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I wish we didn't need to block single males
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I'd love to find a good looking orally bi male to join me and my poly girlfriend but when we open up our email filters we get an endless stream of short sentence (haven't read our profile) hellos and cock pics.
On blue balls mornings like today its really frustrating because I'm gagging to watch a another guy fuck her while he sucks my cock.
Do any other couples have this problem. More importantly have you found a workable solution? If so please share lol |
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I know im a single male, and in all fairness i do get what you are saying.
I think you should be able to still message single guys that take your fancy.
We arent all the type that pester couples and single females. Good luck in your search.  |
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This is why most people block single guys and might only open the option to contact them of vice versa. I did it when I was trying to organise a gangbang with bi guys and hardly anyone read the profile, was just endless messages saying hi take a look at my cock lol. Or the "straight" guys who admit to not actually being straight they just don't want people to know they are bi. It can be an absolute shit show but good luck with it, your actually better off looking for them yourself and just make sure they have lots of verifications, I think a lot of single guys on here just see an opportunity and just literally swipe right thinking if they message 100 people one might actually message back. |
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"I'd love to find a good looking orally bi male to join me and my poly girlfriend but when we open up our email filters we get an endless stream of short sentence (haven't read our profile) hellos and cock pics.
On blue balls mornings like today its really frustrating because I'm gagging to watch a another guy fuck her while he sucks my cock.
Do any other couples have this problem. More importantly have you found a workable solution? If so please share lol"
I'm sorry that you get such crappy messages. Some Single males on here seem to think they can just get an instant shag without any effort. I think its the Tindr generation. |
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It takes time but works a charm - block men you're not interested in individually after receiving a crap message as well as apply message filters.
After a few months - you'll not be bombarded with anything and your inbox will be nice and calm with only occasional fuckwit  |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
Why don't ye just look for men who suit what you are both looking for and send a first message yourselves to them.Its better to be Pro active rather than give out when people who message you don't suit what you are looking for.Then the men you message can decide if you are what they are looking for on here. |
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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago
Lincolnshire |
"It takes time but works a charm - block men you're not interested in individually after receiving a crap message as well as apply message filters.
After a few months - you'll not be bombarded with anything and your inbox will be nice and calm with only occasional fuckwit "
Exactly this plus go through your local updates blocking anyone that doesn't appeal  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's mind blowingly simple.
Look for men yourself.
I do it when we are looking for men. Mail a load you like then see what the replies are like and narrow it down.
Simple. Never had problems, never been stood up. Met some lovely blokes. |
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By *i FunstersCouple
over a year ago
Maspalomas Gran Canaria |
We quite clearly state in the first line of our profile that straight profiles will be blocked, but then nobody seems to read it anyway
We use our block button a lot as it’s the only way to filter |
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I take a proactive to approach to this.
I block anyone and everyone I have no interest in - particularly people with no verifications as well as lurkers.
Eventually it leaves those who may be of interest with the ability to contact.
Just to say also, whilst men don’t get unsolicited pussy pics, we do get nonsense messages from females, who also often don’t read profiles. |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
East London |
Blue balls might be why they send crappy messages.
I can't be bothered scrolling through thousands of profiles to find what I want so I have my filters set so only a certain age range can message at a time. It cuts down the amount of messages I get, and I close my filters when I have too many to deal with.
The real solution is to look for yourself and keep your filters closed.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know im a single male, and in all fairness i do get what you are saying.
I think you should be able to still message single guys that take your fancy.
We arent all the type that pester couples and single females. Good luck in your search. "
Exactly my situation too! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be fare I'm a single male and on here and various daring sites and its the same on there, women get a hi and a cock pic and to be honest some of the cock pics they get sent i think Jesus mate you need to go see a doctor  really don't get some guys and why they do this but we aint all the same |
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Why in the name of jesus would you send a cock picture in your first message its like pulling down your pants in a nightclub and using your cock as a chat up. You just wouldn't do it so why do it here. |
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By *igfun911Man
over a year ago
East Lancashire |
"I'd love to find a good looking orally bi male to join me and my poly girlfriend but when we open up our email filters we get an endless stream of short sentence (haven't read our profile) hellos and cock pics.
On blue balls mornings like today its really frustrating because I'm gagging to watch a another guy fuck her while he sucks my cock.
Do any other couples have this problem. More importantly have you found a workable solution? If so please share lol"
Shame I don't live in London I'd be happy to help
On a serious note I completely understand and I'm one of those single males !
Might be a good idea to try and arrange via the forum rather than messages in the first instance, might flush out the dreamers and time wasters.
