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What is it that puts you off sillohette profiles
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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago
Peterborough / Stamford |
The total lack of effort. No profile pic, generally then no public pics and normally no profile text to speak of. They also tend to send short, single line boring questions as an intro message. If they can't be bothered to put half an hour into creating a profile, then five minutes into reding our profile and messaging us something specific to us, then we can't be bothered with them.
*I'm sure there are exceptions, but we have to filter some way.
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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago
Hull |
"The total lack of effort. No profile pic, generally then no public pics and normally no profile text to speak of. They also tend to send short, single line boring questions as an intro message. If they can't be bothered to put half an hour into creating a profile, then five minutes into reding our profile and messaging us something specific to us, then we can't be bothered with them.
*I'm sure there are exceptions, but we have to filter some way.
(Bry)"
And then constant status updates saying how shit the site is and how rude people are for not replying  |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
Usually because it looks like they just can't be even bothered making an effort and the excuse that I don't want to be recognised is just that,an excuse.
Usually as said above they have no real bio to speak of either so you know absolutely nothing about them bar maybe a line they might write saying how they are looking for nsa and ask them anything you want to know.Why they think someone will bother to message a blank profile to ask questions is beyond me.
In the past I have chatted to some and they nearly always moan they have no luck and ask what should they change but I've yet to see any take any advice given so I don't bother anymore.
I think a lot join thinking it's easy on here and everyone is sex crazy and will just fuck anyone so no effort is needed,then they get stroppy when they realise it's not like that at all. Common sense alone should tell them if they make an effort they have a better chance.
But fab had always been that way and it doesn't really bother me that much I've tight filters so they can't message me anyhow and anyone who cheats to get through my filters just gets deleted . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I agree with the lack of effort and the ones that say ….. will fill in later but have been here for months …… I think you have to show something to get interest in yourself …. Just my opinion  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you really want to immerse yourself in this lifestyle you will make the effort. That includes a decent profile and pic. There’s no excuse not to have one. It doesn’t need to be a face one, a decent body shot will do. And it doesn’t have to be a naked one.
The other thing that’s off putting are profiles that are never updated. “Newbie(s) here…..’ and it’s over a year old.
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"The total lack of effort. No profile pic, generally then no public pics and normally no profile text to speak of. They also tend to send short, single line boring questions as an intro message. If they can't be bothered to put half an hour into creating a profile, then five minutes into reding our profile and messaging us something specific to us, then we can't be bothered with them.
*I'm sure there are exceptions, but we have to filter some way.
(Bry)"
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This!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The total lack of effort. No profile pic, generally then no public pics and normally no profile text to speak of. They also tend to send short, single line boring questions as an intro message. If they can't be bothered to put half an hour into creating a profile, then five minutes into reding our profile and messaging us something specific to us, then we can't be bothered with them.
*I'm sure there are exceptions, but we have to filter some way.
(Bry)
And then constant status updates saying how shit the site is and how rude people are for not replying "
Hey that was for a bet lol,Didn’t even break out the rude part  |
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