separate but equal.
Didn't they try that somewhere?. Fuken right "
I think he's borrowed funkys time machine so he can go and live in Alabama in the fifties... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Jus wondering all this into bbw bbc whites only no Asians yes they r ur preferences but ain't we here for NSA sex n don't wat who wit as long as they fulfil ur preferences than putting race before anything cos its not race bt how good u use ur dick or pussy even oral wats ur say I might b wrong here lol "
Could you please rejoin the site and re type that In English please  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Jus wondering all this into bbw bbc whites only no Asians yes they r ur preferences but ain't we here for NSA sex n don't wat who wit as long as they fulfil ur preferences than putting race before anything cos its not race bt how good u use ur dick or pussy even oral wats ur say I might b wrong here lol
Could you please rejoin the site and re type that In English please "
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"Jus wondering all this into bbw bbc whites only no Asians yes they r ur preferences but ain't we here for NSA sex n don't wat who wit as long as they fulfil ur preferences than putting race before anything cos its not race bt how good u use ur dick or pussy even oral wats ur say I might b wrong here lol
Could you please rejoin the site and re type that In English please "
I've got a Rosetta Stone if it helps. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Jus wondering all this into bbw bbc whites only no Asians yes they r ur preferences but ain't we here for NSA sex n don't wat who wit as long as they fulfil ur preferences than putting race before anything cos its not race bt how good u use ur dick or pussy even oral wats ur say I might b wrong here lol "
big up the staines massive booyakashan! Just cuz you is gettin no poonani! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Pity the guy fecked off! I'm not too bad at lip reading! "
he probably deleted his profile by accident because I would inagine his reading is as bad as his writing. Actually, no, scrub that he was just a thicko!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Jus wondering all this into bbw bbc whites only no Asians yes they r ur preferences but ain't we here for NSA sex n don't wat who wit as long as they fulfil ur preferences than putting race before anything cos its not race bt how good u use ur dick or pussy even oral wats ur say I might b wrong here lol "
Sexual preference has NOTHING to do with any 'ism', it's purely down to attraction and connection, full stop! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I didnt understand a word of that lol im asian and im still on this site...no one has to fuck anything that comes their way. They have their likes and dislikes. You just got to respect it, accept it and move on..
Your not going to be everyones cup of tea. So, grow a pair of bigger balls, pull your boxers up along with your socks...and be patient lol
Erm, yeah lol x  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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personally, I prefer ppl to use choice..as for the recently departed member(sounds painful), dont think we should hammer on about the spelling etc...we are above that me thinks...but, still...dont generalize everybody into the attraction element...some ppl just like cock and pussy- regardless of who is attached to it in varying degrees, and these ppl who 'like' can come in various forms i.e sex,race,class,sexuality
part of the joy of the site, is that it caters for everybody really, if I wanted to be segregated to another site based on anything about physicality...I know I'd get bored... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well, I was going to add that my personal preference is for people who can spell & use grammar but DB9 beat me to it! Wonder what 'ism' that makes me?!
Her |
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I'm not a grammar nazi but the OP's posts were just painful to read. I've tried to understand them but they were tortuously bad.
I recently came accross a three page profile of a woman that was just a bizarre mixture of text speech and rants about nasty comments from men with no punctuation at all. Complete and utter turn off for me. I don't need messages or profiles to be grammatically perfect, but when I need to translate them first it's just not on.
As to preferences, I don't meet a lot of peoples prefs; I'm often too short, have a goatee, I'm an axe murderer or they want a VWE bloke. Like the poster said above, it's their preferences, get over it and move on.
Far too many people on here spend far too time analysing each others profiles and posts. There's naff all you can do about them unless you can prove it's a fake profile. It is better to alter the way you look for meets and be more selective and cautious - make the way you act get you the good meets. |
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we have had it before when people think just cause we are swingers we should fuck anyone and that we have been braded racist and that is not the case its as other people have said its personal preference
if people are not turned on sexually by the other person/people what’s the point in meeting ?
as we are all here to excite our sexual lives not just fuck around for the sake of it
Can we also point out to people who have said NSA sex the meaning is (No Strings Attached) I.e. you can have sexual relations without it going any further I.e. relationship or feelings for the other person/people and it just stays sexual the meaning does not mean (we will shag anyone and anything) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This thread is also available with sub-titles ...
Britosh Sign Language, Makaton and Semaphore also available..
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Can I have it in pictures please ( with a colouring in section ) why did he go ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because it may be NSA but doesnt mean everyone will fuck anything with a hole or a cock..
Cali. Try bt u don't put it out thee that's y u hav pvt MSG to set no I don't ur race simples a dick is a fijkbpussy is pussy it's jus different god it's on different pple
Not a scooby what you just said m8! "
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"Because it may be NSA but doesnt mean everyone will fuck anything with a hole or a cock..
Cali. Try bt u don't put it out thee that's y u hav pvt MSG to set no I don't ur race simples a dick is a fijkbpussy is pussy it's jus different god it's on different pple
Not a scooby what you just said m8!
Haha awesome "
I think it might be Klingon |
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By (user no longer on site)
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suppose when u have worked with ppl with barriers to communication, u can add the odd comma and full stop...even correct whats spelling..... should know, deciphered plenty of doctors handwriting's........ |
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I think the reason for the OP's original rant was probably because he wasn't getting meets and assumed it was because he was Asian rather than the reality, it's because he was a single male (or a couple who assume they will get other couples falling over to meet them).
It is true some folk state no Asians, but then a lot state height, build and appearance restrictions as well. It just a preference.
The irony is that it is the good single males who get the most meets off Fab. |
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"Jus wondering all this into bbw bbc whites only no Asians yes they r ur preferences but ain't we here for NSA sex n don't wat who wit as long as they fulfil ur preferences than putting race before anything cos its not race bt how good u use ur dick or pussy even oral wats ur say I might b wrong here lol
Pardon? "
I dont like people who can't write an intellible message. If people can't understand it then it fails in it's purpose.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Jus wondering all this into bbw bbc whites only no Asians yes they r ur preferences but ain't we here for NSA sex n don't wat who wit as long as they fulfil ur preferences than putting race before anything cos its not race bt how good u use ur dick or pussy even oral wats ur say I might b wrong here lol
Pardon?
I dont like people who can't write an intellible message. If people can't understand it then it fails in it's purpose.
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it was gonna fail in its purpose no matter how well it was written lol |
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If you sit enough Fab members who never get meets in front of enough typewriters with loafs of time, sooner or later one of them will write a decent profile and get a shag... might take bloody years though! |
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