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over a year ago
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Had a weird conversation recently where a couple questioned why Athena was happy to see me with other women, because apparently women are “territorial” and it’s not right? Apparently, it’s bad for a guy to consensually be with other women but it’s fine the other way around…
Aaannyhooo, what kind of weird things have been said to you guys about your sexual lifestyle or dynamics, whether face to face or on here?
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We were chatting to a single man at a social once, things were going well and I was considering going well under our stated age range. I asked if he'd ever been in a swinging relationship. He looked shocked and said he would never do that the implication being that it was wrong. So that was an interesting end to the conversation  |
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"We were chatting to a single man at a social once, things were going well and I was considering going well under our stated age range. I asked if he'd ever been in a swinging relationship. He looked shocked and said he would never do that the implication being that it was wrong. So that was an interesting end to the conversation "
I have had a similar conversation with some couples, and I think that just because you smoke doesn't mean I should. I don't see it as a right or wrong thing, I just don't think I should also have a swinging relationship just because you do.
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"We were chatting to a single man at a social once, things were going well and I was considering going well under our stated age range. I asked if he'd ever been in a swinging relationship. He looked shocked and said he would never do that the implication being that it was wrong. So that was an interesting end to the conversation
I have had a similar conversation with some couples, and I think that just because you smoke doesn't mean I should. I don't see it as a right or wrong thing, I just don't think I should also have a swinging relationship just because you do.
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I agree. We meet quite a few single men who wouldn't want a swinging relationship. All we ask is that they accept our relationship without judgement. |
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"Had a weird conversation recently where a couple questioned why Athena was happy to see me with other women, because apparently women are “territorial” and it’s not right? Apparently, it’s bad for a guy to consensually be with other women but it’s fine the other way around…
Aaannyhooo, what kind of weird things have been said to you guys about your sexual lifestyle or dynamics, whether face to face or on here?
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Had the same issue multiple times. Been on the scene for 25 years and my wife very much enjoys seeing me with other women or sending me to other women on my own. It's how we started swinging and it's still a big part of what we enjoy to this day.
Unfortunately, it's just something some people have an issue with. In their minds it cant be real and I must be lying. As such, I've (as an individual) have never met a single lady directly through fab. It's always come from social events or club nights where they can talk to my wife and hear it directly from her.
It's weird but given how a common complaint is the amount of cheaters on fab, I can see their point (at least the single ladies).
Couples on the other hand, some just dont get it either. Because they always play as a couple, they assume everyone else has to. It's just not the case. Different strokes for different folks. More often than not we hear that from couples who are newer to the scene though. Long time swingers tend to get it.
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"Had a weird conversation recently where a couple questioned why Athena was happy to see me with other women, because apparently women are “territorial” and it’s not right? Apparently, it’s bad for a guy to consensually be with other women but it’s fine the other way around…
Aaannyhooo, what kind of weird things have been said to you guys about your sexual lifestyle or dynamics, whether face to face or on here?
Had the same issue multiple times. Been on the scene for 25 years and my wife very much enjoys seeing me with other women or sending me to other women on my own. It's how we started swinging and it's still a big part of what we enjoy to this day.
Unfortunately, it's just something some people have an issue with. In their minds it cant be real and I must be lying. As such, I've (as an individual) have never met a single lady directly through fab. It's always come from social events or club nights where they can talk to my wife and hear it directly from her.
It's weird but given how a common complaint is the amount of cheaters on fab, I can see their point (at least the single ladies).
Couples on the other hand, some just dont get it either. Because they always play as a couple, they assume everyone else has to. It's just not the case. Different strokes for different folks. More often than not we hear that from couples who are newer to the scene though. Long time swingers tend to get it.
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This particular pair had it set up so that she (under his control, and the wording he used for that was suspect as fuck, btw) got fucked by many men whenever she wanted, and he was explaining how that was fine but how Athena watching me with a woman was “allowing herself to be hurt and controlled” and that there was something wrong with me if I went with another woman…
I said, you know the bit about how you love seeing your woman with other men, well, flip that round and apply it to us and there’s your answer! Never mind that we both explore things together, equally, consensually…
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Cant think why single guys should be so judgemental about couples who swing. They should respect it and keep their opinions to themselves and not bore us with it.... |
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