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Just wondered if folks could give us their verision of these and the differences.
I ( Jim ) thought I wanted to be introduced to cuckold, however, the humiliation doesn’t do it for me.
I do like to see Pam play, like to watch and like to be told how good/big/tight/wet it is by both her and him.
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"Our experience with cuckold couples has been more play with the woman while the guy watches, not ventured down the humiliation route yet. Always been fun for all involved. "
Yea that’s where we are currently but someone said to us that it isn’t cuckold, it’s more just stag and vixen. Just wanted to make sure we were looking for the right.  |
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over a year ago
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humiliation is not a cuckold must be you'll find it very 50/50
we are a full on humiliation cuckold couple
hotwife is nothing like or to do with cuckolding |
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"Just wondered if folks could give us their verision of these and the differences.
I ( Jim ) thought I wanted to be introduced to cuckold, however, the humiliation doesn’t do it for me.
I do like to see Pam play, like to watch and like to be told how good/big/tight/wet it is by both her and him.
Thanks"
Your a Stag / vixen couple, if you watch and or join in.
Your an Alpha cuck of you watch, but don't join in, and have no humiltaion. |
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By *ixen-XWoman
over a year ago
Unicornville Utopia And Lovin It X |
Cuckold is humiliation
You are stag and vixen like myself where you are proud and enjoy watching your wife with others and may sometimes join in
Then after you have reclaim sex which is amazing |
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"Cuckold is humiliation
You are stag and vixen like myself where you are proud and enjoy watching your wife with others and may sometimes join in
Then after you have reclaim sex which is amazing "
This sounds amazing hope to experience this one day. |
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By *ixen-XWoman
over a year ago
Unicornville Utopia And Lovin It X |
"Cuckold is humiliation
You are stag and vixen like myself where you are proud and enjoy watching your wife with others and may sometimes join in
Then after you have reclaim sex which is amazing
This sounds amazing hope to experience this one day. "
It took time to fine tune our dynamics and boundaries but with communication we've nailed it now and is exactly what we both want and enjoy  |
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"Cuckold is humiliation
You are stag and vixen like myself where you are proud and enjoy watching your wife with others and may sometimes join in
Then after you have reclaim sex which is amazing
This sounds amazing hope to experience this one day.
It took time to fine tune our dynamics and boundaries but with communication we've nailed it now and is exactly what we both want and enjoy "
We have just started down the lifestyle path I hope we get there one day. I'm a patient man so I'm more than conent with the naughty talk in bed and some hot role play until she is ready x |
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Enjoy seeing Mrs pleasured and a guy with confidence helps that. Definitely not into humiliation though. She would never like that. We came into this with communication and it continues throughout this entire fun journey. We all play together a guy at both ends etc but the reclaim set at the end is hot. |
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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago
Peterborough / Stamford |
Lots saying you're Stag & Vixen, OP. That's really only the case if the Stag (the male) is finding and arranging the guys for the Vixen to play with, with her agreement. If she's doing the choosing and arranging then it's more of a HotWife thing. Either is awesome though.....we float between the two.
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By *ixen-XWoman
over a year ago
Unicornville Utopia And Lovin It X |
Yes communication I would say very important
My boundaries are basically no kissing other men no anal no cum in mouth and hubby present as I love to watch him watching me ...we are at the moment discussing me going out on a social on my own and then bringing a guy back if I like him so would be a surprise for hubby ....he wouldn't know if I'm coming back alone or with a hot guy that's the next step we looking at if we try it it works will do it again if it doesn't work then obviously we won't try again xx |
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By *ixen-XWoman
over a year ago
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"Lots saying you're Stag & Vixen, OP. That's really only the case if the Stag (the male) is finding and arranging the guys for the Vixen to play with, with her agreement. If she's doing the choosing and arranging then it's more of a HotWife thing. Either is awesome though.....we float between the two.
(Bry)"
We do both me arranging the guys and occasionally hubby will arrange the guys and we still class it all as stag vixen / hotwifing |
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By (user no longer on site)
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This is what we are doing now and terminology is hard. Physical humiliation is one thing, with cages and mockery etc etc, but somebody fucking your wife has traditionally been seen as cuckoldry. We don’t agree and feel it’s just pleasurable to watch and be watched.
When we speak to guys, we say “cuckoldry with no humiliation”. They seem to get it even if our terminology is appalling. |
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"Lots saying you're Stag & Vixen, OP. That's really only the case if the Stag (the male) is finding and arranging the guys for the Vixen to play with, with her agreement. If she's doing the choosing and arranging then it's more of a HotWife thing. Either is awesome though.....we float between the two.
(Bry)"
Ah! Is it really? Well that’s really cleared it up for us. Thank you!
I find a shortlist and always act as secretary (I take her dictation ha ha). However, she always always decides which guy. Does that fit either? |
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By *mma29Couple
over a year ago
wirral |
"Yes communication I would say very important
My boundaries are basically no kissing other men no anal no cum in mouth and hubby present as I love to watch him watching me ...we are at the moment discussing me going out on a social on my own and then bringing a guy back if I like him so would be a surprise for hubby ....he wouldn't know if I'm coming back alone or with a hot guy that's the next step we looking at if we try it it works will do it again if it doesn't work then obviously we won't try again xx"
You know exactly what you do and don't want. And make it clear.
That's a good way to be. We are maybe too open to others preferences. But will take a leaf out of your book. |
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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago
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"I find a shortlist and always act as secretary (I take her dictation ha ha). However, she always always decides which guy. Does that fit either?"
