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Re-messaging the same Person

By *ecret_Passion777 OP Man over a year ago

Manchester

Hi everyone, this is my first post in the forums.

Ok, so I was chatting on her with a local woman for a couple of weeks, and we arranged a sex meet for a date last week round at her place.

But a couple days before the due date of the meet, she hadn’t messaged to confirm it. So I sent a message just saying “Hey, still want me round at your place tomorrow night?”.

But I didn’t get a reply, so the planned meet never happened. She still hasn’t opened/read that message from last week.

Now I know that women’s inboxes can be like 900+ messages constant everyday.. could my my last message just have been lost in the sea of all her inboxes?

Is it worth messaging her again, so the new message Hits “the top” of the pile so to speak?

Or just leave it and write her off completely, lol?

Thanks. X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There is a very good chance the message has been missed. However, if something was arranged and they then suddenly didn’t read the message I may question if they had just changed their mind.

There’s a few people who talk of meeting but when the reality happens they vanish.

Personally I don’t chase. I block. If they don’t have the decency to cancel then they are not worth my time or energy.

That said sometimes things happen in peoples lives outside of fab to them or people around them which means a planned meet gets cancelled.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

And you didn’t say if she’s been on since, as if she hasn’t then there may be a genuine issue

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

My opinion is that she decided she didn't want to meet you after all so ignored your message. I wouldn't message her again if I were you.

Welcome to the forum

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Personally I'd leave it sounds like she changed her mind. Could be wrong because it is very easy to miss messages on here at times. We have missed messages before x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Are you 100% certain she was genuine?

Could have been someone having a wank whilst messaging.

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By *ou only live onceMan over a year ago

London

Hi mate, I'd probably take that as the end. She may have missed the message, but probably more likely she didn't want to go ahead. If it was that, she should have course messaged to cancel, but hey. Onwards and upwards...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Afraid I'd say write it off completely. It's happened to me twice lately.

It's frustrating and disappointing.

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By *agneto.Man over a year ago

Bham

In the situation described I'd probably leave it. Seems like they're a time waster or have changed their mind. Either way, there won't be an upside for you.

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By *parkle1974Woman over a year ago

Leeds

From what you have described OP, I wouldn't message her again. If she really wanted to see you then she would have been in touch x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hi everyone, this is my first post in the forums.

Ok, so I was chatting on her with a local woman for a couple of weeks, and we arranged a sex meet for a date last week round at her place.

But a couple days before the due date of the meet, she hadn’t messaged to confirm it. So I sent a message just saying “Hey, still want me round at your place tomorrow night?”.

But I didn’t get a reply, so the planned meet never happened. She still hasn’t opened/read that message from last week.

Now I know that women’s inboxes can be like 900+ messages constant everyday.. could my my last message just have been lost in the sea of all her inboxes?

Is it worth messaging her again, so the new message Hits “the top” of the pile so to speak?

Or just leave it and write her off completely, lol?

Thanks. X

This pisses me off to no end! My big bodybuilding mate & i arranged an mmf with a fem who appeared to be up for it, but neglected to reply even though she read the message. What a cunt, her loss lol!"

What an awful attitude, she’s entitled to change her mind.

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By *parkle1974Woman over a year ago

Leeds

"Hi everyone, this is my first post in the forums.

Ok, so I was chatting on her with a local woman for a couple of weeks, and we arranged a sex meet for a date last week round at her place.

But a couple days before the due date of the meet, she hadn’t messaged to confirm it. So I sent a message just saying “Hey, still want me round at your place tomorrow night?”.

But I didn’t get a reply, so the planned meet never happened. She still hasn’t opened/read that message from last week.

Now I know that women’s inboxes can be like 900+ messages constant everyday.. could my my last message just have been lost in the sea of all her inboxes?

Is it worth messaging her again, so the new message Hits “the top” of the pile so to speak?

Or just leave it and write her off completely, lol?

Thanks. X

What a charmer....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hi everyone, this is my first post in the forums.

Ok, so I was chatting on her with a local woman for a couple of weeks, and we arranged a sex meet for a date last week round at her place.

But a couple days before the due date of the meet, she hadn’t messaged to confirm it. So I sent a message just saying “Hey, still want me round at your place tomorrow night?”.

