You should never do something you don’t want to do! This is all about having fun if my wife didn’t want to interact with the women I would hate for her not to tell me. There is plenty of fun to be had with our girl on girl. This is just my opinion. |
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"You should never do something you don’t want to do! This is all about having fun if my wife didn’t want to interact with the women I would hate for her not to tell me. There is plenty of fun to be had with our girl on girl. This is just my opinion. "
Very much this, I love watching my wife but everything is her decision on who she plays with and it's for her enjoyment as much as mine. |
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I'm straight ,but feel that sometimes men still expect/assume that I'm bi.
I've had couples message and basically state he wants to see his Mrs with a woman ,I'm like that's great but I'm straight so not sure why you're telling me.
I have couples blocked now.
Single men also have tried to slip into a conversation that they have a v bi FB that they'll bring if we meet....I block those types too. |
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"You should never do something you don’t want to do! This is all about having fun if my wife didn’t want to interact with the women I would hate for her not to tell me. There is plenty of fun to be had with our girl on girl. This is just my opinion. "
Absolutely - there's gotta be openess (is that a word?) And honesty to make things fun. |
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"You can always tell if the girl is doing it for the guy... I feel it and stop playing, discuss it before leaving."
Exactly this.
My wife is bisexual (and meets women on her own). Whilst I enjoy seeing her with another woman, I can take it or leave it. I don't have to watch and honestly, she likes going off in to other rooms for some private girl time anyway. I'm not really into shows being put on and shes not into putting them on either. I'm either fully involved or I'm not if that makes sense.
There's only once in all our time we have enjoyed the lifestyle that we felt a lady was doing it for her fella and not herself. It wasn't enjoyable. The lady ultimetly got upset and it ended there and then. In our defence it was when we where still new to it all and still learning but we learnt and made sure to never be in that position again. We find its not an issue with established couples but we tend to be wary around new couples or ladies and let them make the first move now.
It's worked well for us. |
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By *imGimMan
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Putting on a show doesn’t mean they are not bisexual. Like so many gay, lesbian, bi and trans, I remember going to pride it was a protest movement, against (then) clause 28 (section) and now in the 21st we can serve in the
Military, get married. I’m not going to invalidate another persons sexual orientation because it doesn’t conform to outdated stereotypes. |
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It's not your fault OP, it's theirs. X