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I pretty much wait for couples to contact me if they are interested now. I have spent a lot of time in the past writing specific and thought out messages to couples and 99% of them are deleted without response. Sometimes I understand the guys who just say Hello to see if the other people respond before they launch into a more in depth conversation. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you message single males directly, despite blocking single males in your message filter options, they should be able to reply back. Unless you block their specific profile of course. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why in the name of jesus would you send a cock picture in your first message its like pulling down your pants in a nightclub and using your cock as a chat up. You just wouldn't do it so why do it here. "
I think it's time that people could forward such messages to the person's employer. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well it does say on your profile "NOT LOOKING FOR SINGLE GUYS "."
That is just automatic text that the site displays when the profile has mail filters stopping men from messaging them. |
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"I'd love to find a good looking orally bi male to join me and my poly girlfriend but when we open up our email filters we get an endless stream of short sentence (haven't read our profile) hellos and cock pics.
On blue balls mornings like today its really frustrating because I'm gagging to watch a another guy fuck her while he sucks my cock.
Do any other couples have this problem. More importantly have you found a workable solution? If so please share lol"
We have exactly the same issues. We get an avalanche of messages from straight guys who have been too lazy to read our profile and have made no effort with their own one either.
So what happens is we get fed up with it and just block single guys. I realise that's somewhat unfair on single guys, but the ones to blame for it are those who are too lazy to read our profile or write a half decent one of their own.
Quite honestly I don't think the situation will ever change any more than the problem with timewasters can ever be solved.
Also, because the mods don't like timewasters named, they know they can get away with it with impunity. |
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"I'd love to find a good looking orally bi male to join me and my poly girlfriend but when we open up our email filters we get an endless stream of short sentence (haven't read our profile) hellos and cock pics.
On blue balls mornings like today its really frustrating because I'm gagging to watch a another guy fuck her while he sucks my cock.
Do any other couples have this problem. More importantly have you found a workable solution? If so please share lol"
Another option is start a forum thread, and then message any single guys who take your fancy. |
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"Why in the name of jesus would you send a cock picture in your first message its like pulling down your pants in a nightclub and using your cock as a chat up. You just wouldn't do it so why do it here. "
Never understood it.
My sense is that there is an element of exhibitionism to it. It’s well documented and understood that women don’t like receiving such pictures, so that seems to be a plausible explanation.
The recent change in law might make some think twice …even if there are legitimate questions as to whether the law will apply in this setting (my sense is it will, as legislation of this nature is generally drafted broadly). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m fed up to the back to teeth of messages that start
“Love your profile, would love to meet you etc”
So then it turns out they’ve not read the profile because they’re white males
Instant delete & block  |
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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago
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"I'd love to find a good looking orally bi male to join me and my poly girlfriend but when we open up our email filters we get an endless stream of short sentence (haven't read our profile) hellos and cock pics.
On blue balls mornings like today its really frustrating because I'm gagging to watch a another guy fuck her while he sucks my cock.
Do any other couples have this problem. More importantly have you found a workable solution? If so please share lol"
I'm not a couple. However..The site provides the tools,
Search / browse profiles define gender age etc ..find someone who you think might be suitable message and if you're what they seek hey presto.
Effort in rewards out.
Next problem.  |
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By *Booboo-Man
over a year ago
Edinburgh |
"I'd love to find a good looking orally bi male to join me and my poly girlfriend but when we open up our email filters we get an endless stream of short sentence (haven't read our profile) hellos and cock pics.
On blue balls mornings like today its really frustrating because I'm gagging to watch a another guy fuck her while he sucks my cock.
Do any other couples have this problem. More importantly have you found a workable solution? If so please share lol"
Why don't you do the messaging then? Keep it blocked and you message them. |
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By *ndecidedjMan
over a year ago
barton le clay/Harrow |
This is purely the reason I don't bother messaging bi couples, I'd love to meet one but you can guarantee their inbox is filled with dick pics and the senders are only interested in the female half of the couple. |
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The messages are easily deleted without opening.
If you can already see it's a boring one liner.
Searching yourself is an option too. If you're willing to take through the boring one liner profiles to find diamonds in the rough |
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By *igfun911Man
over a year ago
East Lancashire |
"I'd love to find a good looking orally bi male to join me and my poly girlfriend but when we open up our email filters we get an endless stream of short sentence (haven't read our profile) hellos and cock pics.
On blue balls mornings like today its really frustrating because I'm gagging to watch a another guy fuck her while he sucks my cock.
Do any other couples have this problem. More importantly have you found a workable solution? If so please share lol
Another option is start a forum thread, and then message any single guys who take your fancy."
Exactly this, will clear out the single, lazy guys that can't be arsed to read a profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we only meet guys via fab and refuse to block all guys just block those your not interested in thats how we've always done it ...it not rude to use the block as you see fit |
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