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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

If you decide you want to go bareback with a meet do you request a recent test or just be risky and fuck them anyway?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I’d request a recent test and am always happy to show one

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By *mma and ChrisCouple  over a year ago

Hounslow

We ask for a clear recent std test

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By *addysdadCouple  over a year ago

southern Cumbria

Fuck them anyway!

We do test often, but the only way to be safe would be to test just before a meet, assuming nobody has been with anyone else since the tests

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

When I was very active on my old profile I was always of the opinion that I’d be led by the lady if it was bareback or not and easily 75% just went for bareback with no questions asked. There were no questions or tests demanded. Some preferred a condom on the 1st meet but bareback from the 2nd meet onwards and nearly all were like that.

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By *essieScottCouple  over a year ago

Tilbury

Always a recent test before that happens

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Just fuck them anyway. They're going to catch allsorts from me so it's irrelevant.

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By *ustSomeDarkieMan  over a year ago

Salford


"Just fuck them anyway. They're going to catch allsorts from me so it's irrelevant. "

I like your motto

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I get tested regularly so always have test results on hand if asked.

But It depends. If they have met half the site without a care in the world. then I wouldn’t ask for bareback and would insist on a condom to begin with.

At times if I’m the heat of the moment. I wouldn’t think of asking for tests and use my best judgement.

Which is why I like taking it slow, explore their body during foreplay and then take a slight calculated decision.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Just fuck them anyway. They're going to catch allsorts from me so it's irrelevant. "

Well if that's the case bend over

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By *ingdong11Man  over a year ago

emsworth


"Just fuck them anyway. They're going to catch allsorts from me so it's irrelevant. "

I caught AIDS just reading your message

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Just fuck them anyway. They're going to catch allsorts from me so it's irrelevant.

Well if that's the case bend over "

Watch out for the flaky bits.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I get tested regularly so always have test results on hand if asked.

But It depends. If they have met half the site without a care in the world. then I wouldn’t ask for bareback and would insist on a condom to begin with.

At times if I’m the heat of the moment. I wouldn’t think of asking for tests and use my best judgement.

Which is why I like taking it slow, explore their body during foreplay and then take a slight calculated decision."

You can't know if they met half the site. People have sex outside of Fab. They may do bareback gangbangs every night but only have social veris on here.

I just assume they fuck around. At the very least they will have fucked someone who fucks around.

Six degrees of separation and all that....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


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You can't know if they met half the site. People have sex outside of Fab. They may do bareback gangbangs every night but only have social veris on here.

I just assume they fuck around. At the very least they will have fucked someone who fucks around.

Six degrees of separation and all that...."

True, someone who knows themselves to be of high risk and carrying on without a care in the world is sexually irresponsible.

If you are going to practice bareback, then you need to have an understanding of the risks in their entirety. And be willing to carry on.

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex


"Just fuck them anyway. They're going to catch allsorts from me so it's irrelevant.

Well if that's the case bend over

Watch out for the flaky bits. "

that's vile

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Just fuck them anyway. They're going to catch allsorts from me so it's irrelevant.

Well if that's the case bend over

Watch out for the flaky bits.

that's vile "

Is why always carry a wire brush with me

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I ask about testing and I'm willing to share mine too, but ultimately you still have to take some risk as they could have had sex with others since testing. There is always pregnancy risk too. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I see women taking litres of cum down their throat then asking guys when it comes to fucking to wear a condom.How is oral safe?? Its not

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By *ellinever70Woman  over a year ago

Ayrshire


"I see women taking litres of cum down their throat then asking guys when it comes to fucking to wear a condom.How is oral safe?? Its not"

It's not coming straight from the source if they're consuming that much

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Usually it’s heat of the moment for me x

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By *heswingerMan  over a year ago

the steel city sheffield

Now here’s one for you all, you won’t fuck without a condom yet you’ll suck that cock happily not knowing they have something, it’s a risk you take going bb but so is life

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Heat if the moment for me. I’m ok either way.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman  over a year ago

all loved up


"Now here’s one for you all, you won’t fuck without a condom yet you’ll suck that cock happily not knowing they have something, it’s a risk you take going bb but so is life "
the risk is much much lower to suck a cock without a condom.

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By *edonist79Man  over a year ago

Trowbridge

I get tested fairly regularly and it's one you can do at home and can screenshot the results after to show a partner.

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By *lex46TV/TS  over a year ago

Near Wells

I've had a few sexual partners

No one has ever asked me for a test result, if they did they would be told mind your own business. Occasionally I get asked if I'm clean and that's about it.

