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How to suggest swinging to a partner ?
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Any personal stories of how you suggested it to your partner ? How to know if it’s a 100% no no and how long to wait before asking ? Would be interested to know such an interesting topic as it’s such an amazing thing : ) |
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"Don’t have a partner yet! Lol"
Then when you have a date tell them that you are into swinging etc
My husband and I discussed previous threesomes we'd both had on our first date, there's no point building a connection then hitting them with a surprise like fab |
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I told muffin honestly when we met that I'd been on here and been to clubs.
She didn't like it, and I said it wasn't a deal breaker for me.
I can take it or leave it.
She then started asking questions over time, then she suggested joining.
Honesty is the key. |
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"Ask what her fantasies are!!! Reverse psychology  "
That's what we did and then on New Years Day we each wrote a wish list of what we would like to experience in the year ahead. |
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"Ask what her fantasies are!!! Reverse psychology
That's what we did and then on New Years Day we each wrote a wish list of what we would like to experience in the year ahead."
That’s very cool  |
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No idea if you’re already in a relationship.
The last 3 relationships the subject of previous sex lives came up and the discussion went from there. 1 wasn’t interested, the other two were intrigued but didn’t really want to join in. In all 3 cases I knew the conversation would be accepted, other times I knew it wouldn’t so I didn't broach the subject. |
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