I understand not putting face pics on the profile and only putting them in chats when some rapport and trust has been established... makes sense to be careful about that on here... so many flakes and fakes to avoid... but just move on, complaining about it doesn't fix it.
Block those who irritate you and find somebody to link up with that doesn't. Simples. |
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By *bailz OP Man
over a year ago
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"I understand not putting face pics on the profile and only putting them in chats when some rapport and trust has been established... makes sense to be careful about that on here... so many flakes and fakes to avoid... but just move on, complaining about it doesn't fix it.
Block those who irritate you and find somebody to link up with that doesn't. Simples."
I’m not complaining hahah was just a convo starter… |
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"Think it’s abit hypocritical for someone to demand face pics and them not have any or willing to send… thoughts? "
I'm assuming you're talking about women and couples, so I'll offer an explanation about that.
I will abreciate women to W and couples to C.
W and C are obviously getting way more people approaching them than it is physically possible to chat to all at the same time, so to narrow down their own search they will ask for a face pic either with first photo or in early stages of communication to establish weather they're attracted to yourself (or any other man approaching them).
If they find you (or whoever sends them their photos) not attractive - they will just delete it and move on or say no thanks, but will not send a face photo back because it is not a safe thing to do!
Granted you might be a nice person , take rejection on a chin and move on, but next person after you might not be happy with the rejection and could then use that sent photo for malicious purposes.
Also what if they send a photo back to someone they rejected then bump into them in real life and get recognised - where's the guarantee that the rejected person will be decent and not decide to retaliate in real life? There is none.
Basic safety is the reason why no W and C will ever send a photo back to anyone they rejected.
There's also people who don't send face photos to anyone, but they don't expect one either. They usually state so in their profiles and it's up to sender if they want to share it themselves or not.
All that said there ARE some people, who ask for face photos, refuse to send one back, but still want to meet you - those are complete hypocrites and anyne who comes across them is just unlucky.
Hope my explanation cleared some things up 
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