So after very recently being rejected by a club we were trying to register with online, we are looking to
Try another place, I’d really like to go to VA but they also require a photo for registration.
I don’t think I could personally take being rejected by another club on the way I look. Or is it more just for ID perposes with VA.
Not here to bash any clubs they all have there own rules to follow xxxxx kazz |
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They were very polite in there reply, did not point out our flaws but we were not quite right, and that’s totally fine. Just wondering if VA are the same or if there need for a picture upon registration was just for ID !! Xxxxx |
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"I would think that's for identification purposes and I haven't heard of a club rejecting membership based on looks!!
If that is the case its not a club we would want to go to."
Le Boudoir does this! Photos on application. |
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"They were very polite in there reply, did not point out our flaws but we were not quite right, and that’s totally fine. Just wondering if VA are the same or if there need for a picture upon registration was just for ID !! Xxxxx "
Christ, if you two got rejected, what hope is there for the rest of us - what a handsome couple! |
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"They were very polite in there reply, did not point out our flaws but we were not quite right, and that’s totally fine. Just wondering if VA are the same or if there need for a picture upon registration was just for ID !! Xxxxx
Christ, if you two got rejected, what hope is there for the rest of us - what a handsome couple!"
Was thinking the same! Maybe they to gourgeous for them? X |
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Oh wow, I did not know this was a *thing*. But makes the club scene all the more daunting.
OP, any club rejecting you both on looks is clearly not one worth joining! (Or its administrator is blind) |
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Wow there is no one it would be on your looks.. don't ever think that  however I can understand I'd feel the same. Kinda puts me off diving into the club scene more.
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Bloody hell, you two are both hot!
Can't believe you got rejected, makes me feel like I'd have no hope! 
Their bloody loss!
Might be a bit far for you (Although they do have overnight bookable rooms) but I go to Chameleons in Darleston. Really nice, friendly atmosphere.
No stupid 'need to look a certain way rules!'
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"I would think that's for identification purposes and I haven't heard of a club rejecting membership based on looks!!
If that is the case its not a club we would want to go to.
Le Boudoir does this! Photos on application. "
My initial assumption was it would be somewhere like this. |
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"I would think that's for identification purposes and I haven't heard of a club rejecting membership based on looks!!
If that is the case its not a club we would want to go to."
Too Right !! |
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"So after very recently being rejected by a club we were trying to register with online, we are looking to
Try another place, I’d really like to go to VA but they also require a photo for registration.
I don’t think I could personally take being rejected by another club on the way I look. Or is it more just for ID perposes with VA.
Not here to bash any clubs they all have there own rules to follow xxxxx kazz "
We've been to VA and had a fab time found everyone to be very friendly and welcoming! Chameleons in Darlaston is equally friendly and has become our favourite club! Don't let this put you off trying other clubs x |
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"I would think that's for identification purposes and I haven't heard of a club rejecting membership based on looks!!
If that is the case its not a club we would want to go to.
Le Boudoir does this! Photos on application.
My initial assumption was it would be somewhere like this."
Yep I had to send face and body shots when I applied for membership at LB |
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"So after very recently being rejected by a club we were trying to register with online, we are looking to
Try another place, I’d really like to go to VA but they also require a photo for registration.
I don’t think I could personally take being rejected by another club on the way I look. Or is it more just for ID perposes with VA.
Not here to bash any clubs they all have there own rules to follow xxxxx kazz "
I'm aware that a few clubs out there do this but there's plenty of clubs out there that do not require this as well. None in the North East have this sort of membership vetting. Cant really comment about anywhere else in the UK though.
Don't let it get to you. To be honest, from what we have been told, the clubs that act like that are the ones that are the least fun to attend. You'll be welcomed with open arms at many of the other clubs.
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For those who don't think there are "exclusive clubs" based purely on physical appearance (among other things) yeah, I'm afraid they do. There's quite a few about Europe and down south that have, shall we say, a wealthier and more famous clientele. Footballers, actors, musician's etc etc. It's fair to say, the clubs want to protect their clientele's identity whilst also making sure only the hottest people attended. Not really that different from elite nightclubs when you think about it.
Not saying it's right but they're private establishment's so they get to pick and choose. Honestly, if your heads not up your own arse, I don't know why anyone would go to these places anyway but thats how it is. |
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"For those who don't think there are "exclusive clubs" based purely on physical appearance (among other things) yeah, I'm afraid they do. There's quite a few about Europe and down south that have, shall we say, a wealthier and more famous clientele. Footballers, actors, musician's etc etc. It's fair to say, the clubs want to protect their clientele's identity whilst also making sure only the hottest people attended. Not really that different from elite nightclubs when you think about it.
Not saying it's right but they're private establishment's so they get to pick and choose. Honestly, if your heads not up your own arse, I don't know why anyone would go to these places anyway but thats how it is."
I think it’s a bit unfair to say people who visit these nights have their heads up their arses. We went to a club night a few weeks ago where you had to apply, first time for us to go to one and everyone we spoke to was so friendly, chatty and welcoming. |
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I think it’s a bit unfair to say people who visit these nights have their heads up their arses. We went to a club night a few weeks ago where you had to apply, first time for us to go to one and everyone we spoke to was so friendly, chatty and welcoming. "
That's fair. But in my own defence I was talking about exclusive clubs of all types there, not just swinging clubs. An old job many years ago had me dealing with private clubs and i always found them and their clients a bit on the pretencious side. But they where not swinging clubs and they attracted a certain type of clientel anyway so maybe my opinion is based on some rather jaded experiences. |
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I think it’s a bit unfair to say people who visit these nights have their heads up their arses. We went to a club night a few weeks ago where you had to apply, first time for us to go to one and everyone we spoke to was so friendly, chatty and welcoming.