It's all so fluid, and I don't think very many couples stick to just one way of doing it, so don't worry about the label. That sounds very much like us, and we just refer to ourselves as "swingers", though Char likes jewelry that says "HotWife".
(I prefer the HotWife dynamic myself)
(Bry) |
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By *ixen-XWoman
over a year ago
Unicornville Utopia And Lovin It X |
"Yes communication I would say very important
My boundaries are basically no kissing other men no anal no cum in mouth and hubby present as I love to watch him watching me ...we are at the moment discussing me going out on a social on my own and then bringing a guy back if I like him so would be a surprise for hubby ....he wouldn't know if I'm coming back alone or with a hot guy that's the next step we looking at if we try it it works will do it again if it doesn't work then obviously we won't try again xx
You know exactly what you do and don't want. And make it clear.
That's a good way to be. We are maybe too open to others preferences. But will take a leaf out of your book."
Thank you im flattered...to be honest yes I know what I want and am very clear about everything on my profile
Good luck with your journey |
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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago
Peterborough / Stamford |
"My boundaries are basically no kissing other men no anal no cum in mouth and hubby present as I love to watch him watching me"
We have boundaries set by physical limitations (Char's past cancer means anal is just something for us) and watersports is touch and go so also kep to us. Other than that we have only one rule: that I know about anything she does either before, during or after so there's never any secrets.
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By *mma29Couple
over a year ago
wirral |
"Yes communication I would say very important
My boundaries are basically no kissing other men no anal no cum in mouth and hubby present as I love to watch him watching me ...we are at the moment discussing me going out on a social on my own and then bringing a guy back if I like him so would be a surprise for hubby ....he wouldn't know if I'm coming back alone or with a hot guy that's the next step we looking at if we try it it works will do it again if it doesn't work then obviously we won't try again xx
You know exactly what you do and don't want. And make it clear.
That's a good way to be. We are maybe too open to others preferences. But will take a leaf out of your book.
Thank you im flattered...to be honest yes I know what I want and am very clear about everything on my profile
Good luck with your journey "
Thank you.you guys too.
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By *ixen-XWoman
over a year ago
Unicornville Utopia And Lovin It X |
"My boundaries are basically no kissing other men no anal no cum in mouth and hubby present as I love to watch him watching me
We have boundaries set by physical limitations (Char's past cancer means anal is just something for us) and watersports is touch and go so also kep to us. Other than that we have only one rule: that I know about anything she does either before, during or after so there's never any secrets.
(Bry)"
Yes no secrets that would still be classed as cheating In my eyes
Absolutely no need to cheat when I can fuck who I want anyway and i love my husband unconditional xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I find a shortlist and always act as secretary (I take her dictation ha ha). However, she always always decides which guy. Does that fit either?
It's all so fluid, and I don't think very many couples stick to just one way of doing it, so don't worry about the label. That sounds very much like us, and we just refer to ourselves as "swingers", though Char likes jewelry that says "HotWife".
(I prefer the HotWife dynamic myself)
(Bry)"
Got you. That’s all very helpful thank you. We just take things as they cum down the road in Rutland. |
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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago
Peterborough / Stamford |
"Got you. That’s all very helpful thank you. We just take things as they cum down the road in Rutland. "
Not far at all....you should pop along to the Crowland Social...it's another fifteen minutes on from us.
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"Got you. That’s all very helpful thank you. We just take things as they cum down the road in Rutland.
Not far at all....you should pop along to the Crowland Social...it's another fifteen minutes on from us.
(Bry)"
I know roughly where it is. Assuming it’s at Crowland of course. |
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"The lead is the main differences cuckold is usually the woman in power. Stag and vixen is usually shared."
Quite possibly the best definition in here from my perspective. Although post covid I'm still looking for a couple that's a good fit with me. Over the years I've been lucky enough to meet a respectable handful of cuckold couples.
Although there have been exceptions more often than not overt humiliation is normally desired from the direction of the woman.
That has always been fine from my perspective because my preferred approach has more nuance to it. If I was to crudely humiliate the cuck in a couple that I barely know I'd start to feel like a character in a very badly directed 70s porn movie lolol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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OP you would more like hotwife.
Cuckold is different ball game altogether .
We enjoy hotwifing, sometimes solo but don't have any cuck fantasies.
Watching wife getting pleasured is almost 99% male fantasy here. That's what swinging is about . |
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Hi everyone, we really enjoy playing with other guys or single guys. Basque loves being centre of attention and I (boxers) love watching her. But I am always in control of the meet, as well as in all the action and often directing. I setup the meets she approves all applicants of course. For me its very much knowing how much she slips into those lustfull and what shell do for their spunk.
Think that's stage and vixen.
Cant wait for 23 Milf club and 31st hotel meet check out the meets. |
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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago
Leicestershire |
Good communication is key. Cuckolding can be such a fun and sexy lifestyle for all involved. There are no set rules. You make your own rules as a couple and anyone you ask to join you must be told them and follow them x
Mrs N |
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"Good communication is key. Cuckolding can be such a fun and sexy lifestyle for all involved. There are no set rules. You make your own rules as a couple and anyone you ask to join you must be told them and follow them x
Mrs N"
Completely agree. A x |
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"Good communication is key. Cuckolding can be such a fun and sexy lifestyle for all involved. There are no set rules. You make your own rules as a couple and anyone you ask to join you must be told them and follow them x
Mrs N"
Spot on  |
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"Understanding that it’s a trio that’s gets the satisfaction is important in my eyes, as I like to ensure everyone gets as much enjoyment out of it as I do.
Gladly help here  "
Thanks,
Shame you are so far away |
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