But I didn’t get a reply, so the planned meet never happened. She still hasn’t opened/read that message from last week.

Now I know that women’s inboxes can be like 900+ messages constant everyday.. could my my last message just have been lost in the sea of all her inboxes?

Is it worth messaging her again, so the new message Hits “the top” of the pile so to speak?

Or just leave it and write her off completely, lol?

Thanks. X

She probably picked up on the fact that you're the kind of man who calls women c*nts, so she rightly swerved the meet

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hi everyone, this is my first post in the forums.

Ok, so I was chatting on her with a local woman for a couple of weeks, and we arranged a sex meet for a date last week round at her place.

But a couple days before the due date of the meet, she hadn’t messaged to confirm it. So I sent a message just saying “Hey, still want me round at your place tomorrow night?”.

But I didn’t get a reply, so the planned meet never happened. She still hasn’t opened/read that message from last week.

Now I know that women’s inboxes can be like 900+ messages constant everyday.. could my my last message just have been lost in the sea of all her inboxes?

Is it worth messaging her again, so the new message Hits “the top” of the pile so to speak?

Or just leave it and write her off completely, lol?

Thanks. X

I get it's disappointing and frustrating but wow ! You know people can change their mind.. yes it would be nice to get a message to say so but hey no one owes anyone anything on here.

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By *ab365XMan over a year ago

Paisley

"Hi everyone, this is my first post in the forums.

Ok, so I was chatting on her with a local woman for a couple of weeks, and we arranged a sex meet for a date last week round at her place.

But a couple days before the due date of the meet, she hadn’t messaged to confirm it. So I sent a message just saying “Hey, still want me round at your place tomorrow night?”.

But I didn’t get a reply, so the planned meet never happened. She still hasn’t opened/read that message from last week.

Now I know that women’s inboxes can be like 900+ messages constant everyday.. could my my last message just have been lost in the sea of all her inboxes?

Is it worth messaging her again, so the new message Hits “the top” of the pile so to speak?

Or just leave it and write her off completely, lol?

Thanks. X

This pisses me off to no end! My big bodybuilding mate & i arranged an mmf with a fem who appeared to be up for it, but neglected to reply even though she read the message. What a cunt, her loss lol!

She probably picked up on the fact that you're the kind of man who calls women c*nts, so she rightly swerved the meet"

At the end of the day, we’re all cunts.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It also happens the other way around where we arrange something with a guy and then they stop messaging. Better to just accept and move on x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hi everyone, this is my first post in the forums.

Ok, so I was chatting on her with a local woman for a couple of weeks, and we arranged a sex meet for a date last week round at her place.

But a couple days before the due date of the meet, she hadn’t messaged to confirm it. So I sent a message just saying “Hey, still want me round at your place tomorrow night?”.

But I didn’t get a reply, so the planned meet never happened. She still hasn’t opened/read that message from last week.

Now I know that women’s inboxes can be like 900+ messages constant everyday.. could my my last message just have been lost in the sea of all her inboxes?

Is it worth messaging her again, so the new message Hits “the top” of the pile so to speak?

Or just leave it and write her off completely, lol?

Thanks. X

Wow…

I’d say she was lucky there

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hi everyone, this is my first post in the forums.

Ok, so I was chatting on her with a local woman for a couple of weeks, and we arranged a sex meet for a date last week round at her place.

But a couple days before the due date of the meet, she hadn’t messaged to confirm it. So I sent a message just saying “Hey, still want me round at your place tomorrow night?”.

But I didn’t get a reply, so the planned meet never happened. She still hasn’t opened/read that message from last week.

Now I know that women’s inboxes can be like 900+ messages constant everyday.. could my my last message just have been lost in the sea of all her inboxes?

Is it worth messaging her again, so the new message Hits “the top” of the pile so to speak?

Or just leave it and write her off completely, lol?

Thanks. X

This pisses me off to no end! My big bodybuilding mate & i arranged an mmf with a fem who appeared to be up for it, but neglected to reply even though she read the message. What a cunt, her loss lol!

Wow…

I’d say she was lucky there

They will be queuing up now

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hi everyone, this is my first post in the forums.

