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Hi, I don't understand why, when all I did was say how someone had nice eyes, that it warranted a block? Could understand of I'd been rude or abusive but when you pay someone a polite compliment you don't expect to get blocked....do you? Strange. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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no one is blocked for no reason there is always a reason but it their reason ... its the nature of the scene no one owes you anything not even ''time''
so best get used to it as it will happen alot on a scene where rejection is a key element... |
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"Hi, I don't understand why, when all I did was say how someone had nice eyes, that it warranted a block? Could understand of I'd been rude or abusive but when you pay someone a polite compliment you don't expect to get blocked....do you? Strange."
maybe a relative recognized you.  |
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"They just don’t want any contact off you 
It’s not strange, they’re just preventing further messages
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This.
Tbh I block any guy that I’m not interested in because of the number who get abusive if you don’t reply or say no thanks. Just saves the hassle. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know the reason but won’t share it here unless you give me your direct assent
I’ve been blocked for weird reasons too sometimes after polite turn downs I’ll find myself blocked weeks later when I want to see their new pics.
Reckon I am blocked by 287 women on this site 38 men and 93 couples. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I understand that it's their right to block anyone but I usually say no thanks and if they still message, then I block. Hey ho, the vagaries of the scene..lol"
“You” might do that but many others can’t take no for an answer. They don’t know that so it’s easier to just block  |
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People block for their own reasons, maybe it's to stop future unwanted messages
It maybe a polite compliment but if you're getting 20 similar messages a day it does take time to do something with them, be that open & read, straight delete etc
Best not to think about it to much, this site is odd & everyone has their own way of using it, I personally feel it's best not to message someone even if it's a compliment unless you are genuinely what their profile says they are looking for otherwise your wasting your time & theirs |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi, I don't understand why, when all I did was say how someone had nice eyes, that it warranted a block? Could understand of I'd been rude or abusive but when you pay someone a polite compliment you don't expect to get blocked....do you? Strange."
Maybe they met an evil eye collecting nutter and you gave them flashbacks. |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
hiding from cock pics. |
"Hi, I don't understand why, when all I did was say how someone had nice eyes, that it warranted a block? Could understand of I'd been rude or abusive but when you pay someone a polite compliment you don't expect to get blocked....do you? Strange."
Does she have a picture visible showing her eyes?
I don't have face pictures on find a creepy when someone sends me a message saying I have a lovely smile etc it makes me think either they haven't read my profile (which of course is the most likely), or they actually know me and are slightly stalking me which obviously is unlikely but also uncomfortable. |
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"Hi, I don't understand why, when all I did was say how someone had nice eyes, that it warranted a block? Could understand of I'd been rude or abusive but when you pay someone a polite compliment you don't expect to get blocked....do you? Strange."
Maybe they are just not into you! It’s easier to just block. |
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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago
Peterborough / Stamford |
"OK, tell me. "
Your first paragraph in your profile demanding a reply to your messages would be enough for us to block you. Fab FAQ says that no reply = no thanks, so not sure what makes you think you're entitled to a reply.
(Bry) |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
"They just don’t want any contact off you
It’s not strange, they’re just preventing further messages
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This ,I don't always block ,but I do delete these types of messages if they're from someone I'm not looking for. |
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"They just don’t want any contact off you
It’s not strange, they’re just preventing further messages
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This. Just try not to sweat it, mate. There will be plenty of people who do reply, but we can't all be for everyone, and blocking the simplest way for women and couples to prevent being inundated! |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
It’s odd, so many men misinterpret our profile and project onto us what we really want.
Unfortunately after awhile it makes you cynical.
We are here for us, not them.
OP, don’t know if it’s you looking for your needs to be met over the needs of those you contacted or simply just the cynicism from previous experience projected onto you.
If I could give any advice to a single male approach, read the profile and look at their needs over your own. |
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By *luttTV/TS
over a year ago
Duns |
"People block for their own reasons, maybe it's to stop future unwanted messages
It maybe a polite compliment but if you're getting 20 similar messages a day it does take time to do something with them, be that open & read, straight delete etc
Best not to think about it to much, this site is odd & everyone has their own way of using it, I personally feel it's best not to message someone even if it's a compliment unless you are genuinely what their profile says they are looking for otherwise your wasting your time & theirs "
And those that are getting 20 messages per day, if they send out 20 polite no thank yous they’ll get 19 respectful responses or respectful silences, and 1 arse.
