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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Any men want to give the ladies advice and any ladies want to give men advice on their profile?
Guys can you give other guys advice on what's worked for you.
Ladies can you give other ladies advice on what's worked for you?
Anyone want to ask advice on your profile content?
I always look at a profile but so many of them have 'fill this in later' or location 'next door' etc which is really off-putting for me.
Maybe if people knew how to improve their profile they would be more successful (I know many are but I see lots of unhappy people not getting meets or replies etc). |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I get messages from men offering to fuck me. All I have to do is tick the 'Looking for men' box.
Any tips from the men on how I improve this?  "
I'd like to know how to avoid this along with the dick pics, the no effort messages (hi or x). I like to think I'm quite clear what I'm looking for in my profile lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I get messages from men offering to fuck me. All I have to do is tick the 'Looking for men' box.
Any tips from the men on how I improve this?
I'd like to know how to avoid this along with the dick pics, the no effort messages (hi or x). I like to think I'm quite clear what I'm looking for in my profile lol"
Some men read. I know this because my 'looked at me' count could be 150 but I only got 30 messages. So 120 did read and got scared. 
Unfortunately many don't so there's nothing you can do to avoid dick pics apart from block men and go looking. 
I sometimes reply to the "hi" messages and get a lovely conversation going. The 1 word men are often really decent blokes but after no replies their confidence has gone and they don't see the point in typing out a decent message only to be ignored.
My advice would be to reply to 'hi' sometimes as you might find someone lovely.   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I get messages from men offering to fuck me. All I have to do is tick the 'Looking for men' box.
Any tips from the men on how I improve this?
I'd like to know how to avoid this along with the dick pics, the no effort messages (hi or x). I like to think I'm quite clear what I'm looking for in my profile lol
Some men read. I know this because my 'looked at me' count could be 150 but I only got 30 messages. So 120 did read and got scared.
Unfortunately many don't so there's nothing you can do to avoid dick pics apart from block men and go looking.
I sometimes reply to the "hi" messages and get a lovely conversation going. The 1 word men are often really decent blokes but after no replies their confidence has gone and they don't see the point in typing out a decent message only to be ignored.
My advice would be to reply to 'hi' sometimes as you might find someone lovely. "
I think I'm one of those decent guys that write a long introduction message only to not have it read or profile looked at it, fairly certain just saying "hi" will have no effect. Don't think my profile is the problem, hope not anyway, please feel free to view and comment on it. Just wish someone would tell us how to get our messages at least read out of the 100s the recipient will get. |
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The problem with giving advice is that is not a one size fits all. I put effort into my bio and pics and forum engagement and I don't send messages at all. I prefer others to find me through all the above but that won't suit anyone with a different mindset or lacking in patience.
Lots of profiles end up as box ticking exercises because of what others say in advice threads and are no longer unique to that person.
There's no point having an amazing window display if you have an empty shop or shoddy goods. |
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"Any men want to give the ladies advice and any ladies want to give men advice on their profile?
Guys can you give other guys advice on what's worked for you.
Ladies can you give other ladies advice on what's worked for you?
Anyone want to ask advice on your profile content?
I always look at a profile but so many of them have 'fill this in later' or location 'next door' etc which is really off-putting for me.
Maybe if people knew how to improve their profile they would be more successful (I know many are but I see lots of unhappy people not getting meets or replies etc). "
Looks good, something tells me you want be able to reply to everyone tho |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hi I could use some help I’ve only meet one person since I’ve been on here I don’t get hardly any replies to my messages I send I know my about me is quite short but I really don’t know what to put into it any advice from anyone would really help me thanks x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Hi I could use some help I’ve only meet one person since I’ve been on here I don’t get hardly any replies to my messages I send I know my about me is quite short but I really don’t know what to put into it any advice from anyone would really help me thanks x"
A bit more about you. What you're looking for and if your comfortable why you can't accommodate (many assume you have a partner and might not be ok with that). Other than that it's good. |
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Bit of a controversial one here but I’m going to say it anyway….