I'm a very regular visitor to my local sexual clinic before anyone asks.

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By *xydadbodMan  over a year ago

Milton keynes

I would share my recent test result if asked of course

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By *eardyBikerMan  over a year ago

nr stonehaven

It's been heat of the moment tbh

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Just fuck them anyway. They're going to catch allsorts from me so it's irrelevant. "
that is scruffy

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Have to go by trust. And how they come across. All fine so far.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I get tested regularly so always have test results on hand if asked.

But It depends. If they have met half the site without a care in the world. then I wouldn’t ask for bareback and would insist on a condom to begin with.

At times if I’m the heat of the moment. I wouldn’t think of asking for tests and use my best judgement.

Which is why I like taking it slow, explore their body during foreplay and then take a slight calculated decision.

You can't know if they met half the site. People have sex outside of Fab. They may do bareback gangbangs every night but only have social veris on here.

I just assume they fuck around. At the very least they will have fucked someone who fucks around.

Six degrees of separation and all that...."

so glad for some reason I’m blocked that’s a rats attitude

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"There is always pregnancy risk too. Xx"

I've noticed mentioning a vasectomy often makes ladies more relaxed on bareback.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I haven't had to worry about that since I was bitten by a radioactive spider, having said that it made me fatter than lard,so maybe that's why I don't have to worry about it...hhhmmmmm.

Anywho I digress who's for ice cream

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By *rivervaderMan  over a year ago

bolton

Only ever had sex with the misses and that was ages ago so I’m clean and had the snip so no chance of babies

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Just fuck them anyway. They're going to catch allsorts from me so it's irrelevant.

Well if that's the case bend over

Watch out for the flaky bits.

that's vile "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Just fuck them anyway. They're going to catch allsorts from me so it's irrelevant.

that is scruffy "

Why? It's not true. But who knows that right. I could say I'm clear and had a test this week. Some places don't give out results unless they're negative.

So pointless asking for a test result.

"I haven't had sex in 2 years and have had 18 clear tests in that time."

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By *unner6969Man  over a year ago

Bicester


"If you decide you want to go bareback with a meet do you request a recent test or just be risky and fuck them anyway? "

I find the phrase “prefers bareback”, or similar, on a profile useful. I know who to avoid/block.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"There is always pregnancy risk too. Xx

I've noticed mentioning a vasectomy often makes ladies more relaxed on bareback. "

That certainly does remove one worry from things. Most guys aren't though xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If you decide you want to go bareback with a meet do you request a recent test or just be risky and fuck them anyway?

I find the phrase “prefers bareback”, or similar, on a profile useful. I know who to avoid/block."

Because people never lie!

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman  over a year ago

all loved up


"I see women taking litres of cum down their throat then asking guys when it comes to fucking to wear a condom.How is oral safe?? Its not"
no sexual contact is safe... but oral is much lower risk that bareback.

I have often had guys try to convince me that as I suck cock without. I may as well have bare sex... they simply get avoided

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By *rivervaderMan  over a year ago

bolton


"I see women taking litres of cum down their throat then asking guys when it comes to fucking to wear a condom.How is oral safe?? Its not no sexual contact is safe... but oral is much lower risk that bareback.

I have often had guys try to convince me that as I suck cock without. I may as well have bare sex... they simply get avoided "

I would rather lick a woman than go bare

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

If I bareback it is with a current partner and both tested, otherwise the lovegloves are in use.

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By *allwelshcoupleCouple  over a year ago

Cwmbran


"I see women taking litres of cum down their throat then asking guys when it comes to fucking to wear a condom.How is oral safe?? Its not no sexual contact is safe... but oral is much lower risk that bareback.

I have often had guys try to convince me that as I suck cock without. I may as well have bare sex... they simply get avoided "

Agree, really don't want the risk of pregnancy. Oral is fine, as mentioned much lower risk. If a guy wont wear we wont play. Simple.

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By *aylonMan  over a year ago

Earlsfield


"If you decide you want to go bareback with a meet do you request a recent test or just be risky and fuck them anyway? "

There has to be an element of trust and despite all the chat, normally the excitement of the night takes over and everyone just enjoys.

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By *B69Woman  over a year ago

Wiltshire

Only bareback with a regular friend, tested regulary and have asked to see results before

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By *heswingerMan  over a year ago

the steel city sheffield


"If you decide you want to go bareback with a meet do you request a recent test or just be risky and fuck them anyway?

I find the phrase “prefers bareback”, or similar, on a profile useful. I know who to avoid/block.

Because people never lie!"

i don’t lie, was brought up the proper way with manners and respect

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