Ok, so I was chatting on her with a local woman for a couple of weeks, and we arranged a sex meet for a date last week round at her place.

But a couple days before the due date of the meet, she hadn’t messaged to confirm it. So I sent a message just saying “Hey, still want me round at your place tomorrow night?”.

But I didn’t get a reply, so the planned meet never happened. She still hasn’t opened/read that message from last week.

Now I know that women’s inboxes can be like 900+ messages constant everyday.. could my my last message just have been lost in the sea of all her inboxes?

Is it worth messaging her again, so the new message Hits “the top” of the pile so to speak?

Or just leave it and write her off completely, lol?

Thanks. X"

Happens all the time mate

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By *issmorganWoman over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Personally I'd leave it op and let her get in contact with you .

There may be a genuine reason,in which case she can mail you to explain.Or maybe she changed her mind and couldn't spend 2 mins to drop u a message ,in which case leave them to it

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By *parkle1974Woman over a year ago

Leeds

"Hi everyone, this is my first post in the forums.

Ok, so I was chatting on her with a local woman for a couple of weeks, and we arranged a sex meet for a date last week round at her place.

But a couple days before the due date of the meet, she hadn’t messaged to confirm it. So I sent a message just saying “Hey, still want me round at your place tomorrow night?”.

But I didn’t get a reply, so the planned meet never happened. She still hasn’t opened/read that message from last week.

Now I know that women’s inboxes can be like 900+ messages constant everyday.. could my my last message just have been lost in the sea of all her inboxes?

Is it worth messaging her again, so the new message Hits “the top” of the pile so to speak?

Or just leave it and write her off completely, lol?

Thanks. X

This pisses me off to no end! My big bodybuilding mate & i arranged an mmf with a fem who appeared to be up for it, but neglected to reply even though she read the message. What a cunt, her loss lol!

She probably picked up on the fact that you're the kind of man who calls women c*nts, so she rightly swerved the meet

At the end of the day, we’re all cunts."

Don't tar everyone with the same brush as you!

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple over a year ago

Exeter

Sounds like another guy pretending to be a single woman.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hi everyone, this is my first post in the forums.

Ok, so I was chatting on her with a local woman for a couple of weeks, and we arranged a sex meet for a date last week round at her place.

But a couple days before the due date of the meet, she hadn’t messaged to confirm it. So I sent a message just saying “Hey, still want me round at your place tomorrow night?”.

But I didn’t get a reply, so the planned meet never happened. She still hasn’t opened/read that message from last week.

Now I know that women’s inboxes can be like 900+ messages constant everyday.. could my my last message just have been lost in the sea of all her inboxes?

Is it worth messaging her again, so the new message Hits “the top” of the pile so to speak?

Or just leave it and write her off completely, lol?

Thanks. X

This pisses me off to no end! My big bodybuilding mate & i arranged an mmf with a fem who appeared to be up for it, but neglected to reply even though she read the message. What a cunt, her loss lol!

She probably picked up on the fact that you're the kind of man who calls women c*nts, so she rightly swerved the meet

At the end of the day, we’re all cunts."

No just no

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hi everyone, this is my first post in the forums.

Ok, so I was chatting on her with a local woman for a couple of weeks, and we arranged a sex meet for a date last week round at her place.

But a couple days before the due date of the meet, she hadn’t messaged to confirm it. So I sent a message just saying “Hey, still want me round at your place tomorrow night?”.

But I didn’t get a reply, so the planned meet never happened. She still hasn’t opened/read that message from last week.

Now I know that women’s inboxes can be like 900+ messages constant everyday.. could my my last message just have been lost in the sea of all her inboxes?

Is it worth messaging her again, so the new message Hits “the top” of the pile so to speak?

Or just leave it and write her off completely, lol?

Thanks. X"

I'd sack it off. This isn't something I would do to someone so if it was done to me no second chances.

Yes it could have been missed but she actually arranged a time and date which she didn't stick to.

Once I click with someone I talk away from here and arrange meets that way.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hi everyone, this is my first post in the forums.

Ok, so I was chatting on her with a local woman for a couple of weeks, and we arranged a sex meet for a date last week round at her place.

