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Wife not interested in swinging - Any relate?
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"So over the past few months I’ve subtlety been trying to persuade my Mrs to indulge in the swinging/cuckolding scene, as our sex life is non-existent so needs something passionate doing!
But she’s not interested at all it seems, she’s not the least bit ‘kinky’ or sexual or anything. It’s so frustrating, because I’m not ready to become a monk just yet.
I’ve even said if she ever has nights out with the girls, I’ll give her a ‘hall pass’, meaning she can get off with some bloke if the fancy takes her and some bloke tries chatting her up.. but she’s says she’s not interested in all those kinds of things.
Anyone else here that her occasionally frustrated because your partner is just so vanilla, when you have hornier desires inside?  "
if she has zero interest in sex with you what makes you think she’s going to want it on here with random strangers ?
Have you tried speaking to her to find out why she isn’t interested in sex ? |
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"So over the past few months I’ve subtlety been trying to persuade my Mrs to indulge in the swinging/cuckolding scene, as our sex life is non-existent so needs something passionate doing!
But she’s not interested at all it seems, she’s not the least bit ‘kinky’ or sexual or anything. It’s so frustrating, because I’m not ready to become a monk just yet.
I’ve even said if she ever has nights out with the girls, I’ll give her a ‘hall pass’, meaning she can get off with some bloke if the fancy takes her and some bloke tries chatting her up.. but she’s says she’s not interested in all those kinds of things.
Anyone else here that her occasionally frustrated because your partner is just so vanilla, when you have hornier desires inside? if she has zero interest in sex with you what makes you think she’s going to want it on here with random strangers ?
Have you tried speaking to her to find out why she isn’t interested in sex ? "
That sounds like a good suggestion until you realise that recent studies have shown that more than half of the British people are unwilling to discuss sexual matters. Us Fabsters are the lucky exception.
It all comes back to the simple equasion. Do you stay in a sexless marriage to provide a stable home for the children or wander off to chance having good illicit sex with someone else and risk blowing the whole thing up.
Whatever way it is approached, it will be very difficult to acheive.
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You really need to come off here and sort your marriage out first, I can only speak for myself and your wife’s situation might be completely different.
If over the years I have found myself having no interest in sex with my husband it’s always had nothing to do with him, it’s a me problem, I’m either stressed or exhausted or I’m feeling out of shape and unattractive. Now if my husband then suggested we should have sex with other people during this time (and we weren’t already living this lifestyle) I would feel like my fears were confirmed, I am out of shape, I am unattractive and he wants to have sex with better looking women, in turn making me worse. Do you see where I’m coming from? |
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"You could show her your profile on here. That might help.
It might as he has no veris so presumably is still faithful. "
Telling people he’s newly single and looking is fine as long as he doesn’t get his dick wet  |
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"So over the past few months I’ve subtlety been trying to persuade my Mrs to indulge in the swinging/cuckolding scene, as our sex life is non-existent so needs something passionate doing!
But she’s not interested at all it seems, she’s not the least bit ‘kinky’ or sexual or anything. It’s so frustrating, because I’m not ready to become a monk just yet.
I’ve even said if she ever has nights out with the girls, I’ll give her a ‘hall pass’, meaning she can get off with some bloke if the fancy takes her and some bloke tries chatting her up.. but she’s says she’s not interested in all those kinds of things.
Anyone else here that her occasionally frustrated because your partner is just so vanilla, when you have hornier desires inside? if she has zero interest in sex with you what makes you think she’s going to want it on here with random strangers ?
Have you tried speaking to her to find out why she isn’t interested in sex ? "
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