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Who brings the condoms?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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On meets who you do think should bring the condoms?
Both?
Men?
Women?
Men you know what you prefer and what fits...
Ladies do you buy a range and hope you've got something suitable? |
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It's down to the gent. If we are inviting a male into our life, the least they can do is bring their own safety equipment.
Not surprisingly we have had a couple of guys who turn up without condoms and they got turned away. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always bring some
Too many instances of men saying they have some and when I get there they suddenly don't have any and try and either get me to do BB or expect me to suck them off and go home |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I prefer to use my own, those durex invisible or skins super thin. "
The question was raised due to another thread. Skins seemed a popular choice. I've always gone for durex and regular but that's not always appropriate or preferred so got me wondering. Do I need to vary my collection  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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My opinion is it's everyone's responsibility. However if you need bigger, smaller than regular or you have a favourite brand as a man you should always be prepared. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We always make sure we have some, even when going out solo. We have one lady who brings her own because she is allergic to certain ones.
I've seen one ladies profile where she basically tells the guy what ones to buy because she's allergic and he's gotta supply them! |
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"We always make sure we have some, even when going out solo. We have one lady who brings her own because she is allergic to certain ones.
I've seen one ladies profile where she basically tells the guy what ones to buy because she's allergic and he's gotta supply them!"
Not a problem though, is it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We always make sure we have some, even when going out solo. We have one lady who brings her own because she is allergic to certain ones.
I've seen one ladies profile where she basically tells the guy what ones to buy because she's allergic and he's gotta supply them!
Not a problem though, is it?"
I think it's equally her responsibility! Have a conversation about it, don't just demand he supply's them |
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"I prefer to use my own, those durex invisible or skins super thin.
The question was raised due to another thread. Skins seemed a popular choice. I've always gone for durex and regular but that's not always appropriate or preferred so got me wondering. Do I need to vary my collection "
I had a reaction to the free ones supplied in a club, so I’ve always bought Skyns thereafter to make sure a condom really doesn’t spoil play….  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We always take condoms.
But as we're very firm on safe sex, there's something to be said for not doing that - if the guy doesn't bring condoms, he's probably not someone we want to play with.
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All of this but same with the lady I think... |
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Only one of the guys I've arranged to meet since joining Fab has turned up with condoms! Even though I always say that I play safe. The common answer on why they didn't bring any is "I forgot."
So if they don't like what condoms I have, we don't play. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Only one of the guys I've arranged to meet since joining Fab has turned up with condoms! Even though I always say that I play safe. The common answer on why they didn't bring any is "I forgot."
So if they don't like what condoms I have, we don't play. "
Did they forget they were coming to play |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have a little purple velvet bag that we take on meets or a club with condoms ,little vibe, lube anything else we think we need its like our little survival kit xxx |
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"Only one of the guys I've arranged to meet since joining Fab has turned up with condoms! Even though I always say that I play safe. The common answer on why they didn't bring any is "I forgot."
So if they don't like what condoms I have, we don't play.
Did they forget they were coming to play"
Exactly! Some have been disappointed that I keep a stash and asked if they could go bareback anyway.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Both! Everyone should be respobsible for their own sexual health. "
If they don't have any it's cheeky to use mine and also they were expecting bareback so.... goodbye!
If they bring their own I make them use mine because theirs could be 10 years old and rotten. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Only one of the guys I've arranged to meet since joining Fab has turned up with condoms! Even though I always say that I play safe. The common answer on why they didn't bring any is "I forgot."
So if they don't like what condoms I have, we don't play. "
It's a tactic, I've had this done to me so many times, they either want to try and push you to go bare just suck them off and leave |
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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago
Stafford |
The man. He knows his size and would be the best person to select the appropriate brand suited to him and what he's packing.
Otherwise he will just get the standard durex from me, which may not work depending on what kinda trouser snake he's got. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The man. He knows his size and would be the best person to select the appropriate brand suited to him and what he's packing.