But a couple days before the due date of the meet, she hadn’t messaged to confirm it. So I sent a message just saying “Hey, still want me round at your place tomorrow night?”.

But I didn’t get a reply, so the planned meet never happened. She still hasn’t opened/read that message from last week.

Now I know that women’s inboxes can be like 900+ messages constant everyday.. could my my last message just have been lost in the sea of all her inboxes?

Is it worth messaging her again, so the new message Hits “the top” of the pile so to speak?

Or just leave it and write her off completely, lol?

Thanks. X

"She" finished wanking and didn't need you anymore.

In truth, anyone is allowed to change their mind, at any time, for any reason.

Your post suggests she made the right decision.

Winston

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hi everyone, this is my first post in the forums.

Ok, so I was chatting on her with a local woman for a couple of weeks, and we arranged a sex meet for a date last week round at her place.

But a couple days before the due date of the meet, she hadn’t messaged to confirm it. So I sent a message just saying “Hey, still want me round at your place tomorrow night?”.

But I didn’t get a reply, so the planned meet never happened. She still hasn’t opened/read that message from last week.

Now I know that women’s inboxes can be like 900+ messages constant everyday.. could my my last message just have been lost in the sea of all her inboxes?

Is it worth messaging her again, so the new message Hits “the top” of the pile so to speak?

Or just leave it and write her off completely, lol?

Thanks. X

Sounds like she had a lucky escape. Thank you for putting your story in here, it warns others what sort of 'man' you are.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hi everyone, this is my first post in the forums.

Ok, so I was chatting on her with a local woman for a couple of weeks, and we arranged a sex meet for a date last week round at her place.

But a couple days before the due date of the meet, she hadn’t messaged to confirm it. So I sent a message just saying “Hey, still want me round at your place tomorrow night?”.

But I didn’t get a reply, so the planned meet never happened. She still hasn’t opened/read that message from last week.

Now I know that women’s inboxes can be like 900+ messages constant everyday.. could my my last message just have been lost in the sea of all her inboxes?

Is it worth messaging her again, so the new message Hits “the top” of the pile so to speak?

Or just leave it and write her off completely, lol?

Thanks. X"

I can tell you now not every woman gets 900 + messages a day. I certainly don't.

Some days I get tumble . And I can say from my point of view if I was wanting to meet someone I would be messaging them back or even messaging first.

I would put it down to her changing her mind and moving on. Chasing anyone is just not worth it.

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By *ames GentlyMan over a year ago

cannock

The other trick they do after weeks of chatting and then arranging a meeting is to open you message then mark it as unread.

Been here too long …

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By *ife NinjaMan over a year ago

Dunfermline

"Hi everyone, this is my first post in the forums.

Ok, so I was chatting on her with a local woman for a couple of weeks, and we arranged a sex meet for a date last week round at her place.

But a couple days before the due date of the meet, she hadn’t messaged to confirm it. So I sent a message just saying “Hey, still want me round at your place tomorrow night?”.

But I didn’t get a reply, so the planned meet never happened. She still hasn’t opened/read that message from last week.

Now I know that women’s inboxes can be like 900+ messages constant everyday.. could my my last message just have been lost in the sea of all her inboxes?

Is it worth messaging her again, so the new message Hits “the top” of the pile so to speak?

Or just leave it and write her off completely, lol?

Thanks. X

This pisses me off to no end! My big bodybuilding mate & i arranged an mmf with a fem who appeared to be up for it, but neglected to reply even though she read the message. What a cunt, her loss lol!

She probably picked up on the fact that you're the kind of man who calls women c*nts, so she rightly swerved the meet

At the end of the day, we’re all cunts.

Don't tar everyone with the same brush as you!"

I don't particularly associate myself with that turn of phrase.

Sometimes you get ghosted. Ah, chin up and try a meet again, but don't bother the lady. It's dead.

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By *herryEatersCouple over a year ago

East Cheshire

"Hi everyone, this is my first post in the forums.

Ok, so I was chatting on her with a local woman for a couple of weeks, and we arranged a sex meet for a date last week round at her place.

But a couple days before the due date of the meet, she hadn’t messaged to confirm it. So I sent a message just saying “Hey, still want me round at your place tomorrow night?”.

