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over a year ago
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Not into giving oral sex to a woman?
I met someone & he said he didn't do it...no issues with that as freedom of choice..
However it made me wonder if other guys don't give oral to women & why? Is it the taste? texture, been unsure what to do? Or something else?.
By the way it didn't get as far as to whether he would be happy to receive.. |
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"Not into giving oral sex to a woman?
I met someone & he said he didn't do it...no issues with that as freedom of choice..
However it made me wonder if other guys don't give oral to women & why? Is it the taste? texture, been unsure what to do? Or something else?.
By the way it didn't get as far as to whether he would be happy to receive.."
You'll be lucky to get a guy to admit on a thread that he doesn't like to give oral as he knows by saying it he'll lose a fair chunk of his target audience |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not into giving oral sex to a woman?
I met someone & he said he didn't do it...no issues with that as freedom of choice..
However it made me wonder if other guys don't give oral to women & why? Is it the taste? texture, been unsure what to do? Or something else?.
By the way it didn't get as far as to whether he would be happy to receive.."
I absolutely love it. Can happily have my face sat on for hours. Nothing better than licking up her love juices that have run into her ass.
It’s filthy but the ultimate in intamacy. |
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"Not into giving oral sex to a woman?
I met someone & he said he didn't do it...no issues with that as freedom of choice..
However it made me wonder if other guys don't give oral to women & why? Is it the taste? texture, been unsure what to do? Or something else?.
By the way it didn't get as far as to whether he would be happy to receive..
You'll be lucky to get a guy to admit on a thread that he doesn't like to give oral as he knows by saying it he'll lose a fair chunk of his target audience "
There are more women than you think that aren't fussed about receiving.
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"Not into giving oral sex to a woman?
I met someone & he said he didn't do it...no issues with that as freedom of choice..
However it made me wonder if other guys don't give oral to women & why? Is it the taste? texture, been unsure what to do? Or something else?.
By the way it didn't get as far as to whether he would be happy to receive.."
Plenty of women who don't do oral too. |
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"Not into giving oral sex to a woman?
I met someone & he said he didn't do it...no issues with that as freedom of choice..
However it made me wonder if other guys don't give oral to women & why? Is it the taste? texture, been unsure what to do? Or something else?.
By the way it didn't get as far as to whether he would be happy to receive..
You'll be lucky to get a guy to admit on a thread that he doesn't like to give oral as he knows by saying it he'll lose a fair chunk of his target audience
There are more women than you think that aren't fussed about receiving.
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Arent fussed and a flat no though are miles apart. Saying not fussed youve not cock blocked yourself with some women who like receiving oral |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would happily keep my mouth and tongue busy down there and get the lady cumming good mmm
My wife hates it so I never go down on her!!
Need a female that does love it and 69 fun x |
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"I was with my husband 20 years and he very rarely gave me oral. But he always wanted his cock sucked. "
Any man not willing to get down and worship you between your legs and let their hands and mouth bring you to ecstasy doesn’t deserve to be pleasured in a similar way.
It’s about giving and receiving not being a self centred individual xx |
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"I was with my husband 20 years and he very rarely gave me oral. But he always wanted his cock sucked.
Any man not willing to get down and worship you between your legs and let their hands and mouth bring you to ecstasy doesn’t deserve to be pleasured in a similar way.
It’s about giving and receiving not being a self centred individual xx"
That’s one of the reasons he’s an ex  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I was with my husband 20 years and he very rarely gave me oral. But he always wanted his cock sucked.
Any man not willing to get down and worship you between your legs and let their hands and mouth bring you to ecstasy doesn’t deserve to be pleasured in a similar way.
It’s about giving and receiving not being a self centred individual xx
That’s one of the reasons he’s an ex "
Totally agree with you
Nothing like going down to taste the honey
What’s good for the goose is good for the gander lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Almost all my past relationships have been with a woman who disliked giving oral sex. Cannot help but wonder if there is something about me that outs them off... One or two disliked receiving which has always been a deal breaker for me.
For me, the intimacy, the taste, the smell, is incredible. A friend of mine hates going down on women though. He says its not really the taste of smell(though he isnt overly keen in those either), he says he just finds it difficult, a lot of hassle, and jist a bit gross. We are all different. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not into giving oral sex to a woman?
I met someone & he said he didn't do it...no issues with that as freedom of choice..
However it made me wonder if other guys don't give oral to women & why? Is it the taste? texture, been unsure what to do? Or something else?.
By the way it didn't get as far as to whether he would be happy to receive..