Let’s be real, women can put as little or as much effort into their profile to give all the information required, doesn’t matter as most will still be flooded with messages regardless…
As for us blokes, we can spend an eternity adjusting our profiles, saying what we have to offer, what we’re looking for etc, then construct a really good message which proves you’ve read the profile beforehand and still receive nothing but airtime. Hate to say it but I feel like threads of this nature can be rather counterintuitive… |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Any men want to give the ladies advice and any ladies want to give men advice on their profile?
Guys can you give other guys advice on what's worked for you.
Ladies can you give other ladies advice on what's worked for you?
Anyone want to ask advice on your profile content?
I always look at a profile but so many of them have 'fill this in later' or location 'next door' etc which is really off-putting for me.
Maybe if people knew how to improve their profile they would be more successful (I know many are but I see lots of unhappy people not getting meets or replies etc).
Looks good, something tells me you want be able to reply to everyone tho "
To those asking advice? Not at all. Plus my opinion is subjective. Doesn't mean what I think is an improvement means it is for everyone |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'd love some advice from a woman on mine "
Nice profile. Can't really give you any advice except getting a vari (although I met someone last week who wasn't verified so no biggie) which I know in itself is a challenge. Maybe a local group social? |
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"Any men want to give the ladies advice and any ladies want to give men advice on their profile?
Guys can you give other guys advice on what's worked for you.
Ladies can you give other ladies advice on what's worked for you?
Anyone want to ask advice on your profile content?
I always look at a profile but so many of them have 'fill this in later' or location 'next door' etc which is really off-putting for me.
Maybe if people knew how to improve their profile they would be more successful (I know many are but I see lots of unhappy people not getting meets or replies etc).
Looks good, something tells me you want be able to reply to everyone tho
To those asking advice? Not at all. Plus my opinion is subjective. Doesn't mean what I think is an improvement means it is for everyone "
Everyone’s opinion is subjective, but a few really miss marks, again only opinion |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Any men want to give the ladies advice and any ladies want to give men advice on their profile?
Guys can you give other guys advice on what's worked for you.
Ladies can you give other ladies advice on what's worked for you?
Anyone want to ask advice on your profile content?
I always look at a profile but so many of them have 'fill this in later' or location 'next door' etc which is really off-putting for me.
Maybe if people knew how to improve their profile they would be more successful (I know many are but I see lots of unhappy people not getting meets or replies etc). "
Can a couple hijack this thread and ask for advice? Especially from one of our own (Essex)  xx |
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"I'd love some advice from a woman on mine
Nice profile. Can't really give you any advice except getting a vari (although I met someone last week who wasn't verified so no biggie) which I know in itself is a challenge. Maybe a local group social? "
Yea that's the hardest part lol.
Thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We need to re-do our one so advice welcome (please be kind lol)
xx"
you should talk to single guys!
Seriously, my only comment would be to add a few more pics of Mr, so they appear on page 1. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We need to re-do our one so advice welcome (please be kind lol)
xx"
I read yours from top to bottom and I don't see any issue with it. You've described everything it looks like. Although you could add what you both enjoy doing when playing?? And some turn offs?? |
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Love for advice on how to stop the arse end of humanity thinking I would fuck them or give out my personal details to them especially when they are claiming they be my best fuck ever with their three whole inches |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We need to re-do our one so advice welcome (please be kind lol)
xx"
Great profile, agree with the above comment, add some pics of Mr or both together so there on the 1st page, I won't scroll through lots of pages to find one, if I don't see Mr in the pics it's a no reply from us
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We are thinking of updating our profile but never know what to put so just end up leaving it as it is. It seems to work as it is.
What do you guys think leave it as is or try and shorten it down
Advice appreciated x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i mean when ur a genuine nice guy ..send nice msgs ..it kinda sucks to be judged due to veris ect
everyine has their cup of tea ...just trying to find mine hehhee
i take any advice ...just dont wanna get my dick out like the rest of the guys or have a wank ....just to meet n have some regular fun with some locals ... |
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