But I didn’t get a reply, so the planned meet never happened. She still hasn’t opened/read that message from last week.

Now I know that women’s inboxes can be like 900+ messages constant everyday.. could my my last message just have been lost in the sea of all her inboxes?

Is it worth messaging her again, so the new message Hits “the top” of the pile so to speak?

Or just leave it and write her off completely, lol?

Thanks. X"

Lol we get that all the time. Even after swapping phone numbers we were ghosted by a single girl recently and the meeting vanished too. She didn't even respond to a text from Cherry !?.... We often suggest doing friends so our messages stand out a little with yellow smiley faces, yet try to move to kik or WhatsApp as soon as possible. Tony had a young lady friend a while ago who showed him her fab on her mobile, 500 MESSAGES A DAY

. Yet nothing worse than being truly ghosted and missing the rare opportunity to meet with others, so incredibly bad mannered grrrr

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By *herryEatersCouple over a year ago

East Cheshire

"The other trick they do after weeks of chatting and then arranging a meeting is to open you message then mark it as unread.

Been here too long … "

Seen that, also repeatedly logging off as soon as you log in

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By *herryEatersCouple over a year ago

East Cheshire

"Sounds like another guy pretending to be a single woman."

We often wonder that...

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By *ad NannaWoman over a year ago

East London

"Hi everyone, this is my first post in the forums.

Ok, so I was chatting on her with a local woman for a couple of weeks, and we arranged a sex meet for a date last week round at her place.

But a couple days before the due date of the meet, she hadn’t messaged to confirm it. So I sent a message just saying “Hey, still want me round at your place tomorrow night?”.

But I didn’t get a reply, so the planned meet never happened. She still hasn’t opened/read that message from last week.

Now I know that women’s inboxes can be like 900+ messages constant everyday.. could my my last message just have been lost in the sea of all her inboxes?

Is it worth messaging her again, so the new message Hits “the top” of the pile so to speak?

Or just leave it and write her off completely, lol?

Thanks. X

This pisses me off to no end! My big bodybuilding mate & i arranged an mmf with a fem who appeared to be up for it, but neglected to reply even though she read the message. What a cunt, her loss lol!

She probably picked up on the fact that you're the kind of man who calls women c*nts, so she rightly swerved the meet

At the end of the day, we’re all cunts."

True.

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By *ad NannaWoman over a year ago

East London

"Sounds like another guy pretending to be a single woman.

We often wonder that..."

First thing that came to my mind.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hi everyone, this is my first post in the forums.

Ok, so I was chatting on her with a local woman for a couple of weeks, and we arranged a sex meet for a date last week round at her place.

But a couple days before the due date of the meet, she hadn’t messaged to confirm it. So I sent a message just saying “Hey, still want me round at your place tomorrow night?”.

But I didn’t get a reply, so the planned meet never happened. She still hasn’t opened/read that message from last week.

Now I know that women’s inboxes can be like 900+ messages constant everyday.. could my my last message just have been lost in the sea of all her inboxes?

Is it worth messaging her again, so the new message Hits “the top” of the pile so to speak?

Or just leave it and write her off completely, lol?

Thanks. X

People are allowed to change their minds, doesn't make her a cunt

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hi everyone, this is my first post in the forums.

Ok, so I was chatting on her with a local woman for a couple of weeks, and we arranged a sex meet for a date last week round at her place.

But a couple days before the due date of the meet, she hadn’t messaged to confirm it. So I sent a message just saying “Hey, still want me round at your place tomorrow night?”.

But I didn’t get a reply, so the planned meet never happened. She still hasn’t opened/read that message from last week.

Now I know that women’s inboxes can be like 900+ messages constant everyday.. could my my last message just have been lost in the sea of all her inboxes?

Is it worth messaging her again, so the new message Hits “the top” of the pile so to speak?

Or just leave it and write her off completely, lol?

Thanks. X"

I would block and move along.

I think this situation has probably happened to most people on here, men, women and couples

People change their minds, people like to waste others time it's just a part of fab unfortunately

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

"From what you have described OP, I wouldn't message her again. If she really wanted to see you then she would have been in touch x"

agreed

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By *hemainintainMan over a year ago

govan

Smash five messages in an hour. She ll reply to one eventually.......

