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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
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"I don't even tell my fab friends I'm on here 
Is that you? It is! I know it is.
How you doing?
Me? Nooo not me, no nope definitely not me."
Damn your twin we met on Saturday will have to stop pretending to be you. |
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As of this weekend just gone.
Everyone.
We've been swinging for 25 years. Over that time freinds found out (and didnt care) but we always kept it from family.
Turns out my siblings had suspected for years and they outed us last week. Just wouldn't let it go. Lots of "vague" weekends away made them suspicious. They ultimetly don't care (but crossed some lines by taking the piss). Unfortunetly our kids now know as well but one is dealing, the other couldn't care less.
What's worse is finding out one of your siblings and his wife are on the scene as well and they wanna make sure we don't turn up to the same dogging spot (which we do t do)
Awkward is not the word right now but whatever, it wasn't the end of the world and they just want us to be happy....whilst making stupid jokes about keys in bowls and pampas grass. |
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"Do you tell non-fab friends that you’re on here?
What’s their reaction when you share it?"
Yip...we actually don't have any issues that people know we are on here...we are 2 consenting adults and its our life...nobody can tell us what we can and can't do..hence our profile is full of our face..
I disclosed it to my brother (some people might think that's strange) but we are close and can tell each other anything..I haven't gone into detail obv but he knows we are swingers. |
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We don’t tell them this site exists but they all know we are in the scene. And they don’t care  But Fab is such a hideous site I’d not want to tell them for fear of them feeling like they’ve been transported back to 1998 when they look at it :P |
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I think there's not much point to disclose the lifestyle. The public at large form their own opinions no matter what.
The media does not help in the slightest.
I once told my close family I had joined a naturist club in the next town - that was fine. Alas, the owners of the venue then threw a charity event for breast cancer, sold alcohol and was raised and prosecuted by the police. All over the local papers who tried to imply the club was actually a high class brothel!
In summary, no need to explain! |
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over a year ago
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None of my friends (Mr) know I'm on here, several of Mrs friends know what we get upto and it's always met with curiosity as their other halves would never be interested in this lifestyle. |
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