Rather than deal with an arse every single day, much easier just to block everyone they’re not interested in. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They just don’t want any contact off you
It’s not strange, they’re just preventing further messages
This.
Tbh I block any guy that I’m not interested in because of the number who get abusive if you don’t reply or say no thanks. Just saves the hassle. "
What about if they turn out to be quite interesting and you may like them?
They’re fat one snapshot chance to impress you then? |
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"Hi, I don't understand why, when all I did was say how someone had nice eyes, that it warranted a block? Could understand of I'd been rude or abusive but when you pay someone a polite compliment you don't expect to get blocked....do you? Strange."
They probably weren't interested and thought it easier to block than risk you messaging them again
May seem odd to you but it's how lots of people manage their accounts on here |
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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago
Peterborough / Stamford |
"What about if they turn out to be quite interesting and you may like them?"
No matter how interesting or nice someone is, there still needs to be a physical attraction and they're not going to change that much after a few messages.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They just don’t want any contact off you
It’s not strange, they’re just preventing further messages
This.
Tbh I block any guy that I’m not interested in because of the number who get abusive if you don’t reply or say no thanks. Just saves the hassle.
What about if they turn out to be quite interesting and you may like them?
They’re fat one snapshot chance to impress you then?"
What is it with men insisting that "you get to know them" if you don't find them attractive??
Do you think people on here have an infinite amount of free time to just get to know everyone who messages them  |
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"They just don’t want any contact off you
It’s not strange, they’re just preventing further messages
This.
Tbh I block any guy that I’m not interested in because of the number who get abusive if you don’t reply or say no thanks. Just saves the hassle.
What about if they turn out to be quite interesting and you may like them?
They’re fat one snapshot chance to impress you then?"
If I’m not interested and say so then a guy pushing that he’s quite interesting isn’t going to make me think he’s anything other than unable to take a polite no.
Why do so many guys think women who look at a profile and message and decide they aren’t interested are somehow mistaken?
I know what I like and what I’m looking for. If it’s not there it’s not magically going to appear after a dozen messages |
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By (user no longer on site)
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My point why why instant block?
Maybe I’m unique and don’t pester people after no reply?
I take the lack of reply as a clear indication of lack of interest
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"My point why why instant block?
Maybe I’m unique and don’t pester people after no reply?
I take the lack of reply as a clear indication of lack of interest
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I said in my first reply why I instant block.
The abuse that comes from not replying, or saying no thanks, is frequent enough that it’s not worth leaving the opportunity there.
Plus if someone doesn’t interest me then there’s no point in us coming up in searches repeatedly. |
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"My point why why instant block?
Maybe I’m unique and don’t pester people after no reply?
I take the lack of reply as a clear indication of lack of interest
I said in my first reply why I instant block.
The abuse that comes from not replying, or saying no thanks, is frequent enough that it’s not worth leaving the opportunity there.
Plus if someone doesn’t interest me then there’s no point in us coming up in searches repeatedly. "
Understood
I just don’t understand people who persist with messages and flogging a dead horse in terms of wanting a reply etc
Spils for everyone |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"They just don’t want any contact off you
It’s not strange, they’re just preventing further messages
This.
Tbh I block any guy that I’m not interested in because of the number who get abusive if you don’t reply or say no thanks. Just saves the hassle.
What about if they turn out to be quite interesting and you may like them?
They’re fat one snapshot chance to impress you then?
What is it with men insisting that "you get to know them" if you don't find them attractive??
Do you think people on here have an infinite amount of free time to just get to know everyone who messages them "
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"Hi, I don't understand why, when all I did was say how someone had nice eyes, that it warranted a block? Could understand of I'd been rude or abusive but when you pay someone a polite compliment you don't expect to get blocked....do you? Strange."
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Can I ask what your expectations were of remarking on their pics? |
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If they have blocked you, they don't fancy you. If they don't fancy you, then you were going nowhere anyway.
So, just carry on regardless. You haven't lost anything and, in fact, they have saved you time. |
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"My point why why instant block?
Maybe I’m unique and don’t pester people after no reply?
I take the lack of reply as a clear indication of lack of interest
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If you don't send follow up messages why worry about being blocked? It's not an act of aggression. |
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