Has anyone managed to find a Long term fwb from this site, like a weekly meet with conversation that flows outside the bedroom? Not something we have been able to find so far and wondering If there are any other sites more suitable to find what I am looking for  |
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For me the whole D/s relationship takes a lot of time to build. Based upon the four cornerstones.
I have found on here that people want the instant gratification of being a Dominant rather than taking the time to actually learn me, vetting etc.
That may be a disservice to the genuine Dom(me)s on here but there’s no way I’m submitting to someone because they tell me to or expect it after a few messages |
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"For me the whole D/s relationship takes a lot of time to build. Based upon the four cornerstones.
I have found on here that people want the instant gratification of being a Dominant rather than taking the time to actually learn me, vetting etc.
That may be a disservice to the genuine Dom(me)s on here but there’s no way I’m submitting to someone because they tell me to or expect it after a few messages"
Hundred percent, to many fake doms who think shouting at you or punishing you before you've even met is acceptable, it takes time to learn each other  |
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Just be careful on here of wannabe Dom's professing to know everything there is to know about D/s play, wish you well in your search but other more fet based websites may be a better place to find a good fit.
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On two well known fet sites I am MindMasterUK. I am often found haunting the dungeons at Kestrels and Chameleons with Messy Fairy, LunaLust or Ms-creant. Messy Fairy is no longer on this site (she got too much abuse) but is active on fet sites. Ms-creant is on fet only and LunaLust is on everything! Ms-creant reached out to me on a Fet site, LunaLust on here and I met MessyFairy at a club.
If looking for D/s relationship I think a combination of sites is best, plus a visit to a club on an appropriate night.
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"Has anyone managed to find a Long term fwb from this site, like a weekly meet with conversation that flows outside the bedroom? Not something we have been able to find so far and wondering If there are any other sites more suitable to find what I am looking for "
Yes I have. I've met a couple of long term playmates through fab.
There's more kinksters on here than some people would have you believe. Keep looking   |
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