You'll be lucky to get a guy to admit on a thread that he doesn't like to give oral as he knows by saying it he'll lose a fair chunk of his target audience "
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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago
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I never used to like it as I didn’t think I was very good, and I can’t flick tongue up and down, and I didn’t enjoy taste
Then a good friend (swinger at time but now a good personal friend), said I should try the alphabet technique. So I basically spell the alphabet with my touunge. Also I can flick my toungh from side to side so I move my head so it kind goes up and down also lol
I am sure people with laugh and to be honest it makes me chuckle how I deal with this |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I never used to like it as I didn’t think I was very good, and I can’t flick tongue up and down, and I didn’t enjoy taste
Then a good friend (swinger at time but now a good personal friend), said I should try the alphabet technique. So I basically spell the alphabet with my touunge. Also I can flick my toungh from side to side so I move my head so it kind goes up and down also lol
I am sure people with laugh and to be honest it makes me chuckle how I deal with this "
So what you are saying is that while the lady is enjoying herself, your mind is elsewhere singing the alphabet in your head? Do you try writing other words? That could be a fun game, she could try and guess what you are writing. If you cant do up and down though maybe avoid Welsh spellings... |
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100% my favourite thing todo.
Nothing better than making a woman cum through just oral. Being able to control the pleasure, making them wriggle with pleasure building the sensation and easing off a little before climaxing it.
Yeah I love it lol mmmmmm |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I was with my husband 20 years and he very rarely gave me oral. But he always wanted his cock sucked. "
With my ex for 19 years and never once did he give me oral. Plenty of blow jobs for him. I wonder why we let them get away with such crap! |
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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago
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My husband, lol. For many years I thought something was very wrong with me. I used scented soaps, lotions and potions which only gave me infections.
Later on I saw that there is absolutely nothing wrong with me and he just doesn’t like it. Whether it is only giving it to me or in general is unknown… |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Almost all my past relationships have been with a woman who disliked giving oral sex. Cannot help but wonder if there is something about me that outs them off... One or two disliked receiving which has always been a deal breaker for me.
For me, the intimacy, the taste, the smell, is incredible. A friend of mine hates going down on women though. He says its not really the taste of smell(though he isnt overly keen in those either), he says he just finds it difficult, a lot of hassle, and jist a bit gross. We are all different. "
A friend of mine said this is very telling about the relationship. If they don't like your taste or you theirs. At a very basic level - you are not for each other. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Almost all my past relationships have been with a woman who disliked giving oral sex. Cannot help but wonder if there is something about me that outs them off... One or two disliked receiving which has always been a deal breaker for me.
For me, the intimacy, the taste, the smell, is incredible. A friend of mine hates going down on women though. He says its not really the taste of smell(though he isnt overly keen in those either), he says he just finds it difficult, a lot of hassle, and jist a bit gross. We are all different.
A friend of mine said this is very telling about the relationship. If they don't like your taste or you theirs. At a very basic level - you are not for each other. "
Hmm. Theres no hope for me then. |
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"Not into giving oral sex to a woman?
I met someone & he said he didn't do it...no issues with that as freedom of choice..
However it made me wonder if other guys don't give oral to women & why? Is it the taste? texture, been unsure what to do? Or something else?.
By the way it didn't get as far as to whether he would be happy to receive..
Plenty of women who don't do oral too."
Exactly, on both counts.
Personally I’m not fussed about receiving oral but happy to provide if the woman wants it.
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By (user no longer on site)
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A friend of mine said this is very telling about the relationship. If they don't like your taste or you theirs. At a very basic level - you are not for each other. "
Couldn't agree more. Scent, too. Me and Becky love each other's scent - both 'down there' and when we're a bit sweaty. It puts me off other people a bit as they're probably not going to smell or taste as good.
So yeah, I really like going down on some women, but not all of them. If I don't like your smell or taste, I'm not playing with you.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Almost all my past relationships have been with a woman who disliked giving oral sex. Cannot help but wonder if there is something about me that outs them off... One or two disliked receiving which has always been a deal breaker for me.
For me, the intimacy, the taste, the smell, is incredible. A friend of mine hates going down on women though. He says its not really the taste of smell(though he isnt overly keen in those either), he says he just finds it difficult, a lot of hassle, and jist a bit gross. We are all different.
A friend of mine said this is very telling about the relationship. If they don't like your taste or you theirs. At a very basic level - you are not for each other.