That's fair. But in my own defence I was talking about exclusive clubs of all types there, not just swinging clubs. An old job many years ago had me dealing with private clubs and i always found them and their clients a bit on the pretencious side. But they where not swinging clubs and they attracted a certain type of clientel anyway so maybe my opinion is based on some rather jaded experiences. "
No worries, if they are your experiences I can see why you would have that opinion x |
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"For those who don't think there are "exclusive clubs" based purely on physical appearance (among other things) yeah, I'm afraid they do. There's quite a few about Europe and down south that have, shall we say, a wealthier and more famous clientele. Footballers, actors, musician's etc etc. It's fair to say, the clubs want to protect their clientele's identity whilst also making sure only the hottest people attended. Not really that different from elite nightclubs when you think about it.
Not saying it's right but they're private establishment's so they get to pick and choose. Honestly, if your heads not up your own arse, I don't know why anyone would go to these places anyway but thats how it is.
I think it’s a bit unfair to say people who visit these nights have their heads up their arses. We went to a club night a few weeks ago where you had to apply, first time for us to go to one and everyone we spoke to was so friendly, chatty and welcoming. "
Well said! 
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There has been a few clubs and club nights over the years that have tried this concept. Some are still around and doing well some not so much.
I remember the city slicker parties they used to be quite polarising. |
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"Oh god, we never considered this, we want to go to a club soon as we have never been.
Now we're more nervous than ever lol.
Think I'd actually cry if it happens "
Just watched your vids and anyone who rejects you will need their head testing. D. |
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Thanks for all the lovley comments, I won’t name the place, as I totally understand that every place has there own rules and that’s ok. Xx
I just thought about maybe trying out VA instead lots of people love it there but the application asked for a photo too, so was seeking to find out why, ie identity situation. I’ll just drop them a message and ask xxxx |
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We have been to lots of clubs and not all ask for pics before joining, don’t ever be out off joining or going to clubs there all different and all amazing places to go to and everyone is always welcoming xxx |
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alot have been doing it to guys for years but when a guy get rejected noboby thinks any differnt and its a numbers game ... lots of tv/cd get rejected or blocked all together ... same with trans... but nobody likes it when its a couple or a woman get rejected ??? ... its been going on for years
by the way i think no one should get rejected because of looks ,sexuallity,gender,race but they do more than alot of people think..
give me a club with a good mix of people from all walks of life all different shapes n size color n sexuality thats the clubs i like where no one looks down....
...mrs
you can name the club so people know to avoid ? |
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We have been to lots of clubs and not all ask for pics before joining, don’t ever be out off joining or going to clubs there all different and all amazing places to go to and everyone is always welcoming xxx |
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"For those who don't think there are "exclusive clubs" based purely on physical appearance (among other things) yeah, I'm afraid they do. There's quite a few about Europe and down south that have, shall we say, a wealthier and more famous clientele. Footballers, actors, musician's etc etc. It's fair to say, the clubs want to protect their clientele's identity whilst also making sure only the hottest people attended. Not really that different from elite nightclubs when you think about it.
Not saying it's right but they're private establishment's so they get to pick and choose. Honestly, if your heads not up your own arse, I don't know why anyone would go to these places anyway but thats how it is.
I think it’s a bit unfair to say people who visit these nights have their heads up their arses. We went to a club night a few weeks ago where you had to apply, first time for us to go to one and everyone we spoke to was so friendly, chatty and welcoming. "
If the club wants a certain type of member that's up to them. 
There's lots of other clubs that accept anyone and everyone.
Men get turned down all the time and they get told tough shit.  |
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"We have been to lots of clubs and not all ask for pics before joining, don’t ever be out off joining or going to clubs there all different and all amazing places to go to and everyone is always welcoming xxx"
Did you call VA and ask why they wanted pics? |
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"So after very recently being rejected by a club we were trying to register with online, we are looking to
Try another place, I’d really like to go to VA but they also require a photo for registration.
I don’t think I could personally take being rejected by another club on the way I look. Or is it more just for ID perposes with VA.
Not here to bash any clubs they all have there own rules to follow xxxxx kazz "
The way you look? That is a strange one!
If its any consolation, if we run a swingers club, we'd give you both VIP status and the freedom to do whatever you wanted with us on every visit! Oh, and a complimentary glass of bubbly!  |
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"For those who don't think there are "exclusive clubs" based purely on physical appearance (among other things) yeah, I'm afraid they do. There's quite a few about Europe and down south that have, shall we say, a wealthier and more famous clientele. Footballers, actors, musician's etc etc. It's fair to say, the clubs want to protect their clientele's identity whilst also making sure only the hottest people attended. Not really that different from elite nightclubs when you think about it.
Not saying it's right but they're private establishment's so they get to pick and choose. Honestly, if your heads not up your own arse, I don't know why anyone would go to these places anyway but thats how it is.
I think it’s a bit unfair to say people who visit these nights have their heads up their arses. We went to a club night a few weeks ago where you had to apply, first time for us to go to one and everyone we spoke to was so friendly, chatty and welcoming.
If the club wants a certain type of member that's up to them.
There's lots of other clubs that accept anyone and everyone.
Men get turned down all the time and they get told tough shit. "
Because they outnumber every other group.
If that didnt happen, clubs would be jam packed with single guys and no one else. That wouldn't be good for business.
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