Joke*

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Has anyone even asked if she has been online since? That could be a factor in all of this

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By *ot - CoupleCouple over a year ago

Glasgow

Did you do a video call to check it was a woman or at least a phone call?

Probably better to move on from here.

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By *ecret_Passion777 OP Man over a year ago

Manchester

I think a few people here have confused my original post with that other guy’s horrible post about his “bodybuilding mate being let down so she’s a cunt” post, I didn’t write that awfulness lol!!

But thanks for all the helpful replies guys, I’ll consider her a write off and not even chance her again if she does get back in contact. Thank!

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By *ecret_Passion777 OP Man over a year ago

Manchester

Yes, she’s been online since. Not much, just here and there, but yes she’s been back on the site.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yes, she’s been online since. Not much, just here and there, but yes she’s been back on the site.

Ok my advice is to learn from this, block and move on. Also maybe report her for arranging a meet and not turning up?

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By *ain and sortedMan over a year ago

Old Harlow Essex

There are so many variables, could be a fake. Could be was in the mood at the time of arranging a meet but on the day things changed due to life as we know it, message could of been missed, a nice message saying hope all ok and fel free to get in touch when you are free is a polite no pushy way of saying it doesn't matter what ever the reason, happens in real life as well as the fab world, this is why as a single male I prefer clubs, great way to meet with out the pressure of what ifs etc

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

"At the end of the day, we’re all cunts.

True."

Not true, some of us aren't loser single men assuming the site owes them a shag

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By *inky-MinxWoman over a year ago

Grantham

"I think a few people here have confused my original post with that other guy’s horrible post about his “bodybuilding mate being let down so she’s a cunt” post, I didn’t write that awfulness lol!!"

I noticed

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

But thanks for all the helpful replies guys, I’ll consider her a write off and not even chance her again if she does get back in contact. Thank!

Flip side of this is you’ve got a decent profile and now way more of the ladies are going to read it from this, as well as how maturely you’ve reacted to this. The one who ghosted you had actually done you a benefit.

Silver linings n all that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Never chase people. If they want you, they'd be there. End of. Life's too short to keep chasing time wasters

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By *ab365XMan over a year ago

Paisley

"At the end of the day, we’re all cunts.

True.

Not true, some of us aren't loser single men assuming the site owes them a shag

Added to my overflowing list of cunts.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"At the end of the day, we’re all cunts.

True.

Not true, some of us aren't loser single men assuming the site owes them a shag

Added to my overflowing list of cunts."

I presume with comments like that then you’d be top of that list?

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By *D of funCouple over a year ago

Northampton

Move on.

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By *izandpaulCouple over a year ago

merseyside

Block her and move on.

Blocking is not a nasty thing to do it just saves you contacting them by mistake.

You also have to understand that a very large percentage of folks are not genuine, its par for the course on all swinging sites.

Don't take it personally, it is what it is.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sadly it happens, both men and women are guilty of this and its happened to me twice in a previous profile. Both women are still here but I'll not be contacting them on this profile, just forget about it instead.

Id say just leave it then and move on.

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By *dalisqueWoman over a year ago

land of make believe

Although it is very easy to miss messages ,I would presume she would have hotlisted you or remembered your username and be able to contact you to confirm or cancel.

Personally I don't meet without a phone number and usually a phone or videocall too so if someone decided to not reply I would definitely know it was a choice.

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By *lbethereMan over a year ago

Manchester

"Hi everyone, this is my first post in the forums.

Ok, so I was chatting on her with a local woman for a couple of weeks, and we arranged a sex meet for a date last week round at her place.

But a couple days before the due date of the meet, she hadn’t messaged to confirm it. So I sent a message just saying “Hey, still want me round at your place tomorrow night?”.

But I didn’t get a reply, so the planned meet never happened. She still hasn’t opened/read that message from last week.

Now I know that women’s inboxes can be like 900+ messages constant everyday.. could my my last message just have been lost in the sea of all her inboxes?

Is it worth messaging her again, so the new message Hits “the top” of the pile so to speak?

Or just leave it and write her off completely, lol?

Thanks. X"

Happens, people in a certain mood, then another day thinking nah, mood gone. Bummer

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