Otherwise he will just get the standard durex from me, which may not work depending on what kinda trouser snake he's got. "
Totally agree |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't bring condoms. If he wants to wear one then that is fine. I once had a guy who lost his erection and as his Willy shrivelled, the condom got stuck inside me! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"On meets who you do think should bring the condoms?
Both?
Men?
Women?
Men you know what you prefer and what fits...
Ladies do you buy a range and hope you've got something suitable?"
I usually message saying "do I need to get condoms or are you bringing them" as soon as we've arranged a meet, I always have some but know men would rather whatever kind they prefer |
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"The man. He knows his size and would be the best person to select the appropriate brand suited to him and what he's packing.
Otherwise he will just get the standard durex from me, which may not work depending on what kinda trouser snake he's got. "
Nah durex are horrid |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do; I always keep a few in an inside pocket in each of my handbags so that I can't forget them when changing from one handbag to another. I got carried away and ordered a large quantity some time ago, but sadly haven't used many yet! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm in two minds about it - If I buy them, I KNOW that they are reputable, genuine, in date and haven't been tampered with...
If my meet gets them, he knows what size, type and style suits him best...
I would just say everyone should have them. x |
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"I always bring some
Too many instances of men saying they have some and when I get there they suddenly don't have any and try and either get me to do BB or expect me to suck them off and go home"
Wow I wouldn't sleep with anyone with this attitude. I would be so fast out of the door, I would leave a dust cloud. |
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If I were a woman, I’d struggle to understand a guy “forgetting” condoms. In theory nice for both to be responsible, but onus is on the guy in my opinion.
It also makes a huge difference to “performance”. An ill fitting condom is crippling. “Mysize” are a game changer. |
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"If I were a woman, I’d struggle to understand a guy “forgetting” condoms. In theory nice for both to be responsible, but onus is on the guy in my opinion.
It also makes a huge difference to “performance”. An ill fitting condom is crippling. “Mysize” are a game changer. "
I understand them doing it. Trying to get away with it.
My answer when they forget is "I have standard Durex or I have to go home". |
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By *rKC92Man
over a year ago
St Helens |
When I've had meets it's been a two way street, I've brought my own and the lady has had their own on hand too. As a guy I feel responsible for making sure protection is on hand, not only to protect myself but whoever else I'm with. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I were a woman, I’d struggle to understand a guy “forgetting” condoms. In theory nice for both to be responsible, but onus is on the guy in my opinion.
It also makes a huge difference to “performance”. An ill fitting condom is crippling. “Mysize” are a game changer. "
I take small ones. They can either use it or sod off.
Men like it tight right.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's everyone's own responsibility to play safe, I do think it's good form for the gent to bring them though. I have had a lady turn up with some female ones once too, that was a nice touch |
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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago
harrow |
I don’t get I forgot them. If your going to a meet, first thing I pack is condoms. I have my usual stash. Then emergency few in case I have run out
For me it is disrespectful if someone says sorry I haven’t got any. Fair enough if someone wants a latex free one then I would expect the woman to have them
For me even worse is the ones that go to a club and forget them. |
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By *aptain VMan
over a year ago
Birstall, Leicester |
"On meets who you do think should bring the condoms?
Both?
Men?
Women?
Men you know what you prefer and what fits...
Ladies do you buy a range and hope you've got something suitable?"
I bring my own.... Good be responsible and be a gentleman..... can't expect a lady to bring a guys condom |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
I've always brought my own with me that way if (and when because it has happened a few times on meets ) the guy forgets I will still have some.
But I do think it should be both should have them with them. |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
Paisley |
Men should have condoms if they are expecting to have wax but it’s surprising the number who don’t.
If the female has a latex allergy then I’d suggest she carries some condoms.
You can get free condoms from your local pharmacy usually. You can get them in a mixed bag or by size and they may also have latex free.
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By *LiamMan
over a year ago
Midlands |
"The man should, I just use sandwich bags with and elastic band to hold it on. Shagging on a budget 
Switch to empty crisp packets.
Eat the crisp
Free condom once eaten  "
I guess the cheese and onion ones could give some lads an excuse too. Pitch that to Theo Pathitis |
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