Hmm. Theres no hope for me then. "
That isn't what I meant - it's that sexual compatability is important. |
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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago
harrow |
"I never used to like it as I didn’t think I was very good, and I can’t flick tongue up and down, and I didn’t enjoy taste
Then a good friend (swinger at time but now a good personal friend), said I should try the alphabet technique. So I basically spell the alphabet with my touunge. Also I can flick my toungh from side to side so I move my head so it kind goes up and down also lol
I am sure people with laugh and to be honest it makes me chuckle how I deal with this
So what you are saying is that while the lady is enjoying herself, your mind is elsewhere singing the alphabet in your head? Do you try writing other words? That could be a fun game, she could try and guess what you are writing. If you cant do up and down though maybe avoid Welsh spellings... "
I have done words or made up words pmsl
I am a lot less worried about it now tbh |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Almost all my past relationships have been with a woman who disliked giving oral sex. Cannot help but wonder if there is something about me that outs them off... One or two disliked receiving which has always been a deal breaker for me.
For me, the intimacy, the taste, the smell, is incredible. A friend of mine hates going down on women though. He says its not really the taste of smell(though he isnt overly keen in those either), he says he just finds it difficult, a lot of hassle, and jist a bit gross. We are all different.
A friend of mine said this is very telling about the relationship. If they don't like your taste or you theirs. At a very basic level - you are not for each other.
Hmm. Theres no hope for me then.
That isn't what I meant - it's that sexual compatability is important. "
I think some women just dont like a dick in their mouths. |
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"I was with my husband 20 years and he very rarely gave me oral. But he always wanted his cock sucked.
Any man not willing to get down and worship you between your legs and let their hands and mouth bring you to ecstasy doesn’t deserve to be pleasured in a similar way.
It’s about giving and receiving not being a self centred individual xx"
It's about doing things together that both parties enjoy.
Tit fo tat sex? No thanks. |
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"Not into giving oral sex to a woman?
I met someone & he said he didn't do it...no issues with that as freedom of choice..
However it made me wonder if other guys don't give oral to women & why? Is it the taste? texture, been unsure what to do? Or something else?.
By the way it didn't get as far as to whether he would be happy to receive.."
As a rule I love it! But, there has been the odd occasion where it didnt tast good and I didn’t want to go back….needless to say I didn’t. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Almost all my past relationships have been with a woman who disliked giving oral sex. Cannot help but wonder if there is something about me that outs them off... One or two disliked receiving which has always been a deal breaker for me.
For me, the intimacy, the taste, the smell, is incredible. A friend of mine hates going down on women though. He says its not really the taste of smell(though he isnt overly keen in those either), he says he just finds it difficult, a lot of hassle, and jist a bit gross. We are all different.
A friend of mine said this is very telling about the relationship. If they don't like your taste or you theirs. At a very basic level - you are not for each other.
Hmm. Theres no hope for me then.
That isn't what I meant - it's that sexual compatability is important.
I think some women just dont like a dick in their mouths. "
Nope. Weird but true! |
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"Not into giving oral sex to a woman?
I met someone & he said he didn't do it...no issues with that as freedom of choice..
However it made me wonder if other guys don't give oral to women & why? Is it the taste? texture, been unsure what to do? Or something else?.
By the way it didn't get as far as to whether he would be happy to receive.."
No but have known men who don't like to receive, sometimes as they're too sensitive down there  . Also knew a lady who felt absolutely nothing from having her pussy licked.... but touch her breasts and nipples she'd orgasm within SECONDS. We're all different ~ |
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"Almost all my past relationships have been with a woman who disliked giving oral sex. Cannot help but wonder if there is something about me that outs them off... One or two disliked receiving which has always been a deal breaker for me.
For me, the intimacy, the taste, the smell, is incredible. A friend of mine hates going down on women though. He says its not really the taste of smell(though he isnt overly keen in those either), he says he just finds it difficult, a lot of hassle, and jist a bit gross. We are all different.
A friend of mine said this is very telling about the relationship. If they don't like your taste or you theirs. At a very basic level - you are not for each other.
Hmm. Theres no hope for me then.
That isn't what I meant - it's that sexual compatability is important.
I think some women just dont like a dick in their mouths. "
I think it's about men expecting to ram it down your throat, pushing your head and behaving like they are in a porn film. I'm older and more assertive now and, tell them what not to do. I also choose who cums in my mouth not the man. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love giving oral to a woman I love the taste of a woman my tongue deep inside flicking the clit with my tongue
A clit is not deep inside "
It is if you listen to My Dad Wrote A Porno.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love this so much that I’d meet just to engage in the taste sensation that is prolonged pussy licking. I adore it when a hubby kisses and caresses his wife as I make her orgasm in his arms. Mmmmmm
I guess it takes all sorts though to make the world go round and personal taste must always be respected ????
Rick
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I was with my husband 20 years and he very rarely gave me oral. But he always wanted his cock sucked.
Did you do it and enjoy doing it?"
