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So who should cum first ?
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By *omikoMan
over a year ago
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I love seeing the woman cum - really turns me on, so the more she cums the better, and then at the end I will.
Whilst I can cum twice, maybe three times in a session, I find a woman can cum a lot more, so she naturally takes the lead - and I love that! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I (Mr) always aim for the Mrs to cum first. However, sometimes it's nice to cum together at the same time. This is achieved by carefully reading the signs and knowing if she is close to cumming. If she is, and I'm close then fireworks for us both. ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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An orgasm isn’t the be all and end all of sex though. You can have great sex without an orgasm. You can also have terrible sex with an orgasm. It’s not about who cums first. It’s about making sure everyone involved has a great time. |
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The way I tend to see it is it takes longer to make a woman orgasm and guys often hit snooze mode once they have cum so I prefer to make sure the lady has had at least one orgasm before I do so that no one is disappointed. |
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Surely the question is, how many times should she cum before I do?
Ideally I prefer her to cum a couple of times before we climax together ??
Ocasionaly it's acceptable to use her hard and fast and cum first, when she wants to feel used and slutty and just wants the satisfaction of pleasuring you....
With couple's it depends. Stag and vixen, then the hubby gets to chose who cums first and where.
With cuckold couples I cum first and hubby second, if at all ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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