I enjoy giving oral yes , always have done |
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By (user no longer on site)
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When I was younger I had a bit of a fling with an Italian woman. Naturally I started to go down on her - like you do - but she pulled me away with a look of disgust.
"I admit it feels really nice but men just don't do that" she said abruptly. She was more than happy to suck me off though and did it at almost any opportunity.
She's the only woman I've ever met that didn't want it. Years later I was watching The Sopranos and they ran a subtext that any man that gave oral to a woman was 'weak' and would receive the disdain from even the female characters for daring liking it. So I always wondered if it was the Italian connection. |
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I love everything about giving oral to Women, love facesitting even lick and go meets, but dont really like to receive anything in return. people seem to think thats weird, but we all get turned on by different things, |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not into giving oral sex to a woman?
I met someone & he said he didn't do it...no issues with that as freedom of choice..
However it made me wonder if other guys don't give oral to women & why? Is it the taste? texture, been unsure what to do? Or something else?.
By the way it didn't get as far as to whether he would be happy to receive.."
Personally I love giving oral, and having my face ridden is  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not into giving oral sex to a woman?
I met someone & he said he didn't do it...no issues with that as freedom of choice..
However it made me wonder if other guys don't give oral to women & why? Is it the taste? texture, been unsure what to do? Or something else?.
By the way it didn't get as far as to whether he would be happy to receive.."
To be honest i dont like giving oral, i will do it if pressed, but not a fan. |
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"I love giving oral to a woman I love the taste of a woman my tongue deep inside flicking the clit with my tongue
A clit is not deep inside "
Haha men will turn into poets on here when chance to wangle some PM. The way men are describing giving oral to a woman sounds like something from a barbara Cartland book!! Men at the most and best would say 'yeh, i love it' not muse over their love of it and the pleasure it brings others. |
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"Not into giving oral sex to a woman?
I met someone & he said he didn't do it...no issues with that as freedom of choice..
However it made me wonder if other guys don't give oral to women & why? Is it the taste? texture, been unsure what to do? Or something else?.
By the way it didn't get as far as to whether he would be happy to receive.."
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"Not into giving oral sex to a woman?
I met someone & he said he didn't do it...no issues with that as freedom of choice..
However it made me wonder if other guys don't give oral to women & why? Is it the taste? texture, been unsure what to do? Or something else?.
By the way it didn't get as far as to whether he would be happy to receive.."
I prefer to give it than receive. I love going down on a woman |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not into giving oral sex to a woman?
I met someone & he said he didn't do it...no issues with that as freedom of choice..
However it made me wonder if other guys don't give oral to women & why? Is it the taste? texture, been unsure what to do? Or something else?.
By the way it didn't get as far as to whether he would be happy to receive.."
I love giving oral to ladys but has to be extremly clean
No bad smells down and I would be licking for an hour,I love it |
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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago
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"Not into giving oral sex to a woman?
I met someone & he said he didn't do it...no issues with that as freedom of choice..
However it made me wonder if other guys don't give oral to women & why? Is it the taste? texture, been unsure what to do? Or something else?.
By the way it didn't get as far as to whether he would be happy to receive.."
I know a few blokes that are not into it. Can't imagine why not though but each their own.. I can't get enough of it though |
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I was with a woman for a bit who didn't like to receive it. I don't know if it was just person dislike of the concept/feeling, previous bad experience/trauma or cultural. She was perfectly happy giving me oral. Of course I was totally happy to respect this, it just threw me back at first because I've never met a woman before or since who didn't want to receive oral. I must admit although not everything not being able to give her oral I found a bit disconnecting because it's a very nice intimate bonding thing. It just made me feel (although not the case) she didn't fully accept me or ready to be fully open to me. So I suppose it was a small barrier between us in the background as stupid as it sounds.
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I like receiving and giving. Have found the majority of men who’ve gave me oral have been crap at it though with only a couple making me orgasm and I’ve lay there looking at my watch lol
I also prefer oral early on and would try and stop a man going back down on me after a sesh as I’d feel like I must smell and taste bad!
Really enjoy sucking a nice cock though!  |
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I don't mind giving; it's usually foreplay for me though. Tongue massaging clit, followed by fingers also being involved, followed by other hand riding up the top and playing with nipples...
However, for the longest time I never enjoyed receiving. I used to think there was something wrong with me. I mean, every man enjoys a blowjob, right? As it turned out the upward curve meant my shaft was hitting teeth...arghh, no, no, no.
Anyway, I was once in receipt when the partner involved was laying on her side and I was standing at the side of the bed. Now, this meant I was hitting cheeks (not teeth). I came so hard I nearly cemented her head